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Goodlady:
Good move.
I hope one day, that Kwara ll be properly changed to Ilorin State and merged with south west. Thunder fire Alimi blokkos!

Kwara is fulani's conquered territory, stop crying and accept reality

None of them really deserved it.

Jovialjune1:
Emotional attachments to quickly support the deadbeat with assumptions doesn't allow for sense of good reasoning

How do you also know that the father has tried to see them?

I would believe the mother's version even if I'm not part of the story, because that is what was presented to us here, if you are so pressed to hear and believe the deadbeat's version, do well to get him here to report himself to us


What if they are also not trying to hide any real truth? What if the mother's version is the real truth?

It's not complicated, he should report himself to us let us hear his side, very straight forward, till then, I stand by my previous comments.

You jumped into conclusions first,I didn't...



Have a nice day

Because emilokan has issues with dss

Emaprince:
Exactly my sentiment.

Her mum have already poisoned her mind and made her see fathers as not so important. Imagine how she dismissed the idea of the guy meeting her dad.

This OP will be in for a long ride in his marriage. By the time the wife treats him with what she learnt from her mum, his kids will see nothing good in him.

Exactly,I am talking from experience

Jovialjune1:
All of you will rest las las, keep typing from your imagination just to castigate women, even if we choose to believe your fiction, who do you think you are to want to meddle into what is not your concern?

Do you think the lady and her mother haven't thought of the traditional effect before deciding to go ahead with the wedding? The step dad that took care of her since childhood, is he a dunce to not know her dad abandoned them thereby marrying and taking care of them? The dead beat that remained a deadbeat all these years, why didn't he look for his daughter if he really wanted to be a part of her life? Did her mother's marriage to another man stop him from looking for her? The lady abi na fiancee that told you he abandoned them, do you think she wouldn't have made an effort to hear from him as a grown adult and still see that he's still the same?

It's not by force to marry her, she sees her step dad as her father, being a sperm donor doesn't automatically make one a father, if the step dad is not enough for you, move on to other ladies.

emotional attachments over issues doesn't allow sense of good reasoning.

How did you know that the father hadn't tried to see them?
.How do you believe the mother's version hook,line and sinker without being part of the story yourself ?

What if they are hiding the real truth from the OP,for him to later find out the real truth when it's rather too late?

Abeg rest,issues like these are very very complicated.

Foodqueen:
Make sure you see her dad.

your comments are usually sensible.

You really have a good home training by good parents

MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.

My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.

Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.

Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.

Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?

Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?

What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?

Flee from such family,the girl already has father issues,which will gradually transcend into your lineage.
I mean,she can't give what she doesn't have.
Girls like that doesn't know the importance of a man,and as her would-be husband, you will never ever enjoy her and soon ya children will be turned against you.

I repeat, flee!!!

BluntTheApostle:
Ramsey is like 5'9.


He is not short for a Nigerian man.

baba rest!
You are either tall or short

FireUpNow:
I never that Chiro Mokeme was taller than Ramsey Noah oo. Nice one

Ramsey na short guy fa,just a little taller than gym iyke

Pickmycall:
God bless tinubu.
God bless federal government of Nigeria.
God bless all tinubu's supporters.
God bless APC.
God bless Nigeria.

tunda faya you

TheBillyonaire:
Seyi has not resumed yet?

is seyi tinubu's only son?

Nia69:
Just say you're a dullard with a perverted mindset and don't understand what he typed.

Goan play outside with ya mates

Astra101:
Smile, would you substitute that for a sail round the world on luxurious super yacht?

When you sail round the world on a luxurious super yacht, the vastness and beauty of the ocean surround you, captivating your senses and evoking a profound sense of awe. The ocean stretches out endlessly before you, an expanse of azure blue that merges seamlessly with the horizon, creating an illusion of boundlessness.

The first thing that strikes you is the sheer size of the ocean. It extends as far as the eye can see, offering a sense of infinite possibility and freedom. The vastness is humbling, reminding you of the immensity of our planet and the insignificance of human existence in comparison.

As you navigate through the gentle swells, the rhythmic sound of the waves lapping against the hull becomes a soothing melody, creating a tranquil atmosphere. The water sparkles under the warm sunlight, each ripple reflecting the golden hues, transforming the surface into a shimmering tapestry of light.

