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Game end good old Arsenal superb first half and I love that man sanchez hungry to play football... Arsenal played fantastic football today....

Girod score in six premiership games man on form and fire.......should Arsenal be wining the title ...great run for the title now who know....But have to be real not when Wenger is still Arsenal manager...

Excellent runs for Arsenal 10 wins in 11 games ...can fault that... Girodu score again...

Cazola hit the post beautiful play again from Arsenal joy to watch...

Sanchez is man of the match for it endless effort front and back....deserve it though. Sanchez again turn in Liverpool skin...

Out you go kicker..

mmsen:
Chinese workers are notorious for taking abuse from their bosses.

Indian workers do not leave the office until after their boss has left - which can often mean staying in the office from 8am to 10pm. The workers are not compensated for the extra hours. I've noticed that this mentality of willful slavery has caused tension in the Gulf States between Arabs who have more self-respect and their Indian colleagues who are seen as bootlickers who will tolerate anything for money.

Such practices should not be tolerated in any civil society or one where the social welfare of the individual is important. Abuse should be stamped out at all levels as soon as possible, otherwise it becomes a way of life.

What is your point quoting me? I mentioned African and Asia countries. Asia cover China, indian Malaysia Korea etc...I said not in Western countries were boundary between workers, management and employers are respected.

However, Asia are improving as European and America keep asking them to respect workers right and threatening to boycott their goods should worker right and condition does not improve.

African still have long way to go most of those mechanisms are not in place, where in place not effective To be effective worker need free access to courts, union (effective one) industrial tribunal courts, to help fight abuse of power in work place. It needs total overhaul and modernise and given investigative powers to protect workers.

Filmdirect:
In the western world, it depends on the job. No, a boss here will not tell you to carry their purse in a corporate setting but they might ask you to make them coffee.
In some jobs though, for example the art world where progression is less conventional, you will do anything from walk the dog, pick up the dry cleaning, clean the floor, etc in order to progress, or make the creative director or the boss like you. Not saying everyone will, if they can't they will not work there, but generally a lot of "demeaning" things are ordered in an industry with less conventionality. Same with politics.

The word "kiss ass" was invented for a reason.

But working in office or skilled job, where your responsibility is clear stated in yr job description and person responsibility your Manager would not asked you to fetch bag from car and got sacked in the process.. The company that employed that manger better prepared surely will pay heavy fine for unfair dismissal..... However, working in office environment employees need to have flexible attitude and approach to work, as you may be asked to help out in some cases if their is shortage of staff or during busy period.

xtervaganza:
believe me bro, it's not about our environment alone. It happens everywhere in the world


She's your boss a d you have to respect her till you can stand on your own

Where in everywhere in the world? Its only in Africans and some Asia countries .... In Europe, America, Manager, officer, operative knows their right and responsibility, boundary are respected in western world. However, should any ones overstep or trample one another person...Union, Arbitration court in position to mediate and award compensation to victim of industrial or work related dispute.

