Amotolongbo: Nigeria isn’t as bad as this, bagging expired rice as this. How are we so sure that those expired rice come from inside the COVID19 package from the Lagos State government?
How many people have had this kind of experience? If none, the woman was definitely lying and only seeking for a media attention
How was she lying when she opened the bag in front of the camera?
kikero: If you want to stop taking loans, the answer is simple...develop an economy where the value of exports are greater than the value of imports.
But we won't do that...and we sabotage efforts to grow such an economy by
1.Refusing to pay our power bills, and refusing to allow DISCOS and GENCOS set the prices for power...which would allow them make enough money and attract investment to improve power, and by extension our industrial capacity.
2.Refusing to let marketers control the price of fuel...which prevents investment in new refineries, prevents NNPC from making enough of a profit to improve refining capacity, prevents foreign investment, and indirectly causes us to produce less gas than we need...which affects power supply
3.Refusing to invest in vocational and technical education. As a result, not enough technicians, who will build the economy
Instead we export oil, and use the foreign exchange to import goods that are higher in value than what we export...and then we have to take loans.
Even OP, in his region, like most of Nigeria, the biggest business is importing things.
Exactly.
The funny thing is that the stupid op forgets that his people import virtually everything from China, yet he is complaining about being sold to the chinese.
Thats not only hypocrisy but stupidity at its peak
supercase1: I laugh at foolish nigerians especially the niger deltans,they think can eat your cake and have it.instead of Niger Delta to unite just as their biafran counterpart even if they don't want to join biafra.they choose to be sabbateurs and hypocrites.news from detailed and unconfirmed source have it that buhari used more than 30% of Nigerian oil Wells to sign as garantee for loans china give to nigeria.you see why buhari and his cabals are having an easy ride because Nigeria delta,it's leaders traditional rulers choose to be gullible and greedy.by the time Chinese take over their choice oil well it will be too late to cry foul. once again i am laughing at the foolishness of Nigerians especially the hypocritical Niger deltans.and also note by that time I might have been a citizen of another country.only time shall tell.
Can you leave Niger deltans out of your stupidity?
OutharryHIV: Like every human, she was shocked and couldn't accept the result but like I said earlier, we chose to put it behind us and move on. And she didn't blame me.. she knows me and the kind of life I live and what I have been doing.. We dated for 8 years before marriage.
She was shocked?!
Hahaha, your wife is a very good actress. I give her that.
lefulefu: u allowed urself to be used as a rebound nigga and u want to use that excuse to punish innocent girls when will some of u guys understand when a girl gets treated like trash by her boyfriend or fiancee and she comes to u to crying dont make the mistake of giv uing her a shoulder to cry on.tell her to go make peace with her boyfriend and if she is looking for shoulder to lean on tell her directly that u have no shoulder to give her to shed her tears.always a wise choice to push those girls who look for shoulders of unfortunate dudes back to their boyfriends or if not she will use u as a rebound nigga and u will sit dere hoping and hoping .i just hope u didnt spend any money while u acted as a rebound nigga for her .
It is so obvious that he spent a lot on her without pounding the pus'sy, that's why the op is pained
Descorts: I am weak? Just cuz I wanted to help a friend through emotional trauma, you call that weak? You must be a kid. I'm not having this conversation with you, you've not seen life. Dont mention me again please
If you knew the number 1 rule of relationship which is "never fall 100% in love with any girl", then you won't be in this situation.
seunmsg: You are nothing but a bigot. I didn’t mention any tribe or religion in my post. Little minds like you cannot make any point without resorting to tribalism and religion. They gave it to Bello and he gave them back. Fair is fair. Period.
On the bolded, i advise that you stop supporting stupidity online.
Which one is Bello gave them back? How can Bello be accusing Trump of incompetence when his own father is a patron of incompetency while Buhari is the grand patron of incompetency. Let Bello talk to his father and Buhari and leave Trump out of his fo0lishiness.
Until Nigerians stop being deliberately dumb, we will keep getting evil, useless leaders
Astark: that's the same way whites and other races of women find us the least attractive.
A white woman will move to other side of the road when they see a black man coming.
An Asian woman will close her face and go to other side of the seat when they see a black man.
Have you heard of other races putting their women down except black men? White men built their country and treat their white women as queens that's why you lust over them.
We need to do better and treat our women right because no one will
Keep deceiving yourself.
Here is a YouTube video by a Zambian woman narrating why most foreign women (both white and African women) rush and go after Nigerian men. She even said that the white women don't even mind getting scammed by Nigerian men.
Also, check the comments and see how foreign women and attesting to what she said
Ladycewhy: Loneliness is not a function of location . Anyone can be lonely anywhere. How these motherfuckers come up with this their sexist threads beats me
tyup: Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe
mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh
Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done
tyup: Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe
mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh
Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done
gargoylern: Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny
Dem don reply you o...Waiting for your response
whizqueen: My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.
I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.
Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.
Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.
I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me
What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear
If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.
Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.
Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.
White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department
In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.
Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.
All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.
Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.
There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.
A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.
I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today