@Bblak

did you post Bryan evicted? i cant believe this, becos from all indications they were doing well! haba Nija!!!!!!!! WE no try oh but shit happens.

honestly they were much better than OmoTee and some others. Names and popularity is just keeping some people there. really sad

Damn!!!!!!!!! i missed yesterday' show. thank God i did9missing the eviction), cos i guess i would have screamed down our roof no matter what!!!!!thumbs up to Bryan

emmmmmmmmm,  ok,  i remember!! but cant spell it!    

Seun, as of the last time i checked, you had about 156,294 members. well all the best man, cos you sure do have alot of work to do. what were you expecting from having a website like this? come off it man, no hard feelings but lets get realistic. it aint gonna be easy but it worth a try sha

Adekennis dear , did ur girlfriend leave you for a yahoooooooooo dude? come on its just between the two of us , did she dump you for a scammer? Honey, not all girls dig a scammer for a boyfriend. i guess you are hanging around the wrong kind of girls man, so do us ladies a favor and give a little respect cos not all girls like scam  lazy assed dudes . sorry for the language but you sure are with the wrong set of chics.

i for one got to know about some in my flat and i took to my heels, the money could come now but i dont think i can stand being humilated when yawa gas (EFCC). i have a big gift i always Boast of,and that is CONTENTMENT. it does not come easy man

Egin ,  thanks for the pics,    you better come back and join the trend of   adjusting. its what makes Lagos a place to be  damm proud of,  if you know what i mean and diva_nija!! leaving would not change anything.from now till hell freezes over!!!!!! this is LAGOS honey

Jealous!!!!!!!!!!emmmmmmmmm  its good as long you aint the aggressive type that would woze the makeup out of a sister's face .so, back to you. what kind of jealous lover are you refering to? aggressive or non aggressive? some one could help with other types. cant think of any would call back when i have more list   . and jealousy could come with trust and no trust. poster dear, jealousyyy  na long gist oh!!!!!! better let it rest  but its still up to you.

The crippled boy i guess is lost and needs some smacking, aint surprised sha, go to the north and leave for a while then, you would know where they boy is coming from. Beggers de get house for north oh! on a serious note.so its his thinking that needs readjusting. some loose screws are dangling ,

Akara,  the beggers you met where actually lazy, unfortunate and weak.dont wish to come across such sha .

For Seun,  i dont agree with you, na na na!!!!!!!!! I for one believe thet if i want to give and would feel good about it? so why dont i? what you dont do or know would not harm you , you know.you never know what this giving does for you and you never know who you are helping could be an angel

Begging i have noticed especially here in lagos is not only for those we know as beggers, i have being stopped on the highway by women especially,  looking well dressed standing at a spot and telling me stories of how they got stuck and cant get home. Ask them where and how much. no probs, you help by giving them the amount and to your surprise they dont move an inch. i dont have a problem but i guess is begging in disguise.

so, begging get levels

Well said 'Hortongate' , 

Yicob, hope you understand what he just posted?

my questions are,

what's the drive? that is, what is your driving force cos you used a word in your post, that is 'graphics thing'. how much do you know about what you want to go into? are you really really interested in it? or is it just one of those cravings for 'whatever is making head way'?  No hard feelings. why all this question? ok i heard that someone got paid a huge amount of money for just doing a graphic animation on TUface Idibia . look , just do whatever you feel would give you joy, try to find yourself, i guess you are   that face explains it. DONT get me wrong. this is not a stinker.
all the best

Aprill 22, just be the good wife you are expected to be and all the best in your marriage,  it is better to live without rules but i guess you are on the right track, know all you can about the family and traditions cos tradition differs in every ethnic group.  respect is paramount, have a blissfull marriage

bekinable G you askED why?   cos you keep give them good advices, give them a bad one and you cant imagine the stinker posts you get just kidding

i have not being there before, but God help the man that raises his hand on me,

AlmondJoy, you sure do know how to give it to them  

thats it!!!!! pretend he does not exist??
ignore him

sue him for his act of cowardice . all the best poster, but when last did you make him see some reasons, am not good at this and dont pray for an idiota for a husband.