mentorandfriend:
Ladies, these 5 things are in themselves not exhaustive, but they should be foremost in your mind as you consider a man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Watch him for these. I found it interesting because I'm tired of hearing stories of emotional and financial abuse, and wife batering too. It spoils my day; so I thought to share what I found with my nairaland family. The original article was first written by Pastor Dunamis Tunde Okunowo of Kisses and Hugs club. Enjoy reading.
1. Look for the fear of God.
The first thing to look for is the fear of God. This is very important. I say fear of God because the word “born-again” has been misused. Everybody is born again today. People become born again momentarily to get what they want. People give their lives to Jesus in order to get a wife and after they do, they collect their lives back from Jesus! It is no longer safe to assume somebody is God’s choice because you met him or her in church! It goes beyond that. This is why you don’t fall in love with somebody you met two hours ago. You cannot fall in love with somebody you do not know. Love comes with knowledge.
2. Look for focus.
Focus is important. What is the man focusing on in life? What is his vision in life? Who does he want to become? What is the person’s idea of marriage? Is the person serving God presently? What is he doing now? What does he intend to do later? What are his plans?
3. Look for consistency.
Consistency has to with his habits and patterns. Does he have consistent spiritual habits? Who are his friends? How does he spend his free times? In the bar?
4. Look for utterances.
His words are representations of the intents of his heart, …for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. (Matthew 12:34b KJV). His words would reveal his heart. Ask a lot of questions and listen to what he says. This is why courtship is important. Courtship period is not the time to get physical sexually, it is not an alignment of the bodies, it is an alignment of the minds. So before you give your consent, ask questions.What is his concept of serving God? You need to know all of these so that you will not walk down the aisle and then three months after, you want to run up the aisle and out of the marriage. That will not be your portion, but you need to “shine you eye” well! Stop falling in love helplessly, without thinking! Don’t be desperate to the extent that anything that comes goes. When you are desperate, men can sense it, and they may take advantage of that. You don’t have any business in the bed of man that you met few days back! How will you keep your respect and dignity intact like that? What will your relationship with God become? You are not a philanthropist, so stop donating your body and opening your legs generously for whoever wants! Nay!
5. Look for submission.
Is this man submissive? Who can you report him to when there are issues? Does he have a pastor or mentor you can report him to? He is not supposed to be the alpha and the omega that you cannot report. Is he accountable? To who? You know, I have counseled a few married people, and the issues are so serious and it is really very sad, when I ask the wife, “who does your husband respect?” and they go like, “Pastor, he respects nobody, not even his parents!” Now, that is not a good spot to be… Listen to me single ladies; never commit your life to somebody who has no authority figures over his life! When you do that, you have eliminated any external options when it comes to conflict resolution. It means the issue must be solved only by his wisdom and standard and that wisdom can be outright foolishness. That standard can be very warped. So, be wise! Too many ladies have been abused in their matrimonial home, with the husband brazenly beating up the wife and even bringing another woman into the house, and the wife looks on helplessly, because NOBODY can talk to him! It can really be unfortunate! When you are at that point, your only way out is to pray…and ask God to have mercy on the foolish choice that has been made. The mercy of God can turn things around. God bless you.
http://kissesandhuggs.org/devotionals/what-to-look-for-in-a-man-that-you-want-to-spend-the-rest-of-your#sthash.xMorGAzl.u1K8NTtW.gbpl

OP. I got 2 out of five your so call criteria's before marriage, However, does it mean I am not marriageable material? However two are
1 and 2 = (5)

On the followings:-

No 3. consistency: Both men and women can fake habitual when courting. However religious should not be barrier to marriage thanks you very much, what friends got to do with personal life interest of two people in love? what if friend hate the guy? should not marry because friends did not approve or don't like his or her freinds. Two people in love are blind don't care of friend or family influence before you get marry to your suitor.

No 4. Utterance seems vague not really clear...Men/women can fake behaviours, habits, style of life to suits each other during courting, However having pre sexual and contact does not have any effect on marriage if you really love that person

No 5. Submissive ...If i honour god will definitely keep my vows to honour and cherish my women live according to god will don't need any third party (Pastor) meddling to my matrimonial life.... should we have problems we discuss on our bed before we sleep. thought these factor is not necessary.

klark3:
I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

Absolute power corrupt...(Sorry), However you are Nigerian, should have known better to carry Madam bag as long as you needed your job. However, you refused to obey your commander in chief order, acting big boy heh? forgotten as long as she pay your salary, she is your god.

Please well come to jobless people like myself let us meet at Mama iyabo street bar at national theatre for palm wine drink to console you maybe if you behave yourself might add fresh fish bowl for you, however, good luck in your next job search.

GeneralShepherd:
I have always preached tolerance here on nairaland but it's obvious that Igbos are hated for no just cause.


So to all Bigoted Yorubas and Hausas the Igbos have always survived. Even when we had the Senate presidency it was useless to the average igbo man. Most of our own very governors are criminals, case in point Imo and Abia.

As long as you all don't start killing us like you always do,we will be just fine.

