Family › Re: Man Discovers 32-year-old ‘son’ Isn’t His Child (photos) by thorpido(m): 10:16pm On Feb 14, 2017*. Modified: 10:30am On Feb 15, 2017 |
That woman is wicked.Why can't she be upfront from the beginning instead of causing sorrow to the man and the son. Like I always say,men that are not street smart or men who are philanderers are the ones who 'buy' these pregnancies.How will you not know 'when' you sowed and also 'examine your harvest'? soberdrunk: Looking at the pictures, you dont need a DNA test to tell you, its very obvious. Apart from physical features, there are certain behaviours i expect my child to display, i guess the man was just too ignorant  You sabi.Some men just dull.How will you not look out for similarities with you in a child you see around your house all the time? |
Family › Re: My Sister Is Dead. by thorpido(m): 7:04pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
RIP to your sister. She was at end stage cancer when I saw your thread.Be comforted. |
Celebrities › Re: D'banj, Meek Mill And Josh Harris Picrured by thorpido(m): 12:00pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
I guess he wants to try rap music now.  |
Romance › Re: My Boss Want Intimacy With Me. by thorpido(m): 11:25am On Feb 14, 2017 |
Bitterleafsoup: That will just turn him on more. The wife will turn him off............except she's a weak woman. |
Family › Re: Another Nigerian Pranks His Wife Claims He Impregnated Another Woman: See Chat by thorpido(m): 5:44pm On Feb 13, 2017 |
Choiszman: Abi oo
If na my gf wey i never marry sef
As i dey tell her, my fone go just blow   |
Family › Re: Another Nigerian Pranks His Wife Claims He Impregnated Another Woman: See Chat by thorpido(m): 5:00pm On Feb 13, 2017 |
The girl mind strong.Nice one |
Travel › Re: Hilux Truck Collides With A Tricycle In Imo, Five Dead. Graphic Photos by thorpido(m): 10:44pm On Feb 12, 2017 |
Chineke me. RiP to the deceased. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The History Of Olumba Olumba (the Brotherhood Of Cross And Star) by thorpido(m): 10:41pm On Feb 12, 2017 |
Dboy55: wre is d so called Rowland now # is he still alive Roland is alive and is the spiritual head of B.O.C.S.The members are being deceived that Olumba Olumba travelled(when in fact he is dead). |
Celebrities › Re: Late Eric Arubayi's Wife & Son (Photos) by thorpido(m): 9:12am On Feb 12, 2017 |
RIP man. Take care of your health everyone.
Too early for the poor young wife to be a widow. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 90 Verses In The Bible Say Jesus Is Not God by thorpido(m): 8:06am On Feb 12, 2017 |
Carry your thread to your cave Islam for muslim section and please yourself.Noone is interested in what you think about Jesus. Jesus is Jesus.....Duh |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Pictured With Brandy by thorpido(m): 9:55pm On Feb 11, 2017 |
darlenese: U don't know her , abeg stop forming
If u know Brandy wella u won't be asking what happened to her .
She don fine well well sef  Which one is I don't know her,stop forming? Brandy Norwood,Ray J's older brother? The one with the popular song,'I wanna be down'?That started acting as Moesha?Which one be stop forming?  She ought to look better than she is now,that's why I said she's not looking chic.I guess she's aging though. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Pictured With Brandy by thorpido(m): 4:35pm On Feb 11, 2017 |
phemsie: she's getting old na.
ray J. former kim kardashian's boy friend is her younger brother, so u should guess her age now YEs,she's getting old.She should be about 40yrs now. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Pictured With Brandy by thorpido(m): 12:05pm On Feb 11, 2017 |
Brandy is not looking chic.What happened to her? |
Health › Re: Maternity picture of Lady who survived Breast Cancer Will Move You To Tears by thorpido(m): 9:06am On Feb 11, 2017 |
Double mastectomy...chai
Not evey child is breatsfed Op,even the mothers with breasts don't all get to breastfeed.Some don't lactate. |
Family › Re: I Have Questions Concerning Marriage, As A Young Man. by thorpido(m): 5:55pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Jackofall: Wow, thanks a lot for this wonderful quote, I will keep it dear to my heart.
