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CelebritiesFathia Balogun Changes Name by Tjesctacy(op): 10:20am On Dec 31, 2013
Its Official, Fathia Balogun Changes Name
Fathia Balogun as she is known by her fans across the world changes her name from Fathia Balogun to Fathia Williams.
Fathia Balogun who was formally married to Saidi Balogun is from Ukwara, Water Side Local Government area of Delta State, Nigeria.
Due to Faithia’s background, she is multilingual (speaks different languages such as Urhobo, English, Yoruba etc). Her ability to speak different languages has helped her to feature in many of the Nigeria home videos.
New Year, New System i guess. wishınng Fathia Williams the very best in life.. Anyway ıf ı am 4aıd Balogun ı wıll b very lıvıd.

Nairaland GeneralDaughter Of Wole Soyinka, Iyetade Soyinka Dies by Tjesctacy(op): 12:04pm On Dec 30, 2013
Daughter of Nobel Prize winner Wole Soyinka, Iyetade Soyinka has passed on at the age of 48, Sahara Reportersreport.
Ms. Soyinka, who was born June 6, 1965, died at the University of Ibadan Teaching Hospital where she was being treated for an undisclosed ailment.
The death was disclosed in a statement signed by Jahman Anikulapo, an aide to Mr. Soyinka, one of the world’s foremost dramatists and winner of the 1986 Nobel Prize in literature. The statement noted that the late Iyetade Soyinka was a student at the Staff School and Queens School, Ibadan before she studied Medicine at the University of Ibadan.
Mr. Anikulapo’s statement described the deceased as “affable, intelligent and sometimes capricious,” adding that she “struggled with her health in recent years.” Despite her health woes, the late Iyetade Soyinka “greeted every day with a smile and doted on her two children.”
The statement, which was issued on behalf of the deceased’s family, revealed that Ms. Soyinka “took ill quite suddenly and passed away while being treated at UCH, Ibadan.
“Iyetade leaves behind two children, both parents, numerous siblings, nieces and nephews
.”
http://saharareporters.com/news-page/nobel-laureate-soyinka%E2%80%99s-daughter-dies

RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Tjesctacy(m): 6:29pm On Dec 28, 2013
2s£xy:
Before I comment, let me first address claremont.

@Claremont, you may feel you have spoken wisely but let it be known to you that the world moves around in circle. Nobody likes to be used or fooled, except you want to tell me that you have never been fooled before. I also pray it does not happen to your sister or daughter.

It is surprising that you guys do not see the genuinty of this woman's love, something that is REALLY hard to find in the world today.

Pathetically, people do not see the need to feel any concerned and take a feather of wisdom from it. This is a monster staring us in the face; this is how they are born. A supposely loving, caring, understanding, compassionate being can become a monster within a split of seconds; we are all born devils since the days that Adam and Eve were tempted, we just learn to manage the devil within us. So, don't think you have monopoly over evil.

The evil that men do live with them on planet earth and not after.I will give 2 instances:

As kid less than 10 years-old (the brain of child is like a camera) I can still remember vividly what an uncle did. This dude came from the US and started dating a lady. She really loved him and it was written all over her such that on my little sister's birthday, she bathed a birthday card with kisses for my sister and she treated her like her daughter.

She took in for him 3 good times and it was in this case I knew that some people were their own abortionist. When she told him she is pregnant, he would look for the slightest provocative medium to beat her until she lost the child. Eventually, he didn't marry her and they went their seperate ways.

Several years later when he decided to get married, could he? He married first and then came problems with the woman in question and he divorced her with one kid in the middle in the US.

He came to Nigeria after some years to get married. The marriage was pretty nice and flamboyant. He took the new wife to the US and then came another problem as he later found out that she had lied to him about not having any child. She also caused other problems that saw her being deported and almost had my uncle go through same but for the sake of being a Naija bred nigga, he knew what to do and fled to Canada. He is there now.

He is in Canada now and I learned that he got married last year. The case isn't different from a 46 year old marrying 22-25 year old. grin

My own elder brother had a beautiful girlfriend that loved him to pieces but he didn't value it. He is paying the price today.

Truth be told, we can ONLY have one person that will love like mad... How we manage it when we find such people is left to us. You may get someone that loves you BUT it wouldn't be like the one who crazily loved you.

The universe is governed by laws and when you break such laws, you face the grave consequences.

I wouldn't blame the woman in the OP for feeling like that... It's is normal, very normal. Her case could only be explained to be finding a way to make the dude feel as much pains as she is feeling. I know that feeling because I have been there and felt same at one time.

But the beauty of it all is that life has a way of dealing with such people. In my case, I used to call her, smile etc. But you know what? She has tasted dicks and got cheated on too.

She visited me at school 2 years ago and on 2 occassions. She saw in my eyes the burning furnace of anger. She knew if I had my way, I would retaliate but something was holding me back and that was GOD himself.