i wonder how you carry these  ice blocks where man,in ur pockets or you download them from the web just wondering curiousity

i meant bad mouthing fingers too fast for me

i noticed that most posts where sent in by the Adam folks while bad news to all of you, i dont even know much about Nija movies cos the tend not to make sense to me SORRY ladies but am all on ur sides  i for one, i can watch a start of a home movie and wud not make a mistake of predicting what wud happen in the end. producers and directors should try to change story line for once   lets learn to knack our brains wen it comes to movies am not bad monthing anyone ohhhh  

Thanks Omoge,  i wud look them up, and for liquidmind,  did you just post 150m ? mennnn!!! that is like having 5 storey building below sea level,  Poster are still there? do you really want to wreck ur Papa's hard earned money for something that needs tsunami kind of disaster? Ok! lets put it this way, buy another land for ur Papa with same size and buy that land from him dont think of inheriting it man. , then you go call up shell with loads of dianamite, that can cause niger militants No go call niger militants to come do the blowing up the sure wouldnt mind causing harvoc without pay  but be ready to share 50 - 50.  and i want to think there are better options than blowing up, on a serious note.take to the books,  Sorry, am too busy to do any reading   and honey poster! hope you ve not being hallucinating barrels of crude oil of late?  just wanted to know.

HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP! SOME ONE NEEDS HELP   ,   have you gone off your mind?  can i ask a question? have you being to the little girl's parents house? becos, if it were my folks, God ve mercy on u. i know all u see now is fresh meat,  with the curves in place, you are worst than men that beat up their wives afraid to go for women that would tell you how to do things right take the tongue man infact you need flogging for posting this . you sure are a coward and i cant know wat else to Use on u   perverted idiota!!!

some one sang a song, and it goes, dreeeeeammmmmmmmm, dream, dream dreammmm you dont need answers from us you have the world wide web at your disposal, better shut ur traps and go do some reading on ur own,  we have alot on our minds, speaking for myself. and let not any 'he who cant be called' like in Harry Potter know the location of ur papa's land, crude oil or no crude , wands would be thrown at you. and finally    if i where ur papa, i would smack the shit out of ur butts for not taking to your books .bbbbutttttt shit happens. advice?www.google.com as of the last time i checked, the have alot of infors on virtually anything u want tto know. best wishes, no hard feelings.

put yourself in her shoes,  you know whats right for ya,  i guess u ve being talking about this PH corper of yours, with soooooo much interest that u 4got that , ur fiancee is an EVE. meant woman. better, if u had mentioned her once to her and kept ur traps shut.But you know what?  i think u should give ur corper friend ur fiancee's number, and let her call ur Lolly pop up? i dont know , but i guess i would feel better if i where ur woman.   take care and too bad i aint in J, i would have gone shopping with ur fiancee  to add more pepper in the wound, just kidding  

Well said almondJ   right words get right answers. futhermore poster , i think you should first learn how to say some nice, sppealing things to your wify, like you are a guy, dont tell me you have forgotten  how to scope a woman!!!!!!!!!!!! but still try to communicate with her. and May God give you the grace to cope with holding junior back for a little more time incase scoping your wify does not work out,    and finally adultery would definetly help your marriage by ruining it and we dont want that easy man!!!!!!!!!!!!

i cant imagine how it feels, but God help the women and the men. most people dont plan on retirement talk more of death, no one likes to talk about it,. its like a taboo if mentioned. Alot of nigerians are not insured or even think of death insurance,why? they dont believe in it,  why? ignorance. i have not being there before and cant imagine what its like. even with all the money in the world,  i cant imagine leaving or spending the rest of my life without de man i was married to but we all know. shit happens. to all the widows and widowers, at this point all you can ever think of is God, trust in Him and no one else.


Aisha,  i guess you  are from the north, dont misunderstand me but you know what all these issues entail from where we are coming from? Look,  its not a matter of having hands or not its the matter of drilling an understanding into the heads of some men, especially those that think they have got all the money that can take care of a woman. 65% of women that are educated are working or into one busy or the other, 5% choose not to work becos of the free allowance their hubbys gives to them(made up fairy tale minds not to work), 10%  are stuck in between choosing her home or a job cos their hubbys' has giving them options to choose, 20% are either unemployed or dont have the resources to do something with their hands, remember. more than half of the population are below average, so poverty still exist in this country, even learning a trade or something you have to pay. nothing goes for nothing, you know?

