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drinoayo:
Nollywood actress Rosy Meurer has said that what she was accused of became her reality and fate, Igbere TV reports.

The 29-year-old spoke exclusively on how her relationship with Tonto Dikeh’s ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill began in several videos on Thursday.

She said Churchill had always been there for herself and siblings and was a brother to her.

Rosy also said after Churchill’s divorce from Tonto, she stood by him till they got married.



Rosy on Tuesday said she was not dating Churchill while he was married to Tonto.

She conducted a question and answer session on Instastories.

A fan asked,

She replied saying,

“Why did you break another woman’s home, your friend for that matter,” another person asked.

Rosy replied saying, “No one broke anyone’s home my dear. It is just what it is. Life happened, something’s you don’t plan. I let God’s will in my life take place, I lost my own relationship in the middle of all the online banter then, something that didn’t concern me.

“I never looked at him in that way. If his eyes were on me. He got married eventually and unfortunately only God knows what really happened and why it ended the way it did and why I was dragged into what I had no knowledge of. I still remained a part of his life like I always have.

“Just this time he was broken and just off, shattered. I still had no interest in him. Still looked at him the same way just with so much pity this time. Time healed him….2 years ago he proposed, 1 year ago did the necessary rights. By the grace of God we are happy today.”

Rosy also established the fact that she was never friends with Tonto.



Rosy trended on Monday following the revelation of her marriage to Churchill.

She celebrated her birthday with several pictures and videos flaunting her ring on Instagram.

Tonto’s fans took to Twitter and Rosy’s comment section to bash her for marrying her friend’s ex-husband.

Igbere TV reports that Tonto had accused Rosy to be the reason her marriage to Churchill crashed.

“I am aware of her. I am aware that she is sleeping with my husband. I am aware that my husband is taking care of her. I am also aware that she is the reason that my husband abandoned his son and me for close to two months just before the Big Foundation thing we did in December” disclosed Tonto Dikeh in an interview.

Rosy, however later came out to deny the accusation.

Tonto parted ways with Churchill in 2017 just two years after their wedding in 2015 over allegations of domestic abuse and extra-marital affairs.

They have a son, Andre together.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7x7kYYxmjw

CuteMercury:
lol you must be deceiving yourself if you think that woman genuinely love cristiano ronaldo.

By the way Ronaldo made her who she is today, she was a nobody, an ordinary sales girl before she met Ronaldo.

Do you think she would have looked at ronaldo twice if he wasn't rich and famous?

Bro best believe, a richer man like P diddy can still snatch her from ronaldo, no cap.

It's all about the money Bro.

When you talk about women that have supported their men through tick and hard times, then don't talk about Rodrigues.

Talk about women like Beyonce, Michele obama, the p square wives, so many examples you can give.
talk about women like our mothers and not rodriguez.

xynerise:
This is how they risk lives of passengers in Lagos. There are many more rubbish buses like this in Lagos and the Road Safety Commission is doing nothing about it .



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NU-rUBAwL4




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MrColdsweat:
I'd love to be educated on al maidah 51. Open a new thread in the religion section and mention me.

MrColdsweat:
You know Christianity. But should a Christian be on this thread peddling hate against against women?

If we insist that men must always rule over women for some reasons known to men, should we condemn the Islamic fundamentalists who insist that Muslims must always dominate and rule over Christians?

MrColdsweat:
[b]The emphasis on women has turned some men to misogynists.

All supposed red-pilled truths and perspectives about women are distorted and subjective. "Women are whores, women are this, women are that...". These claims will always be in contention.

But there is an objective truth. Women are humans like you, man. Same flesh and blood. God gave man and woman the same freewill and instinct for self-preservation. why are men mad that women are exercising them?

This hypergamy we talk about, What exactly is wrong if a woman wants and picks a high-class male for a partner? Is it not an expression of freewill and self-interest we're all naturally endowned with?

If you, as a man, get several job offers, won't you likely take the job with the best pay and best working conditions? Won't you likely dump your present job for a new job with a better pay?

