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tobore4u:
If ronaldo win the trophy i will deactivate my account.

I will save dis n quote u when he eventually wins

OboOlora:
Isn't this the same guy all the notorious yahoo boys in Lagos use against each other? They pay him money to arrest their counterparts and he collects money before they are released. His partner is one Gbenga, I have heard about them since their Ikeja days. fucking dirty punks that cant speak or write english correctly!

I don't think so cos he doesn't even own a car and stays in a mini self con wch isn't befitting

Seyidonald@gmail.com

macanthony25:
If unlucky, just know that God has another plan for you. No matter the outcome, just give God the Glory, wait and see how God will take you to a better place

being on N power ain't luck its just lack of opportunity

velai:
My advice to people coming out to vote tomorrow, especially my fellow youth:
1, Dress properlly when going out to the voting centres, if you have tatoos better stay indoors. Nigeria millitary and police may not always be your friend.
2, Avoid volatile voting centres enterlly.
3, Do not fight for or against any candidate, their children do that instead.
4, Do not sell you voter's card to anybody, it is your best political weapon.
5, PDP, APGA, APC, UPP etc are just political parties, they do not deserve our precious blood.
6, All the guber candidates are anambra sons and daughters, whoever wins the election free and fair should be supported by ndi anambra for a better Anambra state.
7, If you are onye OFE NSALA, I take CHUKWU ABIAMA beg you, stay in your house and enjoy it.
God bless Anambra with the best leader.

Diplomatic

ylaa:
Ok, thanks for the enlightenment.


quote author=Tmercy post=62226472]94m not too much for such project if na Fg u go surprise how much dem go award am

The pleasure is mine

TRUTH2020:
RIP BROTHER,BUHARI WILL DIE A SHAMEFUL DEATH ISEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

just that he's an old man already

ylaa:
God bless this man
Nice job but the money plenty oh!
Him use all build the school or him pay him pocket small? Just asking

94m not too much for such project if na Fg u go surprise how much dem go award am

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hadura29:
Hmm. Mine is bitter sweet.. But most times it is tiring.. Sunday to Sunday oo.. No break

so far there is respect money ain't everything

Originalsly:
Hmmmm.... so he was hitting you... a grown man in the chest.... and you allowed him to leave with all his teeth in his mouth?.... and an unbroken jaw? .......and we still wonder why these bosses be treating their employees like babies. Monkey knows which branch to jump on
@op...you left too quietly....should've informed all his customers that the company is a fraud!

Never wanted to cause a scene tho

hadura29:
Is it a start up? If yes, all of them are like that, from project supervisor to delivery and logistic man.. Mtchew.. Planning to stop by December..

yea a start up and its been a bad experience

Good as an individual you should know what you stand for. I resigned before even getting my salary for this month Reason
I was employed as a project supervisor and we've been able to execute one project. That was on my 1st two weeks as a trainee without pay, now we have no project on ground and I have been turned to an errand boy by the Boss. He drags me to his party n compel me to serve guest which I stylishly resist. He is so aggressive he transfers aggression on every one if someone offends him calling us names. He doesn't listen to our opinion with his favorite line when I talk you don't talk. Last Saturday was the last straw he was hitting me on my chest n almost hit me on my face n told me to leave the vicinity like say I be baby. Now people at work are calling me to apologize to him saying I should know him for that which I totally refused and I quit going to the office. He's been telling them I'm so arrogant that I can't even inform him I'm quitting.

pocohantas:
They should both be the first to see each other's panties. I don't see why an adventurous guy, who can be identified by over 100 ladies with his prick picture alone,should have the privilege of being the first to see a virgin's panties. Only a tear rubber guy deserves such honour. They have both abstained and appreciate the sacrifices involved. Not a case of one person seeing the other as a 'trophy'.

You don't automatically deserve a 'virtuous' woman just because you're a man, but because you are truly deserving of her or the woman thinks you are deserving of her.

Adventurous guys will marry adventurous girls. Experienced guys for experienced ladies. These set have realised sex is an act, and they need not be married to enjoy it. Nature is balanced that way...