I do not know if I can have your whatsapp contact? Send me a PM. |
Family › Re: After The Jazz..what Next by thorpido(m): 5:00pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
snthesis: i really cant say, i was out of country for 6months and my attitude towards her changed, i saw her in a different light, i couldnt recall marrying her, everything was just hazy. i told my mum and a few weeks later she confided in me, and asked me to forgive her Hmmm.It's a marriage of deception.I really can't tell you what to do but make the decision that's best for you. |
Family › Re: After The Jazz..what Next by thorpido(m): 4:02pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
snthesis: and so she started....
….I was in my third serious relationship (excluding school runs offcourse,), i was closer to 30 than 25, Tunde had met with my parents we were both in love, my dad really liked him so did my mum, he had a good job, had his apartment, an ac chilling car and most of all he said he loved me, his bedroom skills superb, so you could imagine my utter amazement when he proposed, yes Tunde wanted to marry me. i was all too eager to share with my friends my mum, i was in high heavens. Tunde officially declared his intentions to my parents a week later, formal introduction was agreed to hold in month, after introduction a date was agreed by both parents for the engagement/wedding proper... ghen ghen i couldnt wait to be called Mrs. Ore xyz. and then it happened, a few weeks later Tunde called off the wedding. I was in total shock ,ahan!!! Ahan!!! no way could lightning strike 3times, yes i repeat 3times this was the third consecutive time i would get dumped just before the wedding day. haba something was definitely wrong.... I remained inconsolable (Tunde got married to someone else), no one could bring me out of my shell, I lost weight, resigned from my job, I became a ghost of my robust self. My mum panicked when it appeared I was becoming suicidal and then one evening she called me to her room…what happened next was stranger than fiction… she stripped and made me swear that what she was about to reveal could never be revealed, and then asked me why was I killing yourself over a man, and if having a man was my problem then all I had to do was get my chosen spouse to eat of the concoction which she brought out and then she boasted saying “your daddy has been on this for the past 35yrs, he thinks he is in love but I know better"… in my desperation I took the concoction and proceeded to look for my spouse…..i am so so sorry… I really love you,
….that was how my wife of two years, confessed to me. I’m still in shock, I look at our baby, I look at my wife with eyes wide open, with disgust…. and walked out
I need advise, what should I do Why did she confess?The jazz don fail? |
Family › Re: Why Does My Son Prefer His Father Over Me? by thorpido(m): 11:28am On Feb 10, 2017 |
airminem: [b]I am complaining again Perhaps your baby has noticed you are always complaining.  |
Family › Re: I Have Questions Concerning Marriage, As A Young Man. by thorpido(m): 7:34am On Feb 10, 2017*. Modified: 11:01am On Feb 10, 2017 |
in life,there are always bad stories and good stories.You can choose to pay more attention to the good ones.
Everyone can get married.That line that 'marriage is not for everyone' is not true.Everyone who can love,understand what sacrifice and selflessness are,have patience as a virtue (or get it),can forgive and put others into consideration can marry.
Are your parents married?Did you learn one or two things from them?Even if they had a troublesome marriage or divorced,did you still learn something from them? Marriage is for you as long as you can be that person in my first paragraph.Even if you are not exactly like that,you can work at it. Love is important in marriage.You will find someone you love(I hope you are not one of those people who have hardened their hearts and choose not to love).Find someone who compliments you.Someone you share similar interests and have similar outlook to life.You will find the person by making friends with the opposite sex and having conversations.
Do not beat your wife no matter what.Separate or divorce if you are being abused.The most important thing is knowing and choosing who you want to marry. Know the temparament of the person you want to marry.For instance,I don't like women with foul mouths.I couldn't be married to one.My wife has never given me a reason to say I'm even tempted to beat.Choice is very important in marriage.Lay the foundation properly.
