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Anyone else watching this breaking news on cnn?

lurlah2014:
nice one

. Birds of a feather

Where are those retarded feminist that always believe women are always right?

Let he who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at this man, najia girls forming fateful my asssssssss yet lead men on and keep them on the reserve, bloody hypocrites...

LadyBoss1:
Just because not everyone is rejoicing with him dont mean they are hating
People that work hard for their money have their priorities right. 82inch aint one of them. I guess u must be the kid if u think life is about 82inch a man with responsibilities dont go around taking pics of tv ...

. Then that means every one who has a tv is now a kid abi? What sort of thinking is that? Do you know if he is an introvert? A lover of electronics? Yet when white men spend $2000 on a suit and tom ford no one complains, the issue is everyone has their man made product that brings happiness to them, do you now say people who play video games are all kids? The likes of messi and kobe that play fifa and nba? Not just because its their profession but is the best way of relaxing, it is said all work and no play makes jack a dull boy, am sure you have your own material weakness so don't judge others. Least I forget, he is married with at least a kid and am sure he has is own house, so its just the jealous one who don't know jack about him will complain about how he spends his money cause love it or not, no man can save the world, even dangote spends so much on private jets when there are cheaper ones, this is dangotes own material addiction so free the man.

Anyone who says bad things about him is just jealous and would never be as successful as him cause the law of karma will prevail. If you don't send him why make any comment at all? If it was your pastor or iman driving in a bullet proof suv, living in banana island you will pray for God to bless you like him but forget they don't pay tax. Too much envy in nairaland, I guess the kids must be on break...

And why must nigerian women always brag about what their bfs buy for them and not the other way around? Yet complain when their bfs cheat on them with their best friend? Why must a man buy gifts to show love when women say money can't buy love, worst of all most nigerian women don't buy ish for their men yet they expect their men to respect and remain faithful? Seriously nigerian women of today just want to eat their cake and have it. Thank God there are still some wise ones who don't quantify love with material things, least I forget this mentality of "what my bf did" is mostly done buy teenagers and students of uni. Men be careful, boys. Be warned.

SMH, and they say money can't buy love, yet women wonder why rich men are promiscuous...

Naija GALS are mostly guilty of these, only a few women do it. I hate K so bad. I also blame touch screen phones for all these wahala, its not as sweet as normal keypad(for me oh) cause using the likes of swipe is just to much for me.

Ibadan...

Now I feel sorry for her. It is well.

cap28:
So having something to show for a marriage is having a child with a man who cheats on you with his ex? What do you think those women tell their children when those children grow up? "Your dad regularly beat me up and gave me STDs but at least I have something to show for it"!!! You seem not to understand that children who grow up in abusive environments end up with a lot of emotional problems later on in their own lives.

You sound very naïve, I cant believe you are holding Beyonce's business marriage up as an example of a good marriage. For your information Beyoncé's "marriage" is a business arrangement with zero love or affection on both sides. They are in what is known as an open marriage and are only together because their profitability relies heavily on the image of both of them being a happily married couple with a fairy tale lifestyle. IN real life neither of them can stand each other and rarely spend time together. Its all about business, baby and in the western world money is king.

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Am disappointed you could say beyonce's marriage is a business arrangement, so in other words celebrities can't marry for love or what? Its your opinion sha.

Anazoric:
Lmao Beyonce had several miscarriages before she eventually had Blue Ivy. She, like other Hollywood celebrities have used assisted reproductive procedures to either conceive or for sex selection. Toke Makinwa and her siblings were orphaned before they were barely teenagers. Like most people who have experienced similar tragedies, they eventually take on a hustling attitude very early in life. If Maje was high society and rich the way we're all made to believe, Toke will not work as hard as she does.


The baby mama allegedly lives in Calabar and Toke's hubby was based in Lagos right? You need to make phone calls, book a flight and pack clothes to get to Calabar. Calculated effort. Following this string of preparation, it would be expected to make provision for contraceptive. He didn't. Calculated effort again. So, how again would Toke have been able to atop this by staying at home again?


Y'all been hating on that girl lowkey for reasons best known to you. Now you're happy. So what next? Were you invited to the naming ceremony? No. Has your hating increased your bank balance? No.

. Thanks for the info about her life, like I said am not justifying his cheating attitude per say what am saying is if he wandered outside of marriage because of want for a child then he might have a point. At the end of the day its their life sha, I really wish them well.

cap28:
I bet you wouldn't "see reason" if this kind of thing happened to your sister or may be you would see it as normal. No wonder there has been a rise in lesbianism amongst Nigerian women

. Lol, I agree that there is a rise in lesbianisim but in this case we don't have the full gist yet. Yes the man messed up by cheating BUT he still has a good reason if it is because she doesn't want to get pregnant now, cause I remember one of her vlogs talking about how society wants her to get pregnant but she is not ready. Well if I had a sis she won't be in this mess cause she would have given the husband all he wants and not form busy body. I wish her luck sha.

netizenbuzz:
Are you for real? And the only reason you can come up with for her not having a child is that she has a life? So now, it is a sin not to have a child? Paul never got married talkless of having a child, that didn't make him less of a christian. Are you a stakeholder in their relationship for you to know the kind of agreement they had on child-bearing? Well, I'm not surprised. It's so easy for you to say give birth because you are not the one who is going to carry the child in your womb, go through labour or breast feed. With this your mentality, I'm not surprised that those who can't afford to take care of a child have them. They have been commanded to anyway

. Nigerian women, always playing the victim. I still stand by what I said, SHE IS NOT READY for marriage. You just don't want to see reason with the example I gave about beyonce, well I understand as a WOman, you must ALWAYS be right. Peace unto you and them.

cap28:
well im a bloke and im not gay. I also have sisters whom I love dearly and would not want any of them to end up with low lifes like you.