Please, no male idiot should quote me to talk nonsense. Keep your pricks pure, we want brand new pricks. We deserve it too...

#Nuggets lol

selflessmaya:
when ppl say never hit your wife, they mean never become the aggressor. what is happening to to you is domestic violence and your wife is abusing you emotionally and physically. you need to leave that woman fast. she's poison! don't try to change her, don't blame yourself for anything, just, cut her loose!

EDIT: so I just read the old article you included in the link, i change my mind. with more insight to this:
OP, I dont mean this in an insensitive way, your wife has some deep issues and must have suffered some intense psychological trauma to cause her to feel a lot of bitterness and act out in sadism when angry, the knife, the fork, hitting you with a shoe on your head and not stopping when you didnt even react!! this last one is a huge red light, something is really wrong with your wife, she loves to inflict pain and if her personality is as contrast as u say, that everyone thinks she's this sweet girl, then whatever is wrong with her runs really deep, it's not normal at all to keep hitting a person with a shoe on the head when they're not fighting back, she wants to hurt you, she wants u to feel pain.

I'm honestly convinced your wife has suffered sexual assault at an early age that led to a break in psyche, she's mastered suppressing her feelings, her nice girl act is not an 'act', she's actually that nice. but when she's angry, all the bitterness buried beneath the surface emerges and she finally deals with all the buried emotion in its magnitude, it overwhelms her and she wants to act out to hit something or punch a wall etc. when she's alone and unhappy, even when she lived with her parents, u really dont want to see/imagine what your wife does to and says to herself, this anger she shows you, she's lived with it for a long time, she's been her own victim till now when she made u her victim. there is nothing she has done to you that she hasn't done to herself times hundred.

if you choose to for better for worse it, find a psychiatrist or psychologist and go with your wife for counselling, your wife, with or without you will never change till she finally begins to work on whatever buried bitterness she's had to live with for years. try to get help together as a family or get a divorce if u would rather not go through it. it's really that simple, your wife will live with whatever has happened for the rest of her life but how she manages the accompanying emotions, her anger and abandonment issues can all be taken care of with a good psychologist and emotional support on your part. educate yourself on the topic of sexual assault and learn the necessary sensitivity training and triggers. counselling will teach you all this.

no, i'm not thinking too far, your wife ticks a lot of boxes:
-extra charming cos of distorted/low self image and need to be accepted
-her over-religiousness is for closure that she needs and like u said her prayers are always for her god to attack ppl for her. even her relationship with god isnt healthy, it's a coping mechanism. the idea of a protector that will attack on her behalf.
-she talks from 12am to 4am alone when you're asleep, OP, your wife is full of a lot of buried emotion, she really wants to talk to someone about something.
-despite being a nice girl, before you married her, she had no friends
-she's very quiet, hardly finishes her words (withdrawn personality, mastered suppresion)

you should never have raised your hands to hit this woman, when she froze for 5 minutes, it's not that she was thinking she overstepped her boundaries, she was actually coming back to her senses, when your wife gets angry, she loses her mind and forgets who she's dealing with. even worse when the person who angered her is male, she reacts with more venom cos subconsciously he represents her aggressor and she wants to hurt him to make him feel pain. she probably has conversations with herself and imagines herself confronting her abuser and being able to hurt him back and make him regret his actions and cries alone cos it's only in her imagination that she can deal with him. when a man makes her defensive in her personal space, she attacks. till u actually hit her, u just represented something that she has bad blood with and now you've added yourself to the list of men that have ruined her.
she has stopped hitting u cos she has buried the incident of the slaps too but OP, the same place it's buried is the same place her demons she's battling are buried, she wont touch you but when her bitterness surfaces when she's alone, this time you're one of her enemies. the resentment is growing and when she sees u, she's filled with such bitterness she shoves u. if u do not intend to fix this marriage OP, walk away NOW. a lot of bitterness is brewing in this woman and if you add yourself to the list, we will read about u in the news the day this woman snaps. the same way u never saw her eyes so red the day she yelled, u will never believe she has it in her to go the extent she'll go, your wife will surprise you.

