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Sweetplum:
Na me you bash like this?
And you think you are intelligent.
Ok. Thanks for your compliments o.
And thanks in advance for any other bullet you may throw.
Last Drop:
You are a dumb man. You are adopting a child without proper consent. And you v the gut to quote and try to talk like a man with wisdom. Bloody simp. You n your urchins ll be here forming redpill. Redpill ko, blackpill ni. Mumuman called Maverick 777.
Ori e ti buru!

Sweetplum:
Do I know you?
Have we met before?
For your new info, I v not given birth before. Am a rear rubber wife material.

Sweetplum:
Maverick777, try and find out the real reason the baby daddy left before proceeding with marriage or adoption.
I m a woman that ll preach accountability.
You deserve to know every truth.
And to anyone who come here to bash women. God ll bash you too, amen!

Animegirl:


First, we ladies except your flaws, having different kids from another woman but rain insults on single mothers forgetting they were heroines in their previous relationship.

Dear Op; you're a confuse man. You already changed the kid name to your surname because you want to open an account. Tell me Op what is the difference btw adoption and changing the kid's surname to yours? For you to open an account for the kid means you love her(kid).

The mother gave you a better option at least, all your spending on the child won't be in vain. You get to train the girl as yours and not another man's child.

Men are confuse, gezz.

Maverick777:
I'd make this as brief as possible.. This is my debut post here on NL.
I'm in my early 30's, currently work in the oil and gas sector and I'd say I'm an 8.5/10 guy in all ramifications.
Now to the issue, I met this lady sometime last year(JUNE) at a popular fast food here in delta, she was (and still is) the manager of the place. One of the cashiers was being rude to me, she intervened and I must say, I was immediately lovestruck! She's really not the, sweep-you-off-your-feet kinda girl, but she seemed pretty smart (I'm extremely Sapiosexual).
Long story short, I gave her my card, she called, visited severally and after like 6months we got intimate and all.... Before all these, she already told me that she has a 4-year old daughter, which he had for a guy when she was still schooling, but later found out the guy had a family and she cut ties. She had the baby and he knows but she told him to stay away! And since then till now, there has been no communication whatsoever between them.
My dilemma is, I like her enough to wife her, taking in the kid is not an issue(I adore female kids) and they(MUM and DAUGHTER) both love me to bits, adore me and all. Overall I would say she's a 6.5/10 Lady.
Yesterday she suggested that why don't I adopt the kid legally, as I already changed her surname to mine, because I wanted to open accounts for her(THE KID), she said she had a dream that her baby daddy came to make amends, request for his daughter and serious issue broke out bla bla bla....
Now, I know ladies would always twist the narrative to suit themselves and all, and my gut feeling tells me there's more to that separation than she's telling!
I want to hear some expert advise concerning this before I take the next step, to be honest I'm a novice in this area(never had anything to do with a single mum before now).
Do I go ahead to adopt the kid legally??

Sensible inputs would be well appreciated.
I'd be glad if this hits Front Page

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Heathrow44:
left for me, Laws should be made to deter people from posting peoples privacy online, the girl cheated, then y record it ,ok u record the act to serve as evidence incase u were married and want a divorce, but then y post it online, they woman should sue the man N1bn for damages and defamation, libel, All this nonsense has to stop, that u have phone doesn't mean u av the right to video anyone

BoredBerry:
I'm disappointed in her...

The boyfriend probably has another girl... And even if he doesn't, don't humiliate yourself while trying to win a useless Nigerian man back... Apologise if you must but never beg! He's not even her husband... Not even her dad... Probably wouldn't pay her bride price in a million years... Smh

And I would definitely sue him for recording the video and posting it online... Sue him of his generational poverty... Smh again...

JoyousFurnitire:
^^^ unnecessary. How e take concern the story?

Sweetplum:
Abeg waka pass!

Sweetplum:
Never knew I was chatting with an teen.

Sweetplum:
Must you talk?

Officialgarri:
The IPOB, Simon Ekpa e.t.c are basically seeking direct provocation of the North.

They are aware of the consequences since more Igbos reside in the North than Northerners to the East.

They are hoping to seek secession using war as an excuse.

The most damaging and heartbreaking part is that, while Yorubas will remain neutral, a war may start and end, yet we will still remain ONE NIGERIA. Emotional damage

Sweetplum:
A good boy won't say what you said.

Sweetplum:
Mumuman!

southsouthking:
You took the word outta my mouth, i couldn't have said it more better.

On what basis did he wins it?

Sweetplum:
Yes na. I love sports like football, swimming and tennis.

Frigga13:
Apc is evil
Heaven for corruption

dmostcheerful:
When you are childless the first thing you should do is go to the hospital for examination to know who have issues between you both.
My ex neighbor hurriedly married another wife after 5yrs of childlessness, his first wife left cause he married someone else, one yr later she became pregnant, currently baba is still childless after wife number two.
Unfortunately for him everyone now knows he isn't even a man.
What if your friend is infertile?
Back on the issue, he should man up and tell his wife, it's left for her to stay or leave.

TOPCRUISE:
If I carry girl go this show and she jump on stage doing this to him. I will just reverse go my house

Safyqueen:
A killer is a terrorist whether Muslim or christain. If you don't agree to this, then you are suffering from chronic islamaphobic tendencies.

Safyqueen:
A killer is a terrorist whether Muslim or christain. If you don't agree to this, then you are suffering from chronic islamaphobic tendencies.

Safyqueen:
A killer is a terrorist whether Muslim or christain. If you don't agree to this, then you are suffering from chronic islamaphobic tendencies.

Safyqueen:
Because presidency had been keeping mute over other religious killings especially that of General Alkali that was killed by christain terrorist and his corpse thrown inside pond.