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 Education › Re: Should I Travel To UK For Msc Or Start A Business In Nigeria? by teemy(m): 12:13pm On Feb 09 |
@Naya261, if unsure about what to do with your funds and are afraid of burning through it, try Treasury Bills. That way, you get 15% yearly returns with your initial capital still secure. With time, you will get what you feel like doing with other funds you have while the future is secured. If you decide to compound and return the interest back in, in 10 years, your funds would be 4 times the starting capital. You can keep doing this as a retirement fund. Contact your bank on how to set it up. SOme have it on their apps. Wishing you well - Teemy 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Married And Later Divorced, Please Share Your Experience by teemy(m): 8:32pm On Jan 31 |
As someone who has gone through that phase, I will make a drop on the topic. Ensure you guys are one another's best friend and confidant. Once the other starts taking advise from outsiders over what you both generally agree on, weeds are being sown. It might first start with good and valid advise and then the manipulation starts. This is quickly followed by challenges over what people said. Immediately you notice this, sit your partner down and talk heart to heart. If you notice the pattern repeat itself with the same advisor involved, then you have a problem. You either talk to the advisor directly (a wise one would pull back while one with an agenda would double down) or get ready to emotionally lose the one you love but takes an outsider's words as constitution over your relationship. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by teemy(m): 7:53pm On Jan 31 |
budaatum:To the first boldened, it would be odd. And the Second, good that we are on the same point. Once the law becomes the creepy voice in the ears that spoils relationships, people start considering it and with that, what should have been something of love and respect turns to insecurities and distrust. |
| Romance › Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by teemy(m): 5:03pm On Jan 31 |
budaatum:But the doctrine of consent says otherwise. Watch the tea video. You shouldn't force tea on a sleeping person. How you guys live now is the ideal way of things but following what consent goes by, you're graping him each and every time you pounce on him on those mornings. How many times now?  What might be fun now might be used in court later by an unhappy partner along the line. That's just how stretched it can be when they say being married should not give you an expectation of sexual intimacy. There are already laws that tackle marital grape. Telling people not to expect the norm would create frictions that someone someday might bank on to hurt the person they once swore to love and care for. |
| Romance › Re: France Moves To Abolish Concept Of Marital Duty To Have Sex by teemy(m): 2:25pm On Jan 31 |
budaatum: budaatum:Holla, it's quite a bliss that you're with a Significant Other that you both understand yourselves and still get jiggy at your current age.  However, understand that getting sexual with him without a prior notification plus consent counts as rape. Ironfaceman:Let that sink in a bit. While you have an understanding SO at the moment, a future friction between you guys could have him listing all those times you thought were intimate and mutual as an abuse of his physical body because you never asked and he never coherently said yes. Understand that perfect obedience to some laws would have many more infracting if held to full standards. Now, I'm not any advocate for those forcing their SOs just to cure their own konji, that's not allowed. Just because I say "I do" does not give you the right to tackle me down and do as you wish to my body despite my clear expression to not wanting to. The grouse I have is that it would be used to deprive those that wish to have a divorce from doing so as they do not wish to rape their partners and as well do not want to live in a sexless union. For men, the expectation of conjugals is what has made them desire marriage or be with a partner in a romantic union. Remove sex and what I can tell you this as a man that I am is that less that 20% of relationships would remain if the expectation of sex is removed. This will affect current marriages and the future of marriage as a whole. I'll give you an instance of how it can be misused. This is even Nigeria I will be using as an example. After our first child, my then court married wife (now ex) told me that since I did not do traditional wedding, no more sex. I said "No problem". Thank God for Vaseline Crew, I survived without issues. Three weeks later in the middle of the night, she woke me up and said "Let's have sex". I consented, no issues