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Poverty and its problems.

I really thought she was becoming a better person.
Does she need this to attract a man?

Must you eat snakes?

Anyway,that's a viper.Odikwa dangerous.

I'll advise you keep the baby though it won't be a smooth ride.
Tell your parents and if you know where your guy's parents live,tell them too
You can then start to sort yourself from there.

The idiot is even putting his hand there.smh
It's the brainwashed people who let these charlatans get away with things like this that I blame.

The pastor should sue the man for assault and attempted murder.

Who she no insult?

avled:
Thank you. I know what a PM is. I'm still trying to figure out how to send one on this site!

Just click on someone's monicker and you will see 'send an email to 'monicker'.

avled:
oh. is that what PM are on this site.

PM is like a direct message(DM).

avled:
Sure. Who Im I hollaring at?

Thorpido.You can give me a mention.

Mtcheeew.Una go just dey form stories.

avled:
When I moved to America, I never lived there either, but I moved there. Been here 30 years. I do not understand the fear that most people have with making a decision to carve their lives in the best interest of whatever passion drives them. So yes, I do want to settle in Nigeria. Why? Because I believe God. He told me to go there so I go. If I love God, then I trust Him. Therefore, because I trust Him to direct me to where He desires me to be, I prepare for that journey through research. I didn't become the individual that I am because I allowed the unknown to decide my future. The key in amassing wealth is RISK. Those who are not RISK takers, will never break into riches. So because I am a RISK taker, God has been able to use me to do things that most won't do and also reap the rewards of those risk initiatives.

Nice one.
When you do come around,holla.

Just curious.You've never lived here and yet Nigeria is where you decide to settle.
Interesting.

Story teller.

Everyone na pastor.

Hope no be tory be did.

Op,you need to be sure the story is true before you turn a liar.

Ask your friend if they have both done premarital health screening if he says no,tell him they both need to be screened.

You could also send an anonymous message stating the issue.

TheInsignia:
Blessed are those that are minding their business for their days will be long on earth.!!

How do you mind your business in this situation?Wisdom should be employed in delivery of the message if true.

He will definitely be tried for negligence.

Crazy country and her security system.
Even if the onlookers decide to take him to the hospital,they will still ask for police report.

She's been doing it even before pregnancy so she's used to it.
The irony is that a lot of women pregnant women do not exercise.

Pricelessangel0:
Thanks 4 ur advise cos thats exactly what i told him and that we should give ourselves more time to also allow me to find what i really want to do, bt even though he agrees that instants, next time we discuss he will bring it up again and also sound as if am wasting time.

From all your replies on your thread,it is obvious the relationship is not moving a pace you want.
Don't let anyone force you into marriage.

You say it is a 'no sex before marriage' relationship?Then stick with that if that is what you want.
It doesn't have to be him you marry.Meanwhile,tell him to make more sacrifices by visiting Lagos so you two can get to see more.
You just paid for rent?Then try to get a job or business and work on improving yourself.Marriage will come at the right time.

You are obviously not ready for marriage.Don't force yourself into any introduction just yet.

I wouldn't advise you move in with him for any reason.You will lose at the end.Let him marry you properly before you move in with him.

He should make the sacrifice of coming to Lagos during public holidays or weekends.You can also visit him.

You should work on developing yourself,getting a job or doing some business.Try to be financially independent.

Gewezzy1:
He talks back at you, destroys things deliberately, hisses, even to his mum, sleeps at 10pm because he wants to watch TV, watches any type of movie he wants. She's a single mum but doesn't mean she should continue to spare the rod, i just feel pity for her when i see the way ds boy is acting. Is this normal. Had to modify the post wasn't complete

He's obviously not raising him right.I was going to ask of the dad till I saw this post.
If she doesn't start to enforce rules and be more affirmative,the boy could turn out very bad.

How's she training him 'badly'?

He said they received 170 million votes.If each vote costs equivalent if N30 in Nigeria,that is over N5billion naira.Nke a bu crazy.

No wonder he wants to take a vacation.The mumu voters paid for it.

E don be for the guy.

AJ2ICE:
I swear where ever he chooses to put his hands is nobodys concern... Na ur wife asss eem put hand wey make u dey worry....
Person dey happy for wetin he spend money marry another [b]broke nigger [/b]dey worry where eem dey touch eem wife..... Religion has really blinded us...

Person wey no chop last night dey call person broke nigger.smh

thunderbabs:
Yeye

So you know say you be yeye.

thunderbabs:
Religious kolo people..... So coz husband touch wife for yansh in public, e no go enter heaven, bah?

Dirty pots calling kettle black

So you reduced your worth to the value of kitchen utensils?smh

ssogundele:
Where should he put it? In her mouth or eyes? Is she not his wife whom he married legally? Abeg face front and combat your own problem frontally!

It is not Islamic to put such things in public.He can put it anywhere in private.

He's putting his hand on her bum in the picture up there and that picture is on social media.
Is that Islamic?

bukatyne:
I was going to say ok, however I changed my mind.

Except I misread the OP, he and his wife did not decide to 'abstain' from sex; his wife actually looked at him and told him she mo longer wanted sex and after he pressed the matter, she said it was because he did not ejaculate inside of her.

I have also explained the 'force' I implied severally on this thread.

Interestingly, I am sure if I told the man to commit adultery, it would be fine with everyone.

The Bible passage you quoted actually indictes the woman.

And I have seen enough to know that a number of 'Christian' wives hold their husbands to ransome because he cannot or shouldn't cheat.

Whatever rocks the OP's boat.

God help him find a lasting solution to his problem.

I know it's the wife that said she doesn't want anymore but the husband didn't agree to that so they still did not reach an agreement.

@ bolded,that is very true.I've heard a lot of cases where wives use that as a bargaining too or some sort of punishment.