₦airaland Forum

Pinkyposh:
Am I sure? I'm doing it for myself, what do I gain in lying.

Well i believe you to an extent.

But i'm very sure you can't date or marry any man below your standard. This i know for sure.

If i ask can you date or marry a promising guy who earns 50k monthly now. You will say God forbid over your dead body😊

tunize:
Sex is not a favor done to anyone

Wow i like men like you.

I wish ninety percent of nigerian men can have this mentality.

skj1377:
Your right. Many halls are left unrented almost year round.

Yes i have a close relative who is an event planner and hotelier. She manages one big hall. She have been complaining that they have only been patronized just four times in this year. Unlike before when they get patronized at least once every month, sometimes twice.

It is well o.

Wujio:
What of women being extremely hard hearted. Its rock thats in the chest of women thesedays making them dangerous to cohabit with. Who wants to be holed up with what can kill them in momebts of fluctuations?


The heart, mind a d spirit many ladies have now is hundred times that of satanic occulist. That devilishness disguised as being strong to protect them from hurt is nothing but satanic and makes them an instant reject.

Infact i'm currently not in any relationship too. Most of the ladies of nowadays are nothing to write home about. Visit tiktok and see unclothedness and smoking here and there.

Many men and women, guys and ladies are something else these days. From cultism to hookups and indulging in all sorts of juju to manipulate each other.

It is well o.

mekus15:
It's the harsh economy. Many men would not mind taking the bold step if the economy was okay.

Exactly i noticed this too.

May God help and sustain us all.

Wujio:
Lolz

Talk now.

Let's hear your opinion.

I'm suspecting the high immorality and economy meltdown though.

What's The Cause??

Good development on here.

Creativity22:
My brother. You wonder why the country is messed up. We have alot of idiots masquerading as citizens

Calling them idiotss is an understatement.

9182736455O1999:
Bros, this protest just rounded up my conclusion that Nigerians are stupid, mostly the youth.

Infact they are beyond stupid.

As i was watching the stupid activity they called protest.

I was shocked and i couldn't get my head straight for some minutes. I was very upset. I was like what the fuk is this? What's going on exactly.

ValarDoharis:
Youths, take back your country. These f00ls are bent on ruining it

Which Youths lol?

You mean the ones that are currently protesting about a misplaced priority.

Nigeria is gone.

madone:
Some people are fueling this thing. People just want trend with everything. Iyabo ojo and the rest of them are riding on this guy glory.
They should allow the police work. They should allow the boy rest in people
The latest I have heard now is that a session of the people are now accusing the father of being involved in his sons dead. I am just going to stay off Facebook for a long time.

Very stupid set of people.

This is what i was complaining about on my recent Topic.

Instead the stupid youths are protesting about a misplaced priority. Fooools.

Felimax:
Hmmm, i just don't have a dog in that fight!
I almost finish one old man that called this generation wasted generation.

You never attended any of his event, you did not buy his songs, you manage to download some of his songs for free via free download and manage to watch some of his videos! Most of them practically don't know him and yet they want to die because of him. Una really get work.

Let me come and be going before they bring the protest here, my hand nor dey!
He that have eyes let him cry!

Indeed it's a wasted generation.

I saw thousands of supposed youths chanting vuglar words and behaving like Hoodlums in the streets. To believe many among are students but with mediocre education.

DevilishMan:
They average Nigerian youth is jobless.
They just need a slight reason to vent their frustration.

They are all Mad.

Diesel Price is now N1,100

Dollar Is N980

Everything is increasing in price astronomically. Livelihoods of many are threatened already. Yet they choose to protest about someone who doesn't even matter in the grand scheme of things. How stupid can a large portion of people be?

I ask again.

I'm starting to suspect this is a planned protest by the people in government just to divert the gullible citizens attention because of the increasing hardship and rising cost of commodities.

Who did these people like this? Many of them are even sitting on the ground crying foolishly.

What is with the stupid protest by these gullible youths because of the death of a musician who have gone to rest.

Many of them are even using the opportunity to loot peoples business and constituting nuisance and chaos.

Numerous National Pressing Issues which are supposed to be protested about are there but these stupid youths and some old dunce neglected them.

Is there still hope for this country??

Michaelspresh:
Yeahhh

I am financially stable
So yes

Wow this is Nice.

ajepako:
Question could also be

Can a man date me without asking for money and favors?

Fixed

Ma'am you be big woman na

You have money na. So you can both ne assisting each other.

1Sharon:
Nairaland men and bravado.

Come make we Date jhoor.

Pathfinder2090:
Bro stop sounding lik holy Michael
Life is give and take
Nothing is free even in Freetown

I am not sounding like angel gabriel.

Life is give and take with Sense.

omoharry:
Guys, can you date a lady without asking her for sex??

Yes sure.

Nigerian men have conditioned and configured their ladies mind and reasoning this way.

It's very worrisome.

Sex is not food, it's just a recreation activity. It is well.

Kobojunkie:
How many Nigerian men can date a woman without asking for sex?

This has been addressed on the front page of this Topic.

Most nigerian men ask for sex from women.

sonofthunder:
Why do you think the men like you are few?

Are you caught up in the matrix?

What is matrix?

I am unique in my own way and i know it.

austinofo:
For this Nigeria?

Yes It's possible believe me.

ismodiwa:
I dated her for 5 years before we finally got married last year, she only asked me for financial assistance once in 5years + she's an orphan..

Congratulations!!!

1Sharon:
You say you want a woman that is financially independent but when you get one, you can't handle it?

If you are Single, I'm available.

Pinkyposh:
Of course that has always been my kind of relationship
Everything is not about money

Hmmm are you really sure.

mariahAngel:
Would you be comfortable in a relationship where your woman does not ask you for anything?

Well I believe it's almost impossible for two parties to be in a relationship and not ask each other for absolutely nothing.

Depends on the Requests though. Truly I will be worried if she isn't making any requests and i believe same thing applies to her as well.

For example, I will always be available emotionally, communication, care etc.

1Sharon:
Yes. Can you date a girl w/o expecting her to cook for you?

Nice one.

Yes off course i can date a lady who doesn't like to cook because i'm a mild good cook myself. My cooking skills aren't top notch but i'm trying.

I usually prepare my meals myself. So dating a lady who doesn't like to cook isn't something i will be bothered about.

DyingFetus:
Girl way like go spend on you and no go let you spend your money

My ex was a pre med student, she no day ever let me spend my money on am always buying me gifts here and there
I had to leave the relationship because it made me feel worthless like I'm sort of a houseboy always getting gifts.

It's a good thing you have a lovely and rare gem partner with a heart of gold.

So far you have something tangible doing yourself no matter how small it is, Provided it keeps you busy and you keep trying to improve yourself. You are on the right track.

I wouldn't have left such relationship if i were you.

Godsongang:
I don't think so once they accept you, billings don start be that.

There are exceptions though.