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Fattamyfattamy:
Good morning mama's,how body?i av a few questions firstly,when i went for scan yesterday i.was told am now 38 weeks + 4day's and according to my own calculation am 36 weeks my edd as now changed from 24April to 9April am now confused can the machine make mistakes?secondly,they said uterus is GRAVID what's the meaning pls.thirdly,placenta is inferior-posterior-low lyin hope its normal?sabi mamas biko respond urgently.

How did you do your own calculation?Note that scan results are always +2weeks from your last menstrual period.Moreover,scans done in first semester are usually more accurate than ones done in third trimester.
GRAVID uterus means you are pregnant.lol
Your placenta is lying at the back of the uterus and is low lying.A low lying placenta means there could be an obstruction when it's time to give birth.It could change before you eventually deliver but if it might be an issue,your doctor will advise accordingly.

Some men like it big but erm............I doesn't.

Men who commit this kind of atrocity should be given life sentence.

Tazdroid:
and hw did u figure out that she has a partner who isn't white?

Ahhh .If the partner is white,she shouldn't have such Ghanian dark children.

As the woman black like that,she should have picked a fair guy for a partner.

You won't pay for delivery and the best way to cover it up is to kill?
The heart of man is wicked.

austinosita:
Pray make woman no show you!

You go wise up na.If i dey abroad,before i go fit file for woman,she don carry belle for me.

It means your ovaries are covered with the kind of tissues found in the lining of the womb.It's a benign growth but causes infertility and pain in your pelvic region especially during menstruation.

Acidosis:
You didn't learn anything from your first marriage ma. This is not about your new man, but you.

You should have asked these questions before you married your new man.

Abi.I guess she needed a man first before questions are asked.

Op,you can only hope your new man treats you and your kids right.If the relationship with him turns sour,just pack your bags and move on.
A man who doesn't treat his children well no matter what problems he has with their mother has a questionable character.

Poor guy but him na mugu.
In this generation you have to be street smart.

So sad.The policemen's family have suffered the loss of their breadwinners.

Shygirl1989:
See me see wahalah oo,I commented on someone's post and you decided to quote me ,I've told you stop quoting me. If you like follow yeye rules that's your business. I'm entitled to my opinions.stop foisting your silly opinions on me.
The rule is SIlly,of you don't like it go jump off a bridge.or better still sue me....
STOP QUOTING me or I report and get you blocked
Jeez mahn!!!!

You're not humble,no wonder you do not regard authorities.And you say you're a leader?smh.
You quoted me first and you can't be humble enough to admit it.

Get me blocked?Na you own nairaland?smh

Shygirl1989:
You did, I didn't.
I follow and implement useful and humane rules not silly rules that serve no purpose.except.to cause hurt and breed hatred.
Pls don't quote me.

Shygirl1989:
That's why a ,church should play God and refuse to dedicate a child in full view of Gods people....wehdonesir.....
If you understand the reason for dedicating a child you will immediately see the error in the churches stance.
They are wrong..........

Are you a liar too or forgetful?That was your first quote of my comment.
You're ignorant about rules and regulations.People get suspended at work,get demoted and even fired.it has nothing to do with causing hatred.To you they may be silly rules,it doesn't change anything.

Shygirl1989:
I'm a leader already both at work and in my church and I don't laud it over people when they've done wrong.
Quit trying to win me over to your views.I'm entitled to mine and I'm sticking to it because I know its true and just.
Keep your opinions to yourself please.
Thank you
Have a nice day.

You obviously don't know about rules and punishments.If you are a leader at work as you say,why do we have queries?Why do we have suspensions?
I'm not trying to win you over,just showing you why rules govern establishments and the need to.
Of course you are entitled to your opinions but you should have exercised the wisdom in knowing that you should keep your opinions to yourself before quoting me.
Have a nice day.

If she has so much anger in her to beat a child to death,she has a long jail-term awaiting her.
What does a 3yr old child know?I get angry seeing adults maltreat small children.Won't you let them grow?

Shygirl1989:
I hope when their own children fall prey,they would do same.....they are not God and should stop playing his role.their job is to guide not laud authority over others.

When their own children fail,they get the same treatment.I've seen that happen.
Leaders guide and exercise authority and punishments.Moses was not God,yet he exercised authority and judgement.Learn the scriptures.
I hope you plan to be a leader one day.

Men,some of you have brothers,cousins and neighbours who are rapists.Please don't cover up their actions.
Let's join hands to stop rape.

Shygirl1989:
It shouldn't be done privately, period...your can't give conditions to carryout Gods work. If you're dedicating a child do it in the presence on the congregation.
Pastors should STOP playing God.

You may not believe in rules and order but that doesn't change anything.There are conditions for having a dedication in front of the congregation.The Op and her husband didn't meet that condition,period.
God has given people here on the earth His authority to exercise.

