A man possessing woman as his only sexual, emotional needs provider and believe he's the ONLY one in her life is delusional there are always other men orbiting around her and sometimes other women (lesbian) want her for the same needs she provide the man. It's not just that she shares the Hot pot with other men only, the issue is what she does when she's with the man who calm  her emotional storm that determine how she treats other orbiters.

She display two patterns, if you fall in the second; better do ALL you can to eliminate yourself from that woman because there are many good ones. Never waste your time or compromise your emotional needs for a woman whose affections are conditional.

Pattern One: She Knows Her Place in Your Life

A woman will break rules for the man that turns her on and create rules for the man she doesn't respect, she will bang him in an uncompleted building, jump through the fence to see him and lie for him. This is a woman who's attracted to the man, this attraction makes her respect him and see every opportunity to help him as valuable because those opportunities are rare.

Pattern Two: Necessary Evil in Her Life

There's the other woman who see the man in her life as a necessary evil whose presence disguised her but she has to be with him because he continues to meet her specific conditions. She only offer when he meet those conditions.

She always expect the man constant support rather than appreciate his occasional voluntary support and hates it if she has to be the one to help because she sees the man as a maid whose presence often irritate her. The man is useless when he can't meet her required specific functions because she treat her needs, time and effort as more valuable than anything else.

Now, look at your life and see if you have a woman who fits the second pattern and if you do, this is the time to remove her from your life because it's always easier to start a new healthy relationship (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/01/5-manly-ways-get-girl-want/) with someone else. Remember there are no special one or soul mates (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/) but many good ones and bad ones, the choice is up to you.