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RomanceRe: SIMP Of The Day Ep1 - This Stupid Guy Actually Accepted Her Back?!! [photos] by TMTR: 8:28pm On Sep 07, 2021

He shouldn't bother decking him , because I am sure the girl will do that emotionally to him when the bag stops coming in like before or when she finds someone richer

No worry, he go learn las las
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 8:04pm On Sep 07, 2021
VTJN:
Are you a JW?
You are almost correct but I don't really see myself as a religious person like I haven't been to church for years now, I just believe that there is a God somewhere and say my prayers every morning.

I rarely go to church but when I do it's definitely Jehovah's witness because my spirit aligns with their teachings like this is how Christianity is to be and practiced but let's not go into all that now.

I am not going to force any religion on my daughter, my parents didn't force one on me. They allowed me to choose my path same way I am going to allow my daughter choose her path.

In a nutshell, I don't really fancy religion
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 6:41pm On Sep 07, 2021
StPete:
As much as I applaud your effort, I don't see why you couldn't just fvck a woman and get her pregnant for you and birth a child especially as you're still young abi is ya thing not working? undecided
Lol, I was expecting a comment like this and I wasn't disappointed, like I said in my earlier thread,
'I no fit for baby mama wahala'

Well I considered that option but I thought about it and was like nah, maybe later in the future but definitely not now.

And about my thing not working hahaha
Bring ya sister to come spend a night with me, she go testify give you in the morning about the marvelous work of my thing cheesy
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 5:43pm On Sep 07, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Why? Because All children raised in 2-Parent homes turn out to be much better than children not raised in such homes? undecided
Like seriously I tire o, it's not a must for a child to grow up in a two parents home before a child can be " properly raised"
Her last report card, she was commended for good behaviour in her class so I am not doing a bad Job in raising her , my family helps me out a lot too
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 5:38pm On Sep 07, 2021
deekseen:
Much as I'm saying kudos to you for this feat I still think it's proper to raise a child in a family setting - A father, a mother and the child(ren).

Consider this.
Lol, I am not sure if I am ever going to get married , but I know where you are coming from, my younger sister is so fond of her, she spends school holidays with her abroad so she is covered so don't worry.
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 5:34pm On Sep 07, 2021
greenie77:
Hmm....a bachelor who was not up to 25 years old, just a young adult being legally granted adoption of a child especially a female toddler by a State's Ministry of Social Welfare is so ODD! shocked
yeah right but I did it , though it wasn't easy
Sometimes though the orphanage pays us a visit to check up on her and they can testify that she is doing great.

Put her in the best school I can find in my state, the school that she attends is also being attented by children and relatives of politicians in my state of residence , trust me she is living the life of a princess cheesy

The orphanage are now the ones telling me to adopt more but I am like nah for now maybe later in the future

So no stress grin
FamilyMy Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op):

Hello, good day cheesy,

https://www.nairaland.com/4538476/want-adopt-child

y'all remember the thread I created back in 2018 ,well I did succeed adopting a child, I adopted her from a orphanage and I will say my experience during the process of adopting her was really difficult than I Imagined, first I was a single young guy not even in my mid twenties yet and I had tattoos and lil tjay and lil baby kind of hair styles (those familiar with them will know the kind of hair style I am talking about grin) oh mhen the stereotyping was off the roof, what did they not say, is it been called a ritualist , mhen I was suffered by the abusive words that was unleashed on me by all those women but I didn't relent and finally after everything I succeeded,

At one point , I wanted to go with my mum at least to show that I had no ulterior motive but then again I thought to myself, you can do this on your own and I am glad I overcame.

I began the process in mid 2018 and it was not until it late 2018 that my application was granted, I then proceeded with the rest formalities and I took my daughter home, she was 3 when I adopted her .

The first thing I did when we got home was to change her wardrobe, I took her shopping and bought two big boxes filled with clothes and shoes, also bought some female toys and other stuffs.

She was shy at first around me but with time ,she got used to me and became more free with me.

Mehn I must say so far adopting her was one of the best decision I have ever made in my life , I even tattooed her name on my arm, made me more responble in a way cheesy

And also in addition, chicks dig babies, like babies are like ladies' magnet. I never believe those statements to be true till I got my baby, like mehn you need to see the attention I get because of her, I mean we get because of her.

Don't get me wrong, ladies trip and drool over me before she came into my life but the amount of attention I get before her more than doubled cheesy. Before y'all start thinking this is the major reason I am happy I adopted her , let it be known that this is the least reason why I am happy..

All-in all she is God's blessings to me and I bless the day that I made the decision in adopting her.

