₦airaland Forum

My dad has always said one thing and I've lived by it for as long as he's told me. He said and I quote, "anything (be it job, relationship, marriage etc) that God gives you, you won't find yourself struggling to keep".
And the signs are always there. Just let it go my dear. Some person's are saying terrible things like op must have hurt guys bla bla bla. Sometimes it's not always like that. I've seen people completely innocent.... Just gullible, feeling everyone has a heart like them.
Op it will end in praise.

I thought endSARS was during PMB? If endSARS was something worse, why are these guys still in power. Wow. I'm surprised they know how bad this government is. Neither APC nor PDP is yet an option. They've both destroyed this country beyond repair on their path. All these old men in power and the ones warming up to come into power are totally empty. If they had something to offer this country all along, it would have long showed right from when they took over power even in their youth.

Mummy's boy. I greet you

Anywhere too much Spiritual dey, RUN.

osazsky:
y i asked is dat i know the west is a beat developed like d southsouth apart from osun..that was my reason..cuz i have been to 5 western states

No state in Nigeria is developed such that you can't find a place or school like the one op posted.
Nigeria is an under developed country. Expect anything sir. I usually would appreciate or kept mute and move on.

osazsky:
Pls o which state in d west..it has to be osun..pls is there a governor there cuz i nor understand

Please sir, let's start with your state. Isn't there a governor in your state too? And why's your state not competing with heaven?
You guys sometime ask or make statements like sadist or perfectionist. Like all is well in your world.
To show a little kindness is not too much. Sometimes celebrate people's little beginnings. They may not matter to you. But it does to them.

Elianawalker:
I don't know what others think but footballers are over paid.

For christ's sake doctors, scientists deserve far better... have you paid attention to what those guys have done for our existence?


Without science we all would probably be dead from one small infection...

You as african cant even know how extremely harmful and dangerous malaria is because you have been vaccinated.

Malaria is just one... many times a simple headache could have ended your life, but a little aspirin or panadol gets you active again...

Imagine trekking from badagry to lekki, how many days walk is that? But thanks to vehicles.

The football you watch from nigeria thanks to internet and amazing camera tools...


Please let the world pay more attention to scientific geniuses... please...

If you want to make money, sell your product to you target audience. Give them something exciting that takes the worries and pains away and reliefs them.
Hospital or doctors like you mention add to the stress. Would you willingly pray to find yourself there?
Abi should the funds generated by these games be used to pay doctors or scientist who most times come up with dooms report?

Op you need to let it go and move on. Let the hate, the wrong etc go.
Nobody's interested in who's wrong between you and your mom. But you need to heal.

Wali's death is still a rumour.

There are some money things that happen in the North unreported.
I'm still very surprised that the News that a bride and passengers kidnapped on the way to Plateau state from KD since Monday is yet to be reported. My colleague actually travelled for the wedding and he confirmed it actually happened.
It is well with the North.

tensazangetsu20:
So long as you made the selfish decision to have children, you are completely responsible for them till you die. As if they are sharing high paying jobs in Nigeria.

This is definitely Op's son.
Son, please take it easy on your dad. Be responsible and contribute to the upkeep. Remember the Bible that says honor your father and mother so that your days may be long on the Earth.

Hide and do your giving in peace. I know of someone who's wife hates that he gives. Even the kids look out for their mom. So the guy gives codedly.
One instance, he was in the estate pharmacy buying drugs with his kids and added extra to the cashier while paying. She called him back and his response was "that's yours. Are you sure that's not yours" . The lady knew almost immediately. I've witnessed first hand too. And the guy's a pastor and a bank manager. I'm sure he's learnt to understand and deal wisely with that.
Since you af married her already. Na to manage am be that since she's not all that terrible.
She may be putting your best interest at hand out of ignorance. She doesn't know that he that scattereth according to the laws of nature tends to plenty. And he that withholds turns to nothing.

Life is a mystery. It has nothing to do with whether the boys did wrong or right. When God decides to open your case file for blessing, even the stupid things you do get you uplifted. In deed by strength/ good works shall no man prevail.

Lies
The way NL war analysts are carrying this propaganda eh, one can't help but wonder if the war is going on in their backyard.
I've learnt during apc and pdp election not to trust online news.
Putin is bigger than that abeg. Y'all should let the man rest. He's not the reason for your frustration.

Your mind is deceving you. All you have to do is to change the way you look at things and when you do that, the things you look at changes.
Everything you're going through right now begins and ends with the mind. Right now you're letting your mind control you. You're influenced by the without. Seek the within. Stand on the mind and pilot it to where you want to go.
For while we look not at the things which are seen.
Funny enough, this world is a world of Maya(illusion). It's not real.
It'll be a big waste of time going to seek solution from the without.

Any nation supporting Russia is on a good course. For those of you praying for their down fall, yours will come faster than you're envisaging for a nation which has refused to be enslaved to the US.
My own is, it seems BH have gone AWOL since this whole Russia-Ukraine saga. Them don see fight wey pass their kindergarten play. Their matter na later.

Yea. This is the idea. Turn Ukraine into the latest Afghanistan. Pretend to support with finance. Eat From the spoil.
Nothing is absolutely free; even in freetown.
Why didn't they start the war in their own country.

