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Romance › Re: How Do U Feel When Ur Partner Snore by temitemi1(m): 5:06am On Jan 15, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Give A Title To This 2015 Buhari's Costume by temitemi1(m): 5:01am On Jan 15, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Men Lie? by temitemi1(m): 3:19am On Jan 15, 2015 |
because lie is available option to save urself from shame... I dnt lie though  |
Politics › Re: Jonathan, Buhari Disagree On 2011 Post-poll Crisis, Sign Pact¢ by temitemi1(m): 3:14am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Buhari, where is ur certificate  GEJ till 2019!!! |
Romance › Re: What's The Biggest Lie You Ever Told Someone? by temitemi1(m): 3:11am On Jan 15, 2015 |
@op, u are still lying... |
Politics › Re: Police Foil Plot To Bomb Imo INEC Office by temitemi1(m): 3:08am On Jan 15, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Unforgotten Past. by temitemi1(m): 3:03am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Their END is @ hand(masterminds of boko haram) |
Politics › Re: Soyinka, Kolade, Ezekwesili Renew Campaign For Chibok Girls by temitemi1(m): 2:57am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Apc stooges... |
Celebrities › Re: Police Present N460, 000 As Compensation To Families Of Slain Policemen by temitemi1(m): 2:55am On Jan 15, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Growing List Of People Buhari Jailed/killed In His "Anti Corruption Crusades" by temitemi1(m): 2:53am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Say NO to HAWKISH n DESPOTIC general!! GEJ till 2019!!! |
Romance › Re: 5 Reasons Having A Gay Husband Is Actually A Good Thing by temitemi1(m): 2:48am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Nonsense!!! gbolaskblog: 1. Whatever works, works. Just like being gay, bisexual, transgender, polyamourous, asexual, and all the rest of the spectrum of sexuality, if it works for a couple to have a mixed orientation marriage, then let it work. It’s their marriage and their relationship. How many of you would like someone getting into your bed and telling you how to live in your marriage?
2. There are two sides to every story. Couples who find themselves in a mixed orientation marriage often feel victimized and repressed. When communication is open to discussing how each partner feels, there’s a higher likelihood that common ground might be found between them. Uncover the real story and you’ll also uncover the real answers to what you should do in this situation.
3. Determine the levels of desire. As hard as it is to have this type of conversation, it’s critical to determine if this is a deep-seated sexual desire, or an emotional desire. The two are mutually exclusive and mutually dependent. If the “gay” partner is seeking sexual satisfaction only, with no emotional attachment, then sexual exploration might be a space for the couple to venture together. On the other hand, if there is emotional attachment and deeper connection to individuals of the same gender heightened by sex, then there’s a high probability you might be looking at a bisexual or gay partner. If that’s the case, then the onus rests on the partner struggling with their same-sex attractions to find themselves and come clean to their spouse.
4. Does wanting gay sex mean they’re gay? Not necessarily. Sexual desires require many different paths in order for full satisfaction. It’s no different from the desire for the missionary position versus doggie style. One may desire a same-sex tryst from time to time to satisfy their sexual energy. Provided the couple has open communication about their sexual requirements, then all that’s left to do is make it work.
5. What’s sex got to do with it? As a society, we’ve become very sexually hung up. Sex is either a tool for procreation, a recreational sport, or a deviant behavior. Yet, it seems there is no room for “sex just isn’t my cup of tea.” Often, mixed orientation marriages work because, for the heterosexual partner, sex is not a priority. Love, companionship, co-parenting, and social standing are the priority and sex is simply an option and/or obligation. Ironically, those who’d like to throw stones at someone else’s marriage, especially those who’ve never stood in the shoes of a mixed orientation marriage, need to consider the following: Sometimes people get married for the wrong reasons and it has nothing to do with one partner being gay or afraid of being themselves. Marriages of all varieties fail and fall apart ALL the time. Get over it. Sexual orientation is perhaps the straw that broke the camel’s back, but no one talks about all the other straws in a marriage that were also too heavy to carry.
Love does conquer all, even a spouse being gay. You have the right to live in your marriage your way, just as much as someone else has a right to live in their marriage their way. At the end of the day, the final word really is: there’s 50 shades of gray to almost everything in life, even marriage.
http://www.bwgist.com/2015/01/5-reasons-having-gay-husband-is.html |
Politics › Re: JE SUIS Nigeria:the Inefficiency Of The Nigerian Government(pix) by temitemi1(m): 2:44am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Tell buhari to stop d killing of the innocents!! |
Politics › Re: Questions Obasanjo Asked Jonathan At The Abeokuta Meeting by temitemi1(m): 2:38am On Jan 15, 2015 |
@op, I guess u were at d meeting... Nonsense!!! GEJ till 2019!!! |
Politics › Re: Police Recover Human Head In Lagos by temitemi1(m): 11:15pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
God is fully in control... |
Romance › Re: Reasons To Consider Pre-marital Sex Before Marriage by temitemi1(m): 11:09pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Noted... |
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Politics › Re: Massive Crowd At SDP Rally In Abeokuta Live Pictures by temitemi1(m): 7:24pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Byebye to apc in ogun  ... GEJ till 2019!!! |
Politics › Re: Why Do You Support GEJ Or GMB? by temitemi1(m): 4:52pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Vote GEJ n let the good work continue... |
Politics › Re: Election Time - 22 Ships Laden With Petroleum Products, Foods Arrive Lagos by temitemi1(m): 4:13pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
GEJ till 2019!!! |
Politics › Re: PDP & APC Supporters Clash In Akwa Ibom, 1 killed, Several Injured by temitemi1(m): 2:13pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
GEJ till 2019!! |
Politics › Re: Why Has Atiku Abubakar Been Missing APC Rallies? by temitemi1(m): 2:07pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: I Wish I Never Met Him by temitemi1(m): 1:39pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Wooing him n he's nt showing intrest n u can't still stop thinking abt him  Continue wasting ur time... |
Politics › Re: We Demand Transparency!!! by temitemi1(m): 1:32pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: I Still Can't Believe That President Jonathan Said All These by temitemi1(m): 1:27pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
GEJ till 2019!!! |
Business › Re: Unarmed Robbers Now Operate In Banks - Beware by temitemi1(m): 1:17pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Thanks for this... |
Politics › Re: I Will Never Vote For Buhari: Seun Kuti by temitemi1(m): 1:09pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
I will never vote for him too... |
Politics › Re: Message To APC Fans by temitemi1(m): 1:06pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
GEJ till 2019!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Angelina Jolie Condemns Boko Haram Attacks In Nigeria by temitemi1(m): 1:04pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Thank u... |
Politics › Re: Gov. Ameachi Is A Fighter Who Never Fails In All Assignment - GMB by temitemi1(m): 1:03pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Is d billions of rivers that's speaking through buhari  ... GEJ till 2019!!! |
Politics › Re: Buhari A Corrupt Liar: His Daughters School Fee At Surrey University Is £16,000 by temitemi1(m): 12:58pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
A bloody liar!!! |