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PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by tellsblinks(m): 12:40pm On May 15, 2020
Xtianvic:
Go to settings, apps, manage apps
Clear the cache of all your apps one after the other.
Don't be surprised seeing Facebook you downloaded for 55mb having 800+mb

Do a deep scan. Under "big files"
Checks for file you did not download and delete them. Eg there is a file name "blob whatever", which could be taking a lot of space. Just delete them. The first day i deleted them, they were about 3, taking up space in the excess of about 2gb

Also update your phone for the battery draining issue.
thank you I did that now and I got extra 4gb space in my phone, am grateful

my phone is on the latest update by the way
RomanceRe: Which Girls Do Men Prefer: Fat Girls Or Slim Girls? by tellsblinks(m): 12:38pm On May 15, 2020
EVILFOREST:
.... na SKELETON you want order from JUMIA...?
it's called slim thick!!
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by tellsblinks(m): 12:27pm On May 15, 2020
Ziyech:
Since you use the 3/32 GB variant, download Tr camera mod.
please tell me more, how is it?
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by tellsblinks(m): 10:44pm On May 14, 2020
GrandMufti:
Delete gcam before gcam deletes you. It's a third-party app you installed. So if it's hanging, delete it.

Update your phone and reboot several times
am on latest update ooh.

I' love picture and photgraohy, if I delete gcam what's the pride in my phone? as I don't play games
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by tellsblinks(m): 10:38pm On May 14, 2020
eby001:
Gcam is not the ROM default can, it was ported. So, if you experience crashes it might be peculiar to the ROM/phone you're using. Try other recommended build.

Post your battery details (screen on time), to see the likelihood of what drains your battery.

32g.......nothing inside the phone, what do you expect brah?.. I have an iPad of 32g with just few apps, music and docs, if I have a video file on it, I delete after watching it. If you need a phone as primary storage devoce, get 128gb ROM as minimum. But currently you can make do with MC or OTG flash drive.
thank you, I'll send the screenshot later, am having network issue
RomanceRe: Which Girls Do Men Prefer: Fat Girls Or Slim Girls? by tellsblinks(m):
Slim
RomanceRe: LACK OF MONEY — Look At The Rubbish I'm Eating Tonight [Picture] by tellsblinks(m): 10:22pm On May 14, 2020
shebi you don' start again with this your fairy tales?
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by tellsblinks(m): 10:17pm On May 14, 2020
Randal:
Well, it's good your device is satisfying you. Mine isn't. I'll list the reasons below.

1. My phone hangs sometimes.

2. My phone doesn't predict simple words when I'm typing. I could spell genuine as geniune and my phone will not suggest the correct word

8. When I'm trying to mark a text, sometimes my phone will cut it and insert the last thing I was typing.
gurus in the house, please help me i used a redmi note 7 3gb/32gb version

I don't mean to criticize redmi, but i experience the same issues with the quoted op


to add to it my gcam freezes, crashes, and almost want to kill my phone

at a point I can't give my friends my phone to snap picture, I'll have to be the one to snap it.

I keep making stupid excuses of space bla bla bla when ever they ask me "why is your phone hanging"

the storage fills up easily with nothing inside the phone.

the battery drains madly



please guys wht can I do? help me
PhonesRe: I Am Browsing Free Of Charge With My Opera Mini by tellsblinks(op): 9:48pm On May 14, 2020
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PhonesRe: I Am Browsing Free Of Charge With My Opera Mini by tellsblinks(op): 9:47pm On May 14, 2020
bravesoul247:
When you can get legit free airtime on airtel Me2U? Just dial *432# to get started jare and stop these cheats
big bros, abeg tell me more.

how does it works
FamilyRe: I Was A Husband: My Experience by tellsblinks(m): 6:41pm On May 14, 2020
tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience.

I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...

As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.

We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.

To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.

One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.

To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.

Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.

After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.

Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.

She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.

The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.

God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.

Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.

My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi
guy you write well, your choice of words is appealing, you sure say na computer science you read? abi linguistic??
PhonesRe: I Am Browsing Free Of Charge With My Opera Mini by tellsblinks(op): 12:55pm On May 14, 2020
Kenoxman:
It's 50 MB daily data courtesy of Opera Mini.
Limited to opera Mini search engine though
No downloads
lol it browses everything! even the heaviest ofa ll pages opens
PhonesRe: I Am Browsing Free Of Charge With My Opera Mini by tellsblinks(op): 12:55pm On May 14, 2020
Ubongdemaga:
Its only 4 airtel and its very very slow. Browsing is very slow
mtn ooh
PhonesI Am Browsing Free Of Charge With My Opera Mini by tellsblinks(op): 9:48am On May 14, 2020
if you ask me how, I seriously don't know

all I know is that I am able to browse the internet free of charge using opera mini

I also notice that my whatsApp messages keep coming in and I'm able to send messages too as far as the opera mini is open.


who else is enjoying this?

nb; I am not able to download
HealthRe: COVID-19: 184 New Cases Reported, 6 Deaths And 111 Discharged On May 13 by tellsblinks(m): 11:52pm On May 13, 2020
add date to your post
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:22pm On May 13, 2020
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SavageResponse:
You're sounding like a pedophile cos that's what you are!
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RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:21pm On May 13, 2020
Naija246:
she should be at least 18 years.

