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Young man, let me give you one golden advise. First, you live in the USA and know or should know that going to confront her, whatever that means, may land you in a very serious legal situation that may ruin you either financially or pyschologically or both. Sexual assualt (confronting her) is a criminal offence that is indictable in most states (USA) and provinces (in Canada). You are distraught understably, however, I advise you to stop imagining her as some precious possession only available to you. Yes she betrayed you and no explanation can justify it but she is only a girlfriend not your wife or personal property. Whatever drove her to someone else cannot be justified but one thing is clear, the relationship will never be the same again even if she apologises and you get back together. You do not need to fly to whereever she is, call her first, ask some basic questions about your relationship. Since you know her well, her responses, including hesitations, brief silences, questions, answers, etc will give you a clue on what she is up to. Tell her about your findings but be careful she may turn it against you for intruding into her privacy and snooping on her. If she apologises, you then decide whether/not to continue with the relationship. Boarding a plan to confront her may make things worst unless she suggests you both meet and discuss. Whatever happens, be sure to stop rewinding the good times, her love to you, the sexes etc. The more you think about them, the more you are tempted to make irrational decision and in fact the more sleepless nights you will have because all you will be doing is imagining another man grinding in between her pelvics and the maonings that ooz out of her mouth. These will only drive you insane which ultimately may push you to go and confront her as you are thinking, at the end what you will achieve is a metaphor of sanity being guilty of insanity. Nothing good will come out of it. Whatever you do, don't beg her out of desperation because you don't appear to have done anything wrong based on your account and refuse the guilty trip. Once you show desperation by beging, your are doomed and have given her unsolicited weapon of choice, it is a dangerous precedent. And yes, you will survive even if it ends because time heals. Maybe you don't know her as much as you thought, good relationships survive long distances. You have not told us how long you were seperated by distance, and why you feel it is your fault, however, remember that every disappointment may be a blessing in disguise. The problem sometimes is that we look to hard into a closed door and refuse to see an open one that has better future for us. She may be pretty but a good player ready for the asking, a side of her you never knew before now. Right now, you are a nervous wrack by the sound of it, get yourself together, take a deep breath and don't jump to hasty decisions. Women are the downfalls of many people in north America financially and otherwise. Ultra radical feminists have inherently help the laws and judicial system to be anti men, therefore be careful what and how you manage the situation. Goodluck.

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The boy is infected by the girl with sexually transmitted disease, precisely, gonocacus (gonorea) or any of the various STDs. He should go for a test asap before it becomes chronic and difficult to treat. He should not cut corners (pullying right ear with right hand) by running to a pharmacist, quack doctor or herbalist for quick/cheap treatment. He should be tested to determine the type of STD.

bitches everywhere. Pig looking ass full of nothing but shit

Is she still breathing? I have a strong rob, mtcheeww. So 3rd class has now become a henious crime to warrant sucide attempt. Is she pregnant or something. Oh!, Amaechi flunked RSUST, ran to Uniport and made 3rd class, look at him now. Maybe you should slap the devil out of her head.

Hmm, ur story get k-leg: first, two rapists with two girls, one goes out banging on your door instead of running to security. You open and follow her to a room with two rapists and door opened, and you saw a girl with two men and only stripped to her pants, no sign of resistance or marks on her, she was not pinned to the bed, and they listened to your preaching and allowed both of them to run. The girls did not run to security instead to your room, both of them (one half naked) and coincidentally, your boss called you so early in the morning and you ran out leaving your room to strangers and a half naked girl steals and disappears into thin air and am supposed to believe you. Crap.

God punish anybody who says give it to amatif (sic) amaechi. That person must be high on drug or is a cave man living somewhere 1000 feet below the sea level or simply retarded, demented, twisted or worst, ewu period. A brainless man that fluncked out of RSUST, ran to Uniport and made 3rd class by way of let my people go, couldn't find a job with that useless degree until Odili took him as errand boy in his Pamo clinic in Umumasi, Port Harcourt, dusted him off and handed him the unthinkable, governorship. Like the maxim, dress monkey on suite/tie, carry am to market, he is still a monkey and will remain a monkey no more no less. Mono rail my foot.

