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mehn i tire 4 dis country o,we just finished from fuel scarcity now food scarcity n ramadam never start.how person won take enjoy life 4 dis country?

funny crazy pics indeed...where can i find them?

samtol4:
what will you loose by calling "aunty"

she said her pride when i asked her same question...that her younger bro and sil rap together like age mate whenever he come to see her.and asked me if i can call my younger bil or his age mate "bro".i just had to rest my case.she says she's not calling her "aunty" no matter what.

no b only sil or bil case... if ur dad marry a small new wife,so far she meet u 4 house.she's expected to put bro or aunty join ur name.

[quote author=toksbisola post=34562393]@Op please let her know that in Yoruba land as far as I know, her sister in-law is referred to as iya oko mi and her brother in law is referred to as baba oko mi.

Also let her be aware that the title(s) iya/baba oko mi is not now only meant for her husbands Mum/Dad. In most instances, the wife also now calls her husbands' siblings iya/baba oko mi.

Even if she is 20 years older than her sister/brother in-law, out of courtesy, it is wise to refer to them as either aunty/uncle or sister/brother before their names.

A piece of advice for the wife in question; please let her allow peace to reign in her home. If calling her sister in law by either aunty or sister before their name is what would bring peace then what is the fuss all about?

Let the wife avoid allowing something as trivial as this to escalate into something big. It is not everything that we have to be stubborn about or claim “I am right and I WOULD not change”
no doubt,u're a typical yoruba lady.

lovaleenny:
Give her a nickname or call her madam jokingly...personally if I was in your shoes I'll just laugh it of...some ladies dou na aunty she wan chop ni or u don piss her off before

i think since she is the last born(no younger ones 2 call her aunty) to find person to call her aunty dey hungry am.

lovaleenny:
Give her a nickname or call her madam jokingly...personally if I was in your shoes I'll just laugh it of...some ladies dou na aunty she wan chop ni or u don piss her off before

i think since she is the last born(no younger ones 2 call her aunty) to find person to call her aunty dey hungry am.

raumdeuter:
First rule of being married, CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES. No be everywhere person dey claim right

Shebi they are staying momentarily and not living with your for life. If aunty is what would bring peace right now then call her aunty until she leaves

Do you know in Yoruba land some people even older than you would use "e" for you not because they dont know your age but to remove any form of isolenu.

I have been known to call people even 10yrs younger than me "my chairman", "Bros I am loyal o". It doesnt do anything to me

In my family it isnt an issue but if you married to a family where its an issue would you rather call the aunty or risk marital problems?

true talk..,

ArchEnemy:
guy, you ve to choose between peace and hard feelings. Call them aunty and move on.

omo na olden dayz things o,this is 2015.how many wives dey call their sil ''aunty" again.

ArchEnemy:
Call her aunty and let sleeping dogs lie. It won't make you any lesser

u be man na.person wey u use 10yrs old pass.

I heard this from a friend and want to know your opinion Most yorubas in the house will understand what am saying when you call your brother-in law “brother so so” or sister-in-law “sister so so” as a sign of respect even when you are much older than them.
My husband and i have been married for some years now and he has one sister that happens to be his only sibbling from his parent.she came to stay with us after she finished her school in ghana. when we were living together i notice that she behaves somehow whenever i speak to her using “o”(that’s the inferior singular)unlike “e”(superior singular you use when speaking to an elder or respected person).later my mother-in-law came to spend some weeks with us and right in my present she was ranting that she will not take it if i can’t call her “aunty” while she walked away and to my greatest shock my mil supported her,saying she’s my little mother in law(iya oko)but i told her my youngest brother is not her mate which am 10years older than,i didn’t say it in a rude or disrespectful way,since then my mil has been behaving somehow not picking my calls.i told my husband about it but didn’t take it seriously.
My question now is,who do you support?and to the ladies in the house will you call your brother or sister-in-law bro or aunty even when you are older than them?

i dey fear smtimes the way sum nigga pound pvsssy like say na dem cause fuel scarcity.

speener:
OP your grammar is awful and bad. People should learn to stay quiet if they know they can't express themselves grammatically. Everybody must not create a thread on Nairaland. Tenses, spelling, even organisation, zero. Haba.

is english ur mother tongue?that was a nigerian speaking a foreign language the way he understand it on nairaland,so if u don't like it pls ask oba akinolu to show u where the lagoon is and do the needful.thanks.

REMMEI:
Mean say I no fit get gf/wife be that o..

Bet why?...

u fit find 4 village but 4get city girls...but i hear say sum village girls bad.

dharay99:

18 lohun lohun...
Nd u expect us to read all...


Next thread biko.

black men n reading.u shuld try,it might help u in chosing ur lady.

