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wow,proper investigation should be done to be sure it's not a frame up

Will was played!

chioma134:
This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

these women will always gather ant infested firewoods and cry victim when lizards pay them visits


It's really really sad,women are truly insatiable just look at how she finds a stranger's convo more interesting than her hubby's and that's how the 'bestie" guy will soon fvck her forget all the born again bulcrap

PressMyButton:
This liar that made medical doctors go hungry for 13 months, diverted the state's funds into his family business and then transferred the rest in a foreign account under the ownership of his daughter.. A liar that couldn't increase the state IGR, how in hell does he intend creating wealth across the country. A fraud that failed at state level would certainly be a disaster at the national level.
Anyways, there's no vacancy for Okoro in Aso rock.

you knew all these from your cave in ogbomosho?

How did they come about such a huge sum?
they must be investigated

he will now flood his nsukka people as academic and non academic staff,which will breed sentiments among the potential students.



nsukka people and sentiments are like siamese twins

when is she celebrating a child


Or is he not man enough

atimes these people forgot naija is not a Muslim country

believe the apc propaganda at ya own peril

family biz

I see sapphire viewing this thread, but she is selecting unable to comment as the 'future" in this matter time gele

AntiBMC:
Ewwee it's a lie.

Where's the man of the pee poo?
Thought he said yorubas and fulanis are one... so why are soldiers of fulani extraction, brutalizing the security wing of Oduduwa republic like they are mere boy scouts?

Wonders shall never end o

they are boys scout fa

walefresh3:
And your mumu inconsequential vote make u type dis rubbish from your anus...

I thought Dotian peoples get sence... U are just one of the fullish nyamiri wey dey quote nonsense...
Get furkup shit out of dis forum....

Na tinubu we know naa Tinubu we want....
Oya kill yourself..

Sifia pains

Lol,
wahala be like wetin again

Karhma:
After selling your fathers only land at ikot abasi and buying your first android...first thing u thought of was scamming on nairaland?

na hunger go kilam las las

he sure gets this one

it is 1 : 1

that's what the legendary Mike Tyson trained with during his glory days in boxing

DaddyFabooluz:
And they are proud thinking they have sense.

First is was MNK that was relaxing in London and sending command for me mumu followers in Nigeria to obey and because they don't have sense they will be obeying.

Now it is someone that is in Finland that cannot sit at home in Finland but giving orders to the same mumu maggots and they are still obeying.

Imagine people struggling for freedom now killing themselves just to obey their demi gods in prison and in Finland. If they were to be given Biafra and have the links of MNK or Simon Ekpa as the president, tell me how Biafra will be different from North Korea?

As they refuse to have sense up to 2022, they should just do sit at home until after 2023 election so that we know they are serious with their mumu mentality.

too much bad energy, noise!

naija na their cash cow fa

Vinnie2000:
Nobody knows this guy in our Delta state! Who be him papa?

must you sound stup!d,who is buhar!s' papa?

alizma:
If soyinka is sure of his words why did he wait till now? Obviously Soyinka is just one of those jealous elders. Omisore didn't just appeared in Nigeria last week. He has been around and I expect Soyinka to have done the needful if he has evidence to support his allocation.

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man of the moment

not news

BigRocky:
Drug traffickers are so smart,how the government manage to check-mate them still amaze me.

they get new formulas leaked saboteurs

death to him too






we don't hear or see these kind of senseless killings of law abiding citizens by the security agencies in the northern Nigeria.




I hate to say it,but it is what it is...igbos are endangered species in this evil government regime.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

would you have said this if the reverse was the case?


#doublestandards

Labadi69:
Many of you say avoid single mothers. I understand where you are coming from. But I think I will rephrase to say ‘avoid broke single mothers’.

A rich/independent single mother is the best you can get as a man. You know why? If she likes you, she really likes you. She’s not after you for your money and she’s not after you to come and give her belle or wife her to support her and her kids. She genuinely just wants your company.

The icing on the cake is that such women rarely have time to be nagging you or cheating around. Where the time dey? Between her career that brings her money and taking care of her kids, all her time is gone na. You will even be lucky that she chooses to spend the little free time she has with you.

Me no like idle woman cos them go bug and nag you tire. I like busy women cos them no just get that time. So make una think twice o. No be all single mothers una go avoid. Just avoid the broke ones and/or the ones with broke baby daddies.

they have used diswans brain to eat white yam with red oil.


ya eyes go soon clear!

e go soon clear dem for eyes

West1side:
May be those if you in the East should blow up the train line in your region as well. I am sure they'll stop reeling out the names of the attackers after that like they don't in Kaduna.

Goan sleep,ya eyes are heavy

they will still join nnpc


this calamity go reach everybody Las las