One day(a few months ago, precisely) she told me she was scared of me. I asked her why and she said she has a feeling that I could harm her at anytime. Truth be told, she was right. Who would have thought the same person who called and smiled and laughed could still have such buried in his heart after 3 years?

She just begged and I had no reason not to forgive her because I am not God. Though she had begged in the past, I just had to finally let go.

That's why I said this is a monster staring us in the eyes and we shouldn't wave it off as something ordinary. This is mostly the reason why we read on news media or newspaper cases of acid bathing etc. Do not think that person you are dealing with can not harm you just because he or she being caring and you erroneously assume they are dumb and find the worthy of being fooled.


I will blame the woman for not deciding the direction of the relationship before hand. She should have ASK the dude what his plans were and ladies shouldn't wait for him to say it; be bold enough to ask what plans does your suppose boyfriend have for you. Is it to marry or just boyfriend ish? This is essential and paramount especially when you are already out of school and working.

Above all, she should find a place in her heart to forgive him. I know it is NOT easy, I know it is HARD to forgive, but she has to let go so she could see clearly into the future. The good thing is that she is wiser now.
Now ı know d reason ı feel bıtter to my once adorable ex..... Never knew ı can hate her ds much dat ı thınk of hurtın her, mere thınkın of her makes me sad, she broke my heart wıth ımpunıty never consıderıng d paın ı went through that poınt ın tıme.... Have trıed forgıvıng her but ıt seems ımpossıble nd ı keep rememberıng everyday of my lıfe and thıs ıs d 3rd year... I hurt so baaad!
FamilyRe: Baker Faces Jail For Refusing To Bake Cake For Gay Couple by Tjesctacy(m): 6:01pm On Dec 10, 2013
I don't think d baker is wrong for refusing to offer his service at his own perception of what is wrong, in as much as it is not an obligation dat compulsorily U̶̲̥̅̊ must answer all customers...
CareerRe: 150 Sacked At Enterprise Bank by Tjesctacy(m): 2:20pm On Dec 03, 2013
Oga ☺º°˚˚°ºoo Nigeria nd her numerous problems, when r Wȋ̊ℓℓ gonna hear good news once?
PhonesRe: The Airtel Sim Breaking Thread(T.A.S.B.T) by Tjesctacy(m): 5:51pm On Dec 02, 2013
I swear, i G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ too dump d network, d only thing i enjoy on airtel is ds feature of browsing on non bb fones.. They r about loosin comparative advantage, make tomorow com first, i D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ wait..
PoliticsRe: Former Governor Of Lagos State And His Wife Remi Back In The Days by Tjesctacy(op): 5:05pm On Nov 21, 2013
Cant U̶̲̥̅̊ guys see, traditional wedding as insert in the pix?
PoliticsFormer Governor Of Lagos State And His Wife Remi Back In The Days by Tjesctacy(op): 7:58am On Nov 21, 2013
How time flies, today these two are forces to be reckon with in Nigeria.

Christianity EtcRe: Christian Cross-Country Runner Refuses To Race Wearing Bib Number 666 by Tjesctacy(m): 11:42am On Nov 10, 2013
Andyblaze: Good thing she refused to wore it. Because if she has worn it, her pastor will have critisize her, then her family will defend her, then there will quarrel in their church, then the members will start to fought, then christians will start to debate, them muslims will join the debate, then they will begin to fought, then war will start, then we will all went extinct
Did U̶̲̥̅̊ just spill all dat!!!!...... Pls G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ and get Brighter grammar series...
Science/TechnologyRe: Live Updates On Today's Solar Eclipse by Tjesctacy(m): 4:23pm On Nov 03, 2013
Ajibel: sad so dis eclipse, has came and went n i culdnt see it in my area cry cry embarassed angry angry
S.hi.t.!!!..... Now ds got me cranked up!! "Came nd went".. See wetin Eclipse cause, it prevented ur brain from functioning properly.
Science/TechnologyRe: Live Updates On Today's Solar Eclipse by Tjesctacy(m):
Here in benin, its so sunny. I think the sun is angry and has refused to be eclipsed here o. Sipping cow blood waiting for it to turn me immortal sha I.e the eclipse ;d'........ Eventually i see partial eclipse in d' sun here @ abia state, put a bowl of water under d' sun nd observe d' little circle over d' sun
PoliticsRe: Akpabio Blames Nigeria’s Woes On False Prophecies by Tjesctacy(m): 11:26am On Oct 06, 2013
Na false prophesy tie him own hand wey N̶̲̥̅̊☺ make ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥A̶̲̥̅♏ perform, abi na d' prophesy D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ make ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥A̶̲̥̅♏ loot money meant for his state people, abeg make e parkwell joor, ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥A̶̲̥̅♏ hungry...
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are Most Christians Stingy When It Comes To Church Offerings? by Tjesctacy(m): 11:24am On Oct 06, 2013
Bcause t'he churches are rich enough..... d' pastors are multi billionaires, how much i D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ make to dash rich man my money?
BusinessRe: What Went Wrong With The Atm Service Today? by Tjesctacy(m): 11:49pm On Oct 03, 2013
Na ASUU strike cause am