Marry a God-fearing woman and be a God-fearing man.Spirituality is important.Life is spiritual.If you are not grounded spiritually and your wife is not,cheating may be expected.There are different age ranges where men and women peak sexually.For wome it's usually around late 20s to early 40s.Arrange your marriage and work schedule such that you have time for each other.Try to spice up your sexual life too.Don't just stick with the missionary position.Also go out once in a while.Leave the confines of your room and house.Lodge in hotels once in a while.
If you do not like fat women,DON'T marry one.Don't marry a woman with a tendency to get fat too.Look at the mother/family of the one you want to get married to.Check that it's not a family of fat people.Women do add weight when they get pregnant.However,that weight can be shed after childbirth.You may have to help and encourage your wife to shed the weight.MARRY a woman who has some degree of body consciousness too and is careful about her shape.EVERYONE should exercise.Marry someone who at least gets to do some exercise.My wife goes through an exercise regimen every time she gives birth.
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Family › Re: Pregnant by thorpido(m): 6:41pm On Feb 08, 2017 |
Preetiex: it a friend not me, she has gone 2 d guy mum so they will sort it Hmm. My friend's boyfriend's mother's son's girlfriend's friend. |
Family › Re: Pregnant by thorpido(m): 1:16pm On Feb 08, 2017 |
The same guy you said was controlling? You should have come here to ask us about contraception.What do you do?A student? If you decide to keep the pregnancy(which is right),be prepared to run the race alone. I wonder why the man is not accepting it,i thought he wanted to marry you. |
Family › Re: Identical Twin Sisters Who Are Pregnant At The Same Time (Photos) by thorpido(m): 12:10pm On Feb 08, 2017 |
k199192: Please o... That line that always runs from the navel down to the vagina and upwards to the chest region on the tummy of pregnant ladies... Is it make up or natural... Ayamnotunderstanding It's called linea nigra.It is not make up.It's part of the darkening of some parts of a pregnant woman's body especially when the pregnancy is advanced.It's the same thing that makes the are-ola become darkened. |
Celebrities › Re: RMD Celebrates His Daughter's 30th Birthday (Photo) by thorpido(m): 11:05am On Feb 08, 2017 |
nigeriafarmer: his late wife No.The late wife had no child with him. |
Celebrities › Re: RMD Celebrates His Daughter's 30th Birthday (Photo) by thorpido(m): 10:17am On Feb 08, 2017 |
alorax2: Pls dont be confused. His late Wife may ellen ezikel mofe damijo had 3 kids for him b4 she passed away in d 90s, so d lady is RMD daughter from his late wife May Ellen Ezekiel had no kids for him.RMD was a player back in the days and had 2 kids from different women. |
Celebrities › Re: RMD Celebrates His Daughter's 30th Birthday (Photo) by thorpido(m): 10:14am On Feb 08, 2017 |
BEENUEL: very confuse right now
But baba celebrated 16th wedding Anniversary with his boo? So what's the 30th child birthday about.....maybe adopted sha The kids are from his player days. |
Family › Re: Update: My Sister Has Cancer. I Will Miss her so much. by thorpido(m): 9:44pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
She's not yet dead so Op,stop saying RIP. Let your mum know your sister's seriously ill.Give her all the comfort and care she can get now. |
Crime › Re: Kogi Civil Servant Burns Niece's Legs With Hot Stone (Photos) by thorpido(m): 7:17pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Evil.Child abuse should be dealt with more seriously in Nigeria. |
NYSC › Re: Female Corper, Olajumoke Abetesola, Who Died In Bayelsa Camp (Photos) by thorpido(m): 7:07pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Feel for her parents.After all the sacrifices made to get her through school.
She was asthmatic.Her inhaler should have always been with her especially in a place like camp. |
Family › Re: Long Distance Marriage And Trying to conceive a baby by thorpido(m): 5:19pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
I wouldn't advise you quit your job.You need the job and the money. Your best bet is to try and travel when it's your ovulation to be with him but time is a big constraint for you.Just see how it can work. |
Family › Re: Conversation Between A Mother And Her Child Who Caught Her Cheating On His Dad. by thorpido(m): 12:54pm On Feb 06, 2017 |
For real?  |