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alutacontinua: @op, i think the first step is to get to the root of her attitude. There are quite a number of reasons why she might be doing that. It could be pretence, desperation, up-bringing/mentality about men, low self-esteem, she might just be like that naturally. My advice: you're the one that has been with her, so, try and get to know why she acts that way. From there, you'll be able to tackle the issue. Forget all those people telling you to just enjoy the relationship, i don't think it's that easy to be in a relationship with somebody who wouldn't shake you sometimes. Where's the fun in the relationship?

I tell you its not interesting

rokiatu: How about you try been jovious with her, flirt with her, be a friend, act romantic, give her good sex, show to her that is a romantic relationship and not a dictatorship.

No matter how naive, shy, or country she is, your attitude towards her will shape her behavior towards you.

I av been very romantic. I cut her nails loose her hair and all even bath together with her.don't let me go into details. What more does she want to loosing up.

lynpetra: I think I know where you are coming from t.boy.My ex who I dated for four years had the same problem with his ex.He said the gurl was always at his beck and core like a zombie!!Always does what he ask without complaining.According to him,there are months without a single argument.That's boring!If they go out with friends,she doesn't contribute anything on the table during discussion.Well my commando ex got fed up and kindly let her go.Then he met me.....and the whole house starts to shake

Lol. You go get craze gan oooo. All i want from her is to question my judgment at time. Am not perfect and i can't be. I can't be making all the decisions always.

kulyie: I smell a desperado girl with the intention of impressing her boyfriend into marriage.she really needs to be mrs lagbaja.the moment she gets the mrs title,you will see her true colour. If you like date her for 2o years,she will still act that way but as soon as she enters the bandwagon of the mrs club.you will see her as she truly is

I don't wanna believe this

DigitalSignal: Master and slave in a relationship? Guy I can understand your predicament! She's probably naive or shy! Once you're in a relationship, your behavior towards your partner changes from your general behavior because there exists now a special bond which should make her see you differently from the way she sees others! There should be intimacy in the way you relate and not some kind of general outlook!

She's probably a good girl though! Still talk to her some more! Tell her how you want to be treated and she just might be that perfect girl for you, you know!

Thanx bro.

vizboy: She doesn't worship u but respect u and u should do same.

And please if u cant be with her anymore kindly forward her details to

dontbeajerk@yahoo.com

Come thief her.lol

Caracta: So? She might be shy. Wait till you guys get married before concluding that she worships you. And the fact that you are older than her explains it. I also think she was trained to respect her elders. That's a plus. As long as it is respect and not FEAR!

I think its beyond respect. I will wait time will tell but nt until we get married. I don't wanna be a dictator in my home.

cantell: Little kids.

Am not a kid.

Caracta: I don't understand. Does she pray in your name or did she carve an idol in your image? What do you mean by "worship"? Pls make me understand

She can't challenge me on anything, for her to even ask me something is difficult.

Olabisi onabanjo university does

Gudintent: What are you waiting for

Take her to the dungeon

Get you! Ya have a slave 4 life and you are here bragging

I don't wanna be a master. I don't enjoy it

Iv been dating this girl just a little over a year now. Am four years older than she is. She has been good as far as i knw. The problem i av with her is that she treats me like am a lord. Initial i thought it was respect but nw she worship me which i don't like Iv sat her down time with no counts to make a realize i don't want that but she seems not to change. Iv never shouted or lay my hands on her so i don't knw What warranted all this. The relationship is now master and slave and its not interesting anymore. ADVICE PLS

@byvan this isnt about me its what iv observered generally over d years.

Nairalanders especially ladies. Why is it dat ladies dnt kiss guys they dnt hav feelings for bt allow d guy to do any other nasty things with them. Im writing this based on my experience with girls and dat of my friends. Ladies this baffles me alot plz shed light on it

Iv downloaded it but the problem is that i tried to change my pin several time but it was giving me verification failed and now its saying pin change exceeded. Pls what can i do to rectify this problem

Wily1Wily:
very nice, Jonathan should arrest those Stuupid Yoruba guardians of Yoruba Fraudsters, Ugly Kekere Bakere failed fake Prophet that specialize in ripping his congregation off.

your are very stupid

It should be scrapped though am yet to serve bt d scheme has outlived it purpose even now 85% or corpers serve in secondary schl. Its even dangereous in this time of insecurity in Nigeria

I think this is as a result of external influence if pengassan should go on strike the the effect would be so adverse in europe,asia etc which they cant take

No one is against the subsidy removal bt the fear of nigerians is that they dnt want to suffer for noting. The govt has been giving us these same promises over the years they are giving us now and we got noting in return. The govt should earn people's trust first before anything

Nairalander please when is the next meeting between FG and NLC

National assemble abuja is on fire. From a comfirmed source sorry am unable 2 post it

Fire at the national assembly abuja details soon. Source Chennel tv twitter page

rati ken:
No economic policy will thrive at the magnitude of the prevalent corruption in Nigeria. GEJ should either address corruption or manage the status quo till his tenure is over. Extra hardship on the masses will make his tenure ungovernable, this aint rocket science, its common sense.

thank you corruptn must go first

4everGod1:
breaking news! meeting continues tomorrow by 5.30pm. no agreement reached yet. strike continues says labour

ur link plz

sweet9ja:
Forget N65, that's old news. It takes two to tangle, so, labour is gonna give ground likewise govt.
My guess is we gonna end up with N100/l in the interim, with more increments to follow.

hmmmm may God bless us all

I pray dis goes our way oo N65 atleast for nw till the policy is properly planned

I dnt really understand what labour is up to well let me jst believe its for our good. Favourable outcome i pray oo

I subscribed for glo monthly data bundle this morning and the wap service hasnt work. Is the problem from their network? I use gloflat configuration

Basics007:
It's only when guys dont have money yet that they claim to be good. When you hammer you will fling that 'goodity' away. Girls know this and that's why they aint messing with any broke a rse. OP try to get the money quick and the girls wont leave your doorsteps

na money sure pass

Ladies like men who are in charge person wey get craze for head. Some1 that can handle them when they misbehave anything less than that would be taken for a dumb( nt man enuf ). @OP dnt be to gentle for a lady they dnt lyk it

Moderator plz change the topic

Its only for protesters to relax and reload for nxt week task. Only saturday and sunday. Perhaps work dnt hold on weekends so the strike continues