Pukkalolo:




I've talked about sexual comfortableness on this thread...I think you can find it here:

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1899#120410679

Preferably, I'll advise you read that before continuing reading this post.


Ok, let's continue.
It's a straightforward issue: She allowed you press her oranges and ass because she's attracted to you. And that's pretty much it. Attraction has it limitations... You might be thinking, "then what alpha moves can I make to get her to drop her panties..."

The true is, you are already alpha enough... If she had perceived you as a weak wussy dumbass beta she wouldn't be allowing you her press Ass and oranges.

She's attracted to you...but that's how far, attraction sometimes can go.


You said, you don't understand why she'll let a guy press her, but don't want him to fucc.... Yes, it's no surprise: women can be confusing. Sometimes, the underlining attitude of yours that makes her allow you press her at will can also be the very attitude that makes her never let you run yout hands down in-between her legs.

Unbelievable right? Well, women themselves know they are unbelievable, that's why they try as much as possible to stay away from their fellow women. They prefer to be friends with a more believable creatures: Men.

Like I said, the very behavior that get her to date you can also be the very behavior that makes her give up on you. For example, your playboy I-don't-give-a-Bleep attitude can attract her into dating you but that same attitude can also frustrate her out of the relationship.

Letting you press her is simply just a sign that she's attracted to you. Basically, she's low-key saying, "hey dude, I'm attracted to you that's why I'm allowing you press my ass."

Again, now you are thinking, "well, if she's attracted enough to make me press her orange and ass, then why doesn't she want me to fucc?"

Well, that's because attraction is sometimes not enough. Most men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part. In reality, its actually the most basic part. As you go about your day, there are couple of women who are already attracted to you from just merly sighting you but you don't know because women are good at hiding their attraction for men.

The society complicate things by saying you are not worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless you do something epical. As a result, guys think they have to accomplish something epical like building spaceship, curing cancer or traveling to moon before they can be worthy of the companionship and affection of a girl.

But the legit players understand that all they need to smash pussy is just their looks, confidence and conversations.

So while Sammy, the fearful nice guy is waiting to build well completed beautiful mansion in the hope that Anita(his crush) will be impressed.....Richie, the Confidence bad boy is holding her hands and taking her to an uncompleted building where he's about to Bleep the shit out of her.

Ok.... let's continue.

Like I said, Men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part, so they believe they have to play games and make alpha moves to create attraction. But for the most part, attraction has already taken care of itself.
In few minutes of meeting her, she already knows if she's attracted to you or not. That's because biologically and psychologically women have different taste for men...so once she sight you or at least once she start interacting with you, she quickly subconsciously decide if you're are kind of man. It's not a conscious intellectual decision. Remember, Attraction is not a choice.

A woman's attraction for a man is predetermined; meaning, even before she sees you or meets you, she already attracted certain trait and qualities about you

This is why when I'm meeting a new woman, I'm not trying to create Attraction, I'm only trying to "confirm" attraction. If there's no attraction I'll move on to the next girl...if I confirm there's attraction, I quickly move on to building "sexual comfortableness."

Sexual comfortableness is the key.

Attraction is sometimes not enough. She can be attracted to 7 guys that woo her a day but doesn't sleep with any of them.

The truth is, most women actually don't Bleep most men they're attracted to because they would feel cheap.

Her feeling cheap isn't really about the fact the she gave you the pussy quick. You can go on many number of dates with her or give her excessive gifts... infact it doesn't matter how long she met you: she can know you for years but still feels cheap about giving you the pussy.


The reason she doesn't let you run your hands down in-between her legs is because the attempt triggers the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

You're obviously doing well enough to press her without her reacting negatively. The reason why she allow you press her ass is because she likes you. But when you try to advance, her ego is saying, “It's wrong to allow him touch you that way, it makes you look cheap"

Women enjoy sex but they’re socially conditioned to pretend that they don’t for fear of appearing cheap.


Years back as a little kid, I saw this neighbor of ours coming home, carrying a bag ... just like what every little kids around the neighborhood would do, I ran up to him and helped him carry his bags...

I carried the bag to his house... As I drop the load to step out, he told me, "you can sit and relax a bit... don't be in a hurry to leave."

So I relax and sat on his sofa.

A minute later, he offered me some yummy snacks... But then I remembered my parents warned me never to collect things from strangers or else they are gonna flog the shit out of me.

I respectfully rejected the snacks... He insisted, "common, don't be shy, have a taste."

The snacks seems very delicious, even from the Aroma...I was tempted to taste but as he attempt to give me again it triggers my psychologically barriers that my parents install in my small mind: "collecting things from strangers is dangerous because you can be poisoned" and "if you collect things from strangers, dad is gonna flog the shit out of you."

So I respectfully declined the snacks again.

As he made attempt the third time trying to convince me to have a taste, I said innocently, "sorry Sir, my mum said I should not collect things from strangers."

He seemed confused by my statement, then he shot me a cold glance and said, "your mum said you shouldn't collect things from strangers, but she said you can enter a stranger's house and sit on his sofa."

