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Dtruthspeaker:
We understand German, Afrikaans and natural languages and we also know gibberish when we hear it.

Read what I said again.

Love is a very fragile thing. If she said those words to you, I think it's best that you let go and move on.. You cannot do anything to win love. It's a free feeling.
You might hurt for a while but with time you will heal

Murderers!!! Off with their heads!!!!
Can you imagine a 20yo wants to learn how to defraud people....only in a bloody country like this

All I can say is; Trust a Yahoo Yahoo boy at your own peril

daddymummy:
1. A woman can reject proposal but can't imagine herself being rejected.


2. A man is always careful not to be seen fighting or arguing with a woman but women do not think twice before fighting or arguing with men.


3. Most things that women do, they can't accept them if they are done by men.

That is why a woman will tell a man not to behave like women.

But is it fair for women to behave anyhow but men are not permitted to behave anyhow?




It is not fair to the male gender in my opinion because if A is permitted to behave anyhow and B isn't permitted,then A is at advantage over B.

If I can slap you but you must'nt slap me,then I am at advantage while you are at a disadvantage.

I believe that women trying to shame men who "behave like women" is a ploy by women to have the monopoly of behaving the way they want while men should behave properly.


4. Men are not helping matters.
If a man offends a woman, the woman will reciprocate by fighting him, involving the police or harming the man in one way or other.

But if a woman offends a man,he would reciprocate by wanting to sleep with her.

He believes that by sleeping with the woman,he has punished her.


That is foolishness. Imagine someone kills your children or harm you in one way or another, and you believe that by having sex with her, she has been punished.


It is like buying food for someone who offended you and thinking you have punished the person. So is sex because as far as women also enjoy sex, you cannot have sex with her and stupidly believe you are punishing her over an offence which she suppose to be jailed.


I believe this boils down to the fact that in man-woman matters, women are far wiser than men.


That is why women are always very surprised at how shallow men reason.

You were making a point but you had to ruin it... With the sex part...

Wisdom is not by gender. And the fact that you think if a woman hits a man, and the man did not or cannot hit her back because he has to be a man... An advantage for women... Makes me wonder.. what If a man hits a woman, and the woman did not or cannot do anything because she has to be a woman... Does that make the man at an advantage?

Still on this, if a man hits a boy.. an the boy did not or cannot do anything, is that also an advantage?



And again not all men are perverts, not all woman give out what they can't take.... That's not a gender thing... If you think it is... I wonder why men don't give birth.

MelesZenawi:
Suicide and holding his hand tight on those rails

He should jump......Many before him have been doing so.

What a video-suicide mission.

Awon oloshi.

He jumped. I guess you didn't watch the video

Kinghorland04:
help!! a girl that have been dating for over 2years now tell me today that, she just take as friend.
now guys, I need your advice on this.
should I leave her and let her be or I should try my best to win her heart?

Win what exactly?. After 2 years.
Op, what will be will be... You don't need to try your best for someone that still sees you as friends after 2 years of dating..( which I don't understand what you mean by dating)...
My advice move on.

Firstly, Boarding school is not for everyone. Not everyone can cope with it.
I went to a boarding schoo for six years(from my junior class to senior class). It's a very broad experience for me; Good, bad, funny, educative.
But I don't think it is a ground for damaging kids mentally

After I let boarding school.. I adjusted to the outside world quite well(speaking for myself). I have friends that we finished from the boarding school that are well adjusted too if you ask me.
All in all, it's a very good experience for me.. despite the bulling, extortion.

oyeb15:
Fireboy and Joeboy, are they twins? Same face,voice, hairstyle and type of music.

I don't see the resemblance but okay

@OP, No one knows.

I don't know what you are going through but look around you, you are not alone in this cruel world.
Bad things happen everyday but there is still goodness in this world. You don't know what tomorrow might bring.. There's time to live and there's time to die..
Ecclesiastes 7:17 says
Be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. Why should you die before your time?

If you think confessing your sins before you commit suicide will earn you heaven, You are very wrong!!!

Emexicoman:
Something happened to me when I was much young, we were on our way back from school. (Market road primary school) Aba. After walking past the whole length and breadth of the market I greeted one mama like that and the next things that happened were all mysterious. Next thing I realized I was in another location with my classmates, I can't explain anything but I knew I was like in one of the places we had passed earlier(more like a rewind) or some minutes backwards. Deep within me I felt I came in contact with a spirit. All the people I greeted in the market, I passed and greeted them again and I was conscious of it.

