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FamilyRe: My Girl Is Stressing Me. What Should I Do Please? (photo) by Tidamsel: 3:06pm On Jun 09, 2023
pansophist:
As far as I'm concern, all those things she wrote there are lies, to deceive, mislead and keep you securely tighten on her leash, so she can be free to explore and rot away. Lots of women do not sincerely commit to one man, they only do it because men won't accept otherwise.

If she realises that you're a tamed animal, the kind that will treat her exactly as she wants, while she retain the freedom to flirt away without consequences, then you're the perfect man she is looking for.

That doesn't mean you're useful, it only means that with time, when your usefulness ends in her life, she will dump you back to the street. Accepting excesses doesn't brings you respect, it does the opposite.
Exactly.
FamilyRe: My Girl Is Stressing Me. What Should I Do Please? (photo) by Tidamsel: 3:01pm On Jun 09, 2023
It's obvious you still love her and that's why you keep forgiving her. But take note that your mental sanity is vital.

If she can't be Stable and committed to you, then LET HER GO AND MOVE ON.Yes it will hurt because you still love her, but hey! It's the only way out for your peace of mind.✌🏽 Take it or leave it, "She's toying with your emotions" which is very bad.
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HealthRe: Please Help: Is She Truly Pregnant? (PICTURES ATTACHED) by Tidamsel: 4:33pm On Feb 26, 2022
To be very sure go for sonography(Ultrasound) scan test. Or you take her for a blood test.
RomanceRe: Do You Think My Boyfriend Genuinely Love Me by Tidamsel: 10:39am On May 03, 2020
Bbankole:
Thank you very much I was so scared to post it on here but it was really helpful
You welcome dear.
RomanceRe: Do You Think My Boyfriend Genuinely Love Me by Tidamsel: 12:34am On May 03, 2020
He's being to hard on you. A man should understand his woman and know how to deal with her in a polite and diplomatic manner when she is wrong. Being too harsh on her will not resolve things. If he is fed up with you he should let you know so you can know your fate and move on rather than being to hard on you for every slightest thing.

To me with what you've said I don't think he genuinely loves you, it could also be his fed up with the relationship but doesn't know how to say it, that's why he is using indirect medium to pass the message across to you.

The point is if you know you ain't happy in a relationship talk to your partner about it, you guys should try and work things out, if it's not working then majestically take your leave, rather than sulking in a sad union.

Remember "A broken relationship/courtship is better than a broken marriage"
Jokes EtcRe: Riddle by Tidamsel(op): 9:07am On May 02, 2020
cruxgemmata:
John
Wrong

The answer is No one or Nobody has more. Because Lizzy had #500 past tense,

John's own is just a figure/number no Naira sign was indicated in his 50

Then Fifi will have #700 meaning he is yet to have future tense.

Thanks for giving it a try.
HealthRe: Nigeria Records 238 New Cases Of Covid 19. by Tidamsel: 12:05am On May 02, 2020
Hmmn
Jokes EtcRiddle by Tidamsel(op): 11:47pm On May 01, 2020
Lizzy had #500
John has 50
Fifi will have #500
Who has more money between the three?
RomanceRe: What Do I Do, My Brother's Fiancee Is Always Doing This And Am Tired by Tidamsel: 11:24pm On May 01, 2020
It's obvious she doesn't want you in the house even though she met you there, she feels you're invading their privacy. And for your brother not to know what's going on, that means she's hiding her character from him and frustrating you to leave.

Hence my suggestion: If you just leave the house your brother will be worried why, so let him know what's going on, he should talk to her and if she doesn't change please just leave the house for them for peace to reign. A woman who hasn't been married to her fiance and has started showing her negative character to his family members then she's not a good wife material as far as I'm concerned. That's why your brother should be aware before he
finally says I do. Let him be careful his not making the wrong choice.

Just be wise in handling the situation.
RomanceRe: What Should I Do, Guys I Need You Help by Tidamsel: 12:07am On May 01, 2020
It's obvious she's no longer interested in the relationship. If she's seeing someone behind you, and is not bold to show case her man which is you, then she's not interested. She might not tell you directly probably because she doesn't know how, therefore she's indirectly misbehaving so she expect you to grab her language that she's not interested.

If you've tried all possible best to make it work and it's not yielding a positive result then let her be and move on is my candid suggestion. Else you'll keep being heartbroken, Although it hurts but your happiness counts too.