nigeria does not have a good support system for ppl who have had to deal with the trauma of sexual assault, society takes it lightly too but this is 2017, ppl should educate themselves on this, when we read here everyday '6 yr old girl raped in lagos by 43 yr old man', that girl is someone's future wife and she will NOT just be like everybody else, the scars of her trauma will show one way or another and she'll need extra sensitivity cos she's a "special" case. your wife is not a naturally aggressive person, that i can tell u and it's sad that another human being created this monster in her. OP, this is really not your battle, it's not you she wants to fight, you did not give her all the bitterness she's carrying, so let the slaps u gave her be the last, you wife is a very very bitter scorned woman whose hurt has taken years and years to germinate, the person who hurt her isnt dealing with it, u are. if u add to her bitterness and it gets too much, the person who created 99% of this mess will not be the scapegoat, again it will be u. i haven't dealt with sexual assault personally or with a family member but i have met closely with some of the victims and the effects of sexual assault are too underestimated. ppl should be killed for damaging another human like that.

if u do choose to save your marriage:
apologize profusely for hitting her and become super sweet, if u choose to undo this mess, u have to be ready, sensitive, patient, very educated about this issue and strong for the both of u. if u choose to walk this path, u will watch her fall apart and u have to be ready to help her reassemble.
don't let her hit you, hold her hands and keep holding it and talking to her till she calms down. your wife is actually a very sweet person, the person you knew her to be when u married her exists, just buried under layers of bitterness. i dont blame u at all for hitting her, there's nothing illogical in hitting someone who came at u with a knife, i can understand why u snapped but let it be the last time. your wife wants to talk to you, listen to her, she talks when you sleep, when you leave she follows you, it's annoying but it's her subconscious, she really wants to reach out. listen to your wife! make out time and let her rant, she will talk about so many things, no matter how messed up it sounds, keep listening. then talk back about whatever and if she interrupts and tries to talk, let her talk, just listen. u can stop the midnight talks by changing it to day time. stop sleeping in your sitting room, move back to your bed.

when you're ready to make the move, try pulling it out of her, on top of your new sweetness, be extra extra sweet to her for the whole week like her sh!t dont stink, on a friday(so if she spills, you'll both have the weekend to grieve), make sure she's in a nice awww darling mood and when you're holding her, just brush by a conversation u heard at the office that made u really sick "about a dude that assaulted some teenage girl and how mad it makes you that men like that are still walking around breathing and if they ever dared it with someone u care about, u'll deal with them and how no matter what she was wearing or where she was, no one has the right on another person's body without consent and the worst part is there are girls out there who have experienced this and told no one and the animal didnt get caught"
stay on the topic of sexual assault and follow body language, dont change the topic, be gentle, when she cracks, try to get her to talk, say what u have to "she can tell u anything, u wont judge, u love her from here to japan, if it affects her it affects you, u are both one and she can confide in u etc" when she talks, encourage her to keep talking, show that you're listening, console her all you can, cry with her even if u have to force the tears though i doubt you'll have to force them, make her see that whatever sunken place she's in, you've somehow gotten there too but dont cry more than her haba. tell her that both of u will go for counselling together, find a good therapist and go with her till she makes progress to go alone. make sure u find a therapist before u try to get her to talk about this and once she talks, the upcoming monday, begin therapy. and dont expect to work this out in 2 days, give yourself time like 4-6wks to build the emotional environment of trust and zero judgement to be able to access her when the time comes. note: she has to open up to you before you can go for therapy.

