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were it to be a sin i trust the bible would have adequately mentioned it. remember the jews of the new testament trying to yoke the converted gentiles with the law of moses. it is worse when the sin coiner is a religious head. toothpaste is unnatural

ndubuisipaul1 i believe the question should have been why not? as fellow kids bath time is play time so why not be carefree with your significant other. it is a 'here i am hon, take a good look at me' time. fairy godmother family planning dey o.

show a lot more happiness within you and you would notice that when you change the way you look at something over time that thing begins to change. your hubby is drawn to happiness and sadness or nagging repels him. you can control the flow. cheers.

@crystalgem, i feel what hubby is saying is 'i have my circle of happiness, don't infect it with jealousy or hatred if you wish to join in else you can create yours elsewhere'. saying you are free to do as you like so you don't chase his friends away

bolof2010:
Wow...Thanks so much for the encouragement

you're welcome ma'am.

just saw godmother's signature: what you see in others exists in you.

pcguru1:
Someone who cheats is more likely to be suspicious of his wife cheating. So what are the evidences you have against your wife. Or are you scared about something you see in you.

the bolded is so true.

abbeyty:
is bail not free again ?

it is but that 50k is the amount the one who takes the bail of the accused has to pay should the accused disappear. the money is recovered by the owner after final judgement.

glad to reply with respect to that. smile young woman, smile. Wishing you well - Teemy

achievable during romp time (or how do you think sister delilah got bro samson even when it was obvious what she was after). i hope somehow i have answered you but in case i was off the mark with my assumptions do drop the facts and i would be ...

i hope you have a nanny because once the screws get loosened you guys would be on a wave unlike any you've ever seen before. confession of sins would happen and new trust would awaken. avoid conflicts always and if an issue arises an easy yes is ...

forgive him and with time let him make his decision. if you meet this other hypothetical lady befriend her and lovingly talk to her and let her tell you hubby's complaints so you can work on them. encourage her to have another - seriously no fights

lesser than the kids your new attitude would convince him that you are his. one thing though and this should not come as a shock, he could have found solace in another's arms while he had his meltdown. do not be angry if this is so but rather

you work up the ladder starting with slight touchings then being in one another's arms doing nothing but just enjoying the presence and then to heavy petting and smoochings. all gradually. should in case you had relegated him in the past as being ...

tell him you are sorry for downplaying his hobbies in the past and you would do so no more. you would however appreciate him spending time with you when he is less busy. over time you would notice him even reducing his alone time to be with you as...

the distance is sign enough that something is amiss. now if you can resolve hubby not wanting to be in the same area as you then every other domino falls in place. trying now to force yourself to like his likes might be counterproductive but do this

you don't have a sex problem with hubby but rather a basic communication problem. sex is the height of how close you want to be with someone you admire. from touch to kissing to caressing to penetrating one another. if we could go in deeper we would.

second being you condemned his likes critically in the past and he felt the need not to be near your to hear them. say does he play video games and you loath it believing it is for kids. somehow it seems he is subconsciously drawing away from you.

@Dadasamuel08 i now get you. first possibility - did you guys have a fight related to sex in the past such that it seemed to him that you just used him as a child making dispenser and had no time thereafter for his need requests with excuses?

Billyonaire:
All these courts, its like their job is fine people. What if he is actually innocent ?

case is yet to be concluded. the bail set was to allow him to go home and reappear in court in january.

the funny thing might be he does not want to disturb you while you are worrying yourself upandan over what is no issue at all hence my saying you should first build up your verbal communication and not let guesses rule the day. go rock girl!

also who says the rule is that the man must be the crixus of capua should always demand first. even if his libido is lower and you feel the need for some gidi gidi time with your own legally married hubby, grab him and let your bodies do the talking.

hello dadasamuel08, i feel the main purpose of sex in intimacy has been missed here which is communication-of the bodies. verbal-communication betwix you two seems to be low from your guesses of 'is he?', 'i don't know if ...'. so, talk to him first.

no difference to taking her to the edge of a cliff and asking 'babe will you marry me?'.

on and on i could keep on ranting but as similar to what minister amechi said the status quo would continue unless people really complain. i have noticed those that need help don't want the help when it is offered. God bless nigeria.

intelligent governance is what is needed now and not money governance but the average nigerian does not see beyond his stomach and monthly salary. excess civil servants should be outsourced to private companies and govt paid consultancy fees.

the current administration might end up expanding the situation with it's appetite to get spendable cash at hand. by now i would expect new contracts to be on public-private-partnerships and the contractors would recoup their expenditure that way.

it is just not a matter of who won the elections as facts remain that we spent the earnings of high oil prices and even our appetite made us borrow more. now it's time to foot the bill. even former oyo gov akala is glad he lost the elections.

with more people losing their jobs and those with money stringent with it, the best bet of even new graduates is look for jobs from foreign markets. anyone can make use of the internet now at cheaper prices. that is just one of possible solutions.

the thing is unless determined steps are put in place these bad predictions and worse would happen. this is not the time to place children of politicians in sensitive positions else it only shows we have not learnt our lessons by repeating history.

funny enough in a december 2014 post i said almost similar to cramjones' theory of a looming recession which i had been expecting since 2012. true the statistics don't lie. just as the agric minister warned about rice prices which led to planting.

take note that the restriction is to have people not hold dollar cash at hand for more than 30 days.