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I am in a very big dilemma. I am a married with 2 lovely kids. I don’t feel happy in my marriage because I can not say that I am madly in love with my young wife. She is very much in love with me but I am very tired of my marriage.
I met my wife while doing my youth service in south south Nigeria. She took to me and I tried to avoid any closeness but it didn’t work. We eventually started a intimate relationship with resulted in her getting pregnant for me. I married her so as not to allow her to abort and kill an innocent child a boy. I thought I will love her in the future. We later had another child a girl. Though I have never cheated on her but I don’t think I love her that much. I tend to be in love with another woman though I am not cheating on my wife. I want to ask her if she can approve me to go into polygamy for I believe that will only save of union. I care so much for those innocent and lovely children of mine.

Shutup and dont try sounding like a better person!! #Rubbish

IMO,what makes a guy a gentleman is his charisma and d way he comports himself. Been considerate, good-natured, courteous, polite well-mannered, less talkative, soft-spoken, neat, approachable, benevolent are also attributes dat can make a guy a gentleman. Unfortunately, we don't have more of gentlemen in 9ja these days. Most guys eyes just dey shook!

^thanx, telwisdom.
Never in a milion years wil i go back! Dem jaz me? Lol!

It pains me to my bone marrow that, that guy doesn't appreciate you #Mbanuu, never again!  

word dude.  first time of voicing a sensible word of advice in your entire life, .am impressed, kip it up 

Bro, U probably must have been trailing me! . Neways, i appreciate too

I don't know about MINE but as far as 'mugu', you are. . .free to be what your heart desires

Seriously, i want to be buying you toys/g-strings and fine bras

I was so dumb when a girl i was trying to outsmart asked me this question. she was like, what kinda person are you? And i replied: a ''Gentleman'' she asked again, what do i think makes me a gentleman? And i replie thus: BEING A GENTLEMAN IS A MATTER OF SELF-IMAGE, though evryone have his/her own view, let it be known.

Bruhaahahhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaa

we've stopped giving each other gifts.
we believe that's something for the children.
adults don't have to wait for Xmas to show each others love with a gift.

What did u get?

Text msges . cos they feel im too big fr a gift

well today i rejected a guy,then he spread a rumor that me and him bleep for 5 hours then he dumped me. Yet am still a virgin.

i hate boys.

Correkun: I use your mouth.

Dissappointed in u sweerie # Try using paper instead of napkin