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Romance › Re: I Told Her I Wouldn't Have Sex Until I'm Married. Now, This Is Happening! by Theoutsider: 10:41pm On Aug 08, 2020
Funkyswagzz:
Every man is entitled to his opinion.. do we have a problem here cos I don't get u? And u call me a kid? cheesy cheesy dude just chill ok don't transfer that aggression here cos I'm in a good mood today.
There is no problem..

It appears you have a "projection" issue?

Using words like 'aggression' and 'chill' to create a fake narrative or illusion. Do you always gaslight readers?
Romance › Re: I Told Her I Wouldn't Have Sex Until I'm Married. Now, This Is Happening! by Theoutsider: 10:05pm On Aug 08, 2020
Funkyswagzz:
Dude am not the op in case u are mistaking.. besides I'm not asking him to take her back. Read in between lines ok. Just drink some water and get some sleep.
Kid.. you have no idea who you are talking too.
Romance › Re: Sex Workers In Serious Relationships Show Off Their Partners And Reveal How Long by Theoutsider: 9:37pm On Aug 08, 2020
Dgnaijagist08:
This twitter thread has proven that sex workers can still find love despite the nature of their job, which requires them to provide several services including having sex with people for money.



Hoochie Mama, a proud sex worker took to her Twitter page to show off her partner who she's has been dating for two years. She also encouraged other sex workers to share pictures with their partners and disclose how long they have been together.


One sex worker who posted a picture with her boyfriend of five years revealed that he is also into the same line of business with her.


Check out the full thread below.[color=#990000][/color]


https://dgnaijagist.com/sex-workers-in-serious-relationships-show-off-their-partners-and-reveal-how-long-theyve-been-together-despite-the-nature-of-their-job-18-photos/
Whats your point... you want your woman having sex with other men, but you get the benefits of marrying her?
Romance › Re: I Told Her I Wouldn't Have Sex Until I'm Married. Now, This Is Happening! by Theoutsider: 9:25pm On Aug 08, 2020
Funkyswagzz:
So she can't divorce the biological father abi..?

Bro with ur statement u don't know anything about women. I don't even know what u on about?
I don't know anything about women? Are you that much of a loser that you cannot find a SINGLE woman who doesnt have 5 kids or does it make you feel good to use the fact that the woman is in a desperate situation.. you use it as a TOOL to get in a relationship.

Are you really that stupid?

Person bleeps up..
needs financial help.
You CREATE an Illusion she loves you... but in reality she is using you to fix her mistakes and problems.
If she didn't have those kids and was younger you didn't have a chance.

This is what a cuck is... this is what a BETA is.

The minute you dont have a job she is gone... how many stories do you have to read where the woman is jumping from Beta to Alpha.
Romance › Re: African Game: The Next Step After Taking The Redpill by Theoutsider: 8:29am On Jul 19, 2020
MY STORY AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GAME AND PUA.

Of course I don't intend telling you much about myself. That would be the wet dream of bluepillers and Betas. All I can say is as a guy who was once beta, I was primed to discover the difference by experience between game and pua. I am a little busy now but I will try to be short but concise.

1) PUAS major purpose is pussy, Games purpose is the entire development of a man in life. Where PUA only concerns itself about pussy ( and even fails at it), Game is concerned only about making a boy into a man. All my posts, especially the introductory ones explained this. I have overflogged this idea several times, hyping on male pride and honour and greatness. If you haven't read it, read it. It is just pure nuisance to mixup game with PUA.

2) PUA fails even at getting pussy. Game knows all and doesn't fail about anything. When a guy Google's information about women, what often comes up is info given by PUA artistes like Charles Amante. This guys look good to the average beta and they make money off them. But PUA artistes don't know jack about women ( or they do, but hide it so they can sell books). Little wonder I have never seen any guy truly get helped by reading pua artistes like Charles Amante. The very important points PUA artistes ignore, go deep down into understanding women.


3) Pua artistes respect women. Most of them are Betas. They never talk about hypergamy and still perpetrate the idea of love. I have studied them. PUA artistes still talk about women as flowers. PUA artistes are beta males fronting as sex and relationship experts. They truly know nothing about the nature of women.

Important example: Ilegend.
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One of Ilegends post I saw by mistake was one where a woman was coming to visit him and he was so happy about it. He even sissified his room and made it all flowery and seductive. This is a guy who seeks pussy validation. This is the kind of guy that would go through heaven and earth to get pussy. A guy that comes online to brag about a woman coming to see him is a despicable man. A disgraceful man. This is your number 1 PUA on Romanceland. How can you then mix games message with his? This is where you have mixed up the whole thing. Men like Ilegend are not Gamers. They are PUA artistes, a bunch of ineffective Betas who are even beneath women because at least women laugh at them.


