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Chii59:
It's not about you rejecting. You will cheat with this mindset. Your marriage never reach anywhere, you don dey complain.
Don't your testicles sag? Is she worried? You will cheat. Period.

Nazgul:
You're getting it all wrong bro.

From what I've been able to read from the association, they're only being stingy to lazy girls who use the sweat of men as a means of survival.

As a guy, if I'm in a relationship with a girl, and she's hard working and has proven to me as severally that I can depend on her financially should things go south on my end, I will always support her financially whenever she requests for it.

But when you lie in bed all day uploading pics on Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp status... etc, asking for money every now and then to solve problems that adds no value to my life, then I'll activate my stingy status.

Dotar:
Please,kindly ignore any grammatical error.

I am a female military personnel dating a civilian in a distance relationship, I'm naturally clingy in a relationship, I love attention alot but my guy is always claiming busy at work ( well understood) but when he's off from work he doesn't give me a satisfied attention because is either he's sleeping,wants to prepare something to eat or already out chilling with a friend and whenever I call when he's out,he will tell me he's in a noisy place and can't talk till he gets home. so,most times I stay awake till 11 pm to get to speak with him before going to bed.

I always feel pretty lonely because I'm an introvert,I don't have friends.I really wish to keep another man to serve as a distraction but i find it difficult to because I love wholeheartedly and can only love one man at a time.

I cry everytime begging for his attention yet no changes,I feel ashamed that I can't have a grip over my emotions.

Right now,I am seriously fade up i dont know what to do any more, i have talked and talked but all fell on blocked ears, he doesnt even feel remorse whenever I complain,he rather defends himself and gives justifications for his actions and even blame me for being inconsiderate and that if I can't cope I should go because he's tired of my incessant complains.

I feel stucked in this relationship because i find it difficult to call it quit..i begged him to call it a quit but he said he can't do it,that I can go if that's what I want.

please advise me on what to do because I'm dying slowly.

Tkidex:
Dear nairalander pls save a depress soul with a tip of advice
i got to notice dat my girlfriend is having another sexual affair with another man through her facebook chat and i never for once demand sex from her just in order to keep the relationship strong,but i got to knw dat she is having an secretly affair wit sum 1,and dis not the first time i caught her in the act which she admit and later confess dat such wont occur again which i forgave her but just yesterday i got to knw dat she is still in her old ways pls nairlanders i need a tip of advice frm u guys,should i play along wit her by havin my way with her or broke up completely and peacefully without having my payback cos am deeply inlove with dis girl in question but i dont knw how to go about it

LukasPodolski:
All the I love you katie, My everything Kate, facetime, my this my that Ended in High DEFINITION tears

yinkaOdutuyo:
Hello family,

Am a dreadful redpiller, here are few stuffs I had done for my babe.

I have left her alone in the middle of the night and come home without her having tfair and she had to trek almost a 1 hour distance in the middle of the night to my home.

I troubled her to the extend that she went to defend a school project but on getting their in front of everyone (over 200) she started crying, without know what to say.

I have troubled her in so many ways to proved my redpill on her.

She and her mom had came to beg me in my house and the 2 of them were crying all to prove to me she love me.

I have carried her from on top the bed and throw her on the floor which she wounded.

I have done so many bad things to her which even me myself know this is more than wickedness but still she will always tell me, no matter what happened, I'll never leave you and I'll marry you.

I also disvirgined her of which her mom makmde it cleared that as I have disvirgined her, I have to marry her and I also have some family rites to perform. Of which I use to tell the girl, she shouldn't put at mind that I might not or might ended up marrying her.

This same girl had taken me to her family, that am the guy she want to get marry too and she had also follow me to my family to introduce her as the lady I want to marry she.

She had even been disturbing me for introduction, engagements and wedding.

Mind you this lady is a beautiful damsel of 20 years old. People should not think she is an evening newspaper or an ugly girl, that is why she is desperate.

I have done many bad things for her in the name of redpill, pls I need your advice does she worth being nice too and show enough love instead of red pilling her?

because we all know girls are wicked and they can pretend, am doing all these so that she wont take me for granted.

Pls does she worth a wife or good lady materials or what are your advice pls.

Kriss216:
I don't even time and zeal to check a Nigerian girl's profile and bios.

dollytino4real:
ur wife gave her number to him at the first place so hold ur wife responsible 4 her actions b4 the guy

Preciousgirl:
Respect the elderly u gay

Abetterperson:
As a teen, I have a lot of expectations for my future, I was in my early teens when I promised myself that I wouldn't date a guy in my secondary school years, the reason was because I saw how a lot of girls turned out after dating the wrong guy and Nigeria is the type of country that has little respect for females. I studied hard and got my mental health in check, now that am done with my secondary school education I still don't want to date, one of the main reasons is because most guys my age are ill mannered and into internet fraud(I don't support Yahoo), some are into my physical appearance and find me boring because am way to introverted and am into politics and history and I love talking about them. A friend advised me to wait till I get to the university to date but i don't think that will make any difference because the male friends I have that are already in the university are still into Yahoo and physical beauty, one of them even advised me to try and gain more fat in my butt because that's what will attract guys. according to him the bigger your butt the more attractive you are. so I decided not to date and to wait for the right person

Because I don't date Alot of people are calling me a lesbian even in my church, someone Even told me that am missing out on the experience and that I wouldn't know how to act in my future relationships

am I wrong not to date?