. Nigga you are a ass licker not a guy, I wish you luck worshiping women, remember what happened to solomon, adam, samson, Napoleon etc why you refuse to see reason. Peace.

barrnchedo:
Haba is she God that gives children?

. But some women are quick to call men impotent if he can't impregnate a woman? Am against the double standard.

Subom1:
This is such a moronic comment. Sometimes kids don't come easily so there is no need to judge a couple for not having kids. We do not know the story or situation.  Even at that it is not a reason to cheat.  Why then does he not divorce her and go and marry the one who can give him all the kids he wants. It's just a useless excuse from men like you who just look for reasons to cheat.

. Useless excuse? But its justifyable for women to nag? Deny sex? Why the double standard? You really need to attend marriage counseling. As for taking time to get pregnant, its obvious he is not the one with the problem since he can impregnate another woman. Do you know if she is the one begging him to stay with her? If her hands her clean why didn't she divorce him? I don't support cheating but there is always a reason for everything good or bad we do in life. She should check her self.

pcguru1:
dude that's abad analogy what are the reasons for the guy living with his mom, i know you used that line because you think it sounds catchy but if the guy is living with his mom and expects his wife to live with them together then that's bs. so you have to explain what are the reasons for the guy staying with the mom.

I stay with the parents, and even now i feel uncomfortable that i have to move out, is the guy saving for a house ? are his parents sick and no one to care for them if not tell that Nigg.a to leave the house.

. Am beginning to think you are a woman wrapper ( no offense meant) you are giving the impression that a woman must have a job just to support the man to raise their family? What ever happened to living within your means? Why can't she teach? Start a small biz? Etc? Must a woman make millions before she can help the family grow? Don't tell me you will like to marry a celebrity cause I promise you its tougher than going through hell. I will always advice those I met to always live within their means and stop STOP trying to keep up with the joneses. This is why marriages don't last anymore, everyone is too busy chasing money instead of raising the family. I recommend you watch these two movies to see how important family is above all else, the funny thing is that these movies are even from the whites(can you imagine) people nigerians are trying so hard to be like, SMH. They are, THE FAMILY MAN and CLICK. Thank me later.

Women in nigeria of this generation just love to be right no matter how truly wrong they are, how can a married woman who is 30years old not have anything to show for her marriage except globe trotting? If she had a kid now I would call Maje a poligamous hegoat, but he has none. I still say just because a woman is working doesn't mean she can't raise a family, that's why I so much love Beyonce, despite her over working life style, she still has time to raise her daughter. She is not a super woman but a virtuous woman, I bet that all the so called women shouting Maje is this and that are all just kids from the early 90's, who are on their way to becoming lesbians. Family must always come first if not there is no way you would be alive. I still say it, Toke was just not ready for marriage, you can't eat your cake and have it. She should have just married her job just like Genevive. I really pity girls of this generation, always trying to eat their cake and have it yet don't have wisdom like Beyonce, what a pity.

netizenbuzz:
Oh now I see. What other purpose does a woman have in life than to be a cook, a baby-making machine and to wait on her husband tooth and nails? You know he married her just to have his children and nothing esle. Classic! I'm weak.

. Genesis 9 vs7. As for you, be fruitful and increase in number;
multiply on the earth and increase upon it." That's all I can say about that. If she wanted an independent life she shouldn't have gotten married, even the "almighty" super hard working independent Beyonce has a child, so what's her own excuse at age 30? Abeg Toke is not meant to get married.

cap28:
ooh, did I touch a nerve?

If my statement doesn't apply to you why are you getting excited?
I bet you're one of those STD carrying losers who brag about how many women you sleep with in a day with legions of baby mamas all over the place - ode.

. Nah, but from your statement its clear your dad and brothers are also serial cheaters. I pity your so called husband.

Marriage is not meant for everyone, she should have just remained single and a celebrity, imagine after 3years or so of marriage no children all because of party here and there, I blame Maje for marrying a waka about because its obvious she never has his time. This is a lesson to all men and women, make sure you can live with your better half's bad side or Never marry them.

cap28:
Only in Nigeria is a woman blamed when her husband cheats on her and impregnates another woman

This is why Nigerian men love marriage so much, who wouldn't love to eat their cake and have it too.

You can cheat and abuse her as much as you like and she will still be as kind and understanding towards you as ever.

You can even sleep with her friends without fear of a huge divorce settlement awaiting you, you can abuse and abuse her to your hearts content and you will still be allowed to have access to your children. I m sure a lot of men in the west will move to Nigeria in droves if they realise how much they can get away with in that country.
Real haven for misogynists.

. Including your dad and brothers?

Report her to her parents? Better pray her parents don't point accusing fingers on you. My advice is either run away or try to find out who the evil man is and catch him red handed. You could also try to make the little girl show who the devilish man is by making her confide in you. Either way my brother you are in deep ish, I just pray the table doesn't turn around and make you the victim.

kristen12:
Its not that bad

but its bad sha? That's the issue. Its well.

kristen12:
Glo 3g for 1k

. Heard the speed is worse than dailup

None,but etisalat is fast with internet here in lagos.

samintegrity:
Pls can u tell me if ur whole usage on ur Android is up to 1000gig??

lol, bro are you sure he will understand 1000gb? Why not just say 1TB, lol. Unless he intends to do lots of 24hr video streaming, the 1TB can still be regarded as unlimited since its renewed every month. Just wish the service could be faster...

Guess am one of the fortunate few, the worst that a girl has done was come with A friend and glory be to God, the girl only asked for mineral and even when a fly entered the bottle, she went to buy another one with her own money. Guys need to stop forming big boss, if you don't have tell the girl from day one and if she still wants to suck your money then know she is from the devil.

Never mix business with pleasure...