PoliticsRe: Teju Cole To Prof. Soyinka - " How Does It Feel To Be An Embarrassment? " by Tjesctacy(m): 6:30pm On Aug 18, 2013
Teenage Money: I said summary Please
Somtin is definitely wrong wit U̶̲̥̅̊ for quoting d whole writeup just to show ♓ό̲̣̣̣̥ω stvpid U̶̲̥̅̊ r.
PoliticsRe: Clark Apologizes For Past Comments & Calls For National Unity by Tjesctacy(m): 7:54pm On Jul 27, 2013
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InvestmentRe: 6 Investment Fallacies You Need To Avoid by Tjesctacy(m): 7:52pm On Jul 27, 2013
Nice stuff!
CareerRe: How Did You Succeed With Your 2-2 Or 3rd Class? by Tjesctacy(m): 6:51am On Jul 27, 2013
Very Educative thread, even if ℓ̊t ώάş recycled, thread like this are d reason ℓ̊ come online on Nairaland everyday τ̲̅ȍ see if ℓ̊ can add τ̲̅ȍ my knowledge, and boost my morale,thumb up τ̲̅ȍ all who have done justice τ̲̅ȍ this topic. ℓ̊ wish everyone Ğoº°˚°ºϑ luck i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ there endeavours.
SportsRe: Christian Obodo Found In Italy With Marijuana & Girls by Tjesctacy(m): 5:21pm On Jul 05, 2013
If ds news na true, ds guy just dey spoil naija for jand for us.....
PhonesRe: Tecno P3: Is It Better Than Other Low End Smartphones? by Tjesctacy(m): 7:28pm On May 17, 2013
Let's go there "Team Techno".....
NYSCRe: A Thread For Corpers Posted To Abia State! by Tjesctacy(m): 4:54pm On Mar 02, 2013
Na Abia dem post me go O°˚˚˚☺☺°˚˚˚O!, never beent there b4, but hopin 4 d best sha, hope Abia no dull sha? cry
PhonesRe: Tecno N7 Is Officially Out by Tjesctacy(m): 6:38pm On Feb 25, 2013
4peace: return it now
4peace: return it now
I dey reason dashin person sef, but still me dey rock ds N3 wella grin
PhonesRe: Tecno N7 Is Officially Out by Tjesctacy(m): 11:06pm On Feb 23, 2013
Holy cow, I just bought techno n3 today, I should have waited a little bit cry
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Actor Justus Esiri Is Dead by Tjesctacy(m): 5:37am On Feb 20, 2013
**sad** cry
RomanceRe: Happy Valentine's Day Nairalanders by Tjesctacy(m): 12:52am On Feb 14, 2013
Still single?? Me toohuh.......... No val theenx 4 me..... Still waitin 4 d day ds day will hold a meaning to me sad
SportsRe: House Of Reps Hold Special Plenary Session For Victorious Super Eagles (PHOTOS) by Tjesctacy(m): 10:55pm On Feb 13, 2013
Nice speech, really nice, well articulated constructed, congratulation to us all, let's start preparing 4 other challenges ahead especially the one in brazil....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Manchester United - UCL (1 - 1) On 13th February 2013 by Tjesctacy(m): 1:38am On Feb 12, 2013
Omo na madrid theenx ooooo, make fergie go siddon abeg, infact make all english teams comot sef.... Chelseafc all d way!!!! grin omo na frontpage theenx bdis oooo.... Alingo on point!
PoliticsRe: Construction Work Begins On 100km Road In Ogun by Tjesctacy(m): 1:36am On Feb 12, 2013
What's ma own? undecided
PoliticsRe: Jonathan’s Convoy Involved In An Accident In Paris - SaharaReporters by Tjesctacy(m): 1:33am On Feb 12, 2013
Imagine just little meeting u packed people like say u dey celebrate wedding ceromony go there, I just kip wondering when we will stop being in d news 4 all d wrong reasons...
inurmind: gringringrin
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Mali (AFCON 2013) - (4 - 1) On 6th February 2013 by Tjesctacy(m): 5:28pm On Feb 06, 2013
Ayaf kill mali... 7billion not in vain..... grin
SportsRe: If Nigeria Wins AFCON, Keshi Will Resign by Tjesctacy(m): 10:29pm On Feb 05, 2013
babaowo: Naija nd drama!!! ibo nd proudness!
Anoda ethnic bigo.t again... Mstcheeeeeeewwww... Ode.

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