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What a suspense filled, and scary journey.op keep the update coming seems you lost motivation writing your life story. Try and finish it so tomorrow you can use it as a reference point to tell your story to your kids when they are grown up, So they will appreciate and know how you struggled to get a good life. I wish you good luck in all you do in Europe. I really pitied that guy that his brother used his money to get married, how can people be so reckless even to their own blood.
this is so heartbreaking. Hope ebo was also able to make it through to the journey?
Try and conclude this your story it's been 4 years now since you started, we are really interested in the final outcome.

Yeah just travelled from Abuja to pH by road, it was a smooth sail all through, just that the road in enugu and etche was horrible. I recommend you use gig if you intend to travel by road they always keep to time and their drivers are professionals. But in all na God dey safe person.

Good to see how this thread was created in 2018 and still waxing stronger till date. I have learnt alot from Ibrahim aka zlatan and many others who have contributed to this thread. I have a simple question to ask, currently I was able to secure a job in one of the Schengen countries, but can't apply because their embassy does not Grant appointment currently, so I was advised to go through the tourist route, to either Belgium or France and on getting there, I will have to report to the company that gave me the employment and will be given a resident permit thereafter. Pls house I want to know how viable is this route?
thanks do have a blessed day.
Note: the job is legit and my sister over there worked it out for me. I have the contract letter and all necessary documents.

He paid for the apartment, so both of you have equal rights as to what you do behind your confined spaces, so allow him to enjoy his place in peace.

These things are wordily things that are not supposed to move you, as per mortal wey you be na. His life, his dick,his girlfriend,his house,his bed,his money, his energy. And another man is being pained, you better look for another apartment.

You don't even have a case even if you should report him to your landlord. Go look for a beautiful sister in the church and use her to hold body for now, before konji Kee you ooo. Truth is you're just sex starved. Rubbish and ingredient.

Mine was a different Case, made bulk money,and too scared to go broke again in life. I invested every single Kobo, in properties and business. Along the line I went broke again, but my assets is appreciating everyday. Though won't admit to be broke but am still struggling. Business ain't easy in Nigeria, if you don't have a mentor or adequate experience don't venture into any biz or else you will always look for external money to fund it.

People can be so myopic with their reasoning, thinking all women are the same. For the fact that you had multiple failed relationships with some uncultured and loosed beings does not mean everyone will be same.

Op if you are sure of your woman you can go ahead and do what you so pleases.
You can't come and condemn people like that without even knowing what they share in common, what they might have discussed behind closed doors where obviously you weren't there, everyone is just pouring out their insecurities about women on the op. it's vice versa, she might also get there and be the one to help at the end of the day.

you know this woman more than we do, if you think she's worth it, you can give it a try.
but most importantly you need to open your eyes and brain and don't take decisions based on love that's sharking you. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

Am single but spend nothing less than 50k weekly, this include fuel for car and Gen, feeding and other things. It often comes with serious management some weeks it can be more.

I only came to seek advice from people that are more exposed and experienced when it comes to international travelling, well after much consultation I have taken my decision. Note: am not an agent infact the portal is almost closed so no one should think am trying to advertise any platform. If you reside or have friends over there in Spain kindly inform me let's link up thanks.

Good day y'all
I am a young adult in my late 20's, have tried several businesses back here in Nigeria which some happened to thrive and other's failed woefully, and even made me a laughing stock. But I don't allow all that to determine my future as I wake up every morning with a dogged determination to keep pushing in Life.

Recently God blessed my hustle and I was able to make some substantial amount of money, and I decided within me, that the time has come to leave the shores of this country, so I started processing my Japa moves.

I have contacted so many agency's online, though some are genuine and a lot are just bunch of scammers parading themselves to be professionals. moreover I got to discover I can't perfect my move via study route to Canada This year, but I can apply for January admission section which I am willing to wait.

But a friend of mine that stay's in Poland just introduced me to a very sure link where I can get work permit for 2 years in Spain though not cheap, Which will take less than 2 months to be perfected. I believe their capacity because another friend over here in naija just got his work permit in less than 1 month.

Do y'all think it's ideal to wait and process my admission via study route to Canada, which is highly under probability, or grab the Spain work permit sharply. Sorry for the long write up and thanks for your time.

You guys should let the op be, he is simply stating the fact, you need money to maintain a woman, that doesn't mean the woman should not work for her own money though. How can you be in a relationship and you can't provide the essential things not even the essential, the little things money can afford, dating a woman without Money is the fastest way to depression.
She has a minor problem and you can't help her fix it and just sending her money randomly to make her hair, once in a while, and you demand for sex always.

Guys double your hustle and stop having to think you can sustain a woman without funds, am not saying you should go all out and start spending recklessly on women, but how can you be with a woman in a room and there's no light everywhere is dark you can't even afford to buy fuel to put in your gen.

This things are essential women love comfort, yeah she can persevere with you if she sees a future in you but it has an expiry date.
it won't be long before she starts disrespecting you or tempted to go out and explore other options. Have been there before love is not everything you need to sustain a relationship, but other small small material things here and there to spark it up.

Sometimes just sending her money randomly can trigger her libido during intimacy, and she will bring out her heart to go extra Mlle to satisfy your sexual needs, in za oda room. these set of people love comfort, don't give her reasons to think otherwise my 2 cents.

This is so disheartening, some women can be so dangerous. I fear who no fear woman, in all you do always be cautious, and be prepared for anything, because this people wake up with different surprises on a daily basis. In all I still love them and will forever will.

[quote author=picaso313 post=113347970]Where in PH do you have the property could help get buyer ...

Have learnt my lesson the hard way bro, but I thank God am able to scale through. Are you an agent? Do you base in pH? If Yes email me let's discuss business

Hope its genuine and how do I go about it?