Its good of you to preached tolerance. However, contrary to your believe, igbo and yoruba are husband and wife. Both marrying each other, fight and make up...Igboman won't be able to sell all thier gears without yoruba people, that buy such gears. (Business)

Its vice versa both need each other have similar culture, life style that cannot be compare with Hausa and Fulani. However, igbo always believe they are smart than yoruba ..e.g relationship between (Jonathan and Obasanjo) former started to insult the finger that feed him and it came to pass he is history now.

One thing Igboman always forgot is yoruba is bridge between Hausa - and igbo, Yoruba are kingmaker...because Yoruba people support and fight to hold Nigeria together, something hausa always cherished and never forget. While igbo yearning for separates and war, should they not have their way. Igboman should learn how to court yoruba both are progressive liberal and tolerant people testimony is number of igbo living in yoruba states, igbo should integrate with Yoruba respect each other strength and weakness,and worked together, sky will be the limit for both tribes in Nigeria as both embrace development and good lifestyle.

evesdon4u:
http://newtelegraphonline.com/igbo-man-of-the-year-sets-agenda-for-buhari/

Maybe he was one of the people sabotaging our Electricity helping to importing unreiable generator and sabotaging our National grind supplies in other to buy unreliable machine that exploded killing lots of Nigerian. He should just keep quite, nobody need is quirk advice, so call emergency..drug baron and 419 Business person.

Abomination, quick abortion required. Dad & Mum should disown evil child ...who not only threatening to kill her mum..brought endless shame to the family.....Everlasting damage is done to victims (mum & dad) imagine living and seeing this child, day in day out . He has broken taboo. He should be kick out and disown.

olowoboi:
how much plus customs charges ?

Its N1.5mill no negotiable....

klem93:
The wind of change is blowing too fast. http://www.maxgist.com/2015/04/photos-maheeda-changes-mode-of-dressing.html

Why is she changing her clothes? Who is she? Is she Buhari or Jonathan daughter? Sometimes this attention seeker make me laugh.. I beg make I go park my car for one side jareeeee.. I will be back..

hungryboy:
Amaechi is a Judas,he will pay the price for this betrayal

What are you going to do? Who did he betray? Ameche is Honourable man who stood is ground against political thugs and bully. He was intimated by Mama And Papa Jona, Police and PDD party hierarchy yet un bow. Please give credit to whom is do for standing up to those in power that getting Nigeria as country to no where other than ruin....Mr Hungryboi embrace new dawn wind of change..new start for Nigeria good luck to you and your vendetta against Amechie to me is number 1 river state statesman.

Who cares weather you stay in America, I for one will never missed you as we don't know who you represented..Even people of America, European whole world are happy for us to achieve democratic change as most populous large demographic in African...However, good thing about our democracy is none entity like to you are quite entitle to your own opinion...As a matter of fact Nigerian people have spoken all you need to do is shut your trap and stay in yankee as you got nothing and absolutely nothing to offer Nigeria....

lalasticlala:
http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/32330/27/i-wont-visit-nigeria-if-buhari-becomes-presidentaf.html

Who cares weather you stay in America, I for one will never missed you as we don't know who you represented..Even people of America, European whole world are happy for us to achieve democratic change as most populous large demographic in African...However, good thing about our democracy is none entity like to you are quite entitle to your own opinion...As a matter of fact Nigerian people have spoken all you need to do is shut your trap and stay in yankee as you got nothing and absolutely nothing to offer Nigeria....

oluface:
[size=75pt]I LOVE BUHARI AND I AM READY TO DIE FOR HIM[/size]

Trust me non of these Nigeria politician leader worth dying for... remember 5 years ago we are jumping up and down, that Jonathan must rule. After 5 years we realised, He failed to get us to promised land...Same will happen to this new guys Buhari or Jonathan as we don't know yet....We will be yarning for another change. They are not worth dying for my brother all lies and filling their pocket.

BBC World News claim result is expected within next few hours. BBC News spokesmen claimed that half of the vote has been counted in 18 states it claim the opposition leader are leading ...sources BBC world news. BBC interview one of its spokesmen in the centre Mr Mansur Liman who claimed in coalition centre PDP disturbed counting and further released of result to protest against chairman at centre of biased, selective and tribalistic...However, Chairman of coalition centre claim this is not true.. British and American government express grave concern on going situation in Nigeria that both parties should abide by election rule both signed.

