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Vijuchoco:
If okay means being able to provide for my basic needs, then yes..

Okay👍

Nonexisting1:
Ofcourse one or two can date man without asking him for money because there's already a plan to kill him and take the money by themselves. Chidimma comes to mind. There was no account that she asked Mr. Ataga for money, she simply stabbed him and paid herself. That they don't ask you for money doesn't mean they are not evil. Be careful with the Delilah gender.

Funny guy

Brandiebird:
My wife is a professional and we were post graduate students when we met so we’ve always just shared finances.

This is how it's supposed to be.

We are all equal as human beings.

Shalommy:
Op... Can a guy date a lady without asking for sex？If yes, then i can date a guy without asking for money. Stupid question.

Please we are not Quarreling here.

Personally i am one of the few men who don't and wouldn't ask for sex from ladies. I see it as demeaning.

It doesn't make any sense to me paying for sex. Why would i ask and pay you for sex??

It's not like i don't like sex but it has to be pure, mutual and consensual and no strings attached.

I can decide to gift a lady material things or money whenever i feel like and deem fit not for any ulterior motive.

Ballzproblem2:
that's like asking Nigeria girls to breath without oxygen, impossible!

Smilling this is very funny.

There are still good and contended nigerian ladies who will not ask you for money out there.

Except occasionally.

wittywriter:
Love is sweet o but when money enter Love is sweeter.


Wittyness

I think this is true.

But regardless with or without lot of money. We can still experience and enjoy sweet love.

Fugazy2023:
Nigerian girls? Dey play

I believe there are still good and contended nigerian ladies who will not ask you for money out there.

Except occasionally.

Vijuchoco:
I don't need to ask, he'll give me on his own

Good one

But you seems to be okay financially because you work in the Health Sector.

The men can contribute too and share their experience.

Hello Ladies.

Can you date a man without asking him for money.

seniorgozman:
You can only know the true colour of a man when he gets money

True, but there are exceptions.

Nonexisting1:
I can never lower my standards for any reason, marriage included even though I don't give a fucck about it. So I can never advise my sisters to lower their standards just because of marriage. Lower standards to marry poor man today and tomorrow when he becomes rich, he will kick you out the front door and bring in another wife. Inasmuch as I don't give a fucck about them vaginarians here, I'll rather not advise them at all than advise them wrongly. Please keep to your standards, everything you want in a husband and if you can't find it, remain single with rest of mind. Marriage no be by force. Miss Charity with peace of mind is better than Mrs. Charity with red eye and depression. I done talk my own finish.

You will be surprised there are responsible men out there who wouldn't change when their fortune improves in the future.

Deep in our hearts.

We all silently yearn for that feelings and warmth and the need to call someone our own. Sigh.

I believe things will change for good.

We men should work on our behavior and career too so we all make the society a better place.

DCmaverick:
I wil be de last pesin to advice de opposite gender

All we need is genuine feelings and love.

TemplarLandry:
Wow. Golden words.

Thank you chief.

MrsTwrite:
Thanks and God bless.

You are welcome.

God bless everyone of us and may our wishes and desires be granted.

Hello Ladies.

I want to advise you all who are ripe for marriage to start lowering your standards.

If you see a struggling responsible man who is serious with his future. Even if he doesn't have a degree but have a formal education and he is quite educated to some level. Please give him a chance.

So far he is humble and responsible and he has a job and he is striving to bettering himself. You can assist him too.

I'm not saying you should not look forward to marry a well to do man but if that is not coming forth. Please go for a guy you like who is responsible and humble.

I wish us all the best ooo.

This is very demeaning.

Look what i saw inside the Dye i bought.

I was actually looking forward to seeing a small brush. But i was shocked with what i saw inside.

Picture Attached.

Some people get mind.

So despite all this extreme hardship people are going through. Someone still have the mind to want to inflict more pains on people.

Foodqueen:
Same here o.

Abi na loan

Post your Account Balance Details.

Kingosytex:
It will. There must always be tough times but your ability to surmount them is what makes you whom you are.
Life has always been about struggles and survival of the fittest; life isn't a bed of roses.
You don't give up...Have you ever imagined finding yourself in an unknown country thousands of miles away from home where you know absolutely no one?
Have you ever imagined being betrayed in a far way country where you know absolutely no one? The person involved even went as far as poisoning the minds of a few persons he thought you had their contacts, warning them sternly not to lend you a helping hand.
Have you ever imagined being homeless and cashless in a foreign land with no one to help out?
That was my story, but man no be God.
Don't see any factor as a limitation, you can surmount any challenge.

Thanks a lot once again for the words of motivation. I will keep reverting with subsequent updates on this platform.

Kingosytex:
I quit understand you bro. Life is a gradual process, you count 1 before 2.
Just keep your heads straight, be focused and gun for your goals.
Everything will fall into place.

I was planning ahead this year thinking everything will be fine. Until this administration came and price of everything skyrocketed.

That 120k just look like 20k in my eyes.

Kingosytex:
I quit understand you bro. Life is a gradual process, you count 1 before 2.
Just keep your heads straight, be focused and gun for your goals.
Everything will fall into place.

Thanks for the words of motivation.

Kingosytex:
You rich oo! For this Tinubu admin?

May what is your current account balance favour me and my family

Chief it's not like that ooo. I have a huge task ahead of me in life ranging from furthering my education and acquiring good skills that will sustain me for future. I am just here pitying myself.

I just got a job that pays 80k monthly. I have
wasted lot of my youthful years doing menial jobs with no headway due to the situation of the country.

A man of my age should not have such account balance as savings because i am 31years of age.

Mine

N120,000.

Congratulations to the beautiful family.