That statement hit me like a straight bullet. I awkwardly stood up and left his house.

Just like you are confused that she lets you press her orange and ass, but then wouldn't let you fucc?"

Same with this Man. He seem confused that I can chill in his house and relax on his sofa but I can't eat the snacks he was offering me.

Yes, I respected him enough to help him carry his bag and I sat on his sofa...but I wasn't "comfortable" enough with the idea of eating the snacks.


Just like mum warn little me not take things from strangers...Her mum has probably warn her that if she gives up the pussy too easy, men will think she's cheap and not a wife material.

If you're concerned about getting the pussy, then you have to be more concern about her sexual comfortableness with you.

And this has nothing to do with game or being alpha. Using game or being alpha or showing toughness might make her feel sexual attraction for you...but that is totally different from the feelings of sexual comfortableness. Most guys don't understand this, and this is probably one of the reasons why they lose out on girls times without number even though these women seem attracted to them.

Few Years ago I was watching this dating game show on YouTube were 5 guys had to compete for the affection of an attractive lady (still trying to recall the name of the dating show).
The winner get to go home with the lady and he would also be given a cash gift.
The lady would interact with the guys, ask them certain questions and see their response... 3 guys were evicted... Only two guys were left.

The game got more intense and interesting.

The first guy seem like your proverbial smooth alpha tough guy. The second guy seem more like your normal carefree guy.

They put the men in certain situations with the lady just to see their response, reactions and general attitude.

They took them to a bar... She sat with the tough alpha guy to drink...the lady asked if he's an heavy drinker. He said he drinks but he often controls himself not to drink to stupor. He said he never allowed himself to over drink. The lady compliment him, she said, "Wow, that's cool."

She sat with the carefree normal guy. She asked if he's an heavy drinker... He laughed and said he used to be a heavy drinker..he then share story of times he got so drunk and literally fell into the gutter while going home. The lady found his story quite hilarious. Then he said after that day he has learned to caution himself to drink responsibly.

The tough alpha guy act like a perfect person who never mess up... But the normal guy isn't scared of showing his imperfections.


They took them to a swimming pool...
While in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was busy showing off his swimming skill and showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. She was like, "wow, that's awesome."

While in pool with the normal guy, he was busy whispering in her ear and telling her that she's free to pee in the water if she wants to...that nobody is gonna find out and he's discreet, so he's not gonna tell anyone about it. She laughed and playfully said, "you are crazy"

When it was finally time for the lady to choose... As expected, she said she was more attracted to the tough alpha guy. But then she said she chose to go home with the normal guy...

"Unbelievable! are you kidding me?" The judges exclaimed. The judges and observers were surprised that she didn't choose the alpha tough guy.

She said she doesn't even know why she prefers the normal dude.

Well, I was not surprised though... No one noticed that the normal guy build sexual comfortableness from his behavior and from the way he responded to her questions or statements.

She felt sexual attraction for the smooth tough Mr Alpha guy...but I guess she felt he was putting up a false-front. He went home alone that night.

...She felt sexual comfortableness for the normal guy... he seemed more genuine to her, so she felt safe about spending the night with him. He got the girl and won the cash gift.

When a lady is attracted to you but resisting your sexual advance, then maybe it's because she's not sure if you genuinely care about her.

When a woman feels that you genuinely care about her, that would naturally neutralize the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

In case you don't know, real Playboys and Pimps genuinely love women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps and players, you'd understand what I'm talking about. And as a result women shower them with pussy.

The Legit playboy show genuine love differently from the way the nice guys show love .

The nice guy take it the wrong way. He think the way to show her he care is by saying it verbally, "Baby, I truly care about you, I love you." Or worse he think is by showering her with expensive gifts Or even worst he think is by doing things for her.

But he still lose the girl. That's because the girl doesn't value his nice caring act: she thinks he's only doing that so she can reward him with her sexual companionship.


Using that dating game show for example...
Remember while in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. That seemed like he cared for her, but she didn't view it that way. She felt he was only doing that to impress her.

But the normal guy was busy whispering in her eye that she's free to pee in the water... that's he's discreet, so nobody is gonna find out.

Although she finds his statements wierd, silly and funny... But she automatically viewed him has someone who won't view her negatively if she actually pee in the water and he gonna be discreet about it i.e he won't tell anyone.

She view him as someone who won't judge her negatively like the way society would judge her.

In her shallow feminine mind, she interpreted that as "he genuinely cares about me,"

You might say, "well, that doesn't make sense." Yes! You are right, that's women for you. The way they think doesn't make sense that's why men are just confused and clueless about women.

In summary,

She would willingly give you the pussy when she feels that you got good intentions, you truly care about her and you won't judge her negatively if she show you her sexual side.

Pukkalolo:


Luminouz... Great input. You obviously seem like a smart dude. I feel you for that.

But try and read this open mindedly so you can get my point.


