₦airaland Forum

latinoKingdom:
Well our ladies caused it, can't blame that product of mutation

says the undiluted african guy with a username LATINOkingdom ironic

cruzita:
I don't blame him tho,I blame our cheap girls that can do any thing to be with a white man and in the process degrading us.

how is being with a white men so degrading? last time i checked all humans were created equal irrespective of race! I guess its okay to be racist so long its a black person making the racist comment, but if it were the other way around you would statprt a revolution right?

Realonekingsley:
So true,thats how it is over here...smh So true,thats how it is over here...smh

and over there african men are marrying white women and paying them off just to another passport

Toluwarni:
Man sparks outrage with his opinion about black women...
Ladies, how true is this?

i can bet you a million dollars that post was made by a frustrated black guy tired of being left for white guys because black women are still winning

He is funny and sweet but problem is im like 4-6inches taller than him and its obviously visible. I spent a lot of time talking to him that i even dream about him. I really do not know if i could actually date him because all my life i have always dated somweone my height or taller than me. If you have dated a guy shorter than you share with my the challenges you faced and the good side of the relationship too.

Thank you guys for the advise. I have decided to let the relationship go and focus on me.

Richy4:
Please permit me to say it the way I see it.....Maybe he was not trying to put all his eggs in one basket....And he was not bold enough to tell you.....

>>>>> I said this based on your statement

<<<<< 1. you are already acting like a wife..... You do not attend any function he was interested in....If you became really serious with him and he gave you his heart, you might even forbid him from going to the gathering....

i do not go out because its my choice not because im trying to behave like a wife. He found me like this and im not gonna change. Its either one accepts me as I am or they let me be.

<<<<2. You do not rush things meaning you are dragging your feet in that relationship and you basically do not care that much, because if you really loved him, and he was talking to the other girl in the previous relationship, You would have cared to know....

i have work and a business to run and soon i start my postgrad, i have so much going on in my life, that i do not have time to play dectetive over a grown man. If he wants to play around, cool by me, I will let him go so can do as he pleases, the world have 7billion people I will not kill myself over 1.

Maybe he thought you were not serious with him in that relationship due to your attitude of time taking.....
If I were to be in his shoes, I would have also looked else where to know if the next girl is better behaved......because from 2014-16, it is enough time to be serious in a relationship and know where it was going....

I will not take any of the blame you are trying to put on me. I know my worth. I do not have to throw my life on the line to make sure he acts the way he should act. There will always be a better guy out there.

[quote author=IamLEGEND1 post=40424878][/quote]this is the problem with people who do not have lives. You spend it creating imaginary haters mxm!

feldido:
You can draw a line on a paper

come on stop playing. Let's make meaningful contributions

I have been friends with this guy since 2014, we only started dating last year October .I have never been a person who rushes into a relationship, because when I open up to a guy I stay loyal to him.

My problem started 3months ago when he started seeing this girl frequently, i did not make much out of it. Eventually they stopped talking, i never bothered to find out why.

In January another girl started popping up hear and there, on his phone and at weekend gatherings (which i hardly attend). This time i asked who this girl was and he told me it was his fav aunt's daughter, what puzzled me was that his aunt only had 2sons and I have met them.

When i asked when she had a daughter, he changed the story to her late older sister's daughter. I met his aunt while we were friends in 2014 and I have never heard about this girl. When i asked further he could defensive and started accusing me of being insecure. He switched his phone off (or blocked me) for a day after that.

I feel so disrespected and I would like to know from those with experience or those who have similar experiences, where do i draw the line before I get hurt? How do i handle such a situation?

bbdd:
@bolded
Wait. Last two weeks you came here to tell us that your wife ran to the US and doesn't intend to come back with your kids and you're so worried you'll never see your family again.

Fast forward two weeks later your'e traveling with your family of 3?

Bros
Na wa ooo oooo

they came back and they are now going together na

IamLEGEND1:
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yet you took your "precious time" to post on it. Now exit! Your presence will not be missed!

Awww

Define you relationship in pictures or how you would want your relationship to be like. Lets have fun...