Like say Putin send them. Y'all think the nigga is a fool ba? He weighed his options very well before invading Ukraine. He knows it's for the greater good. He saw the empty threat abi sanctions coming. That's what leadership is all about. Making decisions knowing there may be severe consequences. You want them to shiver so the US can use them to shine. Right now, the world knows that Putin is a mad man, them go begin dey calm down for where him dey.
Man mustn't live by bread alone. There are some fight best taken.
Those people saying China is abstaining dey find country head to use knack ground. Like US is joining Ukraine in the fight ba? With the kind energy they used in pushing Ukraine to her fall, one would believe US soldiers are even in Ukraine right now helping out. Na sanctions them dey dish. Be dishing sanctions and blaming Putin until Ukraine is wiped out and turned into Libya, Syria or Afghanistan.
May God help us to make decisions on our own without external influence and without enemies disguising as friends.

Wow. I read in another post where someone said US can't go into war with Russia because Ukraine hasn't joined NATO officially.
Wow. May God not let us to be swift to join our enemy's group and get caught in the net alone.
Indeed wisdom is profitable to direct.

This could have been easily avoided. Don't allow people push you into a fight that's not yours. Now where's the US when Ukraine needs them? No where.
This is what happens in our everyday life. People fighting battles that's actually not their from the onset.
May God grant us wisdom to deal wisely with men.

God take charge of both nations.
If war breaks out, the rich will japa out of both nations. But the masses will suffer for conflicts created by those who have private jets to japa.

manlawal:
Nobody can get full scores In drawing and no one get zero in drawing atleast he draw something. I think you need to learn how to evaluate students

I thought I was the only one that saw it.
Very anyhow upcoming teacher. Creative art isn't like maths or quantitative that you can get full scores. And the writeups on the sheet shows how terrible the teacher is. You're serving your father land just to mock at innocent students you ought to mentor and see as your younger ones.

Obviously. In fact it's biblical. Even your mom loves her husband more than you. Your dad loves his wife (your mom) more than his own mom(your grandma).
But coming online to disturb cyberspace is what I don't get.
Las las. Mothers are always loved.

Adoption isn't for the faint hearted o. You can't adopt a child and attach condition to it o.

And the Op asking this question is supposed to be a religious or spiritual person o?
Abeg wetin them dey teach for that una religious center sef? Cos somethings aren't to be up for discussion.
Abi nor b God adopt you too? He kick you away ne?
Wahala for we wey nor dey go church but get human empathy o. Walahi.
With questions and answers like this, you can tell the mind of an average black man. That's why you read in the news how they are brutal towards their helps. Even help dey like adopted pikin. The only difference is no paper work and therefore no will. They don't have good plans for anyone not sharing the same blood with them. Terrible people everywhere.
I've had cousins stayed with us that people didn't know my mom didn't birth until their marriage.
Life nor hard o.

It's this exact format for stealing kids that police crime fighters have been showing on TV.
Some parents are naturally careless. How can you loose guard to a stranger of just a month? My neighbor didn't allow her kids come closer to me or any other tenants around until two years of staying there. And this woman is a stark illiterate o. She can't even speak proper english or pidgin. Na hausa she dey frequent.

wink2015:
He was stubborn against taken the Internationaly acceptable HIV DRUGS instead he went for local CONCORTION.


Now he died so early for his blind and stubborn ignorance.

His wife may have got infected through him.

She should go for a check.

Baba did you read the article? Can you comprehend it? Don't look down on your root. He didn't take the white man drugs didn't mean he didn't take the made in Kenya drugs. He lived for more than 30years having the virus.

You destroy them and probably their source of livelihood abi inheritance and you'll still preach Christ to them and urge them to come worship with you?
Probably end it and say "cheer up brethren, the word works"
Irony of life.
God I'm thankful I don't do church or religion.
Knowing God is different from serving God.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I think you are suffering from spiritual attacks. We Christians tend to gamble more because our religion is very permissible and habours many bad acts unlike our Muslim brothers who are guided by the tenets of Islam.

You this muslim you never tire to dey disguise? Clown like you. Be claiming what you're not. It'll catch up with you soonest.
Even Allah has rejected you first because you've rejected Him.
Op, ignore the motherf*****

Black man is very swift to blame an imaginary being for his inability to be disciplined.
Bia Op, as long as you're blaming something else, you're not ready to take the bull by the horns.
Better go and learn serious discipline.
Discipline includes the following:
1. As soon as funds get into your hands, you make sure you give them all to your wife (if she's a better manager)
2. You can put her account as your salary account and let her manage it and give you tp since you're not ready to be a responsible adult.
3. Lastly, I don't see any point in marrying a woman you can't trust with your funds as it stands that you're in this poo.
If you can do these, it's a worthy startup point.

My problem isn't only the fact that the girl is a minor. But taking away her rights to make decisions. She will probably yield in cos she doesn't want to go back to the village bla bla bla. Op, your parents have failed in teaching you morals and simpathy. You're a terrible being for conceiving such idea about such innocent creature. Someone you're suppose to guide and guard. Someone left under your care. Ogun kee you there. Nonsense and buhari.
It's your wife I pity. She should watch her girl child near you cos you may likely bring your karma on them.
The future of Mother earth is definitely in serious danger If we have more of your kind on this very planet