What exactly are women doing wrong that men are not involved in?

We're all guilty of everything thing we accuse women of. We're often accomplices.

Take a good look at the thread. Is this level of misogyny healthy?

If you are a fulfilled, happy man with achievements, what would you gain by insisting on having women under you?

Some of us on this thread are thread are Christians, is this what Christ taught? Some patriarchs wanted to stone a woman for whoring, did Christ not stop them? How then can Christians even think of writing these disgusting things about women when Christ asked us to love unconditionally?

Not so!! He asked us to love one another with a genuinely good intentions and not to satiate a narcissistic needs or wants!! Even GOD doesn't love us unconditionally, why the need for HELL AND PARADISE?

No forget say Some of us for this thread go finally born daughters and another mummyfuccker fit come dey oppress am because of red-pill wey him swallow.

The oga-shepard of this thread once claimed that women are psychologically violent. And his sheeps applauded him, saying nonsense about women. Is the acclaimed psychological violence, hypergamy, awalt and other red-pill tags of women as deadly as the physical violence perpetrated by men?

Do you know that if you are killed today, it is very likely that it will be done by a man?

Men are responsible for at least 70% of violence and rape in society. Should that not worry you guys? Is this not a reasonable topic for discussion?


I first came to nairaland 10years ago and I know the level of maturity and the respect we accorded each other in this section.

I'm tired of the misogyny.

Anybody waiting for me to leave this thread is wasting his time
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MrColdsweat:
He might be a good man with good intentions but buhari and his herdsmen brothers have given northerners a bad name.

Someone7:
This guy must have had a history with a lady called Chinyere.

MrColdsweat:
My posts are not majorly. I don't know why most men here cannot talk without involving women even when I stated the need to take our eyes off them for a while and fix it on ourselves.


What you should be doing is to go through my posts and tell me if I'm wrong about the need need to drop some components of masculinity and why we shouldn't drop them.

Zabiboy:
I agree with this..
Most times when men complain about women, i smile because the truth is we(men) are the ones that cause them to act that way..
We blame women for being hoes, yet brothel's patronization is increasing in size...
We claim women have only pvssy to offer, yet they deny thier fellow man of a job bcz a woman has offered them pvssy...
We claim women expose their body, yet we still give these women favors and leave out those who cover their bodies...
And many more...
We as men can change women without a word by first focusing on ourselves, helping ourselves and setting our RULES...But ARE WE READY??..
It'll be nice if you can be dropping your points and ignoring anyone that opposes man....
Anyone that dont agree with him should stop reading his posts..
GL everyone

MrColdsweat:
I do not believe in the sisterhood.

Tell me, is the sisterhood as old as brotherhood?

I blame man for everything because he's the symbol of society. He's been responsible for upholding and maintaining it. Who else do I blame? If you see a child who constantly insults his elders or destroys property, won't you blame the parents aso?

Do you think women would agree to create a system where they'll be second class people?

Do you think women agree with men to create a system where they will be beheaded or stoned to death if they sleep around like men?

Men have always molded and tamed women. They have been instilling the attributed values in women since the inception of society until recently.

Also, maybe the scheming, narcissism, and all are part of their so-called struggle for liberation. But I mostly speak about women from the values I know.

But you are still looking at women through your masculine perspective. Men are not narcissistic, treacherous because maybe they have loyalty, honor, nobility as values. Have you thought of it that way?

Our differences are our values.

But I'm not here for women.
I'm here for men. I'm here to show men that masculinity and patriarchy oppresses men much more than women.

I'm here to show men that this thing women bring to the table, is freedom for men. They should swallow their pride and prepare for it by dropping some masculine values, because one way or the other, it will happen in the future and when it happens, they might lose out because they were never prepared.

Killertune20:
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.

MrColdsweat:
That is the natural endorsement and not as a result of any value.

We, like other animals, are wild and chaotic.

The difference is values. We tamed ourselves with values, but women are less tamed and are very much chaotic and unpredictable because they have very few values.


