Cold too much.. na how I wan take dey warm na e dey do me..

Any female interested in making quick cash in Bodija, Ibadan.. Holla..

I am bored in Bodija, Ibadan.. Any female wana hang out??

Done with work.. On a leave at the moment.. Bored to death in Ajah.. Any person wanna be a friend?? Preferably female.. I am young, 24.. funny, not a boring dude, can easily hang out or chill.. Abeg, I am bored.. any female of any age is welcome.. I don't mind at all

MoneyToolz:
Good day house, pls i am in my 20th, doing my biz, and set up my self to get marriage by next year, with the girl i am dating she is my cousing sister. We ar together 4 2years. 8month to our wedding. I catch her double dating, or i may call it cheating. With one guy, her class mate, i knw he is friend to her, as she always tell me, yestarday i accidently have access to her phone, cox its lock i wnt to help hr pix it. I saw they chat with d guy. As follow: you know that i will be engage nxt month. And
1.You know i am in love wt you. 2. You ar still in my deep hrt. 3.if u say i should leav u i dnt knw hw my heart wl be. 4. You dnt knw hw i feel abt u. Imagin life wtou u. These ar hr words to him. Nd he ix advicing hr nt to agree wt me, he wil help hr do charm to break us. I am so much confused pls i need mature, and honest advice. Thanks you.

Nigga.. lemme tell u cos d tin just happened to me last week.. tell her what u saw nd dat she shud end it wit d guy.. it is either u or him.. nd dat u dnt wanna be wit a double dater..

raayah:
Tough spot you're in!

Your girlfriend's friend is obviously very attracted to you, since she went above and beyond to take care of you when you were ill.

I'm leaning towards not telling your girlfriend. Your girlfriends friend seems reliable, she was willing to help you and your girlfriend out without hesitation. I don't think she's a bad friend to your girlfriend.

Make sure you send a clear warning to this friend, telling her that you are not interested in her and that you sincerely love your girlfriend. Let her know that next time, you will definitely let your girlfriend know. Document all interaction with her. Screenshot and save.

Then also avoid her, don't put yourself in compromising situations.

If she does not back down or tries it again , then inform your girlfriend.

Tnx so much.. I appreciate..

If I dnt tell her, she might find out one day nd dat wun't be gud.. if I tell her, it might ruin deir friendship nd I might be like a snitch nigga.. pls advice, no insults...

Mrnin ppl, I fell sick last week terribly nd was admitted in d hospital.. I called my girl to tell her which is a normal tin to do.. She had travelled to see her elder sis in jos so she called her best friend to help me settle d bill since I cudn't move.. I must admit, I hv neva liked d Girl cus she always frown wen eva I'm wit my girl.. I hv told my girl about dis b4 but she said I shud just ignore her.. Surprisingly dis girl nt only paid d bills but stayed in d hospital wit me dat day.. I was shocked nd even told my girl but she said it's cool afta all, her friend doesn't reali hv anything doin since dey r on break.. I was discharged nd got home.. I immediately returned d money to my babe's friend dat same day.. On Monday evening, I was in my room in d hostel wen I heard a knock so I opened d door nd she greeted me nd said she wanted to knw hw I was feelin.. I let her come in nd we talked bout hospital, nurses, drugs, random stuff.. I started checking time so dat she wud knw it was gettin late.. Dis girl came close to me nd was nw tryin to touch me anyhow den she started tellin me of hw she saw me 1st b4 my Babe nd hw my babe stared liking me too nd how my Babe went behind her back to talk to me 1st.. I remember how my Babe spoke to me d 1st time wen she was tellin me he she loved my shirt.. I resisted nd warned her nt to try it again.. She apologised nd said it was d devil... She said it wun't happen again nd I shudnt tell my Babe wat she said.... My girl is comin to visit me today nd I dnt knw if I shud tell her or not..

People, wat r ur new year resolutions?? Mine is to get fatter, pass wella nd be closer to God.. Wat r urs?

Got my first kiss 2dai.. Kinda felt weird cus it wasn't wat i imagined.. Her lips were reali wet nd i just held her as we kissed sha.. Omo, i reali wantd to touch her boobs so badly.. But i chickened out.. i reali like dis girl oo.. E be like say love wan kill me.. Is it right 4 me to hv dis urge to kiss her again nd again cus i dnt fink i did it right d 1st time.. i love her voice weneva she calls my name.. i feel so gud nd so bad at d same time like sumtin is painin my chest.. Dis girl is in my tots all d time.. i wonder if she tinks of me too all d time.. Her name is ......

