₦airaland Forum

KingClown:
abeg where una dy see this Igbo smoke ?

SmellySperm:
lol some of y'all tagging op a Simp ain't getting the sarcasm in the write-up Sha

niqqa is just being sarcastic and ironic. degrading the Simps who do such for women

coz i can't believe my gender would ever simp to that extent

okrikaboi:
People who don't understand are very unintelligent

tensazangetsu20:
You forgot horrible internet speed. I lost a job of 1.6 million naira a month because of the rubbish Internet speed in Nigeria it pains me everyday because even though I earn well relatively I don't still make up to half of that. So painful.

Draslo:
That's a married woman. Have some fuckingg respect!

pierreojo101:
Hello peeps,

I need Advise. I try to be a nice husband to my wife but recently I started noticing characters that scares me.

She is often secretive and many times I get to know her plans from strangers or after it has been carried out.

For instance, according to her ( cos I don't take note and I didn't give in one lump sum ) I gave her over 2m for her business. Unfortunately when she was to start the business she got pregnant of our second born and when she was to start again coro came and again she got pregnant.

After that she made up her mind not to do the business again. I was not informed I only heard from someone in the church who is a mother to both of us.

All of a sudden she started selling the stuff. Whatever she does with the money I don't know all I know is she is always needing money.

Each time she is on phone with her relatives and I enter the room ( she goes inside to receive her calls ) she immediately ends the call or change topic or speak In a way that you know she is not comfortable.

Many atimes I have had to excuse her from the room.

Ever since we got married it has always been one issue to the other. My friend was telling me moments ago ( I started seeing my old friends again due to the fact that she is never available for me ) that I am in a sexless marriages.

Two years ago I discovered her father is her next of kin and till date.

Her siblings will be rude to me she will look away. When it turns to fight she will apologise and when same thing happens she blackmails me with me not being forgiving and Christ like.

1. Do you guys think I am overreacting expecting that my wife feel confident to discuss any family issue in my presence especially as I do the same?

2. Am I expecting too much by thinking she should carry me along in her business decisions especially as I do the same. She has all my passwords both for bank and emails. Only recently I changed password for phones cos she keeps reading my messages while her own phone is password.

3. Recently her friend's sister was rude to me which I told her the reply is the girl insulted me and I insulted her no issue. This is someone who I had to because of relocate from the state I have lived all my life for simply because she was rude to my mother and my mother chose not to be forgiving ( Mumsy hardly ever forgives ).

Gloriagee:
@OP, You used HER whenever u can sounds so degrading. Is she an object?

SegFault:
Explain, I hear this word a lot but no one has really explained it.

Doja2000:

tosik:
am not a therapist nor a counselor...so u can try and find it around u ovathere..

dairykidd:
That's not treating her right. That's slavery/ bondage. You are the confused one here

Emmadoc:

Doja2000:
story story story.....

what is the title of your story...?

Ayo2004:
It means what you are

tosik:
op i think say u need counseling and deliverance...i wont say much..just waiting for the elders below me to carry out all the necessary talk.

yomi007k:
Is this what your father taught you?

dairykidd:
This OP na female hiding under male moniker.. I dey suspect am since. Now its confirmed

benqo01:
You have to work on your senses

Brunosamel:
veryly I have seen you are a manipulated man, keep worshipping women thinking they are extraordinary don't forget to dig your grave and keep them intact

Ayo2004:
Useless simp
Naso she go turn u to slave still leave u for a guy who does almost none of these

Brunosamel:
Damn who is this person spitting out nonsense.... Mere looking at your vil mentality is obvious that you high on weed

Do you even know anything about masculinity talk of more of yourself that will make you look so down on yourself this way...

chatinent:
It's epic, and that's what I love about the tale.



Feminism and redpillism are all apologist careers for people who failed in relationships.

akeeng:
Omo, you get time sidon write all this? It’s the energy for me

TarOrfeeek:
Swallow the Redpill

Use that iPhone, dinner and party money to buy your mother good things.

Use the remaining change to kill catfish pepper soup and drink Budweiser.

Your lifespan will increase by 2 months.

OlaAde57:
You are not to judge him/ them. He already acknowledged he did wrong and God had justified him already. Therefore OP go ahead and marry her. It's biblical. You needn't do the wedding in the church.

HONESTFACT101:
Till you show signs of not having sense but since we both know that that you will always have sense, then my stay in Nairaland will be very short......signing out