My Fellow NL Nigerians go and sleep. BBC news oracle had spoken excepted result/winner to be announced tomorrow...I have had enough of 48 hours promised result, that keep dripping in like water. Its now going to 62 hours, kudos to our electoral organisation called INEC for presiding over these shamble call election. God save Nigeria when INEC cannot even get election announcement date right. However, let give INEC tick for presiding over election that foreign independent observer believe is going to be violence and bloody. However, its very minimal in terms of comparing Nigerian demographic population. Good night fellow NL Nigeria sleep tight.

tit:
Mumu!
He is going to prison!
He has spent millions of dollars decorating his office to look like white house
but millions of lagosians are going to bed hungry this night.

Millions of Nigerian are going hungry, so Fasola is one that make them starved yeah? ? So you want him to operate in slum? You already answer your own question you are "Suegbe na Pako" which past mumu... However, you need to engage your brain before you write....naughty girl, option available to you is beg for mercy and apologise to popular Action Governor in Nigeria or will flog you hard...Ewu anu otu.

Available cleared from port on Thursday 26th of March 15.. Buyer to pay customs charges ....what are you waiting for....going soon wow bumper to bump..call now......08163924413 Updates pictures now on ground its bump...

Its election time thing...because our law enforcement agencies are busy, looking after lousy corrupts politician masses are bearing the evil brunt of Nigerian politics of death. Why are Nigerian robbers killing defenceless innocent people? These Nigerian robbers need their head examine, there is no need to kill innocent people going about their daily routine task. Please advice these senseless robbers to take what they want and leave innocent hardworking masses alone. .

Dyt:
So its all abt height now?
U didn't see him short when u guys started?
Nothing person no go see/read for this NL life

Can u imagine ur utterance/writing?
I am disappointed

Who care weather you disappointed or not...She asked for help to give advice whether height matter in marrying someone you love.. its either you gave advice or keep your peace (move on). NL is chatting medium to ask for advice when you having problems in making decision. However, you will be amazed with load of answers that you will receive to help you make informed decision. I must admit some of the answer are Barmy sometimes, while some are good ones.

Okay back to my contribution, height does not matter provided you love him and he care for you. Trivial issue like height does not stop you marrying someone you love. I will give you this mathematics equation where N1+ N1=P1, while N1 -n1 = -1 probability is your child might be even taller than both of you in future.. it all depend on God, gene and luck. However, you can be assured and don't be afraid your children will not be dwarf.

ronald4lif:
There's nothing to advise here really. You don't love her but rather feeling pity for her, forget it man.

There's a drug an HIV negative person can take before having sex with a carrier and will not get infected. The drug has proven to be very effective. But it depends if you are bold enough to risk it.

Thank you for bringing another dimensional thought to these saga. I really appreciate your reasoning for given another angle to follow, should I wanted to be bold and man enough.

sameer1212:
well it all depends on u, but I don't think is adviceable for u to make some one happy and sacrifice ur life/future by contacting HIV. If u guys start dating sex must involve and I don't think is 100percent safe with u. Condoms get boosted,u get carried away,u want to do quickies and other stuffs that love bird do. So in summary stay away from that lady if u want good for urself. Thank me letter.

Many thanks for your advice its taking on board..

sameer1212:
Are u HIV positive too? If yes then I think u guys are both match with each other. At least both of u will not spread the disease further.

Absolutely I am not. Hence reason why i don't want to continue relationship because i might get infected...I have sympathy for her due to her honesty, culture and responses..However, as she want to take the relationship further, I am in dilemma either to tell her true or continue with relationship that goes no were.

idu1:
I am sorry sir.

I don't ve any advise for you...

Thank you for your honest contribution.

temitemi1:
Ask your parents...

So your own parent advice you on who to date? It either you give your honest advice as a man in same situation what will you do.?

almostFamous:
ur a dumb phuck..take it or take it