Abegi.. Wat's all dis RUBBISH I hear bout virgin girls swearin 4 boys.. Abeg, let me hear word oo.. If u wana disvirgin a girl. Pls do it joor as long as it is nt rape or she is nt underage and as long as it is her wish.. Which can rubbish I dey read 4 here about swear nd all dat crap.. It's little boys that fear dat crap... Y dnt GIRLS fear d so called "swear" or "curse" of virgin boys?? Na only virgin girls sabi swear.. Were dey nt told dat sleepin wit a man is nt enuf to make him stay so wat d heck.. Dat tale is as old as time abeg.. Some virgin girls have bad characters so sometimes, it aint all about d genitals.. It can be from d virgin girls..

PrettyPhine:


Thanks for your advice. She said the guy has stopped calling, that,s what she meant by not showing interest, though she said he,s a rig worker but too me, I don,t think that,s a good reason for him not calling her if he truly loves her. And she also told me the guy sometimes don,t chat her when she sees him online. But don,t you think the guy mighty take her to be desperate if she continue calling him.

u see.. The problem is nt him, it's ur friend.. So, if he doesn't call and if he doesn't chat, dat dose nt mean he is nt showin interest.. Can't she call nd also try to chat wit him?? Is dere any rule dat says d male must always do dat.. He may be like me.. If I call a female most times nd I notice she hardly calls, I stop doin dat.. If I chat all d time nd I notice she doesn't start any sometimes, I stop doin dat too.. Unless if she calls me sometimes or starts chats, dat's wen I continue.. SHE shud show some interest.. Men also like ppl dat show CARE too.. It wun't appear desperate.. Let her show some interest but not too much.. Atleast, she shud hv called nd spoken to him THRICE nd atleast try to chat wit him atleast TWICE b4 she stops nd wait to see his response..

veegirl:

me no fit spoil anybody happiness o, God forbid. Buh dis 1 wey u dey take am P like dis, u sure say no b u b d guy?

nope.. I aint d guy jooor.. Na wa 4 u.. I said it b4 , I had a similar xperience dat almost ruined my relationship wit ma gf nd she came to break up wit me nd I asked y, she said I was nt showin interest nd she stopped showin interest bcus I wasn't.. So I asked if dat's wat is in her heart nd she said "no" nd dat it was "friends" dat adviced her bcus I didn't love her again.. I tld her I did nd dat work was distractin me.. We settled our little misunderstandin nd I tld her to stop listenin to friends but she shud come straight to me if she had issues..

veegirl:

hehehehehe......i feel ur pain bro

U beta feel it well.. Bad belle wey wan spoil anoda girl happiness

Veegirl is just a bad person.. She said ur friend shud just ignore him back.. Pls, hw can ignorin him bck solve anytin abeg?? Hw does she knw dat dere's no problem abeg? Is he a god? Is he nt a human bein who can have problems?? Find out wat d problem is nd if it's d "V" tin, den ur friend shud tell him her stance bout it nd if he cnt accept, DEN and ONLY den shud she 4get him..

See y some girls loose gud guys nd later regret.. A guy u love stops showin interest.. U too decide to stop showin interest JUST bcus he stops showin interest.. U dnt find out "y", "d problem", "nuffin".. U just stop showin interest.. Den d guy realises u r behavin funny nd u dnt even show interest and GBAM, everytin is all over... OP, pls dnt listen to any bad person here abeg.. Ask ur friend to show more interest and find out wat d problem is b4 leavin dis guy... To me, dis guy loves d girl nd he's just hvin some issues.. If ur friend TRULY, REALY loves d guy back, she wud find out wat d problem is b4 finkin of leavin him.. BAD PPL will tell u to leave him 4 no reason.. Dere's NO harm in tryin to knw wat d problem is...

