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BLACKdagger:
Obviously u are a double standard fellow.
U are trying to twist ur initila comment to favour u.
Anyone reading the comment will simply figure out ur initial comment was dir3cted at d victim.
Even ur conscience knows it.

But becox of ur double standard nature speaking from both side of mouth.. u wont accept it.
People like u lack principle.

Read my comment again or quote me.What's the double standard about it?
The topic says,....'suspected cultists kill...'and i said below;

Cultism never ends well.
I don't know why fools keep being part of it.

What is the double standard here?I spoke generally of cultism.Those who killed him,if they are cultists or people who belong to cult groups are fools because doom awaits them.

Like I said,it's a comprehension issue.When people decide to quote someone,it's important first that they understand the statement he/she made.

She married a divorcee.Hmmm

Wish her all the best.

goldbim:
Happy married life to the Lady..i don't think i can do such tho..why do I feel some things are not acceptable spiritually??Marriage is beyond what people think it is.To each his own.. ..

Some people accept anything just to be married.Why not wait until he can be available to fix a date?
Now she might end up being a naija wife whose husband visits once a year and she might not be able to relocate to meet him.

Unclerukus:
She might be right. When I was schooling I noticed cultists don't harm you if you don't have a connection with them. They might harass and steal from you but not harm or kill. In other words, they don't kill Jews.

A small percentage of those who fall victims are those caught in the crossfire or a question of mistaken identity.Another small percentage are those who ARE NOT cultists but step on their toes or drag girlfriends with them(usually they just deal with such guys as a first warning).
The REST are cultists.

moorme:
He's really wise in his "small world" of reasoning.

Una be dem dem.
Don't worry,it is written,'he who lives by the sword........'

At the end of it all,we will know who is truly wise.

veneza:
To you what's God view on IVF

God's view is the same as with heart transplant or kidney transplant.
He gave men the knowledge and if He didn't want it to work,no matter how men try,it will fail.
You know there are high failure rates with IVF.

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BLACKdagger:
Ur thinking is really miopic as the lady said.
so Based on ur logic.......

Anyone shot by cultistist is a member.
Any man walkin with a lady is her husband
Every thick red liquid is blood.
any1 carrying gun is in force.
Any child crying is hungry.

U are really a WISE person ooh

You obviously didn't think before quoting me.Apart from myopia,you and the person that quoted me don't have comprehensive ability as your strong points.
The topic says,'killed by suspected cultists' and my comment was on effect of cultism.I NEVER said he was a cultist to have been killed.Sometimes there are innocent victims.

Have you ever done any test of written English like TOEFL or IELTS?Comprehension is very important.

Are you suspecting your wife or you actually caught them in the act?

Happy for her.It seemed she was jonsing.
Perhaps she will add some flesh now.

fabiano09:
naija and myopic way of thinking,you blame a gun victim for being killed,who told you every1 shot dead on campus is a cultist

Myopic indeed.
The topic says suspected cultists and my comment has to do with cultism.
He may have been a victim but most cult related victims have something to do with cultism.

Well that's the catholic's view.
We have God's view,catholic's view,Jehovah witness' view,etc.

Cultism never ends well.
I don't know why fools keep being part of it.

Reminds me of left eye who set the fiance's home on fire.

lozanni:
Exactly my thoughts back then, I guessed rightly that it was only a matter of time before discontent with the strict Islamic way of life sets in for Janet.

Don't mind Janet.She wants the money and the luxury without understanding the demands of the strict islamic way of life.

People insulting nurses like they haven't benefitted from their services.

Onegai:
There was something I wanted to mention to you about Gestational Diabetes and Protein levels in Urine last year. I even wanted to write a post about it, like early warning signs for pregnant women, but things changed my mind. If I get the info, I'll pass it on to you via pm.

Alright.How've you been and the family?

Mcheeew.
Celebrities making a mess of what marriage should be.
How did they think it was going to work?An American celebrity marrying a muslim arab?

