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Jammiiee:
Wow, very interesting, hearing for and against. But sincerely I think it can't be less than 2 out of every 5, dt myt b the least, that's 40%. But m certain a lot of ladies will av stories to tell. Of course, u r a veteran gyn with such wealth of experience. What else have ur eyes not seen. The good, bad and the ugly . I hail ur professionalism sir. But m sure many can't subdue that reaction

I'm not a gynae.

Jammiiee:
Well u can confidently, that's because u dont do that. U can't just speak for others, at least u read what that lady typed up thr, with examples of her friend and herself. If only more ladies can open up on this forum, uwil be shocked. Only that our females r too reticent and not as free minded as we guys

I've worked with many doctors and can tell to what extent they can do and not do.These cases are not as rampant as you think it is.Like i said it will be one out of about five doctors.

Pidgin2:
I think more females should be encouraged to specialize in this field. It is not right for a male to be handling a females body in the name of medical check up..

You may not be like that but let's face it some male doctors are in it for the sexual passion they satisfy through this means. I even think it is wrong religiously, why should a woman open her V for a strange man to access na, haba.

I know childbirth is messy and all but I am talking of regular check up of that private region not to talk of accessing a busty lady

If there are enough female gynaecologists,maybe.
There aren't enough doctors for the population not to talk of having females for females.
Doctors are trained to treat both sexes and I don't see any big deal in it.The human body is overated really.I can confidently say most doctors just do their jobs.

Jammiiee:
Wow, this is quite interesting. Good info, no wonder I kept wondering how they can manage d situ. Haba. As if they ain't men, bn faced with different women structures Unclad, except they r wooden structures. And some of them will come here now, claiming professionals. Professionals my foot. Haba, dt course should be for females, seriously. . M sure a lot of women still av stories to tell.

I have been in practice for over 17years.Not once have I fooled around with an an unclad female body.I know many colleagues who are that way too.
I'm telling you,out of 5 doctors,maybe one will misbehave.

You obviously might not be able to raise that child on your own,at least not when she's still a baby.If you have a mother who is willing to take care of her then that might be possible.
Let the child stay with the mother for now.Make your presence felt in the child's life by visiting and making financial commitments.
Try to discuss with the mother and have an agreement on visits.

Young people,if you can't stay celibate,use protection.There are many ways to prevent pregnancy and they are not expensive.Stop bringing babies you don't have plans for into the world.It's good for you and for that child's future.

He had to commit suicide and he chose church grounds to do that?The devil really pushed him.

I like those words of declaration.The grace of God is upon your life.

Be blessed.

She get mission.U no see the hair?

Pidgin2:
Funny enough i think it is wrong Sha. It's like having a female examine your husband's privates. My cousin (a nurse) said a man walked into the pharmacy the where she works and he complained about itching in his private parts, she said instantly the man dropped his trousers and attempted to show her what he was talking about.

She said she was embarrassed and asked him not to show (she has two kids)

There is a reason why men are numerous in that medical field.

The only reason @bolded is because female doctors hardly want to specialise in that field.Most prefer to become paediatricians or something else.
I've heard young female doctors say they don't want 'women wahala'.
Many male doctors in that field do it for the passion(being in the process of birthing a child) and interest,not because they want to see naked bodies.There's enough naked bodies in the media already.

Cityguy:
As a lady, you have a right to demand for a chaperone. This can be communicated politely if you suspect any unhealthy motive by something like 'Doc, I'll be more comfortable if a female nurse can be in attendance pls.' If he is sensible, he would get your point and not try anything funny and for Randy docs who don't know, examining a female client without an attending chaperone is invitation to lawsuits that can crumble your career in weeks and enrich pockets. Nigerians are waking up these days and are ready to stand for their rights. Taking advantage of women should not be your motivation for seeking that profession.

You've said it all.

aminusanti:
I knw him as a prophet of God (messenger) and he prayed to God just like other prophets before him and he never ask you people to worship him.

Everyone who has heard and learned of the Father commeth to me(Jesus)-John 6:45 If the God you know is the One Who sent Jesus,you will follow Jesus.Muhammed you follow which shows you don't know Who sent Jesus.
In John 6:45,Jesus said,'ye have not known Him....'
It's one thing to assume you know.


And by the way,one day you will know Jesus as Judge.
When the Son of Man comes in his glory and all his angels are with him, he will sit on his glorious throne.The people of every nation will be gathered in front of him. He will separate them as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats.He will put the sheep on his right but the goats on his left. Matthew25 vs 31:33

aminusanti:
so, worshiping a creation (man) rather than d creator is the true light according to you??
May God save you b4 is too late

I'm saved already.I worship God Who is revealed to me by Jesus Christ.
It's left to you to know this God Who is revealed by Jesus Christ.
And this is life eternal,that they may know you,the Only True God and Jesus Christ Whom Thou has sent-John17:3
That they may know You because the one they know is not You.