with me as I knew i was obligated to her despite her abusing it on her own. (Childbirth was not an issue here as she was even the one that got people to talk on her behalf before I consented to us having a second child. Neither was my performance on low par. I have to say this part before someone claims probably child stress or I don't know how to treat a woman in da other room). Today, we are divorced and one thing I came out with was that, all I got in marriage could equally be gotten outside marriage. All further relationships I had afterwards had a no marriage expectation discussion ahead. People change after the title of Mr and Mrs kicks in and I was not ready to repeat the same dramas. Marriage is a wonderful thing and if people now have the constitutional rights to hoard the Coochie or the D, it would become less and less of what it is expected to represent in the society and the family units begins to crumble. Even young men are encouraged to be responsible and get married so they don't become nuisances chasing every girl in skirts but rather have their own THE ONE. For those in France, let the status quo be. Whomever is not ready to do the do should not inhale a whiff of that sanctity called marriage and the expectations that come with it. Wishing you well - Teemy |
| Politics › Re: Critic Questions FG's Preference For French Tax Experts Over Local Firms (Video) by teemy(m): 12:01pm On Dec 22, 2025 |
However, if the agreement is meant as a way to ingraine an effective tax system into our system and then transfer back to nigeria after a period of training of our Tax officials, then it is a great idea. I am particularly concerned that we don't enter into an agreement that would cost us being sued and have to pay damages just to get out of it. |
| Business › Re: Dangote And Otedola's Mobile Phones Hacked by teemy(m): 4:17pm On Nov 19, 2025 |
Mabuggi88:Hint. Would someone who could use grammar like Elucidate not know what spyware is?  1 Like |
| Family › Re: Woman Shares How She Handled A 7yr Old Boy And His Mum After He Touched Her Boob by teemy(m): 4:54pm On Oct 23, 2025 |
Fountainofyouth:Exactly! I feel the same effort by mothers should be made towards the boy child as regards domestic violence in relationships so that the next generation of men would be apaled to even hear of a man beating a womam in past times. We know mothers do more of nurturing kids which surprises me that men still grow up raising their hands against the one they are meant to protect. Some MILs actually support this violence against their son's wife. |
| Properties › Re: What Is Your Worse Experience With A Wicked Landlord by teemy(m): 6:58pm On Jun 03, 2025 |
Whobedatte:When rent expires, tenant should move out or renew rent. There is no extension. 12 months is 12 months. The concept of 6 months quit notice applies to non-owing tenants so that it gives them enough time to seek a new place. If their rent expires before the 6 months period, they will have to pay for the extra months used. Afterall, if their rent extends the 6 months period and they move out, the landlord would have to balance them the unused months. Housing is not free. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: Victor Boniface Reacts As 15-Year-Old Sells His Gifted Boots For $100 by teemy(m): 5:00pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
He could have sold it for more. 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: China Sentences Woman To 17 Years For Teaching Islam To Her Kids And A Neighbor by teemy(m): 10:33am On Jan 15, 2025 |
SIRTee15:Not aware but such should not be applied in imprisoning kids. For me, its not as much about the mother that should know better than as for the kids in this case. At the end, it would just make it as if you can't even raise your own kids which is draconian. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: China Sentences Woman To 17 Years For Teaching Islam To Her Kids And A Neighbor by teemy(m): 1:13pm On Jan 14, 2025 |
I wouldn't want to care about what laws in this case as I see no sense in imprisoning underage children for whatever crime their mother might have committed. However, a secondary ask about Uyghur Muslims show that their incaceration news is western propaganda. Even Uyghurs on Youtube comments say so. So, it is best to verify the news source. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Properties › Re: It Is Unlawful And Illegal For A Landlord To Unilaterally Increase Rent. by teemy(m): 6:48pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Softmirror:And even that one is to be paid for. People have the false notion that they get the period for free. |
| Properties › Re: It Is Unlawful And Illegal For A Landlord To Unilaterally Increase Rent. by teemy(m): 7:59am On Jan 05, 2025 |