Soldier come, soldier go, barracks no empty.
HealthRe: Should I Purchase This Face And Nose Mask I Came Across On Jumia? (Photos) by Tidamsel: 11:57pm On Apr 30, 2020
grin grin grin it looks like Ninja mask
RomanceRe: Ladies, Will You Give It Back? (images) by Tidamsel: 8:58pm On May 18, 2019
It depends cheesy
If he is the generous I won't take it but if his not I will take some and refund some but I will let him know that I took it.
CelebritiesRe: Moji Olaiya's daughter remembers her late mum two years after by Tidamsel: 7:55pm On May 17, 2019
A phenomenal actress, your death was just a great tragedy to us, we miss you too, keep resting in the Bosom of the Lord
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Shades Ex-husband, Churchill Who Said He's A Tireless Machine In Bed by Tidamsel: 8:54pm On May 15, 2019
When I reminisced on how she use to praise her husband back then it saddens me to see how they throw words at each other now. Such is life.
CelebritiesRe: Ali Nuhu Celebrates 16th Wedding Anniversary With His Wife by Tidamsel: 5:04pm On Mar 14, 2019
Adorable couple
BusinessRe: Meet Paddy Adenuga, Biography Of Mike Adenuga's Son by Tidamsel: 5:38pm On Sep 30, 2018
Photocopy of his father. Weldone Mr paddy your Dad will always be proud of you. wink
CelebritiesRe: Seyi Law Celebrates Daughter, Tiwa's 2nd Birthday With Cute Photos by Tidamsel: 5:19pm On Sep 30, 2018
Adorable
CelebritiesRe: Damilola Adegbite To Write A Book About Her Crashed Marriage by Tidamsel: 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2018
Hmmmn.
It is well
FamilyRe: Is Not A Sin If Your Wife Cheats On You, You Should Be Happy & Learn - Rev. Lutt by Tidamsel: 10:14am On Sep 29, 2018
Just imagine.....Mcthewww
CelebritiesRe: Checkout Temi Otedola Before And After Makeup by Tidamsel: 9:59am On Sep 29, 2018
She's naturally beautiful make up or no make up
EducationRe: How To Improve Your Math Skills by Tidamsel: 9:55am On Sep 29, 2018
Nice 1
PoliticsRe: Lagos 2019: Ambode Dares Tinubu, Says I Won't Step Down by Tidamsel: 9:50am On Sep 29, 2018
Hmmmn
Nairaland GeneralSilence Is Better Off Than A Thousand Words by Tidamsel(op): 10:57pm On May 25, 2018
There's an old saying; "Speech is silver, Silence is gold". Sometimes silence is a really good answer and sometimes silence is the most important thing we can hear. I want you to know that silence isn't empty but it's full of answers.

Words may sting, but silence is what breaks the heart. Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.( Mother Theresa).

In relationships distants ones to be precise; Distance doesn't separate people, silence does. That's why communication is one of the vital keys in a relationship be it far or near.

In the heat of an unnecessary argument when someone is not ready to accept your opinion it's advisable you keep silent else you'll be wasting your time and energy because it's of no worth. Nevertheless there are instances you shouldn't be silent about, like in a situation where you have to defend yourself. " When the whole world is silent even one voice becomes powerful" These simply means that despite silence being a powerful weapon there are some matters you should voice out and not keep silent about. Just like I stated earlier in a case of defence. There's a quote that says; our life's begins to end the day we become silent about things that matters.

In conclusion I will end with an interesting quote I love so much it says; "Meaningful silence is always better than Meaningless words".
HealthRe: This Is Why You Should Always Sleep On Your Left Side by Tidamsel: 9:53am On May 22, 2018
Interesting
RomanceRe: Can You Sacrifice Your Happiness For Family Decision? by Tidamsel: 10:40pm On May 21, 2018
It depends on the matter @ hand
RomanceRe: Going The Distance: 5 Ways To Love Each Other From Afar by Tidamsel: 10:33pm On May 21, 2018
Communication is always the number 1 key
RomanceRe: My 7 Secret Behind Seducing Any Woman by Tidamsel: 10:29pm On May 21, 2018
1daful
FamilyRe: Zimbabwean Man Beats Up Wife For Failing To Say “Thank You” After Sex by Tidamsel: 12:38am On May 19, 2018
Hehehehehe
I no fit laff abeg
EducationRe: Ayo Bamidele Graduates In Style, As Microsoft Gives Him Full Time Offer. Photos by Tidamsel: 12:33am On May 19, 2018
Bravo! Weldone Sir smiley
CrimeRe: NDLEA Intercepts 4000kg Of Tramadol At Lagos Airport - Pictures by Tidamsel: 12:28am On May 19, 2018
Hmmn

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