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The open mind is what I have been doing but how do I go because shes travelling and once she leaves now, I cannot suspect her anymore, since then she hasn't left the house Kondomatic: |
My instinct tells me it's her but how do I milk the money out of her without being embarrassedat the end that shes not the one, it really painful Tadeknkeepcalm: |
Shes 19 years old and as for my brother am also watching him Dididrumz: |
I believe the bible also said on the ground of adultry one can seek for divorce, well that's your decision to make because
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[b][/b]cutting long stories short,today makes it a week now since I lost my money in my own house, never for once has there been a recorded case of missing money in my house... It goes like this!!! I live with my junior brother for a long time now and I know him so well just recently my elder brothers daughter came to live with us making us in the house 3, so since she came over she has been the one doing all the house chores.. Since the pandemic I have been saving for this yule tide season with my piggy bank save and just recently I opened it and counted the money in it and realise I have saved 80k this was a month back... So as I was working the safe to reput it where I hide it my niece saw me with it and she had idea where I kept it, i never suspected her to be a thief so i didnt change the location of the safe, now from that time till a week ago I have also saved another 18k in it... I happily ordered some stuff online in this jumai black friday deals to pay on delivery only for me to open my safe a day before jumia will bring my stuff I noticed the 80k I saved earlier was missing remaining the recent 18k. I have turned my hux up and down I cant find the money and nobody including my brother and niece accepting they took it, although it is very bad to suspect someone to be a thief whereas hes not, I have lived with my brother for too long to know what he can do on the other hand i do not know much bout my niece... Now she has told me shes travelling for the christmas to return after the new year, shes my prime suspect, she knows no one in this phc and has not gone out for once since she came, I said to myself I will check her properly to know what shes leaving my house with from her pants to her comb.... I need advise weda or not to check her properly at the gate before she leaves bcux if I check and found nothing on her, there would be embarrassment and false allegation and false suspicion... Please my fellow Nlanders how do I search her before she leaves to avoid embarrassment.. Candid advise please
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Thank you sir, packing secretly also stroke me up bcux he wont know but dont know if my conscience will allow me Alonso80: |
It is clear it gonna end in premium tears chatinent: |
Yes I need to pay but will the man accept 1yr bcux I cannot afford the whole 3years now , e get d way things take de this period chatinent: |
Dont mind the grammatical errors my fellow nairalanders Cutting long stories short, an urgent and sensible advice is needed on this matter because am in awe with my house caretaker, for over 2years now this man has not called me or ask me for house rent even when am aware people in our compound are paying their own rent. And to be honest with you as at this write up I do not have the fees to pay and as we are entering the new year it gonna be 3years am owing, when I had the money to pay he didnt worry me and I used it for something else now the bill is pilling up and business never de gell couple with this corona... I dont know what to do because this man silence is disturbing me seriously and no hope of acquiring 3years house rent to pay once and I cannot call him bcux I don't know what to tell him. My friend told me that maybe my village people are covering his eyes not to see me what if it's TRUE and eventually he eye come clear what will be my fate. ![]() Please I want honest and serious advice as soon as possible make I no go mad because am having this feeling that this gonna end in premium tears FP pls...
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My personal take on this is that, let's learn not to judge and if you have a basic training on christianity then I believe you know the things christ forbids us from doing, weda born again or not we still commits sins unknowingly, the bible also said judgments is of the lord, help if you are at an advantage, live a peaceful life while you still draw air, and always pray for forgiveness,may God help us. alBHAGDADI: |
https:///BNZ4Fkfww9d8YVI9IPhO56 tega2luv: |
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She loves you although no man will be happy bout the help shes getting from her ex bcux weda u like it or not she honestly might be sleeping with this her ex or shes not but if your mind is telling you she is f***king the ex then that's it, so I advice if you cannot live with that kindly sit her down and let her go not wait till business materialise or have another side chick, at the end she will feel used and by then if she lay course on you e go catch you, satisfy your conscience man. |
Am just reading replies and laughing my ass out I prefer not to comment because all have been said |
Hello Nairalanders In Synopsis And Precision, Has Anyone Truly Acquired A Job Through Advert Seen Online Or Social Media...Am Asking Because When I Left Nysc Back Then I Got Into Online Job Search. ![]() I Got Registered In So Many Job Seeking Websites Most Especially Jobberman Etc,. The Experience I Got At An Interview From One Of The Jobs I Was Interested In Actually Killed My Interest ![]() I Wanna Hear From The Gurus And Great Fellas Of Nairaland Weda Or Not It Is Real For Someone To Get A Job Online Or Through Social Media Links...And Please Share Your Ideas As Well To Educate Us All.. ![]() Your Advice On How To Get A Job And If Theres An Opportunity, It Will Be Highly Appreciate. God bless Our Great Nation NIGERIA .