Martinez39s:
I remember a story on this forum about a guy that broke up with his gf. The gf called the police on him and claimed he stole her 30k whereas she had given it to him as a gift during the relationship. From my experience, it seems like for women, most at least, that anything you give them is a gift but anything they give you is a loan or has some conditions attached to it. Can women be of substantial help? Maybe, but I will rather take my chances and live as if my destiny is entirely in my own hands.

Edit: I am not saying you should your ex's enemy.

Nanaborga I:
Vaginal puppies and their many baggage’s , I keep on wondering why most of this girls hate to be contented with what they have , even the ones that work and earn a good pay will still bitch around for money , they’ve grown with the mentality of being a sex tool and their spouse as cash cow , even the said feminist are with this same mentality, right now most of this vaginal puppies depend on jaruma kayamatta to further enslave their spouse and customers

Yuceeluv:
Not judging but my only advise is, stop fornication.

Tonymegabush1:
I DNT see the reason to worry if your height is closed to 5 - 6ft.

Zzor:
lol

debbydams:
hummm marriage is a good tin but marrying the wrong partner is hell.. Ask from people who are happy � in their marriage.. The truth is marriage is a trap for we ladies, in marriage men are liable to cheat some even find it as a normal thing, as a married women, u do all the house � chores, take care of hubby, kids nd cook o..nd when it time for sex u cant say no, carrying a child for 9 months excess pains during labour.. Breast feeding.. U pray � nd fast for your hubby.. And so on.. Marriage is a blessing for a man � that marry the right woman �...the truth when your sit or kneel nd pray for her hubby wholeheartedly e everytin will b going smoothly for the husband ni..

debbydams:
funny. Nd u think marriage is a trap. Are u saying your mom trapped your dad or what..

KidDarkness:
I'm not gay. What's "just the tips"?

HotPoundedYam:
I planned to marry at 22 now I am revising the plan

alphabbey1:
You just gave OP the worst advice of the century. My dad uses Benz and I know the problem he faces. Problem of Benz no dey finish, jf that AC got damaged, infact, u'll be discouraged not to repair it again... And Benz and electrical issues are 5&6....

Soarr:
Zzor

CapitalBank:
hang out? Gist us how ur went bro. Make we learn.

CapitalBank:
I used to have this girl that I "thought" we were dating lol... It didn't occur to me initially that I was dating myself. How could I when someone agreed to the relationship but opted out without my notice?

On the 25th of December last year, I was busy and I did call her to wish her Merry Christmas... So, I asked her, you didn't even bother to send me sms and If I didn't call, there wouldn't have been any of such. Her response was "abeg abeg abeg, I no get time for that now"

I said okay, no problem....

There was a repeat of this a few times hinge on why she doesn't call or text and the response was just as shown above. I still kept my cool...

A lot happened and I tried to amend the relationship until I decided in November that it is time to leave, albeit quietly.

It seems she noticed and started trying to get my attention.

First, she posted a picture (on WhatsApp status) of her wearing a watch that I bought for her and mentioned my name along with "boo" (xyz boo, can you see that watch?).

Boo? me a boo? That is like satan trying to tell you he is an angel.

A few days ago, at around 10 pm, I was just going through WhatsApp statuses of people on my contacts and suddenly stumbled on hers where she was thanking people for making her 2020 great and memorable and I was omitted (I sured did a lot, even inside pandemic).... There is this particular guy that she has written about before. I saw the kind of emotion she poured into writing about him and how he makes her laugh. Her female friend that she met after knowing me too was given accolades but me? There was no sign of me lol

This might look like the omission was a mistake but I know it is not. The only reason she omitted me is that I am not considered important or regarded as anything. Nobody forgets what is valuable or important to them.

About 1 hour had gone by the time that I saw the status. When she noticed I had viewed it, she quickly added mine in hope that I will read it. Immediately I saw my picture, I refused to click or view the status. She left it there as the last for 24 hours without adding any status just make sure that I see it and click. I completely ignored it.

Today, I was just having a nice time with friends when a message from her pops into my view. For the life of me, I can't even remember the last time that she voluntarily messaged me. I know it is a Merry Christmas message but I have also made up my mind to ignore her without a message. I mean, just last year on a day like this, you told me "abeg abeg abeg, I know get time for that now"

She does not want me, she does not like me and she made this known verbally and non verbally. I have decided to accept what I mean to her and stay away. So why is she trying to so hard to act like she gives a fork about me when clearly she does not?

oh, my silence is the cause but this silence is not a pretense or means to get her to want me. It has come to stay and so shall it be.

CHoccolaTE:
Nairaland girls should realize that 80 percent of men in the world are misogynistic sociopaths that enjoy causing undue stress and unhappiness in women's lives. From the beginning of time they have done everything in their power to oppress women, for Nigerian males Nairaland is just the only avenue they have to anonymously express their true woman hating natures that's why you see them venting all the innate bitterness and hate they have for the female gender.

I know it might sound very sick and depressing but the overwhelming majority of men are misogynistic sociopaths that hate women by default.

Fighting them back will not change anything, they were born like that, just be aware of the innate irrational hate they have for females and be careful of them because they are dangerous.