Rorachy:
And next time stay out of my mention.

Anuty where is your left breast??

last35:
Goan find your missing left breast first...

Lmao, omo u re wicked oooo

holyboii:
the best thing is to just use her.that is the only way u can enjoy ur revenge

I love her so much, I can't do that

MissRaine69:

The fear of being judged.

y should I judge her, I was not in her past, no one av any rite to judge anybody's past except d person was there....

Rorachy:
You never see anything, people get angry for petty reasons in relationships these days talk more of this one.

Maybe na recession cause am .

keep saying wat u like, one of my bae type spotted.....

Rorachy:
She even lied about her LGA..


Hahahahahahjahahanajajajaajajahhahahahahah

You heard this, you heard that, who is your source?

a gal so close to her family, she's also from her area

MissRaine69:
If you don't trust someone there is no relationship.
Lost her virginity to lesbians who have the same reproductive organs she has? Bro are you for real?
What on earth are you doing? She has a past it's either you put up or leave.

y must she lie abt her past, y not tell me the truth at least I will understand its in d past

moorevic:
In whilkalif's voice "The say two wrongs don't make a right". Dude you're talking about her past not present. Asking people about their past is like opening a Pandora's box.

she told me abt her past by her self will, but my question is y did she av to lie, d worst part is that she av always beening lieing

yelinco1:

everyone has a past including u. if she's ready to change, forgive & push oo since she admitted. God help u!

thank, I will try to push forward, i just love her...

shege45:
na wa ooo...if u love d girl,den ds isnt a tangible reason to be angry

can u be in a relationship with someone that always lie??

Good pm pals.....

I am having a current problem with my bae, I met the gal wen I relocated to the place am staying now, I asked her out and we started dating, we dated for 3months b4 we started talking abt sex, wen I told her abt us having sex, first of all she told me she was a virgin, later after some week's she later told me she was not a virgin, that she was disflowed by her lesbain gang, I kinda believe her shaa because she is attending a gals sch, well I took it like that and we had our first sex tho her pussy was very tight that I found difficulty penetrating, months later I heard rumours of her past, I heard she slept with a guy she told me was her ex and that she left him because she doesn't like him, according to the news I heard that she was caught having sex with d guy in question by some ppls, wen I ask her abt it she deneyed n later admitted that it was truth, since yesterday she have been begging for my forgiveness, I love this gal so much but she lied to me, this ain't the first time she had lie to me, she even lied to me abt her LGA and so many other tins which I later found out d truth, right now I feel like I av been used n I feel like a fool....pls I need ur advice on wat to do because am thinking of using her carelessly n dumping her because I av lost my trust for her.....

Forgive my English if its not correct, I just need advice cus am losing my mind....

NaijaSlate:
Good day everyone, I have a problem that I want to share. I have a bf, we started dating in September last year and we love each other very much. He is very caring, always there for me and very supportive. The only problem is that he beats me whenever he is very angry with me although he normally apologizes later. He has a very hot temper and I am worried about this. Sometimes I feel like he is taking out his frustrations about other issues on me. I can't count the number of times he has slapped me before and later he will kneel down and apologize to me.

Like the day he invited me to his place and told me to buy something for him when coming because he was hungry. I did not have any money with me at the moment so I decided to cook for him when I got there. Immediately I reached, I saw he was not in a very good mood and I asked him what was wrong, he said nothing was wrong and asked me what I bought. I told him that I did not have money but I would cook for him. He told me that there was nothing in his house and I should have gone back and brought money. He said I should go back and get it. Then I got angry and replied that I was not his servant. He slapped me twice and I just angrily walked out.

I don't cheat on him and he does not cheat on me either. Our relationship is perfect apart from his hot-temper. We are even planning to get married in few years time but I don't want to get married to a man that beats his wife. I always tell him to start controlling his temper and he promises it will stop but it always happens again

The last time he beat me, he gave me a swollen eye just because I answered a call from a guy when we were together. I am totally fed up of this to be honest but I don't want to leave him because I don't see myself with another guy, I love him so much. Please help me guys, I am very confused now.

Original post at http://naijaslate.com/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=52&p=193#p193

any guy that beats his woman is a fool n don't deserve her, leave him dear, if he can beat u wen u re just his gf he can kill u wen u become his wife.....