She is such an Angel and a darling

I love her so much

Fatherhood is sweet
RomanceRe: I Can't Get My Mind Off Her by TMTR: 5:38pm On Sep 06, 2021
nigga you need to go out there and get someone hotter than her or are you doubting yourself that you won't get someone more beautiful than herhuh

From your write, I can see that she is just a manipulative bitch without manners toying with your emotions.

Forget about ASAP, there are alot of girls way more beautiful than her
RomanceRe: My Cousin Always Posts Pictures As Soon As I Post Pictures Or Videos/ Online? by TMTR: 5:32pm On Sep 06, 2021
so since all these years, you never still normal, you still dey mad

Nawa ooooo
RomanceRe: Is She Trying To Play Me? by TMTR: 5:04pm On Sep 06, 2021
Lol, isn't it pretty obvious what she is trying to do, she wants to keep you in the friend zone so that when her relationship goes south,she can always fall back on you but that will be after her pussy must have undergone enough millage cheesy
Now tell me , is that what you want for yourselfhuh
A backup nigga??
RomanceRe: My Experience With Street Corner Cultist! (woman Matter!) by TMTR: 4:49pm On Sep 06, 2021
nigga try upgrade, put some respect on your dick and start chasing high class chicks to avoid things like this... okay!!
RomanceRe: Nairaland Biittches Are Now Copying The Redpillers!! LMFAO!! [Photo] by TMTR: 3:58pm On Sep 05, 2021
Now, this is funny
RomanceRe: Another Reason Not To Be A Simp;simping Doesn't Pay by TMTR(op): 12:10pm On Feb 14, 2021
chatinent:
This has nothing in being a simp or being a red pill.


This is just a kid who decided to find attention on Twitter with an entitled queen kong.



I wonder what Val meant after all. Nonsense and ingredients.
The annoying part of it all is that the girl is not even half pretty, like damn I would rather stick my dick into a blender.

I wouldn't even touch her with a 100 ft pole grin cheesy
RomanceAnother Reason Not To Be A Simp;simping Doesn't Pay by TMTR(op): 11:40am On Feb 14, 2021

When I tell y'all niggas to stop simping, you won't listen, now look at how this one disgraced his forefathers.

Simping is a disorder

Spits

This is 2021 ffs, y'all need to stop simping tongue

RomanceRe: Ladies: If Your Husband Demands DNA Test... by TMTR: 4:30pm On Jun 18, 2018
I always advise my niggas to always do a DNA test immediately she gives birth, no matter how faithful you think she is, (I would have preferred it during pregnancy sef but I hear the result aren't trust worthy) . Do it codedly without her knowledge.

And this isn't about having trust issues, it's about being 100% sure that the child you call your own is truly yours.

Too many loose dogs out there tongue
You can never be too careful in life..
Better be safe than sorry..
RomanceRe: . by TMTR: 3:29pm On Jun 18, 2018


Truth is, that girl doesn't like you one bit, she's just using you to get what she wants. Anytime she meets up with you, she must make you spend.

She is nothing but a leech, draining you of your money and you,

Can you stay away from dating for a while and get your shït together and face your studies and about Fűcking her up, I hope you are not planning to rape herhuh

Just let it go and consider this as lesson and by the way I presume that both of you are below 20 years or at most 20 since you said both of you just got admission. Don't blame her cause she is just acting like many girls her age.

And for next time, study a girl thoroughly to know her character before you ask her out
EducationRe: Know The Differences Between Poisonous And Non Poisonous Snakes by TMTR: 11:33am On Jun 18, 2018
Bahddo:
I don't even want to know the difference. I'd kill all snakes alive if I had the power. Never mind the ecological imbalance I'd cause.
**Hisses**
Fűck the ecological imbalance it will result to, cause if it were up to me I would have sent them into extinction a long time ago.

Gosh I hate snakes with every fibre of my being..
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by TMTR: 2:04pm On Jun 17, 2018
tongue
RomanceRe: Celebrity You Wish To Marry? by TMTR: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018
My friend, will you stop being obsessed with celebrities you will never meet not to talk of getting married to them.

Get out there and socialize, I am sure you will meet girls that way hotter than cardi b and her likes..

tongue
RomanceRe: Guys, What Physical Features Can't You Stand In Women? by TMTR: 1:39pm On Jun 12, 2018
Mille:
On a personal level, Big stomach.

For heavens sake, the only time I want to see a lady with a protruding stomach is when she is pregnant.
Same here

QueenSuccubus:
angry


Watchu meeeeeean...
Lol, you just made me remember the movie with that picture u uploaded, but I can't remember the name though. It was one hell of a funny movie.

I think a worker at the place she is right now made her raise her belly to be sure she was wearing panties..