Deja vu

I guess that's what you experienced..
Most of the time that happens when one is stressed. It's like a memory distortion or setback.
It's usually triggered by something.. might be what you said to the woman(mama) or what you saw.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

Rubbish

Gee64:
I may be right or wrong. But what's your own assumption?

It's gibberish to you since you don't understand. That doesn't mean God doesn't. It's the same way when you hear a German speak and you don't understand German(language) all you hear will be gibberish.

Aaronsrod:
Just imagine burning to death in this volcanic fire only to perish and find oneself in the pit of Hell with Satan and his demons for all eternity.

This people were not Christians. They knew not Jesus. They died unsaved. Men women and children. To think they have been tortured in Hellfire for 1942 years and this is not even the beginning of the start of their suffering.

Nawa ooooooooooooo!

Their fate after death isn't for Man to decide Only God.
PS. Jesus didn't die for those alive or unborn (then) Jesus died for all.

Penguin2:
Are you talking about same Awolowo that fought alongside Gowon to keep the Nigerian contraption or there’s another Awolowo we don’t know about?

I'm a confused as you are. The same AWOLOWO??

Bifwoli:
Very sick topic .

With all the poverty,crime ,joblessness , ritual killings,filthy streets full of smelly rotten garbage ,poor housing and lots of youths running to slavery in Libya this is what we can think of? The black man is cursed and the poverty is their own making.

Halfwits must talk.
I can't begin to imagine what type of (a) person you will be! The black man is cursed?! People like you hardly make positive impact on people's life.

Please try to see things from different angle next time before you lament next time

Ayo081:
It's left to you if the knowledge and the wisdom of God can't save you

Thank you.

Ayo081:
Haha

Nice one sending the Ecc. back to me



Didn't you read of how Jesus attended Bible classes as a child? and didn't go out of context when quoting from the old covenant?

Didn't you read that Paul an Apostle of Christ spent so much time studying the words of Christ?

Didn't you know that often times when Jesus is about teaching, He would start with you have heard...

Which is such as the below:

It's a good thing you're a familiar with the bible.
You study the bible for firm grip(knowledge)
and understanding of God(The holy Trinity).
A bible only own up to it's true worth only In the hands of true believers ( those who are saved already through salvation).
You can't just give the bible to someone who hasn't heard about Christ before to read. ( It hardly works that way).
Peace.

Ayo081:
I actually care to know what brings the knowledge and understanding of the death and resurrection of our Lord (Jesus)?

The Bible holds knowledge, The Holy spirit brings understanding.
I hope you agree with me that knowledge and wisdom cannot save one.

Ayo081:
You comparing the Bible to an ordinary object that give no knowledge (such as jewelry) nullifies your point. {Ecc. 10:1}

As dead flies give perfume a bad smell, so a little folly outweighs wisdom and honor. The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left. Even as he walks along the road, the fool lacks sense and shows everyone how stupid he is.

A fool resents knowledge, a fool lacks understanding, a fool has no wisdom.
A fool dwells in his own narrow mind.
I asked you a simple question which requires a one word answer.
Can the bible save you?


Mind you Jesus didn't need scrolls or manuscript to teach or preach neither does the apostles.

Ayo081:
The Bible is more than an object, it is profitable for correction and teaching in righteousness.

The Bible contains the teachings and God's breathe (Jesus), it contains the knowledge of the power of God and should never be compared to objects such as jewelries

Off course you will over look the point.
Tell me can the bible save you?



The bible is powerful Yes I know.. I never compared the bible to anything. I just brought out the fact that the bible is a book which is an object.
As powerful as the bible is it cannot save you.. if you read it everyday hold it when you pray but still you do not TRULY BELIEVE IN THE DEATH AND RESURRECTION OF JESUS CHRIST you are still not save. The Bible is a record, a guide book not a manual.

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jimiobanta:
If the use of jewelry is a sin, many a woman will gladly go to hell, just to continue putting on items that do not add to their beauty. It only calls attention to itself as a separate entity.


Now the question is: Is it a sin or not

I believe it is sinful and amount to a strange fire in that, use of jewelries seeks to add human works to the temple of God which He has declared "very good" at the end of human creation.

