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If you took the five worst presidents in the history of Nigeria and added them up they would not have done near the destruction to our country as M.buhari and his administration had done.

Investorozay:
His type don't do dm. They call your manager. Fly you to their knack house in Monaco. Hit it and send u back with 20kusd

chaii 20k USD!!! And he may not last up to 3mins whereas some guys go dey knack there gfs for hrs with no kobo.. this life no balance

Signum:
Mine was totally emotional. We graduated same time buh he served and started working before me.

He had come to Benin to visit me while serving and along the lines, he proposed and which I accepted. It was lovely. The next day we went to hospital to check out genotype once more.. I had always maintained I'm AS and he wasn't sure of his, according to him.

Unfortunately, he's AS too. He said he's not taking it, we had to go to another specialist hospital, after the test, he's AS too. We came home with tears and sorbing, especially him. We made love throughout that night, sorbing and crying together cos we knew we can't be.


Two days later he went back and both of us still was emotional for the rest of the month.

We eventually moved on, but it wasn't easy. He really loved me.

did he use condom?

sync:
May God forgive you

Answer my question? If your ex shows up even if you are married,won't you allow him?

How many abortions have you done for him for those 6 years?

One innocent will come and marry and pay a dowry of a broken damage woman and still if the ex showed up again you will still go and Bleep him again

MaxInDHouse:
The world's most populous black nation is Nigeria and northern Nigeria is the largest part with Islam being the dominant religion, many in the west are Muslims and some in the east are also converting to Islam, majority of those in government are Muslims and even our Naira has a Arabic text on it:
https://guardian.ng/news/cbn-to-retain-arabic-signs-in-redesigned-naira-notes-emir-sanusi/#:~:text=The%20Arabic%20inscription%20on%20the,be%20removed%2C%E2%80%9D%20Sanusi%20said.
It's evident that what you read is a fact that cannot be hidden but that's not a headache for real Christians because Jesus made it clear that his government (rulership) is no part of this system {John 18:36} that is why he told his disciples to be on a low key in any society they find themselves! Matthew 10:16

till they start to persecute Christian like what happened in Amelia turkey

This is what happens when you have a demonic Muslim Muslim president and buhari the religion bigot will be remembered for it.

Will buhari have backed a Christian Christian ticket?but because he's in power what he couldn't do in 2015 he's now supporting it..so I think after 8urs of tinubu it will be the turn of northern and they will never see a Christian northern for President which will make it 24yrs of Muslim president.

I blame all the top pastors and Christian body in this country.

If it was the other way round that muric guy wont let us hear word.

I was browsing through the internet when I saw "the 15 most powerful Islamic countries in the world and Nigeria is No 5.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/15-most-powerful-islamic-countries-153524877.html

I'm not trying to start a religious fight or something here but am so angry.. Nigeria is a secular country where we have most Christians and Muslims in high numbers and one doesn't subdued another we have Christians and Muslims public holidays.

We also have the highest number of churches and cleric in the world so how can this same country be an Islamic country.

How you won make him richer With your 8dollars

Babadudu

Moniya4Real:
Hi guys in the house? Pls, kindly give an objective response to the question below :
‘Should a guy take back a wife of 12 years that bore 2 kids after a strong allegation from family friends she cheated with a known person?’.
Thanks in anticipation for your candid responses.

I don't know what to say... money is important in a man's life

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

listen! It's a matter of time your in laws win your husband over.you see he has started blaming you that you caused it..I think his sister is bossy and being the first child she must have been looking after her younger ones from birth and that gives her the sense of responsibility over them which also makes any lady that want to marry them her surbondinate and can control their wives at Will.

The best thing is to tell your husband to call meeting and beg them especially the sister,,kneel and beg her and be close to her .

Saintmary:
Only your Mom can tell if you are really a son of your father.



Beg her thoroughly, and get your maternal family to help you beg her to know your real father, maybe your elder brother heard a secret that he's using against you. Also, maybe he told the rest of your siblings and they are also getting money from him. That is why they are against you and your mother is too weak to stop them.


Do this before getting married.



Good luck.

I'm definitely not a bastard,I look just like my dad... My mischievous brother said out of anger when I have for my own share of the property he sold.