Your post doesn't say whether/not your husband already has a student authorization to Canada. If he does, he will be coming as a foreign student and his tuition is almost twice the domestic fee Canadian citizens and permanent residents pay unless he is coming with scholarship from the University. Tuition fees in Ryerson University, University of Toronto and York university are high and vary but cheaper in Saskachewn partly because of the hash climate. I understand a relative is willing to assist and I suggest you ascertain from him with some degree of certainty what that assistance entails; is it accomodation, feeding, transportation, job, tuition or moral assistance. These are important because life in Canada is challenging. You can get by without money in Nigeria but not Canada. If he is coming as a foreign national to study, it means he has to complete his studies before making application to regularize his status as a permanent resident meaning that you people may not be eligible for some basic benefits like medical and have to make provision for that from your pocket although you maybe covered from his student medical insurance depending on the university. Secondly, your husband will have to work for two years after graduation to apply for permanent residency under the "In Canada" experience program pursuant to the Immigration and Refugee Protection Act of Canada and Regulations unless he is doing a PHD program which allows him to make application for permanent residence without graduating first. If on the other hand, he is coming to do a master's program, he may not be qualified to apply for permanent residence even after graduation but can apply for a postgraduation work permit that will enable him work legally for two years after graduation then he can apply for permanet residence, the "in Canada" experience. Even still, it is not automatic that he will be approved, his skills have to fall within occupations A, B or O of the National Occuaption Classification (A=Management skills, B=Professional skills and O=others as listed) as listed in the Regulations. The advantage of coming to study and staying after graduation is among other benefits, is that he will obtain his degree here and will not be required to have it evaluated by the designated institutions by the government and may not be required to take the English Language Test, plus he will score points for having a relative in Canada. On your side, you talked of getting job fast. Unfortunately, your experience in the bank may be of little value when the time comes to apply for job. Depending on where you people decide to reside, you may have to do jobs that may be way below your expectation and for low wage. The good news is that you will be allowed to work as a spouse and if the child is born here, he/she automatically becomes a citizen and does not have to be sponsored. You may also have to go to school to "upgrade" due to Canadian perception of Nigerian degrees. In essence, my advise is that pragmatically, be prepared for some challenges, shock, resocialization and huge life changing. The good news is that, while it may take some time to adjust for so many reasons, once you are settled, you will be glad you took the plung. Goodluck.

Let me think, so when he was moaning,panting and gasping for air, the little girls were in cloud 9 thinking that the old man was coming, not knowing that he was going. Hehehe. Tufiakwa.

"Educated, high class and sophisticated" girl, I just have two simple questions and you don't have to be a nuclear scientist to figure out the answers: how would u feel if we flip the coin and reverse the circumstances; you meet a boy in the same predicament as u were, train him from the money u made selling akra and recharge cards with the intention of marriage (obviously) and he scorns you because you are now beneath him. Secondly, what if this man didn't help you when you were a destitute, still bleeped u because you would have given him sex regardless because sex was not mentioned as the consideration (trade by barter) for him sending you to school, gets tired of your ass and returns you to where you belonged (dog house), how would you feel. As Shakespear will say (if you actually read any of his writings because you sound like those that passed exams by sleeping with teachers), "the evil that men/women (sic) do lives after them, the good is often tied to their bones, so let it be with Caeser ... . Somewhere else, he summized and rightly so that, "the fault is not in us but in our stars that we are underlings". I can't help but ooze out this one word, "dispicable", that is what you are. My mechanic here in Canada where I live, has no formal education but his wife holds a PHD and is a chief executive officer of a multinational corporation, she is taller yet loves him to death and displays that affection whenever you see them together and not ashamed to introduce him as such to people. Well, as Macbeth would say about Duncan (I know u didn't read this either), "There is no act to read the mind's construction on the face, he was a gentleman on whom I built absolute trust." Maybe as C. Achebe wrote in "Things Fall Apart" (if you read it), those that the gods want to kill, the first drive bunkers", you are a candidate. I feel sick to my stomach thinking that in the interim and until u make up ur mind and gather the courage to tell this gullible man what u think of him, u will still be kissing and opening ur dirty legs for him while pretending to love him. Too bad. What type or amount of sex equates to the time, energy, love, patience, and not to mention the years and money he expended in a wretch like you from high school to university?

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what happend to legs closed until after marriage

clap 4 urself. How can i return the favour?

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Tell your friend to wake up and smell the coffee because a fool at forty is ... (am sure u know the rest).

Look well, where is the ring, in icloud or sambisa forest?