Lalas247:


Wetin dey do this wan na Thursday no go fuvk up

refiner:

I missed u oo..my ex enemy...where have u been?

lolz... Ex enemy ke!
Well I av been around, don't always log in on NL like old days, how is thing's going?

owaeghianye:
I don't Know why some ladies hate condoms
Exactly what happened to me last week
I brought out condom and she took it from me and throw it away with anger. With that anger she start acting funny Like getting out of the sexual mood and I have to do much work again to Put her in the mood

I really don't know why condom irritates them
Maybe because their Virgina and clitoris is very sensitive to them. And it contains about 8000 sensory nerve endings. More than the one in our penniss(4000)

Now since last week now my mind has not been at rest Because after she threw the condom away i actually succumb to her request and i penetrated her without condom. Am worried now of pregnancy because I nor want hear story at all.

did u cum inside of her

Lalas247:


Wtf is undiluted sperm
Lol it wont work though

is like u av tried it before n it didn't work for u

all ye girls that is swallowing sperms don't know u are eating human being..

khiaa:



He did ask for work. What if God ignored our crys for help. I know that a lot of people don't believe in God but they have to have enough intelligence to understand that there is a higher power much greater than us.

If we can't afford to give him money atleast we can show him compassion and point him in the direction where he can get help. I have a suggestion if he is interested he will contact me.
Lord knows that I would hate to be in need and I couldn't even get some compassion and understanding of my plight.

Scammer you say, we will see.

I love u for this comment

MrBrownJay1:


This man has to accept that he is doing something wrong here? Sticking his head in the sand (hoping to avoid the obvious) is WRONG.

Why would anyone beg strangers in order to stay in Lagos, when they have no money for rent (possibly not food either), instead of accepting that it ain't working out for them?!

Giving such man money for rent won't help him, in the contrary, it will keep him in this stale position he finds himself into.... That has him beg total strangers online.

Begging is the new trend these days... Instead of people accepting their misfortune, re-evaluate their positions, and take ONE step back to later take TWO steps forward, they instead come beg total strangers online.

I won't even dwell on the many scammers on NL picking up on this negative habit.

As for how much is 4k? I don't know as it ain't about the money.

my Friend will u shut up ur st!pid mouth n stop saying nonsense, swear u have not beg something from any one b4 n I shall call u urchpuppi

lala45:
My bro,pls dont be unserious towards the next girl u will meet cos she might feel something genuine fr u and u will judge n conclude based on yr past relationship.there are still so many good girls outthere

so he will be used again abi.... Bro don't mind her, fvck d nxt gal n move on.

lefulefu:
op save yursef all this hearache.go and get urself a spare or assistant gf.she cheat,u cheat and equation bcomes balanced.

am inlove with this particular post

Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.

I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.

of all the girls i ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when i date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. infact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, i was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasnt all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime

the trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. i mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didnt know.

brothers and sisters! when i opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! i copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.

for the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.

she begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just dont know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, im thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. thanks so much. one love!

on a very serious note, u shouldn't av allowed ur emotions take control of u, it's painful to see someone u love dearly cheat on u but for d sake of love u should av jst called her to order and make her understand she shouldn't be cheating, but since wat av happened av happened and since then she av not called u, bro move on as well, from ur story she's only there for wat u re giving her.... Jst move on...

daben1:
You think say we wear pampers for here?

refiner:
Davido will be feeling fly now...i dunno what ladiez see in this small boy that makes them go gaga...or is it his thaty billion in his akant?...if it is because that then i am overflowing in love with him...

wow... Refiner dear, it's been long, how re u doing? A lot av changed since I last logged in NL..

trishluvly:


You have your answer already. Just go and sort out issues with her naw.

sister I have already.... Tnx for caring

oponifa28:
Mr lover I will advice u to sex her and leave d rest to her heart

No Mr, even if I sex her I ain't leaving her..

ElsonMorali:
You claim to love her very much yet a peek at your phone showed her you've been dashing out affections to other girlfriends.

Now you are blaming her for being angry.

Now, pass the phone to your gf, i wanna advise her.

Babe, please this your guy isnt trustworthy o. You give him your virginity, he'll break you heart last last and be angry with you for feeling hurt.

As you can see he has many irons in the fire.

