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she has started getting her own silicon butt too she is following the family trend

chocolateme:
Hmm.. So it's all about cleavages, butt, boobs and eggplant.
It is not only eggPLANT but eggGENERATOR.

abeg its not always about the eggplant...but once in a while u can make it all about the eggplant

After 2-3years of keeping it lowkey The Game has been on this A game in 2015. First with the reality show "She Got Game" and now his album "The Documentary2" and today he has decided to bless his fans with lovely pics of himself and what God gave him

KingTom:
Tay16. I was banned I've sent you an email

sorry okay let me check the mail

Prodeegee:
*faints already*

lol wake up

kingtom i guess the mods hid your comment

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SmartMugu:
I understand that's a thought. I'm really not a cheat. I have been with my wife for almost 9 years and never had to cheat on her. I'm Nigerian, she's American. Sometimes we think differently. Sometimes, alcohol gets the best of people and that I think triggered this whole event.

you are not really a cheat but you really cheated for 2months you have to tell her the truth so that she gets treated before its too late

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lol there are a billion threads on Canada on NL

Michael Keuwu was stabbed to death and burnt by 2 other students from Central University of Technology,in Bloemfontein. The perpatrators were Douglas Okene, a fellow Nigerian and Tobello Tsubella a South African. They were all students at CUT.

The deceased was stab in the head and neck and the perpetrators went on to take the deceased's property, including money, phone, clothes and a car. They also took a joyride in the deceased car over the weekend and later dumped it in a nearby surburb.

Michael's body was found dead and burnt at a railway area and it was intially believed to have been a homeless person who slept in the near by bushes until he was identified.

The matter has been postponed by the court until 3 August and the perpetrators are in police custody until then.

Below are pictures of the perpetrators. Douglas Okene a.k.a Castella and Tebello Tsubella



http://www.pressdisplay.com/pressdisplay/iphone/homepage.aspx#_article997043272

ishilove
lalasticala

AKmoney1 what did you end up doing?

These are rather flimsy excuses, because in the everyday world i see African, obese, average looking and not so good looking women in different levels and catergories of occupation. Don't know where you got this idea from though.

Or could you be just like any other black man who praises anything non-black forgetting that some of the white people you praise still look down on you just like they do with any other black person?

Too many hilarious comments @astrodome you will just to have to tell them that you cannot help some of them. You dont have to give anyone any explanation for it because its your money, you work for it and your determine how it will be used.

Some people have a spirit of poverty possessing them. They believe they are entitled to other people's money, they have no intentions of making their own.

Learn to be firm when its needed, you can never please everyone. Sometimes its okay to disappoint some people for the sake of your peace of mind.

freelance777:
Does that counseling of a thing truly do work? I am in a big doubt to that.

if your ego is far much more important than dealing with a small problem that has hit your marriage you could always divorce and come back and give a testimony about the next flawless woman that you will marry, is such a woman exists. Quick question, why did you remove your wedding ring if you were aiming at keep a flawless wife and a perfect marriage?

I have noticed that all around the world there are many things a black woman would be condemed for if she does but will not necessarily apply to non-black women.

For instance black women are constantly ridiculed for their kinky hair. It is oftenly called nappy hair. It is not seen as a symbol of beauty. If she puts on human hair extensions she is called fake.
Unlike when a non-black woman gets a breast and butt implants to have that shape many black women are naturally blessed with. You have people like Kim Kardashian constantly being praised for their fake assets.

When a black woman is dark skinned in many cases she is not seen as beautiful or feminine. She is associated with negative things. When a white woman gets a tan to look darker, the same cannot be said about her. Rather she is seen as thinner and prettier when she darkens her skin.
When a dark skinned woman lighten her skin with the belief that they will look "more appealing" to society, they are labeled with many negative names. But hey others can tan and not be labelled.

A non-black promiscous woman who shagged many to get fame can still be a desire of many black men (again i will use Kim as an example) but a black women who has slept with 5-12guys out of love, will not be worthy of making a wife.

Some black men would rather marry a woman that will give him half-caste children. The brighter the skin, the more likely they are to be called beautiful. I guess he would have forgotten that he was once a dark child that was still loved and valued dearly by his parents when he was young despite the colour of his own skin.

A black woman with a small butt is mocked and sometimes teased for "looking like a man" and a non-black woman with a smaller butt is still seen as beautiful and feminine, even when she has a more boyish body shape.

Is it the inferiority complex that has brainwashed our black community? Have white people successfully made us feel inadequate to the extent that every negative thing they have ever associated black people with even in the slavery days, still keep us in bondage decades later?

Beautiful woman

1guy:
@frank94 do one need a transit visa to venezuela from naija n which airline flies to venezuela from 9ja.as per jobs can one get a job if u are a naija graduate or explain d kind of jobs that are avaliable.tanx

as a graduate should you not be researching for yourself?

The advise i have for non-feminist women is when your husband or boyfriend cheats on you please don't come and complain about because you need to remember that he is superior to you. Just carry your cross waka go, you shouldnt expect him to value you the way you value him. You 2 are not equal, remember that.

SirAweezy:
Actually... In the case of the OP hubby.. The guy went far.. To have even recorded it... And also bring a lady home few days to their wedding...

But I think he deserve a second chance!

by going far you mean the recording part or the having an extra-marital affair part?