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What does this have to do with successful career ladies? Nigierian men are daily scanmed by Nigerian ladies even the so called successful career ones sometimes are the worst. A friend introduced a medical doctor to me during one of my visits to Nigeria, we went on a date and she came in a very pricey and exotic car. To my dismay, she ordered the most expensive food in the menu. As if that was not sufficient, she ordered take out for her baby sister. Been a gentleman, I paid, next day, she claimed her landlord was threatening to evict her and all that mumbo jumbo. Unbeknown to me, she called two days after crying asking if I could lend her N600,000.00 because she needed to pay for 2 years in advance and promised to pay back before my departure. In her twisted mind, jjcs have no brain. Unfortunately for her, I wasn't thinking with my junior and this is someone am supposed to marry. My point is, you seem a bit pompous and presumptive, bad people come in either gender, age, religion, affiliation and ethnicity. Some men scam and persuade their innocent girlfriends who are students or have no decernable sources of livelihood to borrow and give them. They are just bad people simpliciter and prey on vulnerable people regardless of the social stratum of their victims. Men and women do it.

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A police officer stopped a pastor for speeding, the pastor asked him: how did u know I was speeding, the officer told him the man above (an officer in a small aircraft with stop watch/timer that records speeds of moving vehicles). The officer simply said the man above and the pastor said, "oh, if he said so, it must be true that I was speeding because my God does not lie and as a pastor, I believe in Him 100%. The police officer said, no I don't mean God, just officer in the aircraft. The true man of God retorted, u son of a bitch, i never speed and wasn't speeding, now can i go.

Try boko haram, they will be there in thick and tin; they are so faithful and willing to die for what they love and believe in. Yeye. Look inward and ask yourself a very simple question: what am I doing that is driving men away or making them cheat and lie to me instead of the generalization and hating men. Conversely, turn lesbian since u hate men. If ur biological clock thicks fast, marry yourself.

Are u actually a doctor or doke? No vexoo, bring ur face let me slap u because John Doe was disrespecting me yesterday, gbam, baby am sorry. Its ok, ur so sweet doctor and I know I will never make it by myself, so, slap me more. Yeye. You call that love, maybe in the medical dictionary doctored by both of u alone, it is love. I guess you don't know the meaning of abuse or maybe as empirical studies show, abused women act retarded and have to go through that circle of abuse before they come to their senses. As it was in the begining, so shall it be in the end. Wake up and smell the coffee and find a good man. He is a virgin and using u as a bunching bag, thats just the begining, wait until he chops ur punnany and then see professional boxer in action and the Champ, Iron Mike Tyson will be a child's play.

Nothing wrong with ph babes, am originally from PH and so, know it although I know live in Canada. Babe call me if ur serious because am looking for a good babe from there.

I heard there are no other dicks/professional dancers in ur neighbourhood, so keep sharing.STUPID.

Your brother's defence is very weak, lacks credibility and not plausible and I tell you why: if she seduced him, she would not have left and I know somone will jump quickly to say she left as a cover up. She did not need to cover up, she could have stayed and would continue to seduce the willing jonny waka and ur bros would not have told u come rain come sunshine instead, will continue to chop and clean mouth. Secondly, and most important, if she seduced him and left, she would not discuss it with anybody not even her best friend. She left, stayed away from someone she seduced doesn't make common sense let alone a logical one. Third, ur bros would not have told u if u didn't ask, a guilty mind. Worst, he claimed he didn't know why she left when there was a forced affair, a clear and guilty mind again. If u watched his body language the first time u asked or confronted him, u would have clearly seen that there was no air of reality in his statement. He probably was incoherent trying to explain himself/situation. Ur girl was sexually assualted by someone she trusted and she did the right thing, bolted out q.e.d. (quad erat demonstrandum) meaning point proven. Unfortunately he is ur brother which explains why ur even giving him the benefit of the doubt when for all intents and purposes, he is guilty as hell and u do not need a nuclear scientist to solve that riddle.

A u ok? Instead of vexing ur asking me to help u get one, oke.

Are u sure ur normal, watching chickem Bleep, tufiakwa, nothing person no go read/hear. Next time the chicken comes, grab it to ur bedroom, suck the sperm out of his dick, Bleep him hard and i bet u, it will never come back again. Onyeara (mad woman). U really got a sick and twisted mind I swear. Better go and examine ur head.

Well u asked for it and here it is: get a life

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