Please run o before you get hurt.

sometimes I don't know how u girls think, so because u av a boyfriend u won't talk to other boys l? She's d only one in my life she is Jst jealous abt d funny jokes I chat with my female friends

AuroraB:
Not on your life, you blithering idiot
You dare threaten to slap me? Slap your mother first, you uncultured misfit. How is my chat with him your business? Did I mention you low-lifer You seem to forget your uncouth manner and criminal tendencies can't be hidden online. You will die a shameful death, idiot. You jump into my discussion with your shitty, repulsive idea and wanna rub it in? Get lost and crawl back into the gulag you came out from, beast!

Lolzzz I can see someone killing her self Becos say my statement pain am ashewo I don Come ur house come steal before where u go call me criminal I told u earlier that if u bad mouth my thread I will bad mouth ur life, u think I was joking abi See as the color of ur skin be like person wey dey suffer from H!V n @vids.... Na u first find trouble Lose Bi$ch

alexialin:






If it's to have sex3? Age 19 is not too young for it. But I wouldn't advice a 19year old to start thinking about sexx instead of focusing on her studies. Cause that's how single teen moms are creatd and I bet you, she will have no clue on how to handle her child if perchance she follows your advice and becomes pregnant.
Girls in these recent times are not emotionally equipped in handling bn a single mum.
In own case. At 19years I was busy with my studies and I run away from guys.
At age 22, I was having crushes.. And trust me the crushes were more than one guy.. One week I will see one guy as Vandamme and be crushing on him Lol
Another month I will see one guy like one famous Indian actor those days and my live attention will change lol.
Another 3months I will see one guy like Mc hammer my heart will flip.. Lol.
So u see I wasn't inlove with anyone but just having crushes Upandan but I was still so scared of sexxx. I can crush for Africa lol
My saving grace was that my face was so innocent and I really didn't want to be disvirgined .so young guys coming my way are always patient and feel sorry for me lol. When they look at my innocent face.. They will shake their head and hug me.. I will smile and heave a sigh of relief lol.
I was really scared of sexxx.

At age 25, I wanted sexxx and I eventually got it through a matured guy. The puppy love I had back then with one guy crushing on me was gone. I didn't even want to see him sef and he was heartbroken.. But hey sorry am no longer inlove.
The matured guy wanted marriage but I was scared of getting married.. I honestly wasn't ready for marriage and babies..

Age 29,i still wasn't ready for marriage and babies.. Lol..

Age 32 when I lost my only brother through an accident, I then realise I need to be married and have a companion I can cherish and dote on.. Am naturally caring . so from age 32 up til Nw.. I really need someone to love and care for and he will do the same. This is now the time I now feel am ready for babies , husband and in-laws. Lol so help me God.
But am ready sha let's see how it goes. Lol. I know marriage is no child's play. And am ready to be serious in that department.

So there are lots of ladies like me.. 19years old out there who are ready for babies and marriage is very rare. U can't compare those days 19year old to the now 19year old.. No comparison at all. Ladies are no longer eager for marriage.. Yes we want to. Marry but not like before again.

So the op should take it easy on giving his all to that girl.. She's honestly not ready emotionally for serious dating. He should hang around and be her best friend. She will appreciate it alot.

sister am in love with ur advice, Tnx for sharing ur story with me but being her best friend do u mean quiting d relationship n Jst being her best friend because she really wants my love, she don't even want to miss a minute without me, we can talk now after dropping my phone another call from her at that same minute will enter and she will start telling me she's missing me, she doesn't allow me hangout with my friends again self, seriously am tried of all this, she complains a lot abt everytin I do and that gets me angry, pls more advice on Wat to do, am thinking of calling d relationship555 off before its too late...

AuroraB:
Hahahahahaaaa!
Why don't he get someone his own size? Must it be her? Most relationships at that age don't last. The girl has a long way to go. He just have to let her be. Will it be okay by him if some guy is dating his 19yr old sis?

so I should date a girl of my age or more than my age so that they will be giving me heartbreak everyday abi If I slap u ehhh ur sense go format....

DLGUY:


Did she say she is a virgin?

I av confirmed but av not disflow yet, am not hurrying to do Dat...

DLGUY:
I got you Alexialin.

Funnily, I knew OP isn't ready for anything serious.
More like the puppy love kinda thingy.

But on a more serious note besides education, nothing stops a 19 year old from raising kids and being successful at it. I've seen such who are even more matured than those on their mid 30's. Do I need to remind you that the past CBN governor got married to one. Or was she 21?

So what is stopping you from getting hooked with you kinda man if I may ask.

bro am serious abt us but if I eventually disflow her, am scared she may even kill herself if she sees me talking to any girl around...