Lol



RomanceRe: Only Broke People Brag About How Long They Can Last In Bed by TMTR: 2:44pm On Jun 10, 2018
Lol, where the hell is this coming from ffs

The fact that you are rich doesn't mean you shouldn't be good "in za oza room" tongue
RomanceRe: That Moment My Girlfriend Made Me Sleep On Her - Phoros by TMTR: 11:08am On Jun 05, 2018
3Geez:
I've PMed you brotherly
I have seen it, I will contact you soon for a meeting...
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 5:25pm On Jun 03, 2018
Pipedreams:
You wanna use the baby for rituals grin
Lol, I knew it was just a matter of time before a comment like this comes up, well I don't blame you one bit, we are in Nigeria where a lot of ignorant fellow thinks one can get rich through some fetish means.

Now ask yourself this question, if the gods are half as potent as people claim, do you think that the British would have defeated and colonize Nigeria and other African countries who hold such superstitious beliefs..
Use ur brain, it's not there for fancy... tongue
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op):
wapu:
Honestly I'll turn you down if it's my decision to make.

With the rate of child abuse in this world, I don't trust anyone anymore.

Get married and adopt or have yours.

Hahaha, trust me, I am going to treat the child so well that if I don't tell people that she is adopted, they will never know, I am going to give this child the best the world has to offer. And besides they said they will be coming from time to time to check on her and that's if my application is successful.

And about getting married LOL, that is not my priority list and like I said earlier, I don't do baby mamas...

FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 4:33pm On Jun 03, 2018
wapu:
Who will take care of the child when you go to work?

Do you really know what it means to care for a child and gave that child depend on you?

I'm assuming you are a guy. Are you willing to stay up with that child at night?
Can you be there for a child that's crying and can't express him or herself?

Lots of stuffs to consider before you decide to adopt a child.

Maybe you should go to parents that can't afford to care for their children and ask them allow you care for that child.

Or you can buy a dog if you need company.
ffs, why are you guys trying to equate a dog to a human being and for the records I am not a dog person or any other pet for that matter.
I already know the situation I am getting myself into when I adopt a child.

Anyways I have spoken with some number of people and their response has been positive. What's remaining is the legal aspects and some formalities, hopefully by month end, I will have my baby..

I just hope they don't turn me down.

FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 4:24pm On Jun 03, 2018
dasparrow:
You don't have time for yourself but yet you want to bring a child into your life? So that means you won't have time for the child either then. Who is going to raise the child if you won't have time for the child?

I don't think you are ready for the responsibilities that come with parenting. You have some more growing up to do. Focus on taking care of yourself for now.
Hahaha before I decided that I wanted to adopt, I must have thought about it, don't you think.
Don't worry there will always be time for me to be with the child..
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 4:19pm On Jun 03, 2018
dasparrow:
Why do you want to adopt an infant baby girl as a single MAN? Especially with all the paedophilia happening in the Nigerian society and around the world?

I personally will not feel comfortable with the idea of a single man adopting an infant girl. Too many men out there are pedophiles. If Nigerian men have no problem sexually abusing their biological daughters, then how much more a child they are not biologically related to?

A child is not a dog. If you are looking to live and bond with something, get a puppy.
Una sha must find something negative to talk,, not everybody has a dirty mind like you, like WTF you insinuating, like just the thought of it makes me sick and for you to think that way.
You must be sick upstairs

What's wrong with people of the world, ffs

FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 11:16am On Jun 03, 2018
JupiterGeekVII:
Kudos to you for wanting to adopt a child. But why don't you volunteer at an orphage home first, if bonding with a child and rendering a service to humanity are what you're after?
I rarely have time for myself not to talk of having the time to volunteer at an orphanage home that's why I want to adopt.
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 11:14am On Jun 03, 2018
mimimile93:
Op go to ministry of women affairs or orphanage homes. They will tell you what to do. Make sure you adopt a boy child.
I am also looking that way.
Thanks for your inputs but why do you suggest a boy child cause I have a girl child in mind to adopt..
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 9:31pm On Jun 02, 2018
ezugegere:
Are you a man or a woman?
I am obviously a guy now
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 9:29pm On Jun 02, 2018
Pipedreams:
So y do u want to raise another person's child? Guy u really dunno what u want. Just get married simple

LOL, of course I know what I want, I am not just ready to get married yet but I want a child I can bond with, you won't understand. And also I don't see it as raising another man's child but a service to humanity...
FamilyRe: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 9:19pm On Jun 02, 2018
Pipedreams:
Get a baby mama na

Having a baby mama is not an option cause I wouldn't want my child to be born outside wedlock...

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