Softmirror:On rent increment, it is 3 months prior notice |
| Crime › Re: Hospital Staff Caught Stealing Drugs & Selling Them At His Wife Shop (Pics/Vid) by teemy(m): 2:42pm On Sep 16, 2024 |
madridguy:Preventing such could be why the nairalander of a few days ago was asked to sign a Conflict of Interest by his company. |
| Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts / Discussions: Season 24 by teemy(m): 10:07pm On Jul 28, 2024 |
Menemonic:NIMC NIN app. Thanks in advance |
| Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts / Discussions: Season 24 by teemy(m): 6:30pm On Jul 27, 2024 |
Menemonic:I have been having issues with the facial recongnition. Not successful after multiple attempts. Any trick to this? |
| Politics › Re: We Cannot Withdraw From A Protest We Didn't Organize -NLC by teemy(m): 1:51pm On Jul 24, 2024*. Modified: 2:33pm On Jul 24, 2024 |
One thing obvious about the August protest is that it won't end well. For some, the definition of protest means riot and with hunger in the land, looting and violence will occur. That's why some have started dissociating themselves from being the organizers. All advice and negotiations should be utilized to discourage people from engaging in it. 2 Likes |
| Business › Re: Tapswap Adjourns Token Allocation Date Indefinitely by teemy(m): 9:12pm On Jun 19, 2024 |
From a marketing side of things, I would say that since Hamster is Launching a week ahead of them, it would be safer not to launch too close to Hamster's Launch so that if Hamster messes up by giving a ridiculous payout, they won't get canceled nor lose Tappers' attention. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Politics › Re: World Bank Doubts CBN’s Ability To Curb Inflation Employing Rate Hikes by teemy(m): 9:02pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
2023, Nigeria imports from USA was $2.6b. China Nigeria trade was $23b Common sense says that's 10 times trade with USA. Why do we still pay mostly in dollars? If we are serious, we should activate the Yuan Swap deal and that will reduce the pressure on the USD and bring down the dollar exchange rate. Let's think and act Nigeria first. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by teemy(m): 3:42pm On May 09, 2024 |
JB0707:JB0707, do you own any property? Let me help you, the answer is NO! No buts as the documents show otherwise. You can't make claims for refund or ownership if you've got no receipt. Hubby knows this and yet decides to do as he wishes. Even if he had used a third party like his brother to make purchases, adjusting should not be an issue setting the records straight. You could either continue investing together and he corrects the mistake or he simply buys you out. I have an assumption from your writing that he probably owns the lion's share of the investments. However, if he still delays, you could have a lawyer draft out the listed holdings and state each person's percentage on each. Get this signed and witnessed as well as notarized. This should be a fast process while you still press on the renaming. If he would not do a simple step as affirming with his signature that you own part of the investments or tries to guilt trip you, simply know that a bigger scheme is in play there. Everyone dies in the end. However, receipts are means for the living in laying claim to anything. It might not be a family you would contend with. Even the Government and Omo Onile are potential contenders. However, this whole thing is sticky and tricky. While you might be termed wanting to put a strain on your marriage, hubby too risked that. He should be protecting both you and the kids by putting things right. So, don't feel guilt-tripped while claiming what is yours. I pray for you the wisdom to make this happen. Going forward, all investments should be checked and cross-checked by you in the future. Wishing you well - Teemy P.S I'm hearing a rumour about late actor Junior Pope, wife, family and properties. Not sure of the authenticity but wisdom is profitable to direct. Better play safe than settle issues later on 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Business › Re: What Do You Think Should Be Done To Appreciate Naira ? by teemy(m): 2:45pm On May 09, 2024 |
Simple, for immediate effect, Complete the Yuan Swap Deal. We import a lot from China. Why keep paying Chinese Sellers in dollars when there is an alternative? The lower the dollar demand, the lower the price. Also, while using Nigeria as a clearing house for Africa, other African Countries that want to use the Yuan through us will first buy our Naira thereby giving our own currency more value. For the long run, encourage massive exportation of goods and services. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Politics › Re: Benue Communities - Konshisha, Imankodi Clash: Propertie Burnt, People Missing by teemy(m): 6:01pm On May 08, 2024 |
