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GoldChest:
Unfortunately, No one noticed .

jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

Martinez39:
There is nothing wrong with your son. He is normal. Keep on reminding him and he will get used to doing the needful. I was worse than your son.

Raydos:
You seem to be putting a lot of pressure on this young kid!! Just relax!

As he grows, he'll learn all these automatically!!

Or are you one of those parent that want their kid to be like other kids or compare them with other kids!! Just chill, and stop teaching your boy things the hard way, Infact I was once like him before!!

Just take a chill pill and take thing easy on this little boy!! Everything will change as he grows up!!

czarina:
My mouth no fit talk am, enjoy your day.

slickbak:
If you wait 6months for some women in name of caring, ur neighbor will do ur duty for you.

ajebuter:
Una no well oh

buygala:
CS since 2015 and you are still sore?

Was it Lasisi the cow butcher that performed the CS on you]

Abeg shift.....

As long as I don't lean on her during the do, she will be fine...or I can even enter her from behind sef ....it's just that entry via the back door makes me cum real quick...and I am sure she doesn't want that

czarina:
What is this? ? ? ?

TOPCRUISE:
Based on the violence of yesterday all fingers will be pointed at the Hausas

HumblySearching:
It's easy actually. But taking care of a baby and a man ain't easy.

HumblySearching:
Should be easy for responsible men. Besides you mustn't use the v to achieve orgasm. Married peeps need to be creative.

buygala:
If like Alhaji BabanBura, I have like four wives, why not ....The other wives will fill up the part of the roster the breastfeeding wife left vacant...




But if she is my only wife, or the newest wife, or the wife with the tighest and sweetest abuna in my Harem, She must resume active service within one month of delivery

Na Pikin she born, no be Dangote Trailer climb her

vonxe:
OP, don't let me lie to you I cant hold myself for three to four months with no sex. I cant cheat on my wife, so what will you advice me to do?

nairalanduseles:
Na poverty bro
......imagine stealing phones...
I have left my phone in a shopping mall got it back
Left my wallet on the train had it returned with my cards and wallet
Left my phone in the club got it back
Left my keys in my car no one touches it
NAIJA is hell

lilmax:
well I didn't read your story

but the comments here says you're foolish


I believe those comments

Juliet11111:
YOU JUST MADE YOURSELF AN IDIOT TRYING TO SOUND FUNNY. DUMB SKULL

havilla:
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OK that's it ladies. I'm sure some of you were able to relate with a few of these signs.
Please stop making excuses for him. If he likes it, he will put a ring on it, *wink*
If you know more signs, please share with the rest of us.

On a lighter note, here's a sign he's definitely into you,

http://girlsguideto.com/article/15-signs-hes-not-you

amiibaby:
He doesnt love her if not having a child and keeping it a secret will be the least of his problem

BABANGBALI:
na so I teach you to dey toast girls? See as you dey fall my hand for public

Phenomenal16:
......am a student nurse and am not promiscuous

ManspaceBarber:
The Nigerian society is sitting on a powder keg. I'm afraid, Neuropsychiatric hospitals in Lagos and Ogun may become the new Mecca, if something is not done fast to curtail the recent increase of drug abuse amongst the youths.

slim75d:
whenever i take a deep look @ busola i see her as a nymphomanic mayb she grew up as a weird teen probably the pastor took advantage of that to comb her ]now that the man is rich she tried to cashout but her slip cut