Bloggers and story telling.

Anyway,let him go for the DNA test.At the end you will know if you pass or fail.

kemifemi:
Thanks so much. I was placed on 5mg per night. I slept with legs on the pillow to reduce swelling. I only had a mild headache this morning.

I appreciate.

Okay.I hope they also check your urine for proteins on your ante-natal visits?

She doesn't look like she's older than 26.She just let herself blow.
The man should keep the faith.After marriage,there will be more 'prosperity' on the woman's part.

MrBrownJay1:
Unless they BOTH go to Africa, how is it gonna help to try it alone?

She's in a quagmire then.Her body is in America but her heart is in Africa.

MrBrownJay1:
Such union would never last.

It's a trial.If it doesn't seem to be working,then she drops it.

You should have decided on where you wanted to live before settling down.As it stands now,you just have to stay back there except you want friction in your marriage.
I understand how home sickness can be.It will be hard to fight off.Your best bet in this case is to come,stay for a few months and go back.

kemifemi:
Good day everyone. Congrats to the mamas who delivered.
The good lord will keep and preserve them.

Am 35 wks 5 days today. My BP has been high for the past 3 weeks. The last time i checked it w as143/87. The gynae asked me to take diazepam, one tab for 6 nights. I googled it but I don't like what i read.

Please, has anyone used this tab before?
I was told that if it remains high at my next appointment i would be scheduled for a c section at 37 weeks.

Abeg make una no waka pass o.

Diazepam is a muscle relaxant.Your doctor is trying to control your elevated blood pressure. Most drugs have their side effects but sometimes you use it when the benefits outweigh the risks.A constantly elevated blood pressure in pregnancy can lead to pre-eclampsia which is a serious issue to deal with.
I'm sure your doctor placed you on low dose which you have to use for just few days so it's safe.
If your BP continues to stay elevated,you will be managed till you get to 37weeks and your choice will be a C/S to bring the baby out because that's the only solution to the hypertension.
Cut off salt intake too and try to take foods rich in potassium like oranges,tomatoes etc and drink lots of water.

goingape1:
that's what I'm still trying to understand!

you know someone is unstable, you must have seen some terrible downside during courtship and yet still go into the marriage. what make you think he will change

it is better to be single than to marry!

From my interactions with women,these are some of the reasons;
*fear of starting a new relationship.
*hopelessness hope that he will change.
*pressure from family/friends to settle down.
*the material benefits.

And 'I love him' *in Helen Paul's voice.*

Larasisi:
obviously the man is a psychopath all she needs is to get busy with her job and have little or no reason to be hopelessly dependent on him.
God is head over him and she must be able to always take all her pains to him.He will restrain him from going all the way out to hurt her. Let her read Malachi 2 where God said he hates divorce and stand on that verse that way divorce will not be an option for her. God is alive. I know what she is going through. Be strong in the Lord.

God hates divorce,true.However,what does God feel about men who have murdered their spouses?
A woman should remove herself from a violent environment.

The problem with a lot of women is that for many reasons,they see an unstable man and they still decide to marry him.

farous:
U made a point. Any sane man CAN NEVER just wake up and start beating,insulting or divorce the wife.There MUST be an untold story. I suggest she just say the truth and beg the man for forgiveness.

Not true@bolded.Some men are not marriageable.They either grew up in unstable homes or picked up some unsavoury behaviours somewhere.They do not love or have become incapable of loving and they generally do not treat women well.It has nothing to do with what the woman does or does not do.

Anyway,you said sane men.

biomustry:
Because they are christians, no?
How is it not relevant sef

Ok

Trina0936:
I can just imagine a guy in a gown as bridesmaid! Lol......

Men don't do that shiiiiiii.

Well,maybe g*y men.

biomustry:
Christians can do anything o

What relevance is this comment of yours to the topic?

@Topic,I find it a wack idea.So the groom doesn't have a man to play that role?

IpobExposed:
E money is from which tribe?

Tribe called quest.