-u can expect her to go into depression for a while, she might need anti-depressants, sleeping pills too, she will be dealing with a lot of emotion once she finally lets someone in.
-NEVER EVER make a joke about her incident or say something mean to her about it... NEVER EVER!!! NEVER EVER!!! I MEAN IT OP.
-if u want to divorce her and not work through this, which is honestly the easy way out for you, then pls dont bring up anything i just told u here, dont taunt her over this, dont ask her about abuse or anything, just let the marriage end and pretend u didnt even read this. she will still live with herself so she has it heavy already.

i really do sympathize with you, u have found yourself in a very unfortunate position and no decision u make will be easy. sadly enough, i feel sorry for your wife too, she's really lived her hell and she's putting you through it. both of u dont deserve this. i also applaud you for all the grace you've shown, it's very hard to break the cycle of abuse, abused ppl mostly pass it on to others, maybe not in the form they received it but they leave their mark, so i can imagine how strong a person u were to endure all the emotional & physical abuse. and no, slapping her back was not abuse, u defended yourself full stop! dont feel sorry for yourself, just do what u have to do: stay & do the work to mend this if u can or leave if u cant.
u have to accept that your wife has issues that cause aggression when it flares. in time, u will also notice she's protective of children or animals or things she pictures as defenseless, it'll show in her mothering, not wanting your kid to go out, being too clingy to the child, convinced the big bad world is out to get her child, all that u will both work through in due time. once you can get your wife to show you the dark place she's in, it'll not be her safe place anymore, she can't hide there anymore, whatever comes to surface will be dealt with by both of you and u will finally live with the smiling smiling girl u married. good luck OP

her anger is innate, she needs a shrink. I once worked with an aggressive individual, sincerely I couldn't wait to get my one month salary.

ShyCypher:
Davido the poisonous dart frog should be forced to be present on that day so that lightnin' from above can strike his pot belly.

His entire family are corrupt and are responsible for the mysterious demise of many innocent Nigerian citizens.

lolz nollywood things

biacan:
I was there live wizy is to short

lolz they are all short Wizzy, Davido n olamide the TV mks dem look bigger

uptohim2:
Please put your name

Donald

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Egein:
You try too hard to be like the late NwaAmaikpe, but you're drier than the Sahara's hottest zone.

lolz Nwamaikpe is on Twitter and he's been firing Nigerian celebs and their marriage

Bolustical:
All I can see is someone who wanted one Nigeria by force.

Someone who fought to get the secession clause removed from the Nigerian constitution.

Someone who preferred a northern alliance to a southern unity.

It is very ironic that his descendants are castigating others for what their progenitor did.

May you continue to grow in wisdom and understanding

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(1): Assistant Quantity Surveyor (Male): HND in Quantity Surveying with at least 2 years office practice and site engineering working experience.
Submit all application in person to
ISSL construction firm, suite 2, 2nd floor,
Kamola Plaza Opp. Mobil petrol station
31, Okota Road, Isolo Lagos.
08095702470, 09071349149 These are the information I got from the firm and if you can't come in person you can forward your CV to my personal mail. seyidonald@gmail.com. Note the mail is my personal mail I can only help you print and submit cos my office is also situated there. Best of luck to the applicants

remicy:
My man carry on it time to knw who b psquare..wen he finish globetrotting and got exhausted wit old song he will calm down..i mean d oda asshole

he can keep doing d hardwork while d oda do d smartwork. We know d 1 wey mk money pass

Samanza89:
No one cares about the lyrics as far as we are Nigerians... We dance and listen to every crab being played, but am also a Nigerian I select what I listen to, one card of panadol or paracetamol is now #150...

Wizkid is asking as if he even understands some of his own silly lyrics...

wizzy understands the lyrics dat question was 4 comic relief aii

MAYOWAAK:
Ojukwu fled into exile in the last flight from the Biafran enclave, not forgetting to ferry his official Mercedes-Benz with him!

also The new leader is at large I think these people and running away after causing trouble are 5&6

Agentsmith002:
The unveiling of the statue of the world's worst COWARD to have graced this earth.

this statue significantly showed the cowardic side of the yorubads .i would really be ashamed of this statue .

such a shame!

Cc:iConductor

coward
ˈkaʊəd/Submit
noun
1.
a person who is contemptibly lacking in the courage to do or endure dangerous or unpleasant things.
"they had run away—the cowards!"
synonyms: weakling, milksop, namby-pamby, mouse; More This definition reminds me of your leaders Ojukwu and Fraud Kanu