At that age, you are guaranteed at least 17 years to enjoy her body before she starts deteriorating.
Women don't age well, their value drops with every passing year.

Below is a pie chart showing a womans sexual market value. As you can see, age takes a huge chunk of the chart.
nice, but do you mean women deteriorate at age 35
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:20pm On May 13, 2020
chinchonglee:
Never will i even get married at 30..
I shuld marry and get tied with one person foreverhuh
Never
so what age would you marry?
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:19pm On May 13, 2020
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Bennysam:
First prepare your room in kirikiri prison mumu
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wrong comment, please read the write up and try again, thank you
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:11pm On May 13, 2020
vincentjk:
I think I've found someone I'll marry in like 9years time, so help me God. 5yrs difference
lol, ure 19 and she is 14huh
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:04pm On May 13, 2020
Bjteensdes24:
At 25, will definitely marry her at least, at the age of 18years and at most 20years. Can't imagine how lovely but she is gonna be childish somehow unless she is well grown up in experience than her age
thank you, I think this is the best reply so far
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 1:04pm On May 13, 2020
Bennysam:
I hope you have a job and your own house or apartment
, and ready to feed a woman and ur baby not when they ask you for money you will come to nairaland to tell us that your wife is a waster of money and resources
I entered school at an early age, and graduated at an early age, if things works well for me I would do my nysc then continue with my business at an early age too...


to answer your question, YES I WOULD BE ABLE
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 7:01am On May 13, 2020
illicit:
marry 21, 22.
no go marry pikin
you go kon senior your wife with 3 or 4 years
e make sence??
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 7:00am On May 13, 2020
malcom1X:
There nothing wrong in marrying a 16 years old.
lol an ss3 girl ??
RomanceRe: Male; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 6:59am On May 13, 2020
tracyfemmmm:
You already sound like one. How can you think of marrying a 16 yr old?
I have never been one and wouldn't be now!

if this is the case then would marry at 30

but I see marrying at 30 to be late
RomanceMale; If You Were To Marry At 25, How Old Would Your Wife Be? by tellsblinks(op): 6:37am On May 13, 2020
please I have plans of marrying at a very young age (25)

but I don't want to sound like a paedophile and I would love to senior my wife with at least 8 or 9yrs

what age is best to marry??
HealthRe: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by tellsblinks(m): 6:09am On May 13, 2020
op so you made your first 1.5million at 21??
am 20 ooh, I never see shinbai
what's your line of business if I may ask?
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by tellsblinks(m): 9:54pm On May 12, 2020
Somebody should do giveaway na... No be say hunger hold me oh(I de with mumsi), but to gain from give away they hungry me

Please and please! If you get something to give, anything just quote me abeg
PhonesRe: TECNO Spark 5 Series Unveiling: Images , Specifications And Price by tellsblinks(m): 4:44pm On May 12, 2020
crap crap crap!! no matter if it's in front page don't fall for this!!!

for your own good
RomanceRe: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by tellsblinks(m): 4:26pm On May 12, 2020
Futurejoy:
You got the fact that I needed someone to share emotions with then . I asked him those questions cos I noticed somethings about him , I I just wanted to confirm if he was reasonable. There is no need for so much words, I believe he has learnt his lessons and has developed himself to be better because I am doing same. We keep learning right
I seriously weep for the guy!! because my current room mate in school have same experience with the girl, and it's painful!!


Especially when u've left everyone because of one girl, then she end up leaving you or if I would say she wasnt even with you.



people like you no go see me ooh!


in fact I no go even gree fall like that tbt
RomanceRe: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by tellsblinks(m): 4:22pm On May 12, 2020
emusmithyy:
I know and I'm not against it.

But you could have taste and not belittle others. If taste has to be echoed, it's farce, it's fake, it's audio. Girls with taste don't make noise about it or belittle guys who came to them.

Honestly, I don't wanna drag this topic. That's my point the whole time. Bless you brother. smiley
guy you spoke words!! I would screenshot and post on my whatsapp
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by tellsblinks(m): 8:24pm On May 11, 2020
chloroform:
I have been hoping to be the first person to comment on the page but I was shocked when I came online now and I saw page 2003. I was sure we wouldn’t be getting to 2000 page until tomorrow, guess I wasn’t the only one eyeing the big price.
Congrats to the winners. cheesy
this is so me.... how come?? only for ne to charge my phone and com back 2003

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