4) Game is not about a woman you have a relationship with alone. Unlike pua, it is not centered on that. I said something about game dealing with women's mentality about you. When you are a gamer, you relate with all women differently. It takes charge. Everything you do with a woman matters. Whether she's selling something to you or is your pastors wife, there's a way game rules your interactions.


Illustration.

I recently went to get another phone as backup. There was this saleswoman who thought she could pull the female nonsense over me. There was something she noticed and she behaved instantly. The message was clear: this guy here has no value for pussy. Bleep off! I wonder how men like Ilegend, pua artistes behave in this situation. Surely it would be despicable!


5) It is important to know that game doesn't have expiry date or time. When you Marry, you game your wife. When you have female daughters, you game her. You are not fucking your female daughter for chrtissake! I clearly mentioned that game was adaptation to hypergamy. Your female daughter will need your game to become whatever good you can make of her. She will be hypergamous. Your sister is hypergamous. Your mother is. All females are. Game is your adaptation. Why in the heck will you mixup a wide concept like game with PUA which has a narrow, vain scope!

6) Game builds a man. I have discussed this in my applications of game. Game can change a guys life for good. Read it again. With game, you reach your Ultimate goal of becoming a true man. Game will teach you life. Game will deal with your sentiments. Game will question every idea you have ever held dear. It will help you make amends and by the time game is done with you, you will be one of the proud examples of true manhood!

That's it, by tomorrow the thread has reached its end. If you want my number, email.

I don't know how to close a thread on Nairaland, if you know how , do share.
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LOL what are you teaching these guys. Game your wife, Game your daughter?

This guys is a JOKE and will lead you into serious issues.

The core issue is your PARENTS.

When you were a child they beat you anytime you do something wrong, they make sure you do not make them look bad. You than build a fear of doing wrong. I am not saying beating are wrong.. They teach you discipline, but parents do not train confidence with that discipline.

When you are older you go to date women and project that women as "your parent" particularly the mother. Your parents did not raise you to be assertive, they raise you to be passive and to not express your self. You than end up being submissive to the women and biologically she will reject you.

Women have a biological game they use.

Have sex with the most confident man... NOT the most reliable man.
Later when she has kids, broke, and has no where to go... she looks for you wink yes you.

In almost every developing country women are having more sex than men. Meaning women rather have sex with the same guy than have sex with you.


Some of the men here exploit women who have had sex with unreliable men and broke to achieve a relationship. This is the worse possible outcome.


once you are born like this... you are programmed. What your parents taught you is hard wired.
How are you suppose to "be attractive" to both men and women if you have a built system of fear.

The biggest lie that many of you have been told is to sacrifice your self and protect everyone. No! you need to feed and protect your self so later on you can protect your love ones. Stop trying to be a king or hero and destroy your future just for romance. unless that is all you seek.

No amount of GAME will keep you married or your wife fateful.
Game is something you play.
Unlock what being a man is... having control over your emotions to make proper decisions instead of emotional decisions.

Learn speak professionally. go to business meetups, learn a trade, learn how to talk to groups of people. Practice.

If you think game is going to beat social media and internet brain washing.. I have a bridge to sell you. -George C. Parker
Romance › Re: I Told Her I Wouldn't Have Sex Until I'm Married. Now, This Is Happening! by Theoutsider: 7:42am On Jul 19, 2020
Funkyswagzz:
Bro soon u will adopt that kid as ur own and u guys will be together again. Wait do u really think she still want to stay wiv dat guy? Bro shes waiting for u to make ur move. Well anytime u are ready just adopt the kid and take her back cos uve tide urself to her and her child. I hope u know there's no goin back on this cos if u do.. uve betrayed urself. So make ur choice now
What the hell are you guys smoking.
I suggest you look up the word cuckold. What romance BS are you guys reading?
So you guys wait till women have sex with other men, have kids, and take advantage of their mistakes and consider that love?

A woman is always attached to the biological father.
Family › Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Theoutsider: 11:52pm On May 13, 2020
Nigeria has a food supply problem.
A government problem.
An education problem.
Property problem.