OP... Pls, dnt follow dese ppl's advice abeg.. Just bcus a guy is showin less interest doesn't mean he doesn't like her. Afta all, he still hept bein wit her afta findin out dat she is a "V"... Pls, ask ur friend to show more interest in him and also find out wat is wrong maybe it is work stress, school stress, family issues and d likes.. Ur friend shud first find out wat is wrong b4 d tot of "forgettin" about him enters her head.. The same tin happened to me nd bad friends asked my gf to forget about me nt knwin dat I was hvin family issues to attend to wen it seemed I was showin less interest in her.. My advice is dat she shud increase her calls or visits or wateva nd ask wat d problem is before leavin him..

I knw wat I am about to write may seem proud and vain but I knw I speak the truth.. I have neva tld anyone b4 but I will say it nw... I love breakin girls hearts, I love seein girls cry because of the bad thing a boy did to her like eg cheatin on a girl or lashin a girl nd leavin her and MOST of all, I love it wen girls tell deir sad stories of hw boys hurt dem on Nairaland.. Girls are bitches, vain, liars, cheaters and hoes.. I'm nt sayin ALL girls but most girls.. Nd dey r DUMB.. Guys, to get a girl is so so easy, just try to luk d best u can be, d richest u can be nd d most popular as possible nd I bet u, dey'll be all over u.. Dis is 4rm experience.. I am rude, arrogant, I insult girls a lot, I'm a playboy nd yet all dis girls knw dis nd dey still keep on comin.. Sometimes, I get scared 4 d wife I hope to marry one dai, I hope she is nt a cheap girl nd I hope she is faithful nd virtous but ALAS, dat is nt easy.. BAD girls deserve to be hurt nd I take it upon myself to AVENGE d niggas out dere who hv been unjustfully hurt by a girl.. I hv hurt so many girls mentally, sexually, psychologically, academically, materially, financially, locally and internationally nd I will nt stop.. DIS IS A WARNING.. Hahaha **evil laughter** I'm sure d yeye girls will start yabbin me but d sensible ones will just lock-up.. I BOW..

badpeople: Short people. Big wahala

I aint short u dumbass.. I'm of a little above average.. Average height for males in Nigeria is 5ft7inches Ode..

faithugo64: op sorry o,but i wana ask,please are you by chance a brother to spacegoat??

Nope u dumbass..

I dnt fink I need to build any self confidence.. I already have that.. I dnt knw if she has that.. I'm comfortable datin her but I dnt knw if she wud be...

I'm 5ft 9 nd I've always loved girls taller dan me.. Dere's dis one I always admire nd den I had d balls to approach her.. She's 6ft 2.. She tall diiieee.. We got along well nd we hv started talkin intimate tins but I want more.. I dnt knw if I shud remain a gud friend or I shud try to be more dan a friend.. We connect like crazie but dere's d height difference but it doesn't bother me.. I dnt knw bout her cus we hvn't spoken bout it yet.. I like dis girl pieces sha.. Deep down, I wanna be more dan a friend..

Una own small.. Dere's dis gal who had been crushin on me.. She den had d guts to tell me nd I swear I liked d girl 4 her guts.. I truly reali liked dis girl 4 her guts.. We startd seein nd I attempted to kiss her nd she rejectd.. E pain me no b small cus I've neva bin rejectd b4.. Finally oo, she den attemptd herself nd I rejected it.. 4rm d luk of her face, she wan enta ground.. She cudn't believe it.. She even startd askin me y nd if she was nt attractive enuf.. I didn't say shii.. A few days l8r she made anoda attempt nd I rejectd.. Omo, she wan die dis time.. I knew she wud NEVA do dis again so I kmade sure I kissd her wen she wasn't expectin it.. Na so we do do, till one day, we were supposd to lash but I rejectd d lash.. She even offered BJ bcus l8r dat day, I tld her I've neva gotten BJ.. I rejectd BJ.. She fine die, sexy die but I just wantd to show her pepper.. I wantd her to be hungry 4 me.. L8r na, I asked nd she gave me witout a fuss.. Since den, I neva rejectd her again even if it wasn't convinient 4 me.. She don magnetise me like zombie but I dey try to dey form sometimes make she no see me finish come unlove me.. E go pain me cus I don like d girl pieces..

All of me -(( John legend)) Knock me down ((Keril Hilson)) Love ((R2bees)) and finaly ALL BACK ((Chris Brown)).. Abeg, y'all shud check out ALL BACK.. I sing it weneva I knw I mess up..