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[b][/b]my candid opinion on this matter is that when cheating occurs in a faithful relationship something actually triggers it, we should be more focus on how to eradicate this issues that triggers the cheating, thing like 1. If you are not financially okay I think you shouldn't enter a very faithful relationship because when you do not have money and your partner doesn't have as well it becomes hard to be faithful because at a point in life we all meet someone far better than our partners. 2. You need a matured mind to have a faithful relationship because in the journey of love there are so many temptations and just as u and I know good things usually face several trials so your ability to put yourself together and tackle every trial as de come requires ur intelligence and mind. 3. Do well to recognise early if you guys are compatible, if he/she is sex freak or has high libido etc,and you are opposite that,trust me infidelity will surely flow. 4. Know what you want from the relationship set your target straight, if its flings or for pleasure do well to let your partner know about this, and very very important know the genetic status of your partner as early as 1week of the relationship to avoid stories like I cheated bcux we are of same wrong genotype. With the few points that I have highlighted any normal human being should be able to avoid cheating in a relationship outside these then the person that cheats is not a human being. |
It's really not funny make God help us...these days people no longer live up to 90years, 50,60 start dying like fowls Joyfulgal: |
Nor be joke oooo Joyfulgal: |
This is unusual for me but my dear fellow nairalanders and healthlanders, I think it's better we hear advice from our healthlanders.. My little experience in recent times is that back in the days when one consume beans he/she tends to drink alot of water through out the day but personally that urge to drink water these days has disappeared. Am a lover of beans and my recent experience got me so worried if truly am still eating beans or eating something else, if anyone has noticed this recent occurrence you can comment to show am not the only one noticing this. They say HEALTH is WEALTH how come our people have started feeding and selling to us chemicalized food, if they succeed in killing innocent people all In the name of making fast money, who now buys their chemical when everyone is eventually gone. An elderly man once told me and I quote him "WHAT WE TAKE IN AS FOOD EITHER DIG US OUR EARLY GRAVE OR BUILD US TO LONG LIFE" That man really old and strong I like be like am but am getting scared bcux all i eat these days are chemicalized foods Please share your experience with other foods too and how we can over come this endemic...over to our healthlanders Your guidance is highly needed.
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Advising from experience, most mistakes we niggas do is that we are sometime too committed knowing about the past of our lovers and if shes honest enough to tell you the truth it starts hurting us and we start judging them whenever they make little mistake in the relationship, I once told my ex gf that her past life is of no interest to me but the present and future and she was open to me and told me severally her stories with guys in the past at a point i asked myself weda this babe still get womb sef, i went ahead out of curiosity to ask her like how many guys have dated her before me she should not lie and she told me excluding me it's around 12 guys, my fellow niaralanders that's the day everything changed bcux I keep wondering those are the numbers of guys when don knack this kpekus when she date oo , how about the ones when she no date when still chop clean mouth, my brother from that moment onwards I begin get double mind and whenever shes not with me I hardly believe anything she tells me bcux I now see her as loosed...to cut long stories short, if you cannot deals with the past of your lover never bother yourself digging what will eventually destroy you, focus on her and forget her past but since you cannot deal with it already kindly let her go in peace, this life no balance at all. |
Thankz noted Gaggi: |
Nice one bro...noted Freestainworld: |
Yeah because I couldn't sleep thinking bout where she night be now because shes not home and not taking my calls Oluwasaeon: |
D day I carry that olosho...my guy enter town come lodge me naxo I call bae tire she refused picking she put her phone for do not disturb 9 my guy take pay for olosho for me so I dont sleep hotel room alone, na gist me and olosho gist till day break Juell: |
Thanks mate...exactly what I have to do bmasz: |
Please I need matured mind and advice on this, to cut long stories short... Am a guy that wants my bae to be with me every slight chance shes got, but this present babe made it clear to me she has never been in a relationship where she see her bf everyday or everytime... When bea is free she decides with whom to spend it with and can even go like 3 days without seeing me or coming near my hux... And am so attached to bae because all through the lockdown bae was with me all through and I got attached now that lockdown has been lifted I hardly see her again... The recent outburst was that she had 3good days from work and i didnt set eyes on her and she wasnt home either...when I asked bae where are you, bae will respond with you want to start again and before you no it quarel Painful part bae decides when she comes to my hux and leave.. I had a discussion with one olosho about this trend in my relationship and she said I carry her mata for my head why dont i put it on my shoulder To drop am for shoulder now de hard me bcux am really attach to this fellow and i love her...I no sabi carry woman bcux once am with you am with you I just need a candid and meaningful advice and please no insult I no am this and that and all sort of things but please advice a brother
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Alas I succeeded in submitting the form after spending approx 3hrs tega2luv: |
Congrats McCoy662: |
Please Share Your Experience If You Were Able To Register For Npower So many Nigerians youths including myself didnt sleep awaiting this registration stuff.. Little did I know all the caffeine I took not to sleep was gonna be invane I will continue trying my luck to see if I will get registered , bcux it took 1hr to get confirmation email... I guess it will take another 6hrs to be able to process the application. Omo nothing for this country balance... Share your ideas if you were able to register successfully
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If na sex most married women deny thier husband sex 9 make we get many husbands cheating outside ,woman wey nor good nor good ffo: |
My brother pray make u jam beta one if not this road you wan travel so nor too good if you be lover boy Osek: |