Shit test is a made up concept... Some nerdy fellas pick out certain kinds of behaviors from women, label it as shit test, then say passing this test is what is gonna get you laid...

Isn't it contradictory how those nerdy fellas say you should never put women on pedestal, but they still put women back on that same pedestal by saying you need to pass women shit test in order to get laid.

The nice guy feels he needs to spend cash and simp for women in order to get the pussy. The redpill junkie think he need to pass women shit test in order to get the pussy.

The redpill junkie may beef on the nice guys and call them simp, but he and the Nice guy are the same: they are both hoping to be rewarded with the pussy. And that's one of their fundamental dating problem.

*Taking a deep breath*

I'm just starting....

Pussy is similar to money in a particular aspect:


Money only has value because the government says it does and its citizen agree that it does...Basically, Money only has value because everybody thinks it’s valuable.
Money, which is just paper is practically created from thin air, without any effort. It was just printed. Government can print as much copy.

We believe that money such as dollars, pounds naira and so on are actually of value, but in reality money is only a store of value and not the actual value...but, sadly, many of do not understand this. This is why the rich concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is Asset.

Pussy only has value because the media, society and women say it does and then the men agree that it does....

Pussy is mainly for enjoyment and procreation. And that is. But we make it seem more valuable than that. No wonder men attach their self-worth to getting pussy. Pussy is overrated.

The other day, a lady was telling me that anytime she's taking her bath and she looks at her pussy, she wonders why almost every guy she meets are dying to have a taste of it...

She was like, "What is even special about this pussy that all this men are chasing...Men are just so foolish"

Although, I found what she was saying a bit funny, but she's absolutely right. There's nothing special about the pussy. The pussy is for enjoyment, but there are other enjoyable activities. But men attached so much special value to the pussy, and that's a big problem.

Basically, pussy only has value because everybody thinks it’s has. And women are taking advantage of that. But the high quality guy that actually understand pussy knows that there's nothing special about the pussy, this is why he concentrate more on what is actually valuable, which is, Attention.

The girl was born with pussy, she didn't have to work hard to own a pussy...it was given to her for free. When she reach her teenage years, she realized that guys are competing to get a taste of it. Then she assume this pussy must be so much valuable for these men to be dying to have a taste of it.

These make her start acting like an entiled bitch and start acting saucy towards men.

The nice guy sees her saucy, rude and entiled behavior, then he thinks, "I needs to spend money and try to please her so I can get her valuable pussy."

The redpill junkie sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a "shit test", then he think " I needs to pass her shit test so I can get her valuable pussy.

The high quality guy sees her saucy, rude and entitled behavior and call it a crap, then he thinks, "if she doesn't behavior right, I'll channel my attention somewhere else."

The average guy think pussy is valuable, that's is why he strategize is dating game around "acting" a certain way so he can be giving the pussy.

The high quality guy think attention is valuable, that's why he strategize is dating game around adjustment to the amount or intensity of attention he gives or withholds from her.

Attention is everything. Attention builds popularity. It sells products and services, and it builds wealth…

Attention gives value to something. It makes something worthless seem worthy. Pussy seem worthy because men give so much attention to pussy. The value of Pussy has overblown due excessive attention from men.

Pussy will become worthless when men stop giving so much attention to it. A LACK OF ATTENTION FROM MEN can pratically make a woman go insane. Even if a womam is not interested in fucking or dating you, she still want you to give her attention.


If you’re willing to give any woman your attention, then you are in for a lot of troubles. One of the best dating skill that will increase a woman desire for you is your ability to know when to withdraw and give attention to a woman.

I learnt the power of attention years ago... Just like most guys here, I noticed that when I pay less attention to certain girls around me, they seem to want me more... Suddenly light bulb goes on in my head. I began thinking, "If this lady, want me more when I give her less of my attention, then my attention must definitely be valuable to her."

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women

Then I was struck with an ingenious paradigm, I started thinking: "If a woman give her pussy to a man as a reward for behaving right, then how can I increase the value of my attention in a woman eyes, so I can give her my attention as reward for behaving right towards me?"

Now, I command the respect of almost all ladies in my life because they know my attention is scares and valuable and they know they must not joke with it: I'm very stingy with my attention. As a lady, you should be happy I'm giving you more of my attention.

The ladies know this about me, and they always make sure they be at their best behavior around me.

A lady was telling me a week ago, "you are difficult guy."

I said, "how?"

In her own different words, she said, "I don't just know what to say that will please you or turn you off..You are just unpredictable. I just have to be careful with my words and actions around you."

In my mind, I smiled. That's the exact psychological situation I want girls to be in when dealing with me. I want ladies to be scared of messing with me.

The nice guy thinks, "How can I impressed her enough so I can get the pussy?"

The red pill junkie thinks, "how can I pass her shit test, so I get the pussy?"

But I think, "she needs to prove to me that she's worth it, or else I'll withdraw my attention from her."

When you stop being pussy focus and start being attention focused, you'd suddenly realized that female shit test doesn't matter. It's now your test that matters now.