Hi guys, i am a civil engineering graduate , and still looking for a firm where i can practice my proffession especially in design and on site, being out there and excuses i get from most places i have being, am good at whatever i set i mind to do and i dont want to work in another field, apart from what i studied, sounds stupid? yeah right, any help or job offers? i have worked before in a construction industry, but we all know that there are no job security, working with a construction firm,

take the risks, its part of life but , do what you feel would give you joy. and the challenges, its up to what you want. but every day is a challenge. al the success girl

i do apologise on behalf of suns, does not have a career on what to post Hi too Suns, need help?

   how amazing that i cant get to post my quotes right,  someone help me and its not funny i need help and not a bad tongue lasher,  thanks

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try to hold body is not good enough guy,  you are still thinking it which is as good as doing it,  its said that ' if we know how powerful our minds are, we would stop thinking any thing negative.' you need to start reading books on pregenancy for young Papas.

and what Camali posted makes alot of sence.
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 i am single does count me not experienced but not ignorant , i ve seen books on sex and pregenancy ( sorry cant recall any author names )  but the exist. go to good bookstores or even go online. and  get that attitude of 'lost her shape' from your mind. have you told her how beautiful she is of late? if you start and keep saying beautiful things to her, you would be surprised on how things would change,  all the best man   and congrates before hand, she is carrying a gift for you not a mistake

i forgot one thing,  the cert is recognised world wide,  so stop doing ahohowawa and co computer school ,  get the right cert for the right stuff

wow! wow!, nothing for us the in the engineering field and design ? NA! NA! NA! ,  Good news NIIT does not offer only IT bla bla bla the have a section called Autodesk located there in NIIT, IDM building at Oban Akran  Avenue in Ikeja. it is one of the best in africa, as of last month and have packages like : AutoCAD 2008, AutoDesk civil 3D, AutoCAD electrical,AutoCAD mechanical,AutoDESK REVIT,Inventor,Map 3D, GIS, Animation and some other design packages. was a student,  still a student and dont get the wrong drift when you hear NIIT, ITS not Mufasar,  that gives shivers to hyners they are not that expensive. the main jerk is you you get an INTERNATIONAL AUTODESK CERTIFICATE after your project had being done and approved.  meet the main guys and not roadside teachers for infor call 01-7921122 or send a mail to autodesk@idmng.net someone fan me please, that was  a hard day's job, 

Guys! guys am short of what to say but am really impressed with the posts,  Almondjoy ,  i enjoyed all your postings.  I for one wouldnt really point out anyone as my mentor,  Ok,  honestly i dont have one but but am still focused not withstanding,     Nigeria aint helping matters not to talk of some of our sadists folks called lecturers. take for example, while back in school, i went to collect my result from my course adviser, i got my result but was not happy cos i knew i did well in the past exam. you know what my suppose adviser said? " where you expecting a distinction? after all you are a woman, what do you need a distinction for'? this is a lecturer with an engineering dept, and someone that was to be on a lookout for our progress.   hope am not off the point but making sense! we have a long way to go,  if you know what i mean.   we could take a bolder step to help the up coming, and i think Aisha2 has taken that step,  keep it up girl  

have you seen the movie, ,HAD TO BE YOU'?To cut the story short, i believe that if see whatever you believe  would make you happy, you go for it, cos sometimes we make the mistake of letting somethings go becos we never tried to make the move.   let her know your mind.   the book of Proverbs  says 'open rebuke is better that hidden love'. all the best man

Alexis point 5 makes alot of sense,  my summary to that is  incase it does not work out.

Yeah,  right man, but whoever wants to do this, should make sure she is miles away and  you are unreacheable   you never know wat dumping means untill she dumps you a blow where it hurts most    

Good to hear all the names you lots call your spouses, making we singles want to throw in our single certificates for marriage. that is if we have seen the honey comb, meaty pie, sugar stick, buttercups, blossom ,bubbles and power puff girls and boys i ve a specisl name reserved for my man, till then, happy married life to the all married folks.

man,  you do need some smacking,  just do me a favor, tell her the truth but please dont be stupid enough to tell her about miss ,  firing of grammer cos you are not perfect yourself,  and who caused her drop out? did you tell us? Graduate,  just say,  'i was being a man when i was, guys,  dont misunderstand me.  finally , be a father, friend and a brother to your child. you are his Papa. get that into your head. you can run from your child's mother but not from your child