My mom was on my side until he won her over ...I wish they did involve her,it will have been easy for me to go ahead with the wedding without him and others

I support this lady

There should be consequences for every action

You can't cheat someone and go scrot free

One of the problems of this country is we overlook things a lot, someone stole billions we go overlook am if there were consequences the person no go try am

Now ladies who read this will be afraid of snatching people's boyfriend

ufotunang:
... boyfriend snatching I'd not s new thing....there are other girls that have snatched their close friend boyfriend and they do not do anything about it and forget about it and move on. They are many guys out there for her to date and marry.... holding grudges for 10 years and she have to revenge...not 10 days or 10 weeks or 10 months ....10 years...it's surprising

The way people comment here is surprising...have you thought maybe before she snatched her bf maybe the man had intention of marrying her but couldn't because her close friend snatch him and since then all the men she has been meeting were using and dumping her... She will feel cheated now

Benwallt:
You can but some curses will be placed on you

from whom...the first born got his wife out of wedlock

Emma2Seconds:
https://www.nairaland.com/7176065/how-share-rooms.A STORY TELLER

I'm not a storyteller,,,there are things you hear but want to know what other people will say to it.

frozen70:
For the whole members of your family to be against you

Then you have an issue

Get a family friend to reconcile all of you

No woman or her family will accept marriage from you without the knowledge of your family and involvements

Pls go back to the drawing board

come to think of it... they are ladies wishing they don't meet their mother-in-law alive or their husband family...how do you explain this

frozen70:
For the whole members of your family to be against you

Then you have an issue

Get a family friend to reconcile all of you

No woman or her family will accept marriage from you without the knowledge of your family and involvements

Pls go back to the drawing board

is it not possible for someone to be right in the midst of several people? My late dad always take my sides when he was alive main reason for this hate later my mum but he(the first son) won my mom over and other siblings though I still talk with my younger sister once in a while

Stenewiser:
You want to ditch your family and start a new family. understand the meaning of family first, before starting one.

can't I live without them? Are there not orphans?

My elder brother sold my late dad land without giving me kobo. When I confronted him he said he won't get me anything because am a bastard. He collect all the money from tenant in our father properties.

He does nothing for living than to feed on our father properties ( a Yoruba family)

I hate cheating and stood up against tyranny and this is the backlash am getting for it

ojun50:
Come go and settle with yr family before putting an innocent girl into what will make her regret ever marrying you.

how please? Can't I marry on my own? Are orphans not getting married?

My family is evil.

My siblings 2 male(older) and 1younger female and a male has hated me so much and did so many bad things that they now turn our mom against me.

If I should start telling you the evil they did to me it will take a lot of time but what I did was to cut myself from them so they will not harm me ...but to my surprise they have persuaded my mother that was on my side before to ditch me, she doesn't pick or call me again and I know it's the work of them.

But this is the question, is it possible to get married without involving them like will the lady I want to get married to and her family accept me without my own family when it's time for me to get married?.

VTJN:
corruption in federal parastatals had been in existence before Keyamo was born

Say something else biko

are you dumb? Why are Nigerian like this.no wonder the country is not moving forward because of people that reason like you... somebody is a whole minister of Labour and employment and you are saying the fraud going on in his ministry is not his business because it has been there before he was born.
What is he there for? To fold his arm and watch them continue corruption.
I ignored your first comment but was forced to reply to this your second comments..you people must get brain by fire by force

Some people mumu is 10x

Ceenachi:
Did she also cause his defeat during the senatorial election? Ikpeazu should just keep quiet.

The most unserious governor in Nigeria

His only achievement in eight years is the dangerous flyover he built for those who want to commit suicide

your last paragraph made me laughing like mad😂😂😂

rickleye:
My g/f asked me to sleep in the other room because she says I snore. Oh really, do I ! I have a bunch of recordings of her snoring . Personally, I find listening to snoring hilarious and to those that complain, to you I say - you aren't really tired. If you're really exhausted. You'd sleep through anything.

Besides Sleep Apnea where you need to those machines to make sure you don't die when sleeping. I purchased these sleep mouth guard clip. What it does is to keep your air ways open so that it does vibrate against each other which causes the sound - snoring. Cost me about $20.
They are uncomfortable at first but after 2 weeks , you get a hang of it .

thanks bro,how can I get one?

wumi2017:
🤣😂🤣

what's so funny 😂😂

IyaebeTheGreat:
Why won't you snore like local generator when you drink, smoke and all that unhealthy lifestyle.

I do neither

Hi,

I have been snoring for some years now and it annoying that I have tried ways to stop it but didn't work.

Whenever my girlfriend comes to sleep over she will not able to sleep well because my snoring disturbs her sleep and now she avoids coming to my place complaining that I don't let her to sleep well.since then she hasn't been responding well to me and I also feel my neighbors too are affected but can't tell it to my face..

I have try different sleeping position to no effect.

I'm fed up and wish I could get a help.