Just open up the phone and leave it inside raw rice overnight.. Your phone will be in order before dawn sef..
Talking from experience

Forget about you both being an item.. He's gone, I'm talking from experience. He treated me like a princess and I was so relaxed, I didn't reciprocate properly and before I knew it, like play like play, he was gone..

My advice for you incase of next time is to reciprocate his love in the best way you can..

Peace!!!

Datboredberry:
Defend ourselves because of a scenario a man wrote?

Go to Twitter, Nigerian women are more creative... Should we believe every crap they've written?

Or because of one sex addict in your hostel, women should start sweating?

I've met men who walk around with erections... defend that...

ceede2:
secret indeed.

Yes nau, no one here knows me in person and none will.. I'm sure of that..

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Bros abeg, wetin do number 4..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sounds like you are trying to follow the crowd and please people..

Nope.. It's been on my mind

Ocholu:
Nice resolutions. Anyways, I am ready to settle down too. Maybe we should lean towards each other.

DroppingLiquid:


It seems like you left him though, because you never said he overcame it.

Lol.. He left on his own o.. I was even shocked when he walked away because I was actually trying not to hurt him by leaving him..

DroppingLiquid:


But?

Nothing nar.. I was just feeling for him ni

1. I'm going to ensure a high sense of
decency in my physical appearance

2. I'm not getting wet for any married
man (temptation already started
2days ago and I didn't fall for it and by
God's grace, I wouldn't)

3. I'll be more outgoing.. My free time
would no longer be for sleeping and
walking up and down my
neighborhood

4. I must get married and end this year
either with pregnancy or with a child

5. Aside my regular job, I must have
other sources of income

So help me God...........

My ex use to cum fast as well and I noticed he always feels bad about it.
Just small play, every thing don burst. Did a little research about it and some said it's mostly due to anxiety.

I just did my best to encourage him back then.

1. Good health

2. Marriage

3. Financial stability

jamaicabakare:


Ignore his foolery comment.

He might even die before Olu Jacob.

Haaa!

Chai!

Opeyemiextra:
Opportunities will always comes but it's not enough that they do. We must also play our part by making good use of them. Different opportunities play different roles and some may even be leading you into better ones if you take hold of it. May we be prepared when our opportunities come knocking.

Happy new month

Yeah sis..
Cheers to a beautiful December!

KingClown:
OP abeg drop him picture make we see something.

His pix is on his profile..

adzone:
Well I can 1000% bet there was no sex in this relationship?

You're right..
I loved him more because he agreed to a sex free relationship.. But I allowed heavy petting

One of the greatest burdens we bear in life is that of lost opportunities. Scattered here and there in our lives are several "If only" stories. To worsen this, we remind ourselves of the proverb that says "opportunity knocks but once", this just nails the coffin.
I just want to believe and hope that when an opportunity is lost, another will definitely come just that the timing, circumstances and people might be different.
Happy new month nairalanders. I pray that God restores our losses and bless this last month of the year for us all.

Thank you all for your contributions..
The most important thing here is I've learnt my lessons and I've moved on..

bepositive11:


That's interesting

Raalsalghul:


This sounds vindictive, but it's very true.

In this relationship matters, everyone must collect one way or the other.

You break somebody's heart, someone else breaks your own etc.

I'm the heart broken one here

jmoore:

And promiscuity has value?

Nonsense and ingredients!!

That's cool

Raalsalghul:


He came to his senses. Why it took so long is what I don't know.

I brought this here to get consolations and advice but the reverse has been the case..

Limassol:
Just to be clear here, you don't love him but due to his money you hang around and manipulated him till he finally regained his senses and call it quits. Kudos to him and i sincerely hope he finds a better lady who truly loves him. As for you and your likes, i assure you the universe will take care of you.

My bad.. I'm hurting already

SenecaTheYonger:


Obviously you didn’t “love” him, whatever that word means. But can you expantiate on what it was about him that you just couldn’t bring yourself to “love”?

I enjoyed being his lady even though he sometimes act weird (I don't want to go into details) and then he's diaphoretic which sometimes gets me irritable..

Opeyemiextra:
The way breakfast was served this year is something else. This is the kind of whatsapp message I got and I thought it was a joke but he had thought it through and had other plans. And I was still doing Lover girl not knowing my breakfast has been served and well garnished.

Sis, pick the lessons, improve and move. We will be alright las las.

Yeah.. We'll surely be alright, it's just a phase and will soon fade away..
Cheers to life!

ImoleNaija:


Lol

Imole, kilo funny nar.. Maybe, I have a wrong mentality, enlighten me please

bepositive11:


Everytime I see a comment about someone claiming to have loved a person while mentioning how that person in question provided for them, I question the so called love

Did you love him or did you love him providing for you? Do you miss him or do you miss him providing for you? If he didn't provide anything for you, would you have loved him only for who he is as a person?

Lol.. Honestly, I don't even know.. I didn't really like him at all initially but I started trying to develop love when I noticed how caring, kind and mature he is.. If a man can show a woman care, protect and provide for her, I think that's good enough..

One day, I was having a convo with my aunty about this guy;

Me: Aunty, I don't really like this guy o, just that he's really nice and caring

Aunty: That is the best kind of man for you, he seems to love you more and he cares about you. Try to develop the love for him because he's the one that has cared for you the most

Me: Ok aunty.. And I started working on that aspect.. Seems I didn't do it well enough

godwinboy:

You miss him but don’t want him back in your life I feel so but why tho?
Btwn this is my WhatsApp
I just have this positive energy emiting from you and I’ll love to talk to you
+2348101869189

Thanks for your concern.. I'll be fine

Favfables1:


You said it yourself...
"You didn't reciprocate his love" so maybe he felt he was wasting his time...
He "put up" with you for that long because maybe he thought that at one point you'd change or something...
Or maybe he found someone better...
I don't know o...
All this one's na assumptions...

I can't speak for him or for all the guys out there, buh I can only speak for myself...
I cannot be with a girl who cant match my energy or reciprocate my love...
I'm not saying she should do everything I do for her tit for tat o... buh she should put effort by going out of her way to SHOW me she cares...

It's one thing to love a person and it's another thing to make the person KNOW that you love him/her... You can say you love me, then do things that makes me sad... Yes your love for me could be genuine, buh the fact that the actions you take proves otherwise will make me think otherwise...

Well...
Lemme advice...
Don't beg him...
If you do you'll look cheap and even if you get back together, he'll only be doing so outta pity...
He made a decision, however painful it may be to you, you just have to move on...
You can try to make him tell you the reason for his decision, atleast just so you find closure ....
Stay away from relationships for the now until you heal well...
Read books on love, relationships and marriages, it'll help you see other people's experiences, learn from them, become better...

Thanks, I learnt my lessons already.. I hope to be better next time.
I tried to inquire from him about what really went wrong, he kept on saying he wanted to build his spiritual life..
It hurts, but.......

They are two different things.. It's easier to forgive but then it's not advisable to forget so that you can be well guided next time