₦airaland Forum

avled:
Thank you. I know what a PM is. I'm still trying to figure out how to send one on this site!

avled:
oh. is that what PM are on this site.

avled:
Sure. Who Im I hollaring at?

avled:
When I moved to America, I never lived there either, but I moved there. Been here 30 years. I do not understand the fear that most people have with making a decision to carve their lives in the best interest of whatever passion drives them. So yes, I do want to settle in Nigeria. Why? Because I believe God. He told me to go there so I go. If I love God, then I trust Him. Therefore, because I trust Him to direct me to where He desires me to be, I prepare for that journey through research. I didn't become the individual that I am because I allowed the unknown to decide my future. The key in amassing wealth is RISK. Those who are not RISK takers, will never break into riches. So because I am a RISK taker, God has been able to use me to do things that most won't do and also reap the rewards of those risk initiatives.

TheInsignia:
Blessed are those that are minding their business for their days will be long on earth.!!

Pricelessangel0:
Thanks 4 ur advise cos thats exactly what i told him and that we should give ourselves more time to also allow me to find what i really want to do, bt even though he agrees that instants, next time we discuss he will bring it up again and also sound as if am wasting time.

Gewezzy1:
He talks back at you, destroys things deliberately, hisses, even to his mum, sleeps at 10pm because he wants to watch TV, watches any type of movie he wants. She's a single mum but doesn't mean she should continue to spare the rod, i just feel pity for her when i see the way ds boy is acting. Is this normal. Had to modify the post wasn't complete

AJ2ICE:
I swear where ever he chooses to put his hands is nobodys concern... Na ur wife asss eem put hand wey make u dey worry....
Person dey happy for wetin he spend money marry another [b]broke nigger [/b]dey worry where eem dey touch eem wife..... Religion has really blinded us...

thunderbabs:
Yeye

thunderbabs:
Religious kolo people..... So coz husband touch wife for yansh in public, e no go enter heaven, bah?

Dirty pots calling kettle black

ssogundele:
Where should he put it? In her mouth or eyes? Is she not his wife whom he married legally? Abeg face front and combat your own problem frontally!

bukatyne:
I was going to say ok, however I changed my mind.

Except I misread the OP, he and his wife did not decide to 'abstain' from sex; his wife actually looked at him and told him she mo longer wanted sex and after he pressed the matter, she said it was because he did not ejaculate inside of her.

I have also explained the 'force' I implied severally on this thread.

Interestingly, I am sure if I told the man to commit adultery, it would be fine with everyone.

The Bible passage you quoted actually indictes the woman.

And I have seen enough to know that a number of 'Christian' wives hold their husbands to ransome because he cannot or shouldn't cheat.

Whatever rocks the OP's boat.

God help him find a lasting solution to his problem.

agbonkamen:
unemployed nairaland teacher weldone Sir

kimbraa:
Both of them skipped English classes.

Yewandequeen:
that's cheap na. But the success % is higher in people without fertility problem but less in people with fertility problem I guess?