₦airaland Forum

fairlyisabel:
Johnydon22 you re the best. Williamso I respect you. Safarigirl and co, you guys are wonderful. Women are really dying slowly. Women are really being murdered indirectly by these chauvinists in Nigeria especially here in nairaland. We are women. We are proud of who we are. Sexists should please allow us to be. We want to be free, alive and well respected like them too. This is not equality per se but to be given a sense of belonging.

safarigirl:
heightened curiosity should not lead to r-ape.

You cannot go to a court and defend ra-pist by citing the victim's dress code in a sane society. Only mad people do that

Nothing justifies rape, not even insanity 'cause a mad man/woman can recognize and feel physical pain.

That opined, women deliberately induce the untoward advances. How many times haven't we heard women say they are dressing to "kill"? How many times haven't your girlfriends said something like , "girl, we gon' "kill" them today" infront of a full-length mirror?
How many times haven't you dressed in skimpy clothes for a party because you want to "steal" the show?

Need I go on? Don't play the sole victim here, missy.

safarigirl:
India has the highest r-ape cases in the world. Not USA or France, not even Jamaica or Brazil. India with all their coverings.

If you cannot control that thing between your legs, don't blame anyone for your short-comings. Deal with it yourself. Only an adolescent has urges he can't control. A real man will need to see a fully n-ude body to react blindly

Wrong. Women taunting men with the possibility of more by being semi-nùde heightens our curiosity and leads us to crave the women more.

Why do you think an average stripper makes more money per hour than the average full-on prøstitute?

IdisuleOurOwn:
Thought they say Haruna Baba resume duty 24 hours before Obi, that now make him the senior.

datguru:
If your conscience tell you what you did is bad, then its a sin but if you feel nothing, then forget it.

thronekid:
Nice attempt, sir. But no, it still is wrong.

thronekid:
1. I am hungry.

2. 56 years ago, Nnamdi Azikiwe was freed from making freedom based protests when he died.
(Someone correct this. It is not correct grammatically. If you can, you are superbly wow!)

None got any. Not even 1.
A kiss, MizMyColi?

GHoJes:
First of all, that your one conclusion you arrived at is wrong because it does not hold true for all cheating "yoruba" men. I even think its not true in your case as you'v have decided to cheat if you see calabar girl (na so you like food), then blame it on your wife or feminism.

What do you even want? Is it for your wife to stop working or always fix your meal?
Your wife adds no value at all? try the maid or calabar woman whether they have all the values you want or if you will not remember why you married your wife?
I think the maid is not a better cook else you would have compromise. You think you wife dont meet guys in her work place that can "add value" you may not be adding or you think only you want all value addition?

Man, you deal with your problem and not run to a safer ground instead or you will also run from calabar woman when she lacks in an area.

It seems your love language is act of service, if true, your wife is doing one by loving your daughter the way no maid, calabar girl or woman may do. She only need to step up, sometimes all you need do is hold her hand to step up.

You married her a career woman, i also doubt your perfectionist type would have been attracted to the uneducated housewife you described. Her job is tiring as she said and she got a maid because she needed one. Its not like she is making no effort to cook at all, abi you have other problems with her. Cut her some slacks, encourage and appreciate her. Routine is not easy to break, she is used to the maid helping out when you are not around.
I doubt if you've told her these the way you told us, you've not make her see your pain in it. You told her about the maid cooking again but you left out the seduction part that would have made her chase the maid and help her to be careful.

If you really fear God and love daughter, do all to send that maid away. Communicate where it hurts to your wife so that she may ease things, you may too may find you are hurting her somewhere.

Donsmart15:

"I have found it hard to pay the wage bills owing to the declining federal allocation to the state. Federal allocation to the state has reduced by 40 per cent since 2013.

HFOG:
Hmm. Still assimilating your words. Even when you use simple words your arrangement is something else. I must commend you for your effort in keeping it simple this evening. Talking with you is more pleasurable this way.

LOL. Reminds me of the gruelling mental torture every reporter tasked (punished ?) with having to interview the famed Sesquipedalian, Hon. Obahiagbon, goes through when transcribing.

HFOG:
Wow. That's interesting you know. But there are persons like me born and bred in the north who can't fluently speak Hausa :-(
Me think you have a flare for languages generally

I suppose so. I wonder why I never could speak any variation of the Sino-language even though I was hooked on Chinese movies like every kid my age back then.

HFOG:
I don't think I get you. Anyway, next week is a new month and Truckpusher would be saying some prayers from everyone.

HFOG:
Who's the them? Dey well o

Truckpusher, rings a bell?

HFOG:
I see. How come I'm not proficient in it?

Erm, considering the fact that I was born and raised in Lagos till I turned 13, it's only a given that I should speak it.

HFOG:
No way. Are you that good with languages?

Yoruba Language is quite easy.

HFOG:
And I thought I was understanding you? :-(

You did and you still do.

You'd like Yoruba for a change?

HFOG:
:-O
Oh no. Please not here. Pleaseeee. :-(

My apologies. I just had to set it straight.

The tuxedo is back on.

HFOG:
It's either my English has stepped up or yours has stepped down else how do I explain my understanding you this blessed evening sir?

My Utopia? "Me-topia"? Private getaway? Private time? Is it coming together?

"Me-topia" is just me messing around with words. The quotation marks are there for a reason.

luxanne:
@ Thesonof.mark,
Greetings

Good evening missy.

Captainswag225:
thesono.fmark, why are u following me around?

Get off your imaginary horse, 'squire'. KINGsley has been visiting this place for close to seven weeks now.


You should focus on getting therapy for your chronic schizophrenia. I bet you even play Hide and Seek with your shadow.

Shoo! Retreat to CLOWNSVILLE.

MizMyColi:
You were banned, I suppose?

An exercise awaits thee @Grammar diary.

HFOG:
Whence comest thou?

darkenedrebel:
depression over the delusions & witless accusations by a psychotic parent-dependent University of Uyo undergraduate? hehe[burst into hysterical laughter]

you must be inherently stewpid to even think that I give a tuppence about any low-life mascot on the internet.. meanwhile, keep jerking your phallus over sharon's sobriquet & the Neymar's photos on my makeshift Facebook account.... corny-ass homo£rotic stalker ✘

[b]
You are bereft of any worthwhile reputation, schizophrenic gay.

We all know you update pictures of naked men on your Facebook photo album, you rectum-loving bovine specie.

How about the fact that you claim you mum is Ukrainian and you visit her in Kiev when in essence she's a negroid who resides in Nigeria - a Yoruba woman.

Dyslexic halfwit, how do you explain the fact that you graduated from Anglican Grammar School in 2011 and you claim to have graduated from UniLag? Graduate?

How come your name isn't on the convocation list?

Ishiløve was right- you are a measly JAMBite.

You are a pathological liar, a bipolar delusional pisces-brain whose nadir-esque self-worth edges him to string webs of deception existent only in his broken-mind.

Say 'hi' to Darmie.

The only things you have going on for you are your woes and , of course, trying to extort stipends from unsuspecting monikers in the Romance section, snorty faggøt.