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David claims to have this and that. If he can afford it for his wife, why can't he afford the rent for her or simply buy her a house? In as much as I'm happy he's married to the love of his life, in fact I'm living for their love story. But then, he's a 30GB, he should show working n stop being a dead beat dad. He dragged a woman who gave birth to ur first child during his celebration period which was her most vulnerable period cos she lost and he expects her not to fight back. Walahi I blame the Yoruba culture. In my culture, he's just a sperm donor and the kid won't bear his surname. After all, there's nothing to fight for again. All properties will belong to his kids and his legal wife. Make Sophia change surname, I wan check something

normally I nor dey advise person who dey in love, APC supporters and rich men.
But baba dey see RED SEA, he still dey seek advice. Try dey advise yourself sir. You are just an option to her, you are not her dream man or priority.

0001Lagos:
Why the mad rush for Yoruba super rich guys marrying Igbo girls over Yoruba girls

Wow

Your Yoruba girl wey Davido first fall in love with, you know see how she scatter am? Stop being tribal when it comes to love. Will you be living with them? Doesn't their happiness count? Abeg make una rest.

Ukafor:
From the look on her eye she is not happy, it is worst that she can't even hide it from the camera.... It all about the money, money 70% love 30%

Chai why are you doing this? Did you watch the video at all? She is absolutely happy. And if it's about money, why is it wrong for her to want it? If you had a daughter you would want her to have the finest things of life which includes marrying a provider man . So y is it wrong for her to want them also?
Just wish them well and move on. It's important to rejoice with people or keep your negative thoughts to yourself. Try dey Happy For people. E nor hard.

Hml. Wishing you a blissful lifetime together forever. I'm so happy for her. She's chosen a wonderful partner for her children. Her children's children will thank her for giving them a good head start in life. This is every woman's dream; a protector and a provider man. At least that's the sole thing God said men should do towards their woman. God bless her womb to bring in more children to the world and teach and train them in the right part. As right now, I present to you the most beautiful bride on earth until her wedding ceremony is over. This is your week. Shine on star.

Daejumong:
She was gorgeous and had a hot body, she was the favourite of her hubby yet she didn’t last in marriage! It appears beauty is not enough!

Rachel was beautiful in face and body( Gen 29:17). Her physical appearance swept Jacob off his feet and he worked 14yrs to have her as wife!

She was also a hardworking lady, a shepherdess(Gen 29:9). Jacob loved her work ethics.

Rachel however had some flaws which probably because of her looks were overlooked by Jacob!

1- Stealing and Idolatry
Gen 31: 19 When Laban had gone to shear his sheep, Rachel stole her father’s household gods.

2- Lying and deceit
Gen 31:34,35
34 Now Rachel had taken the household gods and put them inside her camel’s saddle and was sitting on them. Laban searched through everything in the tent but found nothing.
35 Rachel said to her father, “Don’t be angry, my lord, that I cannot stand up in your presence; I’m having my period.” So he searched but could not find the household gods.

3- Jealousy
Gen 30:1 When Rachel saw that she was not bearing Jacob any children, she became jealous of her sister.

4- Unhealthy Competition with her Sister
Gen 30:7 Rachel’s servant Bilhah conceived again and bore Jacob a second son.
8 Then Rachel said, “I have had a great struggle with my sister, and I have won.” So she named him Naphtali.

5- Mental health struggles/Desperation
Gen 30:1. So she said to Jacob, “Give me children, or I’ll die!”

Rachel was an uncommon beauty but had her flaws just like all of us. She sadly died after the birth of her second son Benjamin! She sadly did not live long enough to enjoy her marriage! It was devastating for Jacob as well!

Jacob unknowingly cursed Rachel to death when Laban pursued and asked about his stolen gods
Gen 31:31,32
31 Jacob answered Laban, “I was afraid, because I thought you would take your daughters away from me by force. 32 But if you find anyone who has your gods, that person shall not live. ……Now Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen the gods.

Leah who was not favoured initially eventually became the number one and gave Jacob six sons and a daughter!

Prov 31:30
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Hope you added that it was God that closed her womb. Wasn't that partiality?

Shikena:
I don give up on lecturing them because they are mostly lowlifes and losers. See a grown woman with all parts of her body fully functional, waking up thinking the best thing for her to do is carry placard looking for husband? Ask them, they tell you they are seeking happiness and fulfillment then you wonder how many women in her lineage or even on her street today have found real, not pretense, happiness and fulfillment through marriage.

Most of them seek happiness in husband but all they will eventually find is endurance, perseverance, and resilience. Why not just find your personal passion in life and pursue it aggressively with endurance, perseverance and resilience and let's find out if a real man with similar focus won't locate you in the process.

I think some women have got self esteem problem. They live life with the them say them say. Life is so beautiful and there are a million things to do aside marriage. Self esteem is the best gift a parent can give their girl child. If she knows her worth, more than half of her problems are solved. That lady is carrying placard and is begging one man to come and make her risk her life to continuing his LEGACY by bearing kids. She begging a man to come and stress her and turn her into his personal chef, nanny, househelp, sexmate, etc. if he's the beating type, she's his personal punching bag. At that age that she'd be living her best life, she's decided to settle for the dream of marriage.
Parents should teach their girl child how to live life on their terms. If she wasn't taught that marriage is her end product, she would have been making a beautiful name and a beautiful life for herself by now.