Additionally, I will like the following scriptures to be considered as to what it means:

Gen 35:2-4 ISV 2 Jacob announced to his household and to everyone with him, “Throw away the foreign gods that you’ve kept among you, purify yourselves, and change your clothes. 3 Then let’s get up and go to Bethel, where I’ll build an altar to the God who answered me when I was in distress and who was with me on the road, wherever I went.” 4 So they handed over to Jacob all their foreign gods on which they had been depending, along with the rings that they were wearing on their ears. Jacob buried them under the oak that grew near Shechem.

Exo 33:4-5 ISV 4 When the people heard this troubling word, they mourned, and no one put on his ornaments. 5 The LORD had told Moses, “Say to the Israelis, ‘You are an obstinate people, and if for one moment I went up among you, I would put an end to you. Now take off your ornaments so I may decide what to do with you.’”

Eze 7:19 KJ2000 They shall cast their silver in the streets, and their gold shall be removed: their silver and their gold shall not be able to deliver them in the day of the wrath of the LORD: they shall not satisfy their souls, neither fill their stomachs: because it is the stumblingblock of their iniquity.

1Ti 2:9 KJ2000 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with decency and propriety; not with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

Further more you may listen to this Bible study audio for more clearification. You will need to download it from Google drive. It is about 10mb

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Fka1nIQ5WZJnSefsQav55qbUjbC_Z7Qh/view?usp=drivesdk

OP@
First of all If you believe the use of jewelry is a sin! Then it's a sin for you and people will believe so.
Whatever you feel will hinder you to the kingdom of God do away with it.
As far as I'm concerned the bible didn't record the general condemnation of jewelry. Off course there are instances were the jewelries and object of values are asked to be casted away.. You don't wear jewelries to funerals or sad events, prisoner and slaves are not allowed to use jewelries or object of values.( That will be mockery).
You're right jewelry can't save one from the wrath of Lord ( that is to come) either can the bible.
The bible is holy.. The holy book but it's still just a book, it's an object, jewelries are object too. Objects can't go against God's commandments it's not possible.. Only humans can sin(Go against God's commandments and one's believe).
The only time an object can be dimmed sinful is how it is used, how it was aquire or made, what it is used for and when it is used.

Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! Food, and even God's Shekel was equally used in those days.

2. You obviously have never actually read the Bible for yourself and this is why you concluded that gold and silver were the means of exchange in those days.

Food and God's shekel! Can you explain what you mean by God's shekel? Because shekel is a unit weight used in those days.
In the Bible The use of silver and gold(pieces/coin) was recorded, Joseph was sold for twenty pieces of silver.
In the Bible (Old testament) the use of trade by barter means of exchange was recorded, during the great famine where people came to trade livestock for food in Egypt. ( But that's understandable it's service for service, food for food).

Datboredberry:
I'm as very light smoker- at most, three to four cigarettes a week...

I'm very young, and I started smoking two years ago...

In our society, if a woman is known to be a smoker... She's looked down on... And false assumptions are made of her personality...

Why the stigmatisation? I know men are victims too but women who smoke are viewed as classless etc... While with men, it's simply a bad habit...

What's your opinion on women who smoke? And what's your reason?

I would appreciate comments based on experiences rather than bias...

And I need valid points how SMOKING directly indicates a wayward woman...

Thanks!

@Op,
I smoke and I know alot of girls who do( which I don't see as a bad thing/habit as long as there is limits to which one does it.)
I know people see it as a wrong thing to do but it isn't.
I remember one time I was smoking in my room( that was the first time I moved to the house not long from that time) the landlord came to my door knocked and asked if the smell was coming from my room. I told him yes.. then he started advising me that I should try to stop it that he has a son that's hung on it and it's not something that you can get rid of once you are addicted to it.
I thanked him and from that day I didn't do it in that house again till I moved out( I still smoke at bars and clubs).
I've seen young people that hang around corners, joints earlier in the day and smoke and gist till evening, go home to start the routine all over the next day.. THAT'S IRRESPONSIBLE REGARDLESS OF THE GENDER
In this present society we live in, Women are not expected to behave in some certain ways.. especially rugged-looking (Masculine) lifestyles. ( IT IS WHAT IT IS) when they do they are assumed different ( wayward).
Some people go to class, banks... smelling of cigarettes (smoke) and alcohol, some bikemen smoke before hitting the road THAT'S WAYWARD.

What I'm trying to get at is DO NOT SMOKE where you are not permitted to or where you shouldn't if you do then you're irresponsible and wayward.

Let's not forget that nobody can see their own forehead within an external aid same way you can't tell if you're truly responsible or wayward without an external aid( someone telling you).