It's about time the federal government set up and run a committee that will settle all land disputes all over the country and make final decisions on who owns where. Any lingering ones should go to court and a final judgment should put an end to all land squabbles. Enough is enough. |
| Politics › Re: 14 Years After Yar’adua’s Death: Nigeria Would’ve Been Much Better, Says Aide by teemy(m): 11:24am On May 05, 2024 |
The President Nigeria never had. It seems the good ones go away too early. |
| Politics › Re: What Would Africa Be Like Post Apocalyptic WW3 by teemy(op): 1:56pm On Apr 05, 2024 |
Stevenson1:Between then and now, seems those Francophone countries have borrowed themselves brain. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: US Secretary Of State Blinken Says Ukraine Will Be NATO Member by teemy(m): 1:38pm On Apr 05, 2024*. Modified: 2:00pm On Apr 05, 2024 |
GreenCovering:This is NATO admitting that Ukraine weakened Russia for them without a cost of their own personnel lives. With Ukraine bombing Russian Warships and Oil Refineries, they are using Ukraine attacks to weaken the ability of Russia to win a war. Imagine when there is no ready fuel for your war vehicles and Russian Ships that could counter US Fleet are being decimated already ahead of a NATO invasion. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APHieZZRWpI This is Putin admitting that it cannot win a "Fight" with NATO. Obviously the next means is to go nuclear war https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jqi4_fo4OG0 France spoke too early and it seems Russia has caught on that NATO wants an actual confrontation with Russia. Imagine one of the very things that got Russia into the war is now what this Blinken is saying they will push for. Someone wants a global war and it's not Russia Check my host here What Would Africa Be Like Post Apocalyptic WW3 https://www.nairaland.com/7030219/what-africa-like-post-apocalyptic This was is essentially NATO's War https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzgPJeYZaOU 1 Like 1 Share |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: US Secretary Of State Blinken Says Ukraine Will Be NATO Member by teemy(m): 9:37am On Apr 05, 2024 |
This is technically a declaration of WW3. Worth planning ahead for because it will reach everybody. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Tell Mohbad's Dad To Get A Court Order For A DNA To Be Done - Wunmi by teemy(m): 11:54am On Mar 29, 2024 |
athaliya:At this point, unless they have a contrary DNA test, evryone should stop harassing the woman. 1 Like |
| Nairaland General › Re: Is It Too Late To Know How To Do This As A Young Man Like Me? by teemy(m): 10:55am On Mar 09, 2024*. Modified: 12:03pm On Mar 09, 2024 |
@Drella, Look at it from the aspect of what you yourself have brought to the table to share as info with these guys. It's a transaction and so far, they don't share with you because you also are yet to share with them. That is why the aspect of them asking you for a financial 'share'. The main key there is information. Do your own research on the topics they know so well of. YouTube and online blogs abound. Pay the cost of excellence, be it by time or money. As a matter of fact, if you were freely and easily given, you would never appreciate and this is a practical fact I experienced while trying to 'help' people. One other deal you could do is offer them a fixed 20% of your withdrawals for the first three months. This ensures they are committed to your success and you too should not laze around. Personally, I have a feeling to go harder on you to understand that these juicy good things don't come cheap or easy but let me just leave it at that. Wishing you well - Teemy 1 Like 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Enugu Re-run: No Policeman Or Soldier Snatched Ballot Box - Police by teemy(m): 3:28pm On Feb 04, 2024 |
If the plan was to steal the box, the DPO would not have taken it back into the hall. The camera guy was just trying to create unrest. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: We Are Ready For 'negotiation' With Mali, Burkina Faso & Niger - ECOWAS by teemy(m): 8:36pm On Jan 28, 2024 |
The better choice. Anything that will remove the fear of war in the region is better o. teemy: |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Niger, Mali And Burkina Faso Withdraw From ECOWAS by teemy(m): 7:49pm On Jan 28, 2024 |
HORLADY:The risk of this is that they could declare war with any of the shoreline countries that offends them. Possibly a gameplan in play already. With West Africa divided, WW3 might become a reality with Russia and Eastern nations against the Western world. This should not be taken with levity. We had better start negotiating for a united region again. |