I'm attention focused, that's why I can quickly identify the type of ladies that are most likely to waste my VALUABLE ATTENTION . In few seconds or minutes of interacting with a woman, I can immediately tell if she worth it or not.


I treat my attention the way women treat their pussy. I do the shit testing, not women. If a woman pass my shit test, then I'll give her access to more of my attention. That's a mindset shift.

Stay blessed brothers...
✅👌

CaveAdullam:
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Body count is not as important as the kind of men she had fvcked and courted in the past.

Authority: Be sharp.

Pukkalolo:





I was recently ask about how to pass a woman's shit test...I said, I'll post it here so everyone will see it.

I have talked about female shit test before on this thread, if you go through my previous posts, you'll find it.

But, let me throw more light on it.

Many guys are obsessed over passing a woman's shit test...but what they don't realized is that they shouldn't even be getting shit test in the first place.

I read some where they said, "getting shit test is a sign that she perceive you as high value." But that's crap.

I watched on YouTube where there were interviewing 3 beautiful black American ladies about their experience with two rappers at the club: Drake and Future.

These ladies say they had to quickly corporate with the rappers and act very submissive and feminine... because they know that high status rappers of such don't have time to keep up with any bullshit(shit test).

If we choose look at it from a certain angle, this goes to show that getting shit test from a woman is even a sign that she perceive you as low value... basically, she assumes you are someone who's willing to put up with her bullshit because of you want to get the pussy.


Ok, let's play with an hypothetical scenario:

Imagine you are walking on the road and a hoodlum from know where whistle at you, when you turn to look at him, he give you the middle finger... basically, he tells you, "Bleep you!"

How do you respond to that?

There are 3 possible way you can respond to that situation, and this depends on who you are.

Let say you're Mr fearful.... “I'm sorry dude. I'm sorry if I offended you??...” then you apologize to him for no reason, then quickly run away with your tails in between your legs.

Let's say you are Mr tough alpha wannabe... You quickly approach him, “how dare you give me the middle finger...Who do you think you are? Do you know who I am?”... The hoodlum then verbally tells you, Bleep you. Then out of anger... you throw the first punch, then the hoodlum retaliate, then it get heated. The hoodlum goes get his boys... of course you also go get your niggas... Things escalated badly... Blood everywhere.

Let say say you are Mr high quality guy who values his time.....You quickly realized that this hoodlum isn't worth your time. So you just ignore him and go about your business and focus on more important things.

On a low key, this high guy guy is probably the real alpha..... because A true “alpha male” doesn’t need to assert his “alphaness” at every time.


Let's compare this with an interaction with a woman.

Ok..let say you are in festive gathering, and you try chatting with this girl but she shit test you...she tells you,, "You are not my type" and "you look old”

Let say you're Mr fearful nice guy----->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...”

You: "it's not about me not being your type.

Her: "it's about what?"

You: "It's about the fact that I truly love you"

Her: *laughs* "you are looking too old for me"

You: "i know I'm old but you know I've feelings for you, and I will take care of you"

Her: "Ok, I need to change my hair and wardrobe..."

You: "how much do you need?"

Her: *The game continues...*

She exploit you for weeks and months until she get bored with you and dump your sorry ass. Yes, you failed her shit test.


Ok, what if you've learn "the game"...so you've learn how to pass her shit test.

Now, you are Mr tough alpha wannabe ---->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *smirk* "well, I guess you don't have good taste.."

Her: "you say I don't have good taste.. oh, please give me a break! You look old "

You: "I look old? Are you insecure about your age or does my big appearance scares you?" *sly grin*

Her: *laughs* scares me? you are not even up to guys I roll with.

Him: The game continues...



This might continues for days, weeks, months..
Reading that might seem cool to you, but in reality that is just pathetic.

This is what you get when you believe in "passing a woman's shit test"... You’re basically entering into a verbal match and unnecessary power play with her...

All I see is two insecure people trying to outwit themselves and trying to be “more dominant” against the other person. I see this all the time between a guy and lady...the guy would be spitting games on an entitled bitch (who probably doesn't even any interest in him to begin with). They are both time wasters.

Ok, but what if you've become more mature, experienced and you now place high value on your attention. You are very busy with your time.

You are now Mr high quality guy who values his time------>

You: I'm attracted to you.

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *Walks out even be she completes her statement*

You quickly realized that this woman is not worth your attention. You quickly dumps her and move on. You demonstration to her and to yourself that you have low tolerance for crap and you highly value your time and effort and you only spend it on a woman who is worth it.

This actually more powerful than the Mr tough alpha wannabe who's busy trying to tease her and outwit her in order to pass her shit test.

Or think of it... At club, when a random Iady drops a shit test, do you think Drake, Kendrick or Future would start spitting games, go in to power play and trying to pass her shit test.

Of course, No... Those dudes are high quality guys who values their time. They'll just ignore her and quickly move on with another shawty.