The ocean is a living canvas, painting ever-changing scenes that captivate your gaze. From the deck of your yacht, you witness the interplay of colors, from deep sapphire blues to vibrant turquoise. Sunrises and sunsets grace the horizon, casting a palette of oranges, pinks, and purples across the sky, blending seamlessly with the water below.

A sense of serenity envelopes you as you observe the marine life that calls the ocean home. Dolphins gracefully leap out of the water, their sleek bodies cutting through the waves. Whales breach, their colossal forms breaking the surface in a majestic display of power. Seabirds glide effortlessly above, riding the air currents, their cries filling the air.

Beneath the yacht, an entire world lies hidden. Coral reefs teem with an abundance of life, their vibrant colors and intricate formations forming a natural masterpiece. Schools of fish dart between the corals, displaying a kaleidoscope of hues. Sea turtles glide through the water, embodying grace and tranquility. The ocean floor reveals its secrets, with mysterious creatures dwelling in the depths, a testament to the wonders of nature.

As day transitions into night, the ocean takes on a different persona. The sky transforms into a celestial theater, studded with stars that twinkle above like distant beacons. The gentle lapping of the waves against the yacht's hull harmonizes with the symphony of silence, creating a profound sense of peace and introspection.

Sailing on a super yacht grants you a front-row seat to the beauty and vastness of the ocean. It allows you to appreciate the Earth's majestic waterways, reminding you of the interconnectedness of all life and the need to preserve and protect these awe-inspiring natural wonders for future generations to come.

It's a memory that would live with you forever!

All these epistle for just a pucy?

Simps are truly irredeemable

Lyrics269:
There is nothing wrong with in.cest between two consenting adult.

l u n a t i c

Westerhoffe:

Then you should move your Igbo Plant out of Yoruba land… you tribalistic being.
But you want Yorubas to buy the product?
Is this how tribalistic IVM is?
Very disgusting!!

Why haven't a capable Igbo brains designed one all these while?
Or why didn't one do instead of them using an acronym as a logo?

you can cry all you want.

It is what it is!

So rest,my dear Oladipo

Hamachi:
Your past is part of you. People can grow and change in life but most don’t change very much. Try to find someone that can live with your flaws and see if you can accept theirs. It is lot better to start with friendship and move to lust than the other way around. Friendship carries you though the rough spots that lust won’t do very well.

Is it good to know your partner's past?
Past cannot be forgotten. How good or bad it maybe, It was part of our life. You simply can’t separate it. Its always better to know about your partner’s past.

Obviously you don’t have to go investing about it from others. It has to come from your partners mouth. He/She should be comfortable in sharing it with you. When you know it all, Remember not to judge them based on it. Trust the person you know in present and not the one he was in past. Be supportive as it takes lot of courage sometimes to open up in front of someone else.

It depends on whether the person has hidden important information or has been open about mistakes they have made so that you can make an informed decision about whether you can accept them, faults and all.

For instance, most NLers has been dating women/men in their 30s recently as they split up with a long-term partner. One man turned out to have another girlfriend but she found out about the daughter and got in touch. Together they compared notes and found out that he was lying to them both. Naturally, both decided not to see him again (the two women are now friends!).

Another man claimed that he was not seeing anyone else now that he’d found the perfect woman - my friend found that he was still contacting other women via the dating site on which they had met up. Whatever excuses such men give themselves, they have been dishonest from the start and cannot be trusted.

Now considers a different case: my course mate is now in a relationship with a man who told her on their first date about his past. He had the same girlfriend from the age of 16 to 25 but the relationship ended because he cheated on her. This man was open about what he had done and said that it had such a negative effect, hurt his girlfriend, who trusted him so much and lost him respect among family and friends, that he had learnt an important lesson and would never behave like that again. He had made a wrong choice, acted weakly or selfishly but been open about it.

It you meet someone who claims that all their exes were at fault and that he/she did nothing wrong, you should not take that claim at face value. Even if you do not know what happened in their past, you can be sure that you are getting a very distorted pictures: either this person does not acknowledge that they have any faults, which none of us can honestly claim, or they are a very bad judge of character if all their exes were awful!

My long-term ex-partner was abusive, selfish and aggressive. He has a new girlfriend. If only that poor woman knew what I know about him! She should have a right to know about his past. Unfortunately, she is unlikely to listen to his ex but no doubt is finding out for herself why his last relationship did not work out…

All these epistle just because ya man left you for a better version?