[this was posted as a result of a mistake I made I am not even done typing before I posted it mistakenly, but anyways the message has been sent.

Hello everyone is good to be here again. Hope y'all are doing fine?
Straight to the issues on ground right now, am a young man in my late 20s though I made millions at a very young age, due to my background and where am coming from, I invested all my money in real estate and hospitality business, thinking that the money will keep on flowing as usual, but unfortunately for the company I was working with they went bankrupt faster than I imagined.

Fast forward to my situation currently due to lack of funds my restaurant and lounge business is really suffering I had to lease it to someone else, who I eventually gave a moratorium period before remitting funds back to me monthly. This is a business I have invested over 20m trying to build it but due to my lack of experience on that particular field I had to let go in order to focus on other essential things of Life I can't come and kill myself abeg.

My main question is this what will you do if you were to be in my shoes for the experience people please

Guys as am typing this I am flat and I need to make a fast move on other ventures, and have decided to sell some of my properties.

If you are interested in setting up a filling station, supermarket, plaza Etc kindly write me up I have a very wonderful property in the heart of port Harcourt you might be interested in thanks for reading.

Mumu use your spit

Who's this unfortunate being disturbing the peace of the public by posting irrelevant things on the front page of all the interesting topics to look at, desist from this act or else you will end up like your fellow miscreant. Public saboteur.

This could be win for the peoples democratic party, but they failed to retain kwakwanso in the party.

Thanks guys for all the advice given to me yesterday, lemme start by replying a few reasonable people and forget about the ones that are so damn irrelevant, as I can see some people in this forum think through their anus.

Firstly trust is the foundation of every good relationship, no good relationship can thrive without it. The reason we have come this far is because of the understanding we have for each other, I detest going through her phone and she doesn't go through mine either, it's not like am stupid, but have not seen a valid reason,or a suspicious behavior from her to make me reason towards that direction.

Someone said am confused, if I was upright with my reasoning, and knew what to do, then there will be no need to bring my relationship issues up here but thanks anyways. There's good women in Nigeria,some people can just be unfortunate by consistently meeting the bad ones because they themselves are not anything close to being good,likes attract likes.

Jerewise332 you are truly wise and I appreciate your opinion thanks. Truth be told I love my woman no doubt, but like I said earlier, I hate to see her redundant, it weakens me, she's a very ambitious and hardworking woman before we started dating, and I don't intend to kill that by keeping her down in one place, because of my own selfish desires. you need to have sense of purpose not sitting at home all day wallowing, it can be tiring don't you think? Though am planning to relocate to lag also before 3rd quarter of the year, but really needs to offset a lot of things and sell some of my properties back here to raise enough capital to start up a new Business there.
Yeah planning to settle down real soon, likewise she, but we have agreed to use this few years we have left as boyfriend and girlfriend to chase the paper. When you are married it won't be business as usual.

Mottymop I totally agree with you, sometimes love is never enough to sustain relationships, you just need to be doing something Sha, don't be over dependant, most times it sucks and can be draining. Imagine asking a man to give you money for the least airtime to recharge your phone, yeah the man can do that occasionally but it's not mandatory he provides everything. If not you will be seen as a big liability.

Princefrank, we make mistakes in life sometimes can be irreparable. I didn't allow her to quit her job though, the company wasn't meeting up with her demands, and environment was toxic, coupled with the fact that salary wasn't paid on time, sometimes it can be held for months she got tired and resigned voluntarily. Moving in with the me was indeed a wrong decision and am trying to make it right.

Conclusion: I have decided to take things slowly a step at a time, there's no hurry in life. I have made all the necessary arrangements and fundings for her to relocate. in fact I have called a few friends in her profession who can help secure good jobs for her in there office over there. Just hope things goes as planned anyways.
Thanks to y'all once More for your advice I truly appreciate. Case closed.

Good day everyone.
Am a young guy in my late twenties, and am in a very serious relationship with my girlfriend now for over 3 years. She works with my former boss in the previous company I worked, before I resigned to set up my own personal business. Prior to that Time I have started developing feelings for her, made my intentions known, and it took her close to a year for her to finally give in to my request.

We have been together for a while now and she happens to be the best of them all. Because of her loyalty, and forward thinking attitude, I made her a partner In my company.she started working for me and was really an asset, knows how to keep work and relationship life balanced and very professional. Fast-forward to 2020 during the pandemic the business suffered a lot, making it difficult for us to even feed sometimes, because have used all my funds to invest in the business, but God in his infinite ways always come through and show us mercy. We have been struggling together and she's so understanding and never gets to pressure me for anything, I feel comfortable telling her my business dealings, and transactions am working on, without having any form of resentment. She's someone I can talk to about anything and everything.
Currently she stays with me in my 2 bedroom flat, I Cater for her, and try in my own little way to provide all the necessary and essential things of Life for her. But of late, I started feeling she could do more as I don't like my woman doing nothing, I like her to also hustle, make her own money and be comfortable in her own way.

Now the challenge is that I advised her to go and join her friend in Lagos inorder to get a white collar job for now while, am busy sorting things out here,to come join her soon. Just wanted to see her reactions, well she took it very serious, as she feels she's beginning to be a liability to me, she however contacted her friend on the island and planning to leave, to also work on her own. But I kinda feel worried that am making a wrong decision by letting a good woman leave, and I also don't want to limit her potentials by keeping her down since am not yet legally married to her. We all know the future can be so uncertain, when she gets there.
Note: This is someone I intend to get married to soon. If you like insult me na you Sabi ooo, need advice from the matured minded individuals only thanks. Sorry for the long write up, and typo errors.