DanIndia:
What about the other threads where people agreed to assist each other and didn't get "screwed over"?

all im saying is you are better safe than sorry. If you are willing to put your non-refundable application fee at the expense of shipping costs, no wahala go ahead.

Obiwannn:
See as you call 30 dollars like say no be anything. Even me wey don dey spend euros, I no fit call 30 euros the way you just call 30 dollars. Anyways, many people no get the 30 dollars. I was once in that situation, I know how it feels. Biko no discourage people. It actually works. No be everybody get money, like you.

AND to QUICKLY ADD: 2016 people make una learn GERMAN ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
A word they say is enough for the wise.

i never said $30 is nothing. Im simply saying you are better safe than sorry.

Some Affordable Universities in USA that offer an MBA ($16,000 - $25,000)

1. Southern Arkansas University
2. Colorado Technical University
3. SUNY University (Buffalo)
4. Arizona State University

please do further research on the schools websites for yourself. This includes admission process, tuition fees, living expenses, other academic programs etc.

Obiwannn:
What exactly is the essence of this post?

essence being you are better off paying a little more than having everything screwed over because you wanted to save $30.

I have read a few threads where people agreed to "assist each other " on NL all in a bid to save and they got screwed over and its not worth the stress!

kilo4sure:
Not everyone who applies for study abroad do so because they already have the money, that's a limited perspective on how this whole thing works, I must confess to you.

if you struggling with shipping fees shouldnt that tell you to stick to what wont break your bank? im not insulting anyone but it sounds silly that a person who would to share shipping fees and if the documents go missing once they get to the "contact" you would have wasted application fees all in a bid to save shipping fees... does that make any sense?

cynosure489:
Guy! I have applied to 4 schools already plus paying 50euro for uni kaiserslautern assessment fee.. Now tell me What's wrong in me asking if I could split for a 5th?
Plus I already have block account money and even have option of using sponsorship letter to apply cos I have my sibling o'er there that's working and earns more than the required amount.
I do not like throwing insults even if u deserve some so I have taken my time to explain you. I beg u to mind your biz bruf.

your siblings earning more than the required amount can't sent you more than the required amount to send applications to the 5th school? okay continue. if you cant afford to send hardcopies why not apply online? i only spoke my mind and never intended to insult you, but if the shoe fits lace that b*tch up good day

cynosure489:
Guy dey one corner..
Quote only what uv got reasonable answers to.
Shalom

i just did and it doesnt make sense to me that a person would not have at least $20-$40 to send applications if you gonna pay the application fee u might as well make sure your documents reach the school with the most reliable means. anyway common sense isnt so common, but thats none of my business.

cynosure489:
Invariably if anyone in port harcourt would want to send documents to germany, we could split the Bill and i get my contact to forward it to the various schools. Anyone jus PM me

oya enter one chance if you like. Haba how can u get money to study abroad and not have enough to process your papers by yourself?

25omega:
he asked so they can give you ideas on things to do and see or maybe set you up to get robbed

and how do i intend on getting him robbed from over 2000km away

worry359:
If he come as Mr Big with cash money he will find plenty of friends!

lol true nowadays friendship comes at a cost. But i hope OP doesn't meet shallow-minded people like that

They have given those male prisoners free meat o! Im sure they were tired of going for other guys' yanshes

magicminister:
Ive been tracking the numer ever single day and it keeps sayin

STATUS OF YOUR PASSPORT NUMBER :
APPLICATION HAS BEEN FORWARDED TO THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF FRANCE, LAGOS ON 19/10/2015

Ive called vfs severally but its always busy.
Sent out emais but no reply.
Which kain thing b dis nah!

you might just have to wait and see if the status changes in a few more days or so.

magicminister:
I dont think they would let me in without an appointment.
You knw, france handles al its embasy palaver through vfs

visit vfs offices in person and find out. Didnt vfs give you some form of reference number to keep track of the visa processing online?

3RNEST:
Abuja on my MIND...Why Ask?

it will help you make new friends in the places you are going to visit

Can you go to the embassy in person?

Where in Nigeria will you be visiting?

fp material

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