Hairat007:

@ Rage01 nice piece u wrote here funny enugh its d truth. If only wishes were horses, beggers would ride! Nice work  

rage01:

There are factors that militate against getting married on time. Such factors will be gradually outlined, so that our young ladies will be more careful when they are apportioning blames.

---- The presence of family problems. When there is feud within a family or hatred, demons get to work to block any chances of success of such singles in getting married.

---- The ungodly family responsibilities. There is nothing wrong with elderly children assisting parents in training younger ones but there is everything wrong in hanging the responsibilities of younger siblings on the neck of elderly brother or sister. Ladies are more prone to this problem than men.

---- The increase in the incident of witchcraft in our generation and it is been increasingly used on singles either to destroy them, destroy their plans of getting married repeatedly or initiate them into witchcraft thereby destroying their destinies permanently.

---- The existence of demonic covenants either entered into by the single them self or entered into on their behalf by their parents or guidance. Such demonic takes effects in the lives of singles whether they entered it by themselves or by proxy. The effect of some of the covenants is to prevent the singles from getting married or finding joy in marriage.

---- Immorality among youths today. The immorality among the youths today has increased by leaps and bounds to the point that it is common place even among conservative Christian assemblies. Immorality in any form brings curses and demonic bondages on the single involved either in form of violation or fornication. Unnatural and interrelated intimate acts, brings curses and demonic oppression on the perpetuators, who lack courage to approach ladies due to their inhibitions or fear of rejection. While some ladies are unable to respond to proposals, because of shyness or fear of looking silly or cheap.

---- The fear of commitment. A lot of singles are afraid of committing themselves to marry a fellow single who prefer fooling around or sampling. Also single that is not financially buoyant. You hear a lot from our young ladies that, their DREAM MAN should be financially okay, with a good paying job, a house (at least 2 bedroom apartment for a start), and couple with a very nice car. They make lots of demands on their marriage during courtship, like wonderful traditional/white wedding that will drain the purse of the man. They are not ready, to face the Economy reality with the man. These have led to courtship breakup since the man does not have the finances to back the demand of the lady.

Taking for instance, our young graduante, who just finished his NYSC, now thrown to the realities that exist in the labour market? After searching for jobs for couple of years, finally got one in the civil service or any other private sector establishment. His take home for a start is about 30-40 thousand Naira. Renting a B-queue self contain now, is about 120000 thousand naira, which he struggles to save for the next two or more years. After that, he struggles again to equip the house to his taste. He might not be from a wealthy home, so it will take him longer time to achieve what he intends to achieve from his meager salary. He sees a lady also a graduate, falls in love with her. She also is struggling survive with a salary of 20-30 thousand naira. The said lady, not also from a wealthy home. They make up their mind to get married. The lady says she want both the tradition/ white wedding, costing about 500-700 thousand naira, all at this Youngman head. That is really a problem. Where will the money come from? The lady is not ready to shift ground. There are so many broken courtship/ relationship in respect to this reality. Our men are becoming old, so also is our ladies. There are many men who intention is to get married and start their life with someone they love, but unfortunately the reverse is the case. The craze for white wedding these days is becoming to rampart and competitive among our young ladies. Marriage should not be done out of competition, but out of love. People no longer assist you when it come to marriage, because the reality is, the Economy is biting hard on everybody. So our ladies should also learn to face the reality that it is no longer business as usual. Marriage is not an means were you please people, at the expense of your would be husband.
For more info go to www.myveego.com

slimyem:

u say??

tellwisdom:

This poster disappointed these gurls

rage01:

There are factors that militate against getting married on time. Such factors will be gradually outlined, so that our young ladies will be more careful when they are apportioning blames.

---- The presence of family problems. When there is feud within a family or hatred, demons get to work to block any chances of success of such singles in getting married.

---- The ungodly family responsibilities. There is nothing wrong with elderly children assisting parents in training younger ones but there is everything wrong in hanging the responsibilities of younger siblings on the neck of elderly brother or sister. Ladies are more prone to this problem than men.

---- The increase in the incident of witchcraft in our generation and it is been increasingly used on singles either to destroy them, destroy their plans of getting married repeatedly or initiate them into witchcraft thereby destroying their destinies permanently.

---- The existence of demonic covenants either entered into by the single them self or entered into on their behalf by their parents or guidance. Such demonic takes effects in the lives of singles whether they entered it by themselves or by proxy. The effect of some of the covenants is to prevent the singles from getting married or finding joy in marriage.

---- Immorality among youths today. The immorality among the youths today has increased by leaps and bounds to the point that it is common place even among conservative Christian assemblies. Immorality in any form brings curses and demonic bondages on the single involved either in form of violation or fornication. Unnatural and interrelated intimate acts, brings curses and demonic oppression on the perpetuators, who lack courage to approach ladies due to their inhibitions or fear of rejection. While some ladies are unable to respond to proposals, because of shyness or fear of looking silly or cheap.

---- The fear of commitment. A lot of singles are afraid of committing themselves to marry a fellow single who prefer fooling around or sampling. Also single that is not financially buoyant. You hear a lot from our young ladies that, their DREAM MAN should be financially okay, with a good paying job, a house (at least 2 bedroom apartment for a start), and couple with a very nice car. They make lots of demands on their marriage during courtship, like wonderful traditional/white wedding that will drain the purse of the man. They are not ready, to face the Economy reality with the man. These have led to courtship breakup since the man does not have the finances to back the demand of the lady.

Taking for instance, our young graduante, who just finished his NYSC, now thrown to the realities that exist in the labour market? After searching for jobs for couple of years, finally got one in the civil service or any other private sector establishment. His take home for a start is about 30-40 thousand Naira. Renting a B-queue self contain now, is about 120000 thousand naira, which he struggles to save for the next two or more years. After that, he struggles again to equip the house to his taste. He might not be from a wealthy home, so it will take him longer time to achieve what he intends to achieve from his meager salary. He sees a lady also a graduate, falls in love with her. She also is struggling survive with a salary of 20-30 thousand naira. The said lady, not also from a wealthy home. They make up their mind to get married. The lady says she want both the tradition/ white wedding, costing about 500-700 thousand naira, all at this Youngman head. That is really a problem. Where will the money come from? The lady is not ready to shift ground. There are so many broken courtship/ relationship in respect to this reality. Our men are becoming old, so also is our ladies. There are many men who intention is to get married and start their life with someone they love, but unfortunately the reverse is the case. The craze for white wedding these days is becoming to rampart and competitive among our young ladies. Marriage should not be done out of competition, but out of love. People no longer assist you when it come to marriage, because the reality is, the Economy is biting hard on everybody. So our ladies should also learn to face the reality that it is no longer business as usual. Marriage is not an means were you please people, at the expense of your would be husband.
For more info go to www.myveego.com