What has numbers go to do with it?God is not interested in large quantities,He's interested in the righteous for they are the only ones who will see Him.
Having more children or practicing polygamy just to gain numbers is of no spiritual significance.

aminusanti:
A little bit sincerity is all dis unbelievers need to apply for them to see the light..

There are different lights-the light of the sun,the light of fire,the light of electric bulb and the light of a torch.
That was the true Light(Jesus),which lighteneth every man that commeth into the world-John 1:8
People who live in a village and have not experienced light from electricity cannot appreciate that light from a lantern or fire is not the best they can get.They think that's the best they can get.

Jammiiee:
Hmm but it still leaves a lacuna in the brain. Ok can u allow ur woman to gladly submit to the services of a male Gynaecologist if the need be or would u suppose she must get a female Gynaecologist ?

Let's be very factual. Yes they might have seen a whole lot of naked women before they got their certificates but I'm saying no matter how professional they are. For example, a male Gynaecologist seeing 50 naked women in a week + examination on their body parts.

Few of those women who are very beautiful or sexually attractive could cause a chemistry in the mind of the gynaecologist bro. But the question of how easy a woman will Unclad herself to a male Gynaecologist without resentment or being reluctant baffles me

I'm in the medical profession and male gynaecologists have examined and delivered my babies.
Few women are shy if you need to examine them but many don't see it as a big deal as long as you are doing your job.
It's not so much of a big deal as you are playing it in your mind.

Are you married Op?I doubt.
Male gynaecologists simply do their jobs and the female clients they see simply let them do their jobs.
Most gynaecologists are professional and treat their clients that way though there may be few unprofessional ones.
In terms of seeing female bodies,do you know how many bodies you will see before you become a gynaecologist, including the ones you will see in the mortuary?Some doctors deliver babies with their husbands in the delivery room.At that point,I'm sure the safety of the baby and the mother is what is on the husband's mind and not the erotic things your mind is conjecting.
The human body is overated jare.

FriendChoice:
I think this is an insult to yourself concerning Quran that Muhammad wrote or said. There is not a single word of Prophet Muhammad in the Quran. It's complete pure word of God.

“Or do they say that he has invented it? Say (to them), ‘Bring ten invented chapters like it, and call (for help) on whomever you can besides God, if you are truthful.” [Quran 11:13]





Messiah means Christ. Anointer. He perform miracle with God permissions. As the Bible says


You men of Israel, hear these words; Jesus of Nazareth, a man approved of God among you by miracles and wonders and signs, which God did by him in the middle of you, as you yourselves also know: [Act 2:22]


And [make him] a messenger to the Children of Israel, [who will say], 'Indeed I have come to you with a sign from your Lord in that I design for you from clay [that which is] like the form of a bird, then I breathe into it and it becomes a bird by permission of Allah. And I cure the blind and the leper, and I give life to the dead - by permission of Allah. And I inform you of what you eat and what you store in your houses. Indeed in that is a sign for you, if you are believers.' [Quran 3:50]

Were there witnesses that God spoke to him @bolded.Were there witnesses that Angel Gabriel spoke words to him?
Abeg let's leave matter for Mathias.

EazyMoh:
Ma sha Allah, may Allah grant his soul jannautul Firdaws.
The simple fact that upon all barrage of negative news propaganda and exaggerations Islam is still the fastest growing religion. Competing with Christianity in terms of number of practicing adherents, in the heart of the west.
Ask yourself what could be the cause?

Islam is fast growing,terrorism and crime is also fast growing.
In heaven,it's not about quantity.................
You guys just don't get it!

FriendChoice:
Bye bye sir. It seems you cannot answer my question as simple as it is. You're not a proud Christian. I proud Christian can burst of Jesus is God or begotten son of God.

But since you try to involve Quran let me set it clear for you. Quran never says Jesus the son of Allah because he has no man father or he is word from God? Its always and everywhere Jesus the son of Maryam.

If having no man as father makes him God or Son of God. Then Adam was a greater God or greater begotten son of God.


Jesus is Just like Adam that is what Quran says. Being word from God does not means God. John is also word from God.

The similitude of Jesus before Allah is as that of Adam; He created him from dust, then said to him: "Be". And he was. [Qur'an 3:59]


So the angels called him while he was standing in prayer in the chamber, "Indeed, Allah gives you good tidings of John, confirming a word from Allah and [who will be] honorable, abstaining [from women], and a prophet from among the righteous." [Quran 3:39]

"…O Mary! Behold, God gives you good news of a word from Him, who shall become known as the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary..." (Quran 3:45)

I answered your question simply but maybe you don't understand.If I'm not a proud Christian,I wouldn't be explaining things to you.

Yes the quran never said Jesus is the son of God.That's because Muhammed said or wrote the things he understood.Just like the encyclopaedia will have written something which may be different from what you have in an autobiography.It depends on who wrote what and what he or she understood.