You might naturally think,
“Oh, but I'm not a high status rapper like Drake and Future, so these won't work for me"

Understand this simple truth:

Most times, women judge a man by his behavior. From the way he behaves, she can guess if he's a quality guy or not. Even if she meet Drake at the bar but doesn't know who he is...from his behavior she'd assume he might be an high status guy, then she'll pick interest in him.

When you are Mr high quality guy who demonstrate that you highly values your time, she picks interest in you and be curious to know more about you.

Again...

Women are attracted to successful guys....but women are also attracted to guys who have the potential to be successful.. This is why this broke upcoming musician in my neighborhood is fucking sexy girls... Although he's broke but these ladies believe that one day he might blow and make it.

Same way, when you demonstration to her that you have low tolerance for bullshit and you highly value time, she assumes are you have more important things to spend your time and effort on... She assumes that guys like you have the potential to become successful.

Over time, you start noticing that women will start paying more attention to you... they'll be intrigued. They think, "He has low tolerance for my bullshit...that means he must have more importantly things going on for him...let me find out!"

Pukkalolo:


You are fucking right.


The Internet, which is probably the 8th Wonder Of The World, is a place where you can have access to almost anything you want.

With the internet: You can register for anything, you can find a job, you can learn just about anything, you can find hook-up, you can order goods, you can arouse yourself and jerk off to porn stars while thinking about any girl. You can hire assassins to murder anyone that piss you off. Yes, pretty much everything can be done on the internet.

All thanks to the internet: most people looks more attractive than they actually look in real life; most people seem more important than they actually are in real life; most people seem more experience than they actually are.

Using "experience" for example, the problems with the Internet is - anyone can seem like an expert, regardless of the level of experience they have or don’t have. And It’s almost impossible to identify who's the real deal.

Take this thread for example, I observed that some dudes with no real experience with are giving advice about women and redpill. It's so sad because they are only doing this to get validation of other guys.

Pukkalolo:


#Fact


When it comes to dealing with women, there's a skill that the redpill often talk about. With this skill you can easily "create attraction" in a woman and make her become sexually attracted to you and be willing to Bleep you.

The skill is called "game".


Recenly I was asked, "what is game and how I can learn game?"

I like this question in particular, not only because I have been asked the question a couple of times before, but also because it goes against some things I have been talking about here.

I have a lot to talk on this but because of time, let me talk about it a little bit. Please read open mindedly.


In my experience with women, one thing I can confidently say is that---> game doesn't exist. Yes. Game is a made-up concept. Only God knows the group of nerdy fellas that came up with that concept. Game is kinda like a "false hope" they sell to guys: like "when you have game with women, you'll be sitting in a bucket full of pussy and you have lots things under your control!'

And it's funny how many guys fall into the "you need to have game" trap.

Yeah, I understand: there are countless situations where a guy is doing poorly with women, and you probably say: "bro, he need to work on his game "

And then, there's this guy, he is not even rich or handsome but still he's doing pretty much good with girls. You the outsider is tempted to say, "yeah, he got good game that's why this girls are tripping". But in reality, there are 'hidden' amazing qualities he has that makes girls to be naturally drawn to him, which has nothing to do with having game or being alpha.


Many love the idea of game because they believe that by learning game, they have competitive advantage over other guys. Thus, the average guy get hard on himself because he believe if girls aren't giving him the 'Bleep me' eyes and salivating for him, then it because he doesn't have "game".

Learning game won't work if a girl is not into you. Basically, if she is not feeling you, then game won't do jack shit.

To be more realistic, if you want to have more access to the sexual companionship of attractive girls then having the skill called "game" is not enough; infact it's not even necessary. You need to develop or have other amazing qualities.

The term "game" itself is the reason why the dating field is complex, complicated, stressful and full of headache; this is because everyone is trying to be tactical, analytical and playing smart. Remember, since it's a game, there must be winner and a loser. And remember, the person that care the least holds more power. So if you care the most, you are the loser; this means more headache for you in the relationship. Infact, I'm already getting headache from typing this.


In my opinion, you don't have to learn game. Infact, if possible, you have to even "unlearn it".

When I tell guys learning game is not necessary, they roll their eyes and look at me in a wierd way as if I have Love Machine strapped on my forehead. They say things along the lines of: "common bro, you can't say game is not necessary...isn't it because you got good game that's why you are doing great with women."

My response is, "one of the reasons why I'm doing great women isn't because I've got good game..is actually because I've got preparedness."

Seneca, a Roman philosopher once said, Luck is what happens when "preparation" meets opportunity.


Take note: it almost impossible to make a girl become attracted/interested to you...... But you can possibly make a girl lose interest in you.


So while game doesn't exist; preparedness actually does.

A legit player isn't someone that can easily turn a girl on. But rather he's someone who can easily spot a girl that's already turned on and then he has the ability to quickly leverage on that.

I learnt about "preparedness" years ago when I used to hangout with this particular dude. I guess I've talk about him before on this thread. To be honest, he was just a total douchebags. He's not someone you want to be hanging out with for a long time.

