optionalY09:


Your are crazy, when Federal Government was killing their families for holding worship on the field was that peace making or love making

Unprovoked, Buhari government sent solders to the East and they they killed young and old for listening to preaching on an open field.

And the only way to retaliate is to sit at home, do nothing, kill your own people who want to make an honest living while the man you hope to get his attention is living in luxury, travelling around the world, and living the baby boy life. Who is losing?

You people have lost your sense of reasoning!

My wife had a year/cut during her first delivery and what should have taken a a couple of weeks to heal took 3 months of constant pain.

She had to undergo surgery to repair the birth canal. It wasn't a nice experience at all. Thank GOD that she didn't have a tear during our second baby, who surprisingly was bigger than the first.

From what I surmised, it takes skill on the part of the midwife to ensure that the woman delivering vaginally delivers without tear.


I did a research on this birth tear and created a document about it-

https:///Birth-Injuries-Copy

I'm just seeing this post. I know you have already gotten countless pieces of advice which are all good to a certain degree.


Nevertheless I want to share my experience with you with the hope that it may help you.


I suffered from haemorhoidds for several years. At a point it got so bad that I had panic attacks whenever I had to go to the toilet.


I'd sit at the toilet bowl and push, push, push for up to an hour or more. When I finally expel the faecal matter, the toilet bowl would be like an abbatoir; filled with so much blood.


Then for the next 2-3 hours I won't be able to sit down because my anus would be so painful. As in, I'd just be rolling on the floor in severe pain, torment and agony.


I tried several medications but none of them gave me relief.


Finally one day, I decided to go on a one month fruit fast.


I concentrated on 3 fruits; Garden Egg, Orange and Water Melon.


Please take note of this part.


Every evening for the next 30 days, I ate garden eggs, oranges and water melon unfailingly. For the water melon, I ate everything; the seeds, the red juicy pulp, and the green outer back. For the oranges I ate everything except the green outer back and the second white layer.


Nobody gave me this formula.


In addition to this, I started taking a lot of water every day.


After those 30 days, it was like a miracle. I could go to toilet freely without having to push and push, without that hot, peppery pain in my anus and without losing blood.


When I saw this I decided to give more attention to fruits and vegetables as well as eating healthy and regular meals.


Since 2017 till now, I've had no complaints.


It's possible that your case has advanced more than mine used to be and you may need surgery. However I'd say let surgery be the last option but I would suggest you try this method out first.


Give it that 30 days fruit fast. And make sure you eat well and take a lot of water. I didn't recommend any drugs o, because I didn't use any. I know because this method I outlined is cheap (Oranges- N100, Garden Egg- N100, Water Melon- N100) you may take it for granted.



Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Caracta:


Lol. What's wrong with you guys? Marriage is cool!

Ok, share your experience with us.

Epic rubbish! He should go to other gay-friendly, asylum granting countries and practice his perverse lifestyle. He shouldn't come here and infect this country with his plague. Abi, Una no know say AIDS was spread largely by gays in the mid 80s

I agree with you wholly. I am also a virgin too and I know that I prefer sex in the dark. It would be a little testy for me to just UnCloth before my sweetheart but I know that she holds the key to how open I can be to her, physically and emotionally.

Having practised some of the moves in my head, I sure would feel awkward having sex under lights. I would suggest that the lady in question help him lose his inhibition, very gently. She has to make him lose the embarrassment of not having had sex for a better part of his adult life. She has to let him know that she loves him, stroke him, caress him in broad daylight, whisper sweet nothings into his ear.

All these are geared towards making him become free with her. I don't want to think it is either because of a small male member or something diabolic. The onus is on the wife to love him and make him loose his inhibitions.

Forget all these kids that are mouthing off stuff here!

jenavism44:
pls,dont blame the man,maybe is shy,not because he has small penis but because of his knowledge and response to the experience of coitus interruptus,i am a virgin,but becos of my over-sense of decency,i dont allow my mother,brothers and sisters to see my chest or lap,i wear clothes to the bathroom oftentime,i only wear boxer when i am alone.my advice to the man is to change his mindset,

I thought this guy was gay? Yet this is probably the umpteenth woman I am seeing him in a relationship with. Or maybe he is a transgender? This gu(a)ys sef! Confused sexual orientation!

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So Saad! Wonder how his family would be feeling now!