Adam was created from the dust of the earth and God gave him breath,Jesus was not created from the dust but God put his Word(Spirit) in the womb of Mary.They are not the same.

By the way,if Jesus is the Messiah according to the quran,what or who's Messiah is he?

FriendChoice:
Word of God means what? Be straightforward. As a Muslim I believe he is word from God also. So those that means he is God or begotten son of God?

The quran says Jesus was not born of man but was born of the Word of the Almighty.The bible says He was(is) the Word become flesh.
The Spirit(Word=Spirit) that became Jesus is the Spirit of the Almighty.That tells Who Jesus is.
Every other thing has to do with the understanding of that.Whatever I say to you now can be accepted or rejected by you based on your understanding of the above.

dedegbe:
Thanks alot for your advice and I agree. I am working on that and moving has helped alot.

You say you're beautiful,why are you not getting guys to ask you out?
This guy has too many red flags.There are better and more stable guys out there.Why are you stuck on this one?

FriendChoice:
What type of Christian are you? According to your own belief is Jesus God, son of God or Begotten son of God?

How many types of Christians do you know?
Jesus is the Word of God.

obafemee80:
“And whomsoever Allah wills to guide, He opens his breast to Islam, and whomsoever He wills to send astray, He makes his breast closed and constricted, as if he is climbing up to the sky.” [Al-An’aam, 6:125]

“He whom Allah guides, is rightly guided; but he whom He sends astray, for him you will find no wali (guiding friend) to lead him (to the right Path).” [Kahf, 18:17]

“So whosoever accepts the guidance, it is only for his own self.” [Az-Zumar, 39:41]

Allah sends people astray?How can someone who expects others to know him send people who should know him astray.

Strange.

Auki:
Keeping deceiving yourselves.

Christianity is no longer monotheistic religion.

Right religion requires believing and worshipping God alone without partners like Sun, Moon, Jesus, Mary e.t.c

Jesus, including Abraham, Moses, Muhammad, Noah(Peace be upon them all) are human being sent by God. They are to be respected, obeyed but not worship.

Worship only One God.

For there is One God and one mediator between God and mankind,the man Jesus Christ- 1 Timothy 2:5

You are the one being ignorant here and as long as you are ignorant,you will see others as deceiving themselves.
Did you see in the scripture I quoted above from the bible that there is only one God?Where did you get your 'no longer monotheistic' from?Did you see me speak about three Gods?Your ignorance just made you jump like a boyscout.

He was a religious man.He didn't understand beyond religion.

Christianity is not a religion.It's a fellowship with the Father,through Jesus Christ.How can you have a fellowship with the Father and turn back?Peter said to Jesus,'to whom shall we go'?Where else is there to go?
No religion can offer fellowship.At best, religious people pray to God Who is far off in heaven.

TEE099:
Lol, na so... But al these stories above, why isn't a nurse compulsorily present It is supposed to be mandatory in all hospitals like seriously.

It's the standard practice.Sometimes people just don't do what they are supposed to do.

TEE099:
Was actually very surprised when I read it, I didn't know doctors have so much liberty up to examining women bare. It is well ooo... Women are't safe at all, married ones inclusive

How will you examine?with clothes on?
Most examinations are done with a nurse present,so it's not like a hidden thing.

JennieCutie4U:
Not at all o, not imagining anything my dear, everything I've written is from wat i know and wat I've seen. dat doesn't mean am concluding dat all docs r d same but I can boldly say dat ALL of dem face those temptations because they see Boobs, pussies, dicks etc everyday nd they've gat blood running thru their veins plus hormones too... dats why I said it only takes d strong willed ones, d highly principled and professional ones and God's grace to conquer all and overlook... ighotago nna. don't quote me wrong jare

I understand.They face those things and it's in the line of their jobs.
For most doctors,it's a job-a-job.It's not like for every female that comes in,they start having palpitations.

JennieCutie4U:
most doctors are like that... it only takes discipline, self control, professionalism and grace of God to see a doctor who doesn't hv dat trait in him... guys dese people see things in different shapes nd sizes everyday. I have worked in d hospital nd hv been opportuned to witness normal child delivery nd caesarian sections done by male doctors!!! they open up every whole openable nd even dip their hands in... even in some places, males collect hvs samples nd examine female parts. so it only takes a highly principled nd self controlled man plus d grace of God not to fall into temptations... if I had a doctor boyfriend or hubby, I would be putting him in serious prayers everyday, its not easy.

How are they supposed to do their work?Through a phone call?
You people just imagine things jare.

eleojo23:
How many countries have you been to if I may ask?

Helep me ask am.And how many 'wild' doctors has she personally met?
People just like to dey yarn.

In the past few days,it has been about police assault and soldier's brutality.
Now it's the doctors that are to be tied to the stake.

A doctor misbehaving is an exception rather than a norm.Most doctors are professional.