Does he have game? Of course, No. He doesn't even know what redpill is, talk more of having game. When you watch his interaction with ladies, you'd even sense some blue pill vibe. This guy seem pushy and almost creepy with girls.

However, here is the paradox. This guy did not have good game yet somehow, he scored more pussy than the vast majority of the other average guys I used to know back then..

Many times when meeting a girl for the first time, he ask dull questions like "so are you single or taken?" That question sound almost blue pilled; that seem like a question that only a guy with no game would be asking...but for him, I noticed the question actually open doors for more deeper interactions with the lady.

He probably know how to quickly spot a lady who's not really feeling him. That's why he doesn't find himself wooing a woman continuously over calls or chat or dates. When he spot a woman who's feeling him, he doesn't hesistate: he's knows how to strike while it's still hot. Sometimes, it has if he as it all plan out.



By redpill general definition, game is the ability to easily "create attraction" in a woman and make her become sexually attracted to you and be willing to Bleep you. Like we said, this doesn't make sense. Infact, this is basically a scam.


But the thing that is more legit is "preparedness", When I say I've got preparedness, what I mean is that, I can quickly identify a woman who has some interest, once I spot her, I have the ability to quickly pull the trigger while the windows of opportunity is still open.


When you concentrate on learning game, chances are that you'll be stucked learning it for years without really getting it; this is because the female nature is cunning and attraction itself is very complex, even science has not unlocked it .

But when you focus on preparedness, nature kicks in and confidence and awareness improve. And things naturally flow.

The funny thing is, It is easy to diagnose lack of preparedness.. Many times, when a lady initially has some interest in you, but there is a sudden drop of interest, The problem isn't lack of game; it is most certainly due to lack of preparedness.... You didn't move things forward and the windows of sexual opportunity has been closed.


In fact, I'd say - Preparedness is the very definition of romantic success...


Many of your romantic success is already predetermined. Meaning,

#1 if a woman doesn't have sexual interest in you, then there's nothing you can say or do to change that.

#2 if she happens to have sexual interest in you but you lack preparedness, then the game is over before it even began.



Currently, as you are reading this, there are ladies who have some interest in you. The funny thing is, this ladies are throwing you subtle signal of interest, but you are not aware of them. This is not because you lack game. This is because you lack Preparedness

joeeee240:



I disagree. Sexual attraction can be built, carved, created.

Remember, attraction is not a choice. She doesn't choose to get sexually attracted to you.

Meaning she can be stimulated

Meedon:


Whenever some of you hear the name "MGTOW" una balls go start to the itch or scratch una. 😂 😂 😂 😂 How many times do we explain to you guys the concept of MGTOW? Must we all follow the family route?

Pukkalolo:





Let me answer this two things you said:
#1 Please help before I do something I regret.
#2 Does a man cooking for a lady make him a simp.

Let start...
#1. Please help before I do something I regret.

The thing is, many romantic relationship doesn't workout.
If the relationship eventually fails, you'll regret cooking for her and doing those nice things for her. So be mindful of the things you do in those lovey-dovey moments.

Your relationship with her might eventually fail. Nobody is praying for that, but you have to be a Man and be ready for any eventuality.

Shits happens. This I why I have this mindset: "How can I gain from this relationship regardless of the outcome."

I don't just mean short-term gain, I'm also taking more of long-term gain.

I once cooked for an Ex on her birthday. Yes, I cooked for her. I never knew how to cook fried rice. So in mind I said, let me used her birthday to learn how to cook this fried rice.

I asked a female friend to tell me the list of ingredients and the steps to cook it. I went to shop for the ingredients and then I follow the steps judiciously and cook it... Soon, Fried rice was ready. I invited her over so we can eat. She loved it and appreciated it.

Today, we are no longer together. But today, I know how to cook fried rice like a pro. The relationship is gone, but my fried rice skill stays with me. I gained couple of other things from my relationship with her. This example might not make perfect sense, but its still pass a point across. I hope you get the point.

Ok, I know you are trying to be a romantic boyfriend, but aside cooking, there are actually more masculine ways to be romantic. But anyways, it's still your choice. You can do whatever you want. It doesn't really matter. Why do I say it doesn't really matter?

Let's find out in the #2.

#2 Does a man cooking for a lady make him a simp.

Let me clarify this for you: in and of itself the act of "Cooking for your girl" doesn't make you simp.

This what many guys don't understand. Doing nice things for a woman doesn't make you a simp. It's the intentions behind the nice act that makes you a simp.

"Who you are" is more important than what you say or do. You can say the most dope ass shit or make the most alpha moves, but if it isn't congruent with who you are, then at some point, you'll be bursted and she'll be gone.

In the long run, women are attracted to who you are. What you say or do is only a means to buy you more time to show her who you are. She'll eventually detect who you are. When she detect who you are and she's not pleased, she'll move on and explore her other options.