SirAweezy:
I didn't end the relationship... She left out of guilt (she ended it.. Cuz I was to good for her) I caught with another man. Funny enough she from a wealthy home. But I couldn't understand it.

I've been married for years... And I can tell you.. Temptation everywhere and neither am I a saint.

I grow everyday to discover my home is everything and should not be compromised..

The truth: when a man has more money.. Please he'll definitely catch a bug on temptation (note this). Not everyman survives it.

But we grow and grow to know what our needs are.. And how well we should live.

which is why people should only get married when they are matured enough for the commitment.

Just because you intentionally did something all in the name of temptation does not mean you should expect your spouse to endure it because " you are still growing".

If what you are telling me is "not every man can have self-control" then it means " not every man is built for marriage". There are mistakes that are forgiveable but cheating on your spouse on your matrimonial bed and recording it, simply isnt one of them.

People need to stop making excuses for such bad behaviour.

Fkforyou:
Ma'am, I think you are trying to euphemise the whole issue, if you think her ranting is wrong then its wrong , no two ways or in between about it, you say its not ok for her to rant but by telling the man to walk away is like telling him to try and condone her misbehaviour or do you think him walking away all the time would make her stop ranting?

what you are saying is two wrongs make a right. jokes

Sometimes you also need to ask what makes her rant. Some cases its him cheating or abusing their money. No one just rants for no reason, there is no fire without smoke in most cases.

I do agree its not right to be abusive towards you spouse, always try to communicate your concerns while you are calm.

buygala:
here is what I am gonna do...

I will tell the child, with a 2000 mega - watt smile, that I love her too, but that blackboards and exercise books are for writing on, not cars


Then in private with her mother, I will be like. .. "see what your daughter has done to my car ....Is this how you intend to bring her up?

And her mummy will be like... "Since she is my daughter and not yours, go and kill her now .... Some people dey find pikin, but you wey get dey halla because She scratch your car small.... What if na your Bsc certificate she decorate with crayon? ..... Comot make I see road jare... yeye man

this is funny

SirAweezy:
Yes I'll !! (Eventhough in this case they weren't married yet) I remember... My ex of 5years cheated on me with a lecturer in OAU that year.. Caught them pants down, and I was still willing to make it work after a year they were still seeing and I confronted her with proofs and she admitted thinking I'll end it.. The least I did was to withdraw the engagement ring I gave to her and tell her to prove she has change.

You wouldn't want to know what happened at the end. But all are stories now and I'm still me.

Sometimes you make it work(not forcing to work though).

But in this case the OP needs to be patient for real. (My spirit tells me she will be the loser at long last). That guy will grow up for real.

you broke off an engagement in your situation but you expect her to endure why? And the reason why i wouldnt want to know what happened in the end is because you didnt end up marrying her right?

Why get married with you are mentally mature or emotionally ready for it? How exactly will losing him be her loss when he is the one causing her misery? Unless we are trying to teach women that suffering in a marriage is a good thing? Who said the next man to marry her wont be lucky to have her?

Unlike wine cheating doesnt get better with age.

bukatyne:
Trust NL male hypocrites to be here

See How lessons on forgiveness and vow keeping are flying left, right centre.

I am trying to remember who coined the phrase... never make a hoe an housewife. Who would be kind enough to remind me?

Is This not a case of don't make a dog a husband

Bloody bloody hypocrites

@OP:

The first step is confronting your husband. Anyhow you like.
Perhaps This talking here helps you better.

Goodluck with whatever decision you make.

Cheers.

what can you say, they are simply defending their own kind.

cococandy:
who are the non-feminists?

The ones that enjoy being cheated on and believe that's their place in life?

correct babe

SirAweezy:
Look at how people are telling you to move out of your husband house, like its a closed case of one condemned criminal which willl never repent.

My dear coming to table this first on NL shows how naïve and how young you are. Funny how many who advises you will not even have the liver to leave their man.

Many are so jealous and looking for half of what you've got.

Well you can move out, end the marriage for all I care.. His real wife will come one day and she will stay. And seriously you'll become a tale.

However, the truth is your husband is also confused as to what sex really is, this is the real problem with most men especially the younger ones who get married early and in the mid thirty(s). They tend to love their women but seek adventure outside for sometime.

Some survive with lessons, some don't. The real issue here is your husband is still growing.. Well before you go think of the kind of man he is apart from how he has hurt you, and if you can talk to him and make him realize.. He is got everything he needs from other women in you.

Be abit erotic with your dressing at home.. Always keep your bosom in suspense etc..(Part of the so call adventure that makes a man wants a lady).

Don't let me bore you.. Well if your mind is made up to move out... Peace be with you. Leave him and let him find a another half.

Goodluck.

you would give the same advice for a man with a cheating wife?

Some marriage virgins for good reasons and some dont. Your man is clearly the latter, he keeps an inexperienced wife at home who he is convinced will not cheat on him while he brings other women into his house and disrespects his wife when she is not around. Well you clearly are getting played.

Its up to you to decide. Be the trophy wife that you are and keep him and endure the heartache cause im sure this wont be the last time he does it.
Or leave the marriage and wait for someone mature enough to stay committed to you. he may not come by easily but surely you will meet someone who is more concerned with protecting you and not hurting you.

Hmmmm