Westerhoffe:
Let them change this logo to the one that guy designed.
That design speaks volume.
Before you mention recall issues and expenses, it can be done.

yoruba can't design a logo for an igbo indigenous company like IVM.

Igbos has lots of capable hands that can do better.

tamdun:
How many politicians has Dangote squat for? even dantata has never visited any presidential inauguration for past 4 decades but he did for Tinubu

Oladipo,rest!

Worriedwife:
It looks like kids 4rm divorced homes are only females. What of the male kids from divorced homes,,should they be avoided for marriage?

this is how you fail exams,just re-read what you wrote up there and the topic in question.

What's the correlation?

fyzaila:
No they aren't likely to divorce!

Stop all this sentiments. Trust me it won't do you any good. So because she's from a broken home so no man should marry her? From your post, you confirmed she has good attributes and you didn't mention any bad one which means you're ok with her. For her to be from a broken home and still be well disciplined and cultured speaks volume isn't it? Aren't they thousands of girls from unbroken home who have turned to something else that you can't even write home about?

You have found yourself a good woman which is very scarce this days, just pray and follow your heart. Everybody's destiny is different please.

make your comments with lesser emotions,you sound too emotional and personal.

Foodqueen:
If she have a good relationship with both parent especially her dad, then u can go ahead cos in her mind, she would really wish her parent weren't seperated.

But if she doesn't and always blame her father for everything, then move cos she will put her frustration on you.

You are really wise.

Good girl!

kamtrix:
But what of in a case where the lady is well cultured and we'll mannered. The kind that you will never know her parents are divorced unless she tells you? And she is close to both her parents

with time you will realize that it was all pretence and manipulation,just like dating a single mother.

There is an unbalanced psychological issues that will always reflect in her, just pay close attention and you will notice them.


Also think about ya children, she is likely to turn them against you in future.

BackFromBalablu:
Reduce the volume! Them go bite you o.

dey will beg tire fa

hardywaltz:
Life is strange..
This was the same man who allowed Fayose and FFK to use his TV station to do foolish documentaries about how PMB will die in office.

PMB is still alive and didn't die in office ..

Today Dokpesi is the one dead...

type RIP and move on.


misplaced priorities everywhere

Honoredeblazac:
That one thing I Like about yoruba people. They have no problem with coming out to beg. If na Igbos now, them go dey proud anyhow.

no dignity in begging.so hide ya face!

their president never begin work,and they are already begging

benjackugo:
Woman Dies On Hearing That Her Son Died In Auto Crash On His Way Home After NYSC (Photos)

A young man identified as Christian Ugbede Abuka, has died in an auto crash two days after he completed his National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program in Kwara State, IGBERETV reports.

It was gathered that Christian collected his NYSC certificate on Thursday, May 25, 2023.

The accident was said to have occurred in Yagba West Local Government Area of Kogi State on Saturday, May 28.

His ailing mother, who was eagerly expecting him, slumped and died after receiving news of his death.

His brother, Joseph Abuka, confirmed the sad news on Facebook.

https://www.facebook.com/100079250991866/posts/pfbid0UdpNduvWWjji8GX3HzR7oXhtVonkDrmvBukc9gFgP2poxrnbVUYGrFfZMjwKZ9AJl/?app=fbl

https://igberetvnews.com/1445915/woman-dies-hearing-son-died-auto-crash-way-home-nysc-photos/

Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44 nlfpmod

thanking god for what exactly

Lincton:
What are the yardsticks?

dey dia dey ask kweshun

Nazgul:
No when she's from a wealthy home with some many properties on her name. The man would know that divorcing her would be a great loose to him. So killing her and inheriting her family's wealth would seem like a better option for him.

a woman coming from a rich home doesn't always favour the husband.

Besides,most men doesn't care about stuffs like that

Kimiso:
ladies only get serious with a rich guy neither am i even that humorous am a gentle guy, I don't even know what makes me so gentle,by the way am light-hearted am always interested in dating but am a wannabe

build ya self esteem.
Ya type mostly hide under their keypads to disturb the internet space but very low esteem in reality

Merch:
Everybody knows davido

and you...?




Hustle o

make ya children no follow this ya footstep fa