Family › Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by timguy(m): 10:53am On Dec 13, 2021 |
NnolimNzubechi: Hello Nairalanders
My mom died when I was 3 years, and I was the only child she had before she died.
It's been just me and My Dad since then, My childhood was a lonely one. My Dad is 39 years while me am 19years, I will be 20 next year. My dad was young when my mom gave birth to me.
Now my problem is that, despite my age my dad still cages me, he doesn't give me freedom and he doesn't allow me to keep friends, any time he sees me talking with a male friend, he will tell me he doesn't want to see me with anybody, I can't be out side when time done pass 6pm oo or else Na wahala.
At 19 years I can't boast of 1k cos am always staying at his shop, and the thing is driving me crazy. As a man, checking my account balance and seeing (N0.00) dey make me sad, and I don't know how to tell him that I want to stop going to his shop and start a hustling for myself.
I just finished my secondary school and I thought he would give me some free hand but for where?? He gets more strict as time as goes on and its making me hate him. And my dad is a very hot tempered man, he nor dey understand at all at all. Am even tired of staying with him, I have been with him since 19 years, travel he nor dey gree make I travel.
My question is, will he ever stop being like this? I don't want any one to delay me in my life cos it seems it's what he is trying to do, i want to be wealthy at a young age. Being broke makes me feel less of a man.
Please mods move to fp,before I go run commot for house  You just won’t understand all of these he’s doing for you... maybe you’re too young to understand... just wait till you start living on your own .. you’ll make him your best friend and appreciate all of those things. |
Romance › Re: Men Need To Realise That Having Money Doesn't Make Them A Catch. by timguy(m): 10:00pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Jodha: 95% of men think money is all women want...and that women will flock around them if they have money. Well I'm sorry to burst yhur bubble they're actually hard-working and contented ladies out there...and if money is all yhu have to offer then yhu have nothing to offer..
Guys should learn to work on their personality, attitude, general approach. I'm not saying yhu shouldn't have money ..but if yhu think having money is all there is...or if yhu have money yhure a total catch and ladies will flock around yhu regardless of how yhu behave...then yhure wrong. ‘Yhu and You’ have same 3 letters! Why not spell it correctly in you post? .. that’s definitely not an abbreviation cos they both have same letters. Work on that. |
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Thank God they said "ponmo" and not "peppered ponmo"... |
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LOL..Thought it was a pre-wedding shoot or... She's young and beautiful...BLACK DON'T CRACK |
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All dis ones go just dey waste title anyhow. |
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God saved your life ...NOT an iPhone. Thank God. |
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Make Flavor catch you! |
Celebrities › Re: Chikezie Ijeoma Celebrates Her Birthday With New Photos by timguy(m): 8:21am On Sep 28, 2017 |
GLeesMODEL: Reigning Miss United Nation World Habitat Queen Chikezie Ijeoma Stella who has not been a fan of social media since her crowning last year, has finally released stunning photos as she marked her birthday. The soft spoken beauty queen who has executed several projects in line with the vision of the brand celebrated her day in style and in low key. The of Medical Laboratory Scientist graduate from Imo State University Owerri is the Founder/ Project Director of HELP KEEP CLEAN FOUNDATION and convener of Hand washing Campaign project and distribution of School Kits for Children. Queen Ijeoma who has done several modelling jobs and choreography dance display at high profile events in the past was former Miss Asa 2015 and Runway Slayer Nigeria 2015/2016
Miss UN- World Habitat pageant will be hosting it's 2017 edition next month in Abuja as all hands are already on deck to ensure a very successful event which will be attracting the high and mighty across the world. Her Majesty Chikezie Ijeoma will be handing over in grand style at the glamorous ceremony in October haven completed the national audition exercise for the prospective contestants.
http://www.alexreports.info/2017/09/stylishly-amazing-miss-un-world-habitat_84.html?m=0 Make Flavor catch you.... |
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Edun Throws Adeniyi Johnson A Surprise Birthday Dinner (Photos) by timguy(m): 6:31pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Leave her like that Lawlahdey: Upon all the makeup.. She stee worwor.  |
Romance › Re: Married Zambian Woman Caught Pants Down With Her Best Friend's Husband. Photos by timguy(m): 5:39pm On Feb 10, 2017 |
Nobody still know wetin these women truly want....Confused muuch PrettyCrystal: A woman was recently caught pants down romping with another woman’s husband in broad day light. Agnes Ukwim Phiri, a married mother of two, was having an intercourse with her best friend’s husband in a car when they got caught by passersby.
The man immediately took off, leaving his lover behind with passersby taking photos of the promiscuous woman.
The woman reportedly drove off in the man’s car to unknown destination.
Photos of her have since hit the internet, sparking public outrage, with several women shouting at the woman and calling her all sorts of names. The men involved are said to be both police officers in Chipata, Zambia.
Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/02/married-woman-caught-pants-down-with.html |
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JESUS IS LORD .............FUNKEE , FUNKE |
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Where are you at? missed you here Sarimah: yes? |
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It's your opinion...Not a fact. EniHolar: Guys with six packs don't stick to one lady...
That's the fact! |
Romance › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But Another Lady Is Four Months Pregnant With My Baby by timguy(m): 11:18pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it......but you go give another girl belle....smh hollowpot15684: Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it.
Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls..  |
Celebrities › Re: Mayokun Showers Mother With Cash As She Dances To His Song "Prayer" by timguy(m): 1:39pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
Better Pikin TunezMediaTV: Mayokun and his brother showered their mother with cash as she danced to her son's latest tune, 'Prayer'.
The singer spent time with his family away from music when he visited home recently and took photos and videos of his family members.
The Eleko singer didn't hide his love for his mother in footages shared on his gram which showed the woman pouring love all over her now famous son... She looked so proud during the naira rain... See more snapshots below...
http://www.tunezmediablog.com/2017/01/dmw-star-mayokun-showers-mother-with.html |
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It's a gift, be grateful bruh |
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