'And when he had said this,He breathed on them and said,Receive the Holy Spirit..' John 20:22

When people are ignorant,they spend so much time criticising the Church and pastors.
I'm not saying there are not issues with some pastors but some of the criticisms are unnecessary.

ISTANDWITHBUHAR:
Judging on one side story huh? When it comes to word i give it to women, They can say anything to you when they are angry but just one from you they gonna explode..

No doubt when it comes to verbal abuse,women top but when men run their mouths it's worth news.
You will always hear of a dog biting a man but when you hear a man bit a dog,it's news.

Shygirl1989:
That's why a ,church should play God and refuse to dedicate a child in full view of Gods people....wehdonesir.....
If you understand the reason for dedicating a child you will immediately see the error in the churches stance.
They are wrong..........

I'm sure you read that the Church was going to dedicate the baby(or did you miss that part) ......but privately.
The Church is God's representation on earth and there are rules and regulations in the Church.They are not playing God,God plays through them.
They never said they were not dedicating!

madridguy:
I disagree with you. You can meet your partner anywhere.

I only mentioned those places because they are peculiar.It's actually the content in the person which is strongly influenced by environment.

SIRTee15:
Say what u know.....
It's very much possible for a HIV positive mother to give birth to a HIV negative child......
Go and read about prevention of mother to child transmission of HIV and it's high success rate.....

I used that just as a hypothetical case and not trying to talk about whether HIV mothers cannot have HIV babies.
Of course I know that.

morkaz:
I disagree with you on this. I meet my wife at the market place and I have never for 1ce in our mre than 10years relationship use a foul language on her. Not even the commonly used "ori e o pe (you are mad)". Like you have said, its communication issue. ops, the way you try to pass your message to your husband by rejecting his mum is nt right. No man will not feel wrong by this. Please you need to study each other and learn a good ways of communication. Wish u mre conjugal bliss.

I acually just used 'market' as a slang.It doesn't mean you can't find good people in a market.

babythug:
I respectfully disagree with that last bit of your response! The hook up points isn't necessarily a determining factor in behavior of the couple if you get me!

I personally know two husbands of good pedigree and in respectable careers and are typically what we* would term decent fellows who call thier wives nasty names like vagabond! And no they didn't hook up in night clubs!

People will meet and have met in the most unlikely places and the relationship still turns out great

It's an individual and unsavory habit!

Actually,good people can come out of the places I mentioned but I mentioned those places because they are peculiar and people are usually products of where they grew.

I'm sure you know this union is unlikely to work.Better move on.

Shygirl1989:
God bless you a thousand times.........an innocent child is being deined his Godly rights because of a silly rule that he had no hand in. What the blazes is even closed dedication sef..

If a man who is HIV positive sleeps with a woman who is also HIV positive,they will have a child who is HIV positive.The child is 'innocent' here but is affected by the actions of his/her parents.
As it is biologically/physically,so is it spiritually.The child is indeed innocent and is even unaware of what is going on.The parents are the ones facing the action here.

obinoral1179:
the prostitute woman was caught in the act of adultery and jesus forgave her.... Jesus came not to condemned the world but to save the world. Jesus was not judgmental but our churches today have taken the post of God... Thank God men where not God.

Jesus is not judgemental but punished when He had to.There are principles and rules guiding our living.Without them,it becomes a lawless society.
When Jesus forgave the prostitute,He didn't say let's throw a party for her,He admonished her to go and sin no more.
We need to know how to exercise the word.

obinoral1179:
I assume the church punish the couple by not allowing them to marry at the church, but why do same to the young boy..... But did they ask the family to be paying their offering and tithe in private?

I hope you know the boy knows nothing about what is going on now.The parents are the ones who know and are being punished.

You assume the family even pay tithes or you are sure?

obinoral1179:
the prostitute woman was caught in the act of adultery and jesus forgave her.... Jesus came not to condemned the world but to save the world. Jesus was not judgmental but our churches today have taken the post of God... Thank God men where not God.

Yes,Jesus came not to condemn the world.Why did Jesus whip and chase out those who traded in the temple?Mathew 21:12
There is a place for forgiveness but there's a place for punishments too.There's a balance.

Remember at the end of this life,Jesus is going to be the greatest Judge.

kevoh:
Pray tell how do you determine a voice in your head is of this god? What language does this voice speak in your head? I'm truly interested! And finally if when you determine this voice, would you still obey its command to kill an innocent child because his father was randy?

Those are three questions up there. Three answers from you will suffice.

Jesus said,My sheep hear my voice ,and I know them,and they follow me.John 10:27
Notice,He said,they hear,not that they guess.So if I'm His sheep,I hear his voice.
He speaks the language I understand.It could be english or my native tongue.

Jesus said,I speak of what I have seen with my father....John 8:38
There are things that I have seen with My Father.By the time I hear 'the voice' you speak about telling me to kill an innocent child because the father was randy,I'll just laugh.I'll do that because I have determined which voice speaks.