So the answer is throwing children at it. grin

This country is doomed.
Crime › Re: Leo: Man Kidnapped In Owerri And Killed By Men In Army Uniform (Graphic Photos) by Theoutsider: 11:46pm On May 13, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

As a real niggarrr from the street i can say this is probably a Wrong deal

No matter what
Once the money show

Make sure say you nor let greed take over you
Agreement na agreement.
Don't reduce or increase the percentage
Nor come up with stories say them don kill the aza

Real niggarrrz don't like that story and they can easily pull the trigger.
Azaman nor be for greedy people


Everywhere good for B side brother
Have some respect and stop calling your self a Niggar.
Romance › Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Theoutsider: 2:26am On May 13, 2020
GenBuhari:
1. Marry your woman 2.Tell her to stop taking HIV medication 3..When baby arrive she should breastfeed. 4.Have a wonderful married and family 5. No need to visit the HIV clinic don't worry she and your family would be fine and would live a long fulfilled life.
Not only is this response uneducated and childish. It shows your lack of understand of an immune disease. Advice like this will in doubt send her the grave. Do you have any idea what HIV is or does.
Romance › Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Theoutsider: 12:35am On May 13, 2020
famzynet:
She can breastfeed her baby as long as she is taking her medications. The child will be given medications too. But it must be exclusive breastfeeding with no mixed feeding for 6months. Breastfeeding stops whenever you bring in other feeding .
Use protection when you meet her except when you want to procreate.
Sure nothing wrong here. huh

Just that your whole family will be on either emtricitabine, rilpivirine , tenofovir for years on end with possible ever lasting effects on the child mentally. Also, the abuse it has on your liver the drugs will do. On top of that promoting unprotected sex here even though HIV and AIDs is a problem. Her bad decisions is now your bad decision.

HIV is not the worse virus? Well it kills blacks because of their inability to control their sexual desires.

Anyone young man thats reading this please take my advise.. stop having sex (or at least protected sex) and get your mind, education/business in order. You don't need to have a girl NOW or get married. Do not get sucked into this cycle, because you will end up like this guy. Adding problems with out mastering your self. If you have AIDS your life is not over. That is not the message I am sending.

Its just beyond sick how many men approve a man playing with fire and putting the WOMAN on a pedestal.

This is just a man desperate to be loved and will put his life on the line for it and eventually in the future will regret not loving him self first.

She loves you because now she is backed against the wall. She knew she was infected and saw you as a "provider"

In life we have to make hard decisions. Some times we have to walk away from loves ones to be better people.
Romance › Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Theoutsider: 1:43pm On May 12, 2020
If you had HIV and she was clean. Most likely she would not go out with you.

But because many men here are brain washed into thinking they must "bite the bullet" They make their penis do all the talking.

It amazing how many men use religion or archaic thinking to subject them selves already difficult times.

Also, the lack of control to not wear a condom. angry
Romance › Re: What's With The Vag Ooze... by Theoutsider: 8:25am On May 12, 2020
Vaginal discharge or yeast infection
Romance › Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Theoutsider: 8:15am On May 12, 2020
Romance › Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Theoutsider: 8:12am On May 12, 2020
Cluster B personality traits. You express strong narcissistic traits


Did you lose a father or mother?
or do you have one very loving parent and one non loving parent?
Family › Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Theoutsider: 7:59am On May 12, 2020
2012

Miz_JaY: My first r/l was a flirt, he disappointed me so bad, I didn't date for almost 3 yrs and wen I realised I was not getting any younger, I decided to enter anoda r/l, which lasted for almost 5 yrs. During this period, I was paying d bills even when I had no job. I am too calm & cool so he took advantage of that. I decided to go my way though it was a tough decision because of all the sacrifices I've made for almost 5yrs and I'm 28, couldn't imagine I wasted almost 5yrs on a r/l dat ended up no where, I snobbed enough guys that period because I chose to stay faithful, I don't double date & also he promised me marriage. I am supposed to be a very pretty gal but I don't always look good cos I'm always worried about what he will eat or wear etc so instead of using d money to take care of my looks, I channel it to him. Was I being stupid for 5 yrs? ? Its not just about love though it was compassion because I couldn't stop helping him as I couldn't watch him suffer. I didn't think I was getting a fair treatment as he scolds me at any slight mistake I make making me feel like a mumu when I'm a smartass. Sometimes I wished I Can just have babies & take care of them myself without marrying? I can't seem to meet any really good guy, my dream guy. I've suffered in d hands of my 2 relationships and I'm tired of men, even if I decide to date, I can never date a broke arsse anymore, I used to hate d talk dat a guy has to really have cash b4 u date him but omo I second that now as I have seen Oba.. I am wrecked cos I took care of a guy for 5yrs and I'm suffering for it. By now I should have a land and at least a small ride & some cash saved up in my account if I had invested all dat money I spent for 5yrs on dis guy. I am so devastated....what guys do to gals...Mtscheww...Smh...now I'm wondering where I would start from. Sometimes Why do some really good girls go through baad relationships? I just feel like d world should end already
you messed up

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