This is kinda similar to spending cash on a woman. Having money is advantageous because your money will buy you more time to show her who you her. But when she eventually get know the who you are, she'll realize that you aren't shit; you just have money. And then she'll just enjoy your money and cheat on you behind your back Or worse when she's done chopping your money and using you, she'll find one silly excuse to dump you and ofcourse she'll play the victim.


Saying dope things, doing cool shit does not really change who you are, you're only wrapping up the same shitty you in a decorated box and magnifying your value in people’s eyes. Guess what? Sooner or later, the shitty self will smell out, and then she'll lose interest.

Like I said, "Who you are" is more important than what you do.

Lets say you are low-key tripping for a girl, but you intentionally act like you don’t fancy her and because you read somewhere that women love jerks and assholes... your false-front might work a while, and she might be feeling you. But that front can't stand the test of time and (the test of tension); sooner or later, she'll sense "who you are", and she's see that who you are isn't in alignment with the front you are displaying...as a result, she'll somehow somehow start losing interest in you.

I've seen this repeatedly happen times without number with couple of guys.

Again: what you actually do doesn’t matter; it's who is saying or doing that matters (and the intentions behind it).
This is why when giving dating advice, I many times shy away from the “Say this to her then do this … say that ... and do this with her ....."

Advice like that only works temporary. Sooner or later, the problem will resurface again. This is because I could give you a cool line to say to her or tell you some dope things to do, but I can't give you the core things behind what I'm telling you to do or say...core things like, my genuine intentions, my grounded mindset, my confidence and self-assuredness...

You've got to develop those core things on your own. And you.develop it through experience.

When you develop those core things, anything you do(e.g cooking for her) will look attractive in her eyes...

For example, let's use these two old Nollywood actors as example: Emeka Ike and Jim Iyke. If you used to watch their movie back then, you know that Emeka Ike often play the role of a wimpy nice guy simp, while Jim Iyke often play role of a dominant, confident bad boy.

So If Emeka Ike cooks for a girl on her birthday, then fellas might possibly scream, "simp, grow some spine..."

But if Jim Iyke cooks for that same girl on her birthday, then fellas might say, "Wow, he's only being cool and romantic...she must be really special to him."

This is why--> when Cain brought fruit offering to the Lord and Abel brought his flock offering to the Lord, God accepted Abel's gift but He did not regard Cain's gift. This is has nothing to do with the content of the offering, it has more to with who is offering it.

If you are correct G, then anything you say or do will seem correct and attractive.

Emeka Ike or Will Smith cooking for a girl seem wimpy and pathetic....but Jim Iyk or James bond cooking for a girl seem cool and even attractive.

This is because the "act of cooking for her" itself isn't the issue. The issue is, who is cooking it.

Pukkalolo:



You gain more romantic success when you understand this very core aspect of women I'm about to talk about.
I've talk about this before here, but let me make it clearer a bit.

The funny is, guys here place more attention on turning a woman, being alpha and passing her so called "shit test"....

Accomplish all those are actually important when interacting with women.

But but...

Dealing with the average (naija) woman who's giving off the personnel of a wholesome innocent Angelic damsel that doesn't like sex. In reality, she actually do love sex but she's has some psychologically barriers that's preventing her from showing her real sexual nature.

An example of psychologically barriers is "He just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me time after time; this is NOT because I'm the most alpha redpill motherfu*ker in the neighborhood..Far from it. It's simply because I know how how to neutralize those psychologically barriers and inspire her to become sexually "comfortable" with me.

Let me explain.
Please read carefully. Funny enough, I've actually not seen this being talked about any where either offline or online. I had to learned this the hard way: personal experiences.

It's one thing to make her become sexually attracted to you, it's another thing to make her become sexually comfortable with you.

Things like being alpha or passing her shit test might increase her sexual attraction for you. But that doesn't make her sexually comfortable with you. Because when a girl is thinking in her mind "he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex..." you saying some dope alpha sh*t won't make her automatically drop her pants.

Funnily, the ability to her inspire her to become sexually "comfortable" with you requires no creative redpill skills...It doesn’t even require badass alpha moves. I'll say, on the contrary, it requires the ability to NOT to go alpha.

Funny enough, it actually turns your "tough guy" attempt against you... No wonder, alot of guys lose cool ladies who are actually into them simply because they were intentionally trying to act like assholes.


It's one thing to make her become sexually attracted to you, it's another thing to make her become sexually comfortable with you.

Many times, the very alpha play that increase her sexual attraction for you is the very thing that decrease her sexual comfortability with you.


If you are not getting the sex life you want, then it's not because women are not attracted to you; it because women aren't sexually comfortable with you. Again sexual attraction and sexual comfortability are entirely two different thing. If you truly understand this, then you'll understand women.

For example, If you are in a country like Brazil or USA where women are more sexually librated, and you are not getting pussy, then the problem might be your lack of ability to make her become sexually attracted to you.
Yes, many women in countries like, England, Brazil and United States are more sexually librated, that's why you see them comfortably making out here and there on the streets shamelessly. That's why to get the girls there, all it takes is to make a strong eye contact, say some baddass shit and make some alpha moves, and then boom! ...you and her already kissing around the corner.