A PC with so many softwares running simultaneously, will slow down often.

A PC with very few softwares will rum very quick because there will be very plenty memory on the ram.

In the default state, we are all wild.

MrColdsweat:
First of all, I have barely talked about women on this thread. If you see a claim I made, that contradicts my message, you should present evidence to avoid been accused of defamation.


Secondly: We are an outward projection of the composition of our values. I listed Japan and Yorubaland as examples.

In both nations, children are thoroughly indoctrinated on respect, and this indoctrination go with them all their lives. It is a well known fact that man and Woman are respectful in the nations of Japan and yorubaland. There are several nations with distinct values and the values are reflexive via their behavior.

My point is simple, asides the biological/natural endowment(testosterone, penis etc), man is mostly what he is, because of the values he has apportioned for the male gender. And woman is what is she because of the values apportioned for the female gender.

If we collectively, start indoctrinating the coming generation of women with the values we apportioned to men, they will behave very much like men.

Unlike the Yorubaland where the young are indoctrinated with respect, In igboland, we were indoctrinated with freedom and equality. We believed that we are all equal. Equal right for everyone, both old and small are equal. Because of this, the average Igbo person is bold and daring. Even their women are tough like their men. But the Yoruba man sees the igboman as a person who lacks respect. This is because he looks at the igboman through the lenses of his(Yoruba) values. The igboman sees the Yoruba man as a coward because of his dependency and excess respect for his leaders. The same problem of perspective.

This is a similar problem with the male and female gender. Our women are weak, disloyal because it is not part of their societal values, same way Yoruba can say an igbo man has no respect, because it is not part of his values. But they can be, if they are instilled in them at a young age.

The women of ancient Dahomey tribe have show of strength as a value. They were trained to be as tough as men. The women mostly went to war, fought and even defeated men on the battle field. What does this tell you?


What about the young men of today, who have no fathers to instill the masculine values in them? Don't they mostly appear weak and feminine?

Summarily, we are mostly an outward projection of our values. The mind is like a pc and values are like softwares. Most men brag about being men without understanding that they are men because they have been programmed to be men. And women could be like them if women had the same installation.

This is the basis of john Locke's tabula rasa.


Peace be unto you too.

QuadrilAyinde:
Aswear this is just ur Pride and Ego talking brother, Trust me... I can see that U find it so hard to accepr the fact that the Election Scenario U raised isn't as much of a perfect fit in comparism with the Female character Generalisation, thus Ur defense Agitation .... Aswear I just wish U see how Funny and deviant this ur reply is .....

Does all snakes being Venomous in the mind of a potential victim equate the fact that THERE ARE INDEED QUANTIFIABLE SPECIES OF SNAKES WITHOUT VENOM?? This is just the Concept of bn Realistic that I've been Trying to Preach that IT DOESN'T SOUND LOGICALLY COOL TO CONCLUDE THAT ALL LADIES DO THIS AND THAT.. Relax ehnn, No need to Overwork ursef...

U have just confirmed my agitation against the Generalization theory I accused the Redpillers of initially by U saying NOT ALL SNAKES ARE VENOMOUS in ur opening sentence... Every other statement that follows is Just pure Defense Mechanism....

Honestly, I wish u All the very best in ur RedPill Journey

Soulrebel2:
Hmmmm...

Bro I don't believe in your philosophy of life bro.

Your no redpill. You bunch just hate women period!.

I'm 100% in support of women making their own money and being successful.. In fact I can't be with a dumb girl..u have to be a career woman to hang out in my circle.
You can't just be a pest suckling off your man and call yourself a woman.

If my mum didn't break away from our cultural mentality and struggled to make a living. only God knows where I would have been now.

She struggled and finished building our house. She has bought 4 bikes and a car in her time and still doing more. And in all that my dad's decision is still the final decision at our home.

So what are you saying?.

You're just a woman hater bro. Nothing else.

I wouldn't wish my worst enemy on you as your wife.

Sad.