16. She has a big ego. - If she’s extremely
egotistic, any man who feeds her inflated
ego can easily get her into bed.
17. She suffers from low self esteem. -
The opposite characteristic is also a danger sign. If she suffers from low-self
esteem, she will be easy prey for the man
who flatters her, makes her feel good
about herself, and boosts her self esteem.
18. She views sex as a game. In her mind,
sex is not connected to love. Sex is just a game in which she gets points for every
man she beds. Even though she may be in
love with her partner, she’ll have sex with
as many men as possible so she can gain
the maximum number of points and win
the game. The more of the above categories your
wife or girlfriend fits into, the more likely it
is that she will cheat on you.so ladies,what categories/ry do you belong?

12. She’s a sex addict. - Women can be
sex addicts, too. In the past these women
were referred to as nymphomaniacs. This
is a medical condition that requires professional medical help.
13. She has a sex drive greater than her
partner’s. – If her sex drive greatly exceeds
the sex drive of her husband or boyfriend,
or her spouse or significant other is
lacking in bedroom skills, she’s much more likely to cheat on her mate. She’ll
find another man to make up for her
mate’s deficiency.
14. She’s had lots of sexual experience. -
If she has led a very active sex life, or has
had lots of sex partners before settling down, she will find it extremely difficult to
stay faithful to just one man.
15. She cheated before and got away with
it. - That old saying “Once a cheater,
always a cheater will apply if she cheated
in the past and didn’t suffer any negative consequences as a result of her infidelity.

7. She’s easily bored. – A woman who is
easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine
life may cheat on her mate just to
alleviate her boredom or add some
excitement to her life. 8. She has been cheated on by her mate. –
If a woman’s husband or boyfriend has
cheated on her, she may try to even the
score by cheating on him in return.
9. She likes being the center of attention. –
If a woman thrives on being the center of attention at all times, she is sexually
vulnerable to any man who fawns over
her, or makes her feel like she’s #1.
Beware of dating Drama Queens!
10. She’s addicted to alcohol or drugs. –
Women who are substance abusers are much more likely to end up cheating on
their mates.
11. She has a reputation as a “party girl.” -
If she’s the type of woman who runs with
a fast crowd, or parties all the time, or
hangs out until the wee hours of the night, her lifestyle makes her vulnerable to
having an affair

Men, with these types of women, no
matter how much you try to tame them,
they will cheat on you. These types of
ladies never make faithful wives --->
1. She has lots of close male friends - A
significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the
opposite sex.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on
their mates. - Never underestimate the
power of peer pressure.
3. She has an excessive need for attention. – A woman who constantly
craves attention may cheat on her mate if
she feels she’s not getting enough
attention from him.
4. She’s materialistic. - A materialistic
woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material
things he can provide
5. She views sex as a statement of her
femininity. - Her identity as a woman is
tied to how many men she sleeps with.
6. She’s a thrill seeker or a risk taker. - If she’s the type who likes to live
dangerously, she’ll cheat just for the thrill
of it, or for the excitement of doing
something forbidden.

am happy we paid him back,was he not the one shouting then that nigeria is the most corrupt country in the world.en hen God catch am.

the funiest of all is the man that wears his wife g string...fvvcking weird.

report her to buhari.

EgusiSoup:
It is in the pot.

But why has you calling my name?

4 some advise of cause abi den just dey call u "egusisoup"4 nothing... anyway the soup is better now thanks for the advises,rice on mind...

EgusiSoup:
It is in the pot.

But why has you calling my name?

4 some advise of cause abi den just dey call u "egusisoup"4 nothing... anyway the soup is better now thanks for the advises,rice on mind...

where is always (username) "egusisoup" when needed?

AmiLaHoit:
For u it may taste sweeter. Try it
Just keep the pot open to eliminate any sour smell while warming.

ok thanks,hope to share with u after cooking.

AmiLaHoit:
Oh gush!!!
Am so so LMAO. Na the no light, no fuel thing cause am.?
Put the soup on fire until it begins to sing, "Halleluyah, HE reigns...".
I bet u it will be manageable .

lol yes o,na d light.normally after cooking i put it in the fridge.put will it taste the same after warming it?

JeffreyJamez:
You didn't warm it before going to church ni?....

You can risk it o.....fry palm oil and pour inside.... and warm it with the fried palm oil.... it's not guaranteed but at least e go manage you chop.. lol.

yes, i didn't warm it after taken some.thanks,am going to try ur method,

i just came back from the church went to the kitchen to prepare eba to rock with my egusi soup.i open the pot to see my expensive egusi soup foaming,i couldn't cry. i cooked it yesterday with meat and fish inside.is there any way i can revive it? any advise expecting frm the username egusisoup.

what this no fuel no light will cause hen, gmb no go fit stop am.yesterday i on my gen afta hustling 3ltrs,within 30sec i heard a knock on my door i taught it was neighbour as usual.but it was a man i don't know with his phone and charger begged his phone has been off since 3days living 10blocks frm my house.i just allowed him.smh.

simple!who get money pass,seun or linda?

it will be very hard seeing an ambicious educated person(yorubas)fighting with a joyless hopeless illetrates(hausas).