But if you in a country like Nigeria where the women are greatly scared of being viewed as whor_e and they are socially conditioned to present themselves as "good girls" so they will have a better chance of attracting a husband, then saying some baddass shit and making some alpha play is almost not enough. You have the added challenge of breaking through her good girl facade and bringing out naughty sexual side. Women have their "naughty sexual side" locked up inside. The "key" to open that lock is to make her become "sexually comfortable" with you.

Years ago, I was wooing a lady, then she threw at me what you might call a shit test. She said something along the lines of "Is this how you go about sweet talking other ladies you meet and if I may ask how many girlfriends do you have?"

I can't remember the exacts words I replied her, but I made sure my response was alpha enough , I can't really recall what I said, but i think I said something along the lines of: "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends ."

It looked like I passed her shit test, because her eyes dilated, she laughed and playfully hit me my shoulder. Sexual Attraction was increased but sadly she kept resisting my advance regardless, and to cut the story short I didn't end up getting intimate with her.

With my response to her: "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends..." sexual attraction was increased .......because it conveys abudance, strong frame, I-don't-give-a-Bleep attitude and sexy-player vibe and any other random attractive trait you can think of right now.

But sexual comfort was also reduced because that response revived the psychologically resistance: "He just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."

Late last year, again, a lady threw at me what you might call a shit test. She said something along the lines of:
"I bet you have a other women and you're just looking for a new girl to mislead... sorry not this one, you can try your games on the next girl."

This time, I am more experienced and wiser. I asked her:
"and how did you come up with that conclusion?"

She replied some bla bla bla...

I then responded to her, something along the lines of: "One reason I admire you is that you are not the kind of lady who can be easily misled with sweet talks, you'd only go out with a mature and straightforward guy....the good news is, I'm that guy!"

She smiled and said, "Really?"
I continued, " If you think I want to mislead you, you can delete my contact and block me, but if you think otherwise, then we are good to go....The ball is in your court!"

To cut the story short, Few days later, I and this lady were doing stuff in the "other room"..if you know what I mean.

In response to her talk, ""I bet you have a other women and you're just looking for a new girl to mislead..."
As you saw, I didn't go simp: "No dear, I don't have other women, I'm not trying to deceive you...I truly love you."
If I gave her that simp response, both sexual attraction and sexual comfort will reduce drastically.

As you saw, I didn't try to act all alpha I-don't-care, stone-cold aura OR tell her "Yeah, I have 7,500 girlfriends"

If I gave her that tough wannabe alpha response, sexual attraction might increase a bit but sexual comfort will reduce drastically. And I won't have gotten intimate with her.

But with the legit response I gave, I kill two bird with one stone...sexual attraction was maintain because I communicated strong frame and willingness to walkaway. Sexual comfortability was increased because because.... (go back again and read my response to her, you'll see how)


Ladies who I go sexual with don't experience any guilt.. infact after they leave my place, I get messages like, "Yesterday, was fun." Or "Thanks dear, I enjoyed my time with you." These ladies are sexually comfortable with me: They don't feel deceived; they don't feel cheap or used. They feel comfortable showing me their naughty sexual side


Back to you and the lady.....See, she's saying, "I shouldn't have let it happen."

The reason she felt bad and guilty for going sexual with you is because she's not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

Yes, she's probably sexually attracted to you, but the major thing is she doesn't feel any sexually comfortableness with you.....and your alpha fronting and your stone-cold aura wasn't also helping matters. You ended up reviving her psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" and "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."


Anyways, I hope this was helpful.

Kreddy:




pls can I have your WhatsApp your Gmail seems to be incorrect

Kreddy:



This almost captured all the symptoms... I noticed on my knee and thighs whitish area with punctured (small small holes) I noticed this before I started experiencing the rashes I thought it's normal because I only applied rub to the area.
This is pic of the spot on my thigh

Kreddy:
I've been battling with this kind of rashes more than a year now. It keeps on resurfacing after every 5 months. I've been into both private and public hospitals,a doctor once told me it's a familial disease, but none of my family members has ever experienced this kind of disease.

Though I have been experiencing scratches anytime I take my bath since my primary school days and I think I'm getting use to that as a doctor advised that I should stop using spong,it seems there's no solution to that.

But this rashes is taking a lot from me, I'm really perplexed and I don't know what to do. Pls has anyone experienced this,and how did you get cured.
I need suggestions to be free from this reoccurring rashes.
I've been to hospitals both private and public.

Evolutionlove:


Eleribu oloorun. Shameless obuko afofun lol. Your stvpidity and uselessness stinks to high heavens. Enjoy your slacky totos In peace lol..

Evolutionlove:


Na Expired Slacky ToTos this one wan Fvck lol Tueh..

Dpsychologist:


Lol good question.

"The Reiteration effect" When an information is constantly repeated to an individual in different forms. The information becomes incorporated into the individual.