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CrimeRe: Should I Investigate Further Or Loose My Money by tega2luv(op): 5:59pm On Dec 12, 2020
The open mind is what I have been doing but how do I go because shes travelling and once she leaves now, I cannot suspect her anymore, since then she hasn't left the house
Kondomatic:
It's also possible your brother did it because there's someone else to suspect.

Don't accuse anyone yet, approach the case with an open mind so you don't end up accusing someone falsely.
CrimeRe: Should I Investigate Further Or Loose My Money by tega2luv(op): 5:45pm On Dec 12, 2020
My instinct tells me it's her but how do I milk the money out of her without being embarrassedat the end that shes not the one, it really painful
Tadeknkeepcalm:
As soon as you noticed you should have kept mute and informed your brother.
A similar case happened here too recently.
I was like, since we haven't seen him directly we can't just accuse him.
But my mum was really bearing the brunt and couldn't take it anymore.
She just went to the boy and said "bring my money out from where you've been keeping it"
The boy couldn't deny, he just kept mute. I was dumbfounded. I was really hoping he wasn't the one. Heck, I told her it could be a jinn. Men, I was dissapointed
CrimeRe: Should I Investigate Further Or Loose My Money by tega2luv(op): 5:43pm On Dec 12, 2020
Shes 19 years old and as for my brother am also watching him
Dididrumz:
First of all, how old is she?

I'll advise that you wait untill the exact day she's leaving, then search her properly.

but then, don't rule out Your brother too.
FamilyRe: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by tega2luv(m): 5:40pm On Dec 12, 2020
I believe the bible also said on the ground of adultry one can seek for divorce, well that's your decision to make because

CrimeShould I Investigate Further Or Loose My Money by tega2luv(op): 5:26pm On Dec 12, 2020
[b][/b]cutting long stories short,today makes it a week now since I lost my money in my own house, never for once has there been a recorded case of missing money in my house...

It goes like this!!! I live with my junior brother for a long time now and I know him so well just recently my elder brothers daughter came to live with us making us in the house 3, so since she came over she has been the one doing all the house chores..


Since the pandemic I have been saving for this yule tide season with my piggy bank save and just recently I opened it and counted the money in it and realise I have saved 80k this was a month back...


So as I was working the safe to reput it where I hide it my niece saw me with it and she had idea where I kept it, i never suspected her to be a thief so i didnt change the location of the safe, now from that time till a week ago I have also saved another 18k in it...


I happily ordered some stuff online in this jumai black friday deals to pay on delivery only for me to open my safe a day before jumia will bring my stuff I noticed the 80k I saved earlier was missing remaining the recent 18k.


I have turned my hux up and down I cant find the money and nobody including my brother and niece accepting they took it, although it is very bad to suspect someone to be a thief whereas hes not, I have lived with my brother for too long to know what he can do on the other hand i do not know much bout my niece...



Now she has told me shes travelling for the christmas to return after the new year, shes my prime suspect, she knows no one in this phc and has not gone out for once since she came, I said to myself I will check her properly to know what shes leaving my house with from her pants to her comb....


I need advise weda or not to check her properly at the gate before she leaves bcux if I check and found nothing on her, there would be embarrassment and false allegation and false suspicion...



Please my fellow Nlanders how do I search her before she leaves to avoid embarrassment..


Candid advise please

CrimeRe: Me And My House Caretaker by tega2luv(op): 6:30pm On Dec 02, 2020
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
captainking:
you dont seem like a good and credit worthy person....

you dont need to be reminded not to pay your rent...

trust me..when the man will remmeber you...you will pay all backlogs
CrimeRe: Me And My House Caretaker by tega2luv(op): 1:36pm On Nov 30, 2020
Thank you sir, packing secretly also stroke me up bcux he wont know but dont know if my conscience will allow me
Alonso80:
You should have paid when you had the money the first time. Your rent money is not something you should joke with to avoid embarrassment and stress. Now you’re owing three years and only have one year rent, I would have said you should pack out secretly lol but that would be a dishonest and cruel thing to do. But I also have a feeling the caretaker is being dishonest too as in not remitting to the landlord if not he should be aware of the discrepancies in the yearly rent. Anyway just go and pay your one year and lock up. If he says you’re owing plead with him for time
CrimeRe: Me And My House Caretaker by tega2luv(op): 11:21am On Nov 30, 2020
It is clear it gonna end in premium tears cry kiss cry kiss cry
chatinent:
Your not paying it as at when due assuming they've forgotten you is dubious.