Iamblessed85:
Is it really perspective or is it conditioning. If it’s the latter then sadly, they’ve been robbed of the right to think freely

Walahi it's conditioning o. And I think they've truly been robbed the right to think freely. Life is so beautiful. I just keep wondering why some people will just decide to limit themselves. You can enjoy life alone, with a partner, even with commitment. You don't need a paper or the world to acknowledge that you got commitment. Just be committed to your happiness and that's all that matters. There's no rule book that says when you wear the ring and people gather, then it'll be happily ever after. Life is deeper than a sect of society's conditioning.

some people dey run commot, some wan enter. The day ladies understand that being a woman is more than putting their lives at risk and bearing kids, that day they'll begin to live freely. All some people think about is leaving a legacy. Sometimes that legacy may curse you for bringing them into this world. Dunno y a woman will not dream big dreams like traveling round the world. Anyway, it's perspective and I respect that people have the right to view the world differently. I hope she finds happiness in the end.

Your mind can trick you. Only if you understand that everything happens in the mind.
If you ask me, don't go ahead with the marriage cos your mind has scattered everything with fear. All you fear will come to pass. There's no point putting that lady in the misery you are creating with your mind and energy already.

By pulling house of Yahoo boys, you mean politicians ko? Cos these are the real Yahoo boys.

The cane wey Wike use flog Amaechi, and Gej wife, them don use am flog am back.

My hometown that year. Been a while I visited Brass Island o. Twon and Okpoama. Na Nembe I dey quick enter for Dec cos of the road. I miss my grandma. Used to visit her when she was alive.
Was thinking this is old news cos it happened in 2015 or so n I was in town then. Except.....

The kind of thinking leaders we have is equal or a reflection of our economy.
How person go open mouth wahhhh and say song go stop banditry. He didn't consider actions rather.

Abagworo:
Just like Tomboy among girls there maybe Jerrygirls among boys but it doesn't mean being homo. I've dated a tomboy and she was as feminine biologically and mentally as every lady out there but her appearance, fashion and carriage gives a boyish outlook.

Sir, what if she was bisexual? I had a tomboy friend in school that played football and she was bisexual. Her fiance didn't know. But we knew cos she was my neighbor and I saw things

Femininity and masculinity is in both male and female. You see women becoming providers and protectors, playing the masculine role sometimes. You see men's emotional side is their feminine side. Even lazy men or weak men, that's their feminine side too. It's just that by nature, some people own are quite overwhelming.
That's why you have gay people. It's natural imo.

Mrkindness:
More strength to the Iswap guys, please they should kill more army officers.
You will never hear the terrorist group called army invade the villages and burnt down their markets.

Your name is opposite of your words. Too bad.

The average Igbo man or woman loves to play the blame game or the victim. Everyone has moved on but they never will. Same thing they are doing in Nigeria. wailers

I laugh when people say it's only one vote Wike has and he can't tell the people who to vote. Welcome to SS. Don't underestimate politicians from SS. People from Bayelsa can tell that Nembe and Brass are APC strong hold. In the last election, anybody not voting for APC wasn't allowed to come outside. My aunts and uncles couldn't cast their votes. As for me, if I observe the unit I'm voting in Abj and they're acting like my community in Bayelsa, I'll just jejely go back home and sleep.

most times it's best to play along to avoid questions like this. People ask as though you've had a probably terrible situation as a christian before you decided to become an atheist. As for me, I'm neither a christian or Muslim or atheist or traditional. I practice new thought movements and to save plenty questions, I just say I'm a christian, so that everybody go rest. As if it's a crime to discover yourself and disconnect yourself from the pattern that's been laid down.

thesicilian:
What made you become an atheist

Heaven is a state of consciousness. It's in the present. It's not located anywhere. It's means a state of pure Bliss. It's the opposite of hell. It's a state of consciousness too. And it's all happening right now. Everything is in the present.

This matter again Thought it died a natural death. Abegy shift let's focus on serious things. Use your PVC wisely. Protest doesn't work in Nigeria.

I hear you. Come sit down for house make other people go.

God bless you man. May our destiny helper locate us in the most miraculous manner. Amin.

good for all of them.

007Marvel:
Please anyone is piggyvest legit? How does it work, I know it's unrelated but I need your answers and experience with piggyvest

It is legit. It's just a form of savings. Like a mini bank with a working customer care from Mondays to Fridays.

ferhyntorlah:
Your constituency na better community oh.

Abeg which constituency be that?

Nembe/Ogbia/Brass. Senator Ben Bruce did only four years. So as others. It rotates.

even PMB see it as retirement. Plus adding it to his CV for his next life. . Less I forget to add that the Senate is also retirement home for most greedy politicians. Thank God my constituency does rotation. Nobody seats there more than four years.

Spirit reincarnate. Your later part of life is more important than your earlier part of life.