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Mcoldsoja:

Bros, which command yu go?

iRep Army Day and Command Day Secondary schools Abakpa Enugu.

sharon763:
Did it in command...if u dare enter skool wif a dirty uniform,ur punishment go worse..ex-commandos in da house

Yea! I rep Army Day and Command Day Secondary Schools Abakpa Nike Enugu! You wan try RSM and Labor Master with dirty uniform? You wan die nah!

kilokeys:
command.... i did.

u wouldnt dare manage a dirty uniform to d barracks.


lazy days

This got me laughing so hard! Nostalgia things! You want make RSM kill you??! I rep Command Day Secondary School and Army Day Secondary School both of Enugu. Dry season like this when boys go don play ball for barracks from school closing time till 5/6pm,and you get home,you'll be so dead tired to wash your ONLY school uniform. Sometimes boys go wash only leg enter bed. Who wan dare put hand inside cold water for dry season say you dey wash clothes? Na so you go sleep till like 5am then you wake up with a jolt,like 'GOD! I've not washed my school uniform!'. Na so you go rush begin to wash it frantically,switch on that ageless TDK Fan,hang am on top. Arrange wrapper,bedsheet,blanket and iron and get to work. When boys finally wear am,na so you go dey shiver like leaf for harmattan period. By the time you don from house,reach bus stop,from bus stop to assembly ground,from assembly ground to class,uniform go don dry. Chai! Chai! Chai!

3. Mr. Single And Not Searching

I dunno if he is a priest or something. He just doesn't like the company of women. I wouldn't conclude he is "gay" but it's possible. Some are due to religious reasons. Some are because they were never used to ladies. Others, I think they have a problem- emotional, physical or spiritual.

kilokeys:
i heard thieves were tied to trees and bathed with water then left overnight. only to find them dead by morning.

Jeez! What a horrible way to die!

I still have goose bumps when I remember how Enyimba ruled Africa back to back after Nigeria had toiled for 39 years to win the then Sekou Toure Cup aka African Cup of Champions Cup. Rangers lost to Hafia Conakry of Guinea in 75,3SC lost to Zamalek in '84, Iwuanyanwu Nationale lost to Entente Setif in '90,Stationery Stores lost to Zamalek in '93,Julius Berger lost to Zamalek in '96. So,what Orji Uzor Kalu helpd Enyimba achieve in 2003 and 2004 was monumental and laudable.

olukenzo:
Gosh. I loved Enyimba then. They helped avenge the loss of 3SC, Eagle Cement and Julius Berger F.C on the continent. Asec Mimosa of Ivory Coast, Raja Casablanca of Morocco, Al-Ahly of Egypt, Accra Hearts of Oaks of Ghana, Ismaila of Egypt and Etoile du Sahel of Tunisia were the other prominent African clubs of that era.

The days of Vincent Enyama, Obinna Nwaneri, Ajibade Omolade, David Tyavkase, Michael Ochei, Muri Ogunbiyi, Seyi Ogunsanya, Joe Frimpong, Onyenkachi Okoronkwo etc

If for nothing else, God bless Orji Uzor Kalu for Enyimba.

Chai. Uzobu Eyimba eyim!

oliidell:
That guy got HIV wao!
I tink d dude has always been wealthy though cos he cud afford to go to the US for therapy.
Kai poverty no good sha.some ppl wey no gets AIDS sef don dry up finish.
Kudos to his attitude newais

He left for the US just this July. I should know because I schooled at the famed Orange Academy,the school he founded. He has been in Nigeria all this while.

shizzleStar:
He lives in the US. Good food, exercise, healthy life-style and the awareness that self-enlightenment about his status and virus accounts for his healthy looks. He must really have been through a lot (mentally and psychologically) those 15years.

He left for the US just this July. I should know because I schooled at the famed Orange Academy,the school he founded. He has been in Nigeria all this while.

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Really? Kindly explain why you think so.

dejijohns:

We can also look at it from another angle; maybe the bride was initial with another man, promised him marriage, ate his money and fled...

We can also look at it from another angle; maybe the bride was initial with another man, promised him marriage, ate his money and fled...
Just saying dou... make una dey try give us guys benefit of doubt, w'ar nt always d culprit/bad one...

I know Uzochukwu Eze way too well. He was my classmate at Command Day Secondary School. We graduated in 1999. He was a gentle guy,way too gentle. Contrary to what is been carried in the tabloids and dailies and blogs,he drove into the filling station to buy fuel. When he saw that it was under the siege of robbers,who had already gunned down the filling station manager,he reversed quickly to escape but was cut down by a hail of bullets from members of the gang who were stationed at the entrance of the filling station. He was killed by armed robbers,not by assassins sent by a jilted lover as you're erroneously insinuating,or by cultists as peddled by most of the national dailies.

Jaymima: A premeditated revenge mission orchestrated by a hurt/jilted lover. Condolences to their families.

I know Uzochukwu Eze way too well. He was my classmate at Command Day Secondary School. We graduated in 1999. He was a gentle guy,way too gentle. Contrary to what is been carried in the tabloids and dailies and blogs,he drove into the filling station to buy fuel. When he saw that it was under the siege of robbers,who had already gunned down the filling station manager,he reversed quickly to escape but was cut down by a hail of bullets from members of the gang who were stationed at the entrance of the filling station. He was killed by armed robbers,not by assassins sent by a jilted lover as you're erroneously insinuating,or by cultists as peddled by most of the national dailies.

Really? Hmm! Interesting. Thanks @OP for this post. This is the best of using social media tools like hashtag for social good.

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