Now when the shrugede song begins to play, be ready with your three dancers.
CrimeRe: Me And My House Caretaker by tega2luv(op): 10:46am On Nov 30, 2020
Yes I need to pay but will the man accept 1yr bcux I cannot afford the whole 3years now , e get d way things take de this period
chatinent:
Go and pay your rent.



Common sense is a free gift of nature.
CrimeMe And My House Caretaker by tega2luv(op): 10:40am On Nov 30, 2020
Dont mind the grammatical errors my fellow nairalanders

Cutting long stories short, an urgent and sensible advice is needed on this matter because am in awe with my house caretaker, for over 2years now this man has not called me or ask me for house rent even when am aware people in our compound are paying their own rent.

And to be honest with you as at this write up I do not have the fees to pay and as we are entering the new year it gonna be 3years am owing, when I had the money to pay he didnt worry me and I used it for something else now the bill is pilling up and business never de gell couple with this corona...

I dont know what to do because this man silence is disturbing me seriously and no hope of acquiring 3years house rent to pay once and I cannot call him bcux I don't know what to tell him.

My friend told me that maybe my village people are covering his eyes not to see me what if it's TRUE and eventually he eye come clear what will be my fate. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Please I want honest and serious advice as soon as possible make I no go mad because am having this feeling that this gonna end in premium tears cry cry cry

FP pls...

Christianity EtcRe: What It Truly Means To Be Born Again by tega2luv(m): 6:23pm On Nov 22, 2020
My personal take on this is that, let's learn not to judge and if you have a basic training on christianity then I believe you know the things christ forbids us from doing, weda born again or not we still commits sins unknowingly, the bible also said judgments is of the lord, help if you are at an advantage, live a peaceful life while you still draw air, and always pray for forgiveness,may God help us.
alBHAGDADI:
This is an interesting read.


Today, many people take being born again to mean different things other than what the Bible says it means.

The Bible says "...except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God."

But when some people talk about being born again, they mean someone who has repented from his sins and doesn't sin again. This is quite wrong because so many verses tell us that we are all sinners and that anyone who says he's without sin is a liar.

1 John 1:8 KJV
If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

Ecclesiastes 7:20 KJV
For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not.

As seen above, we are all sinners even when we are righteous. So, how come some people think a born again person is someone who has repented from his sins or doesn't sin? It's because they have believed the wrong gospel.

So, who is a born again person and how did he attain it? Do you remember that conversation Nicodemus had with Jesus?

John 3:3-6 KJV
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.

At this point, Nicodemus was wondering if Jesus meant that one has to enter into his mother's womb a second time to be born again.

4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.

As seen above, Jesus clearly explained the kind of birth he was talking about. He spoke of two births. One has already happened to us all, but the second needs to happen for us to have eternal life and see the Kingdom of God.

The first birth which we have all experienced is the "born of water" spoken of by Jesus. We humans were all born of water. Ever heard the phrase "a woman's water is broken"? That happens when she gives birth.

Jesus spoke of a second birth which the "born of the spirit." It is that one that needs to now happen to us for us to see the kingdom of God.

Explaining both births again, Jesus made it clear that born of water is the flesh birth which our parents had of us, while born of spirit is spirit birth.

6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

Now that we know how we can be born of the flesh or of water, which we have already experienced, how do we become born of the spirit?

We become born of the spirit by simply believing in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Saviour according to John 3:16.

John 1:12 KJV
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

As seen above, once we believe and accept Jesus, we become the sons of God who is a Spirit (God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth John 4:24).

God sent Jesus to redeem us so that we can be adopted into his family as sons just as Jesus is a Son of God.

Galatians 4:4-5 KJV
4 But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law,
5 To redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons.

Basically, our parents gave birth to us which is the first birth called born of water or flesh birth. This makes us the children of our parents. When we accept and believe in Jesus Christ, we experience the second birth which is born of spirit. This second birth makes us the children of God. This gives us the right to see the Kingdom of God our Father just as we had the right to enter our earthly father's house.

Just as we carry the DNA of our parents, we also carry something that makes us the children of God. That thing is the Holy Spirit.

What our parents gave birth to sins a lot. We sin today because we inherited a sinful nature from our parents who inherited it from Adam.

The Good News is that what God gives birth to doesn't sin. This explains why Jesus Christ never sinned. This is why we that we are his brothers and also sons of God like him never sin.

You might say, "But I saw brother B sinning the other day." Who you saw sinning is who his parents gave birth to which inherited a sinful nature. But that which God gave birth to inside of him doesn't sin.

1 John 3:9 KJV
Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.

The reason why Brother B who committed a sin yesterday is not regarded as a sinner before God is because it wasn't his spirit which has been possessed and purchased by the Holy Spirit of God that committed that sin. The sin was committed by the flesh which his parents gave birth to which is prone to sin. That's why the Bible said...

1 John 1:8 KJV
If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

Ecclesiastes 7:20 KJV
For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not.

Our parents sin, so what they give birth to will always sin. God doesn't sin, so what he gives birth to can't sin. God sent his son to save us from our sins so we won't be sinners in his eyes anymore regardless of what we do.

The key is to believe Jesus is the one to pay for your sins, which he has done already, only if you believe he has.

Thank you.
RomanceRe: For Advise On Marital & Relationships Issues by tega2luv(op): 7:43am On Nov 19, 2020
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tega2luv:
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RomanceFor Advise On Marital & Relationships Issues by tega2luv(op): 7:39am On Nov 19, 2020
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RomanceRe: RE: My Girlfriend Still Gets Help From Her Ex by tega2luv(m): 10:24am On Nov 14, 2020
She loves you although no man will be happy bout the help shes getting from her ex bcux weda u like it or not she honestly might be sleeping with this her ex or shes not but if your mind is telling you she is f***king the ex then that's it, so I advice if you cannot live with that kindly sit her down and let her go not wait till business materialise or have another side chick, at the end she will feel used and by then if she lay course on you e go catch you, satisfy your conscience man.
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by tega2luv(m): 7:00am On Nov 14, 2020
Am just reading replies and laughing my ass out
I prefer not to comment because all have been said
Jobs/VacanciesHas Anyone Truly Acquired A Job Through Online Adverts Of Jobs by tega2luv(op): 3:52pm On Oct 05, 2020
Hello Nairalanders
In Synopsis And Precision, Has Anyone Truly Acquired A Job Through Advert Seen Online Or Social Media...Am Asking Because When I Left Nysc Back Then I Got Into Online Job Search. cheesy cheesy cheesy

I Got Registered In So Many Job Seeking Websites Most Especially Jobberman undecided undecided Etc,. The Experience I Got At An Interview From One Of The Jobs I Was Interested In Actually Killed My Interest cry cry cry Cutting Long Story Short It Turned Out To Be A Scam And Were Only Interested In Eating Money I Didn't Have grin grin grin

I Wanna Hear From The Gurus And Great Fellas Of Nairaland cool cool coolWeda Or Not It Is Real For Someone To Get A Job Online Or Through Social Media Links...And Please Share Your Ideas As Well To Educate Us All.. wink wink wink

Your Advice On How To Get A Job And If Theres An Opportunity, It Will Be Highly Appreciate. kiss kiss kiss

God bless Our Great Nation NIGERIA . shocked shocked shocked

RomanceRe: Why You Should Never Tolerate A Cheating Partner by tega2luv(m): 7:26am On Oct 03, 2020
[b][/b]my candid opinion on this matter is that when cheating occurs in a faithful relationship something actually triggers it, we should be more focus on how to eradicate this issues that triggers the cheating, thing like

1. If you are not financially okay I think you shouldn't enter a very faithful relationship because when you do not have money and your partner doesn't have as well it becomes hard to be faithful because at a point in life we all meet someone far better than our partners.

2. You need a matured mind to have a faithful relationship because in the journey of love there are so many temptations and just as u and I know good things usually face several trials so your ability to put yourself together and tackle every trial as de come requires ur intelligence and mind.

3. Do well to recognise early if you guys are compatible, if he/she is sex freak or has high libido etc,and you are opposite that,trust me infidelity will surely flow.

4. Know what you want from the relationship set your target straight, if its flings or for pleasure do well to let your partner know about this, and very very important know the genetic status of your partner as early as 1week of the relationship to avoid stories like I cheated bcux we are of same wrong genotype.

With the few points that I have highlighted any normal human being should be able to avoid cheating in a relationship outside these then the person that cheats is not a human being.
HealthRe: What Is Happening To Our Food...are We Eating To Our Grave Or To Long Life by tega2luv(op): 7:06am On Jul 30, 2020
It's really not funny make God help us...these days people no longer live up to 90years, 50,60 start dying like fowls
Joyfulgal:
I meant my thought though. You are not alone. I keep wondering the why increasing cases of cancer. Imagine the chicken we consume, 2 months old birds with excess hormones injected in them.

Secondly palm wine. I love palmwine but the sellers always alter the taste with sugar. Some go as far as swearing.
HealthRe: What Is Happening To Our Food...are We Eating To Our Grave Or To Long Life by tega2luv(op): 7:15pm On Jul 29, 2020
Nor be joke oooo
Joyfulgal:
I thought though
HealthWhat Is Happening To Our Food...are We Eating To Our Grave Or To Long Life by tega2luv(op): 7:12pm On Jul 29, 2020
This is unusual for me but my dear fellow nairalanders and healthlanders, I think it's better we hear advice from our healthlanders..

My little experience in recent times is that back in the days when one consume beans he/she tends to drink alot of water through out the day but personally that urge to drink water these days has disappeared.

Am a lover of beans and my recent experience got me so worried if truly am still eating beans or eating something else, if anyone has noticed this recent occurrence you can comment to show am not the only one noticing this.

They say HEALTH is WEALTH how come our people have started feeding and selling to us chemicalized food, if they succeed in killing innocent people all In the name of making fast money, who now buys their chemical when everyone is eventually gone.

An elderly man once told me and I quote him "WHAT WE TAKE IN AS FOOD EITHER DIG US OUR EARLY GRAVE OR BUILD US TO LONG LIFE"

That man really old and strong I like be like am but am getting scared bcux all i eat these days are chemicalized foods cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry

Please share your experience with other foods too and how we can over come this endemic...over to our healthlanders
Your guidance is highly needed.

RomanceRe: The Too Much I Know About Her Previous Sex Life Is Hunting My Feelings For Her by tega2luv(m): 4:15am On Jul 24, 2020
Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all.
RomanceRe: How Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 6:26am On Jul 06, 2020
Thankz noted
Gaggi:
The best way to enjoy a relationship is when you have a life outside that relationship. Your lady is the mature one, she has other things occupying her apart from you.
Nothing is as irritating as an insecure and clingy partner. Grow up and get something doing, develop a hobby or something. You can't let your life revolve around a mere babe.
RomanceRe: How Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 6:24am On Jul 06, 2020
Nice one bro...noted
Freestainworld:
if you don't miss me, I won't miss you, if you no send me, how I wan take send you? I wanted to marry a particular girl those days, na so she dey turn turn me left and right, after she tell me say she wan hear from God if I be em husband, the annoying part, I will call and call, no answer or when she feels like, na em I kukuma meet serious babe wey value me, we need me the way I need am, today we are married, the Oda anti, na so I delete em number, block am for WhatsApp, I can not suffocate myself for no reason abeg.
RomanceRe: How Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 5:42am On Jul 06, 2020
Yeah because I couldn't sleep thinking bout where she night be now because shes not home and not taking my calls
Oluwasaeon:
05:25am Monday morning by the way
RomanceRe: How Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 5:35am On Jul 06, 2020
D day I carry that olosho...my guy enter town come lodge me naxo I call bae tire she refused picking she put her phone for do not disturb 9 my guy take pay for olosho for me so I dont sleep hotel room alone, na gist me and olosho gist till day break
Juell:
You're in a relationship and still seeing olosho?
RomanceRe: How Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 5:33am On Jul 06, 2020
Thanks mate...exactly what I have to do
bmasz:
Broda, anty no feel anything for you.

Carry your kaya go meet anoda person.

Action: no dey stay for where dem de tolerate you.
RomanceHow Do U Deal With Missing Someone That Doesnt Miss You by tega2luv(op): 5:25am On Jul 06, 2020
Please I need matured mind and advice on this, to cut long stories short...

Am a guy that wants my bae to be with me every slight chance shes got, but this present babe made it clear to me she has never been in a relationship where she see her bf everyday or everytime...

When bea is free she decides with whom to spend it with and can even go like 3 days without seeing me or coming near my hux...

And am so attached to bae because all through the lockdown bae was with me all through and I got attached now that lockdown has been lifted I hardly see her again...

The recent outburst was that she had 3good days from work and i didnt set eyes on her and she wasnt home either...when I asked bae where are you, bae will respond with you want to start again and before you no it quarel

Painful part bae decides when she comes to my hux and leave..

I had a discussion with one olosho about this trend in my relationship and she said I carry her mata for my head why dont i put it on my shoulder

To drop am for shoulder now de hard me bcux am really attach to this fellow and i love her...I no sabi carry woman bcux once am with you am with you

I just need a candid and meaningful advice and please no insult I no am this and that and all sort of things but please advice a brother

Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power Registration 2020: Share Your Experience by tega2luv(op): 5:14am On Jun 27, 2020
Alas I succeeded in submitting the form after spending approx 3hrs
tega2luv:
So many Nigerians youths including myself didnt sleep awaiting this registration stuff..

Little did I know all the caffeine I took not to sleep was gonna be invane

I will continue trying my luck to see if I will get registered , bcux it took 1hr to get confirmation email...

I guess it will take another 6hrs to be able to process the application.

Omo nothing for this country balance...

Share your ideas if you were able to register successfully
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power Registration 2020: Share Your Experience by tega2luv(op): 4:05am On Jun 27, 2020
Congrats
McCoy662:
I succeeded but it's no beans oo. I spent almost 4 hours on it
Jobs/VacanciesN-Power Registration 2020: Share Your Experience by tega2luv(op): 3:21am On Jun 27, 2020
Please Share Your Experience If You Were Able To Register For Npower

So many Nigerians youths including myself didnt sleep awaiting this registration stuff..

Little did I know all the caffeine I took not to sleep was gonna be invane

I will continue trying my luck to see if I will get registered , bcux it took 1hr to get confirmation email...

I guess it will take another 6hrs to be able to process the application.

Omo nothing for this country balance...

Share your ideas if you were able to register successfully

RomanceRe: How Can I Avoid Having A Girlfriend? by tega2luv(op): 9:51am On Jun 23, 2020
If na sex most married women deny thier husband sex 9 make we get many husbands cheating outside ,woman wey nor good nor good
ffo:
is girlfriend all about sex? why dont you just get married so that you have sex 20/7 and see if you wont get tired.
RomanceRe: How Can I Avoid Having A Girlfriend? by tega2luv(op): 9:49am On Jun 23, 2020
My brother pray make u jam beta one if not this road you wan travel so nor too good if you be lover boy
Osek:
nawa oo this life no balance oo... I dey think of how to get better babe this one dey here they talk of how e nor wan get babe...

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