₦airaland Forum

No body is pointing to the fact that op is a christian and the woman and are child are Muslims. Another lesson to those who put love above their religion. When kids start coming, shitz sometimes get crazy, partners become greedy. It takes the Grace of God to get it right at this point.
Also sir, you didn't see the need to find your child while you can. Now that he's a grown ass man, probably married with his own family, you na want to shook head. As as how? Like what do you want him to do?
Lastly for those that will always say, he'll find his father. Over to you. Imo, always get involved in your child's life. If Op had fought a good fight a long time ago, he would have made headsway by now.

People saying the average Nigeria girl doesn't bring anything to spice the relationship bla bla bla. Are you saying that people are the reason for your happiness or sadness? Mehn if people are, then you are in deep shitz.
Op has a p. Stay away from relationship till you find out that the thing that makes you discontinue relationship half way has stopped.
I hate NL cos people here feel women are the reasons for your misery. Keep on being miserable and blame the female for it.
Nonsense. Another stupid thread to bash women for their inabilities.
Food don land for them boys.

baralatie:
Even as it is now nobody is safe unless someone takes.action?
What is the gaurantee that both the fiance and the cheating wife is not planning to eliminate the lady and the husband

Baba, that one na their own. But if I'll advice the lady as a sister or a friend that doesn't like drama. I'll say op take a bow. This is where the journey ends. Everybody go your separate ways. See no evil, tell no evil. We move. Na break up dem break up o. Na man Bleep up o. Na man leave her o. Nor b God leave her. Nor be God Bleep up. Better days are coming. Baba
Life is not hard. We humans just try to complicate matter.
Plus what the op plans to do on social media platforms is a level of toxicity on its own.

baralatie:
Who will die
The infedeloud wife or the husband or the fiance

A cheating woman is already a time bomb. I've seen these things play out again and again. Sometimes letting go isn't stupidity. It's wisdom. Gra gra not dey pay. And making decisions out of anger will surely not end well. A woman that can go miles to cheat on her husband can kill anyone who dares tarnish her image as much as the op plans. Posting it on all social media platforms is a mad damage ghan. It will end up pretty bloody for the op. It's damage beyond repair. This one is depressions plus psycho o. OP mission abort.

This one wan die. Upload it and die.
You better train your mind to be stronger than your emotions at all times.
It's wisdom to ignore and let go.
Nobody is justifying the wife or your fiance's act. But some things are not just worth the stress.

There should be a course in universities that teaches about "self-esteem" or "self-worth" cos you seem to be lacking it.

People should learn to celebrate other people's little beginnings. Our small victories count. It won't cost you nothing to encourage people and support them and not write their choices or decisions off as though you are God that knows the end from the beginning.
Op is courageous. He's chosen a path. Some people here will be waiting for a straight Visa to Europe which is a good thing but the Op has taken action and he has moved God to work on his behalf. This is Faith. May God send helpers your way Op.
There are some of us that left our parents or home town to find ourselves in another city in this same Nigeria we live in. Every purpose is for greener pastures. I know someone who went to a remote city in Nigeria in search of greener pasture. Same remote city produced his helper that got him a Job in the city of PH. Life is a mistery. It's not how far but how well. It's not how you try to navigate to safety but who's in charge of the ship your navigating.
Finally we should learn to encourage, praise and bless. Sometimes people just need your kind words. People need you to pat them on the back and tell them they're doing just fine and all will be well.
God bless

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Funny enough...as this Harry Potter movie reign reach

I nor watch am

Wow!! You didn't watch it? Then You are not a real nigga.
Lol

Ilaumoh:
I think you are a big fool .. kindly tell us your mumu culture shock

Cry cry baby.
E pain am. Lol

Hudson777:
it is not like men are going after the teenage girls,just that they are naturally loosed throwing their bodies at men at will.not even after the money just be good looking and you will get them easily...they always wear revealing clothes to get attention,I swear girls in the ijaw riverine communities are literally crazy,I saw a girl of fourteen backing a kid,she doesn’t even have well grown boobs...so I think the issue is from both sides because men won’t look away when they see a willing meat....so what was your cultural shock

The last time I checked, the topic is Akwa Ibom. It's either you create a thread for the above or Shut up.
I'm sure you're a woman. Cos you've been blabbing upandan in just a single thread. But if you're a guy, then sorry boo. You're a woman trapped in a man's body. Cos men don't talk anyhow.

People must understand that everything in life is from within. Hence happiness is from within. But the problem is, people tend to find happiness from without, from people, from things and then they search in vain. When you understand this simple truth, you'll realize how powerful solitude, meditation etc are. You'll just be free from the concerns of this world.
I pray this girl finds her path. She's just stuck.

There's no point going into a marriage where you don't trust your spouse. Abeg make una scatter the marriage make everybody dey alright.
I'm not a fan of religious folks cos they always see problems where there is none.
Op I pity you cos if you do love and don't send her packing, she'll soon send you packing out of the face of this earth.
Women/men that usually say 'my pastor says' are very dangerous species

Lol. I dey laugh people wey dey give the op advice. Shishi the bae no go take. She just wants to be heard and supported to go ahead with her perceived plans. Who dey advice person wey dey in love.
Op go ahead o.
We're always hear to read another story of your consolation.

Lol
The carnal mind is enmity with God. The carnal mind judges sin from without. The carnal mind writes people off just like that.
Funny how people judge people easily. Even you that is the judge have sin big time.
Sha thank God I don't do religious shitz.

Rented crowd or not. Nigeria still has a long way to go. If people's conscience can still be bought even with the level of insecurity in that state. If people can be paid to come out and join the shenanigans. Then we really need not underestimate the number of stupid people in a large crowd. They with their stupidity are ready to sink this country into the sea way more than titanic sank.

Op please sort yourself out and leave others alone. No matter how much you try to drag them in, at the end of everything you may still have the feeling of guilt. You need to heal yourself first before you decide how to heal another person. Even the bible you read said you should first remove the log in your eyes.
The way you're going bout it seem to be like a personal vendetta. But if it's not, you can't force your opinion down on your family members. You can only pray for them to see the light. Whoever is advising you to involve your family members in your mess is misleading you. Life is per head. You can only guide them but you can't insist on the life they have chosen to live. Nature has a way of tending to all. Same way it found you.
Peace.

All I see here is a Lady whose mind is holding her in serious bondage.
Lol. Op nothing is real except you think it is.

Na so my neighbor take find male pikin that year wey send am to his early grave. The boy is a full blown cultist. The dad is dead. The girls are the family's saving Grace now. Nobody's saying you shouldn't have a male child. Male kids are good. But not this kind of desperation.

The old man was kidnapped and his son went to pay the ransom, his son was kidnapped together with the money.
My question is this, if the old man raises the money, hope he or the person that would go and pay the money won't be automatically kidnapped together with the money like previously?

While I was thinking my mom is somehow with cash, I've now heard from the op that my mom is a learner. Op your mom is my mom's very senior colleague.
I'll go and begin to manage and cherish mine like that.
I over believe this story. Don't pray to have someone that has but can't give you or someone that is continually in competition with you.

I'm not convinced.
How did he know all these names of he's not been there before?

Typical Nigeria parents. Many of them easily leave their responsibilities to children. Sometimes I wonder if their purpose of marriage and having children is so that these children can come and work for them. Instead of a parent to attend to her child, she left the care of her child to the hands of another child (18years old Dorothy). The girl was pressed. Haba. You rather focused on being spiritual.
The typical Nigeria housewives would sit back and let their children clean the house, cook their meal and serve their husband.
There's what is called EXCELLENT spirit. The ability to do rightly. I'm not talking about perfection here o. Haba. It was midnight. How do you allow an 18years and 4years old girls walk alone at midnight.
I'm so pissed at the level of carelessness and I find it irritating. Nigerians leave everything to God. They blame everyone but not themselves.
The other day I was talking to someone about their Gen and Gas almost next to each other and advising the person to create an emergency exit door at the back because they had only one door in case of fire outbreak. The person was saying God forbid and nothing like that would happen bla bla bla.
But certain things can be avoided.

Loreettaa:
Does it mean you guys weren't sexually active? Or that one of you is infertile.
Because I know 1 drop of cum is capable of impregnating a woman in her fertile window.

Baba, since you're quoting him back to back, they have two daughters. Didn't you read where he typed that also?

Jesus
Because the way Nigeria pastors and christians are going...

My family friend's daughter attended a catholic girls boarding secondary school. By second term, she was refusing to resume. In fact she purposely forgot her assignments inorder not to resume. Her parents called me to persuade her cos she acknowledges me sort off. I found out there were some girls trying to have carnal knowledge of her. And they threatened her for refusing. Had to tell her parents. They were reluctant at first trying to proffer solution on how she can avoid them bla bla bla until I screamed that she be changed to another school before she was changed o. Some parents and non chalant attitude is like 5 and 6.

According to pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, don't wave away warning signals.
The boy would have just been taken out of the school for the main time. Considering the fact that over there, gun is very accessible. He was already exhibiting tendencies of a vindictive person. Filled with hate.

He should be Killed. He took away four lives. Injured others. Haba. Death by firing squad is fair enough. Since he decided to do what psycho grown ups do.

Nigerians and papers abi degrees.
This one should go and read why A students work for C students.
Nigerians always feeling entitled because they have degrees.
The question is, do you have money making ideas or IQ? Not papers man.
What can you do to bring in more money
When you are creative, you won't cry blue murder when you see people without papers are climbing the ladder of success.
Sha lemme congratulate you before sombori misquote me.

NOETHNICITY:
I didn't say it was a Catholic church, I said it was a Catholic sch.
So I think it was a church program organised and managed by the senior students, because our deputy senior prefect then